Imagine your brother or child dying of suspicious causes where the wife is a only suspect. Now imagine having to bury that brother/son while trying to cooperate with the wife. That is the situation we found ourself in. We all agreed we wanted the service in a church and picked the church they had gotten married in - Prince of Peace Lutheran Church in Carrollton. Pastor M's idea of a funeral was to parade my brother's "sins" like a mask of shame in front of the congregation. Always wanting to give someone the benefit of the doubt, I later took him aside to tell him my brother's story. His death story. He assured me that he understood and i convinced my parents to give this Church a second chance, sure that they would not pick sides as it was a church, open to all. Boy was I wrong. I was lied to by Pastor M when he told me he heard me and that he would work to develop peace within the families. What i didnt know was outsiders are not welcome in this church. Instead of being honest and telling us that we had no real say in the service, they led us to believe that our ideas would be implemented only to find out literally by accident the night before that all of our parts if the service had been erased. I personally tried to air my grievance to him and get him to make it right, but i was immediately rebuffed and told i had had my say and that SHE was going through a hard time. How dare he! Where was the compassion for the family who had just lost their son/brother? It is not in Prince of Peace Lutheran. There was no remorse in these acts and the worst part for me that keeps me up at night was that I was lied to by a Pastor. We would have gladly had our own service if he would have been honest. Instead, i had to hold my son as he cried for 2 hours over the pain this caused. "Why would a church treat my Uncle this way?" he wails... "He was good!" Truth:. This is not the Lord's Church. The Preachers here believe this is their church. Read no more, i would never recommend this Church. Trust me, you could go to almost any other church on any other block and find examples of human grace and kindness which we all as Christians need to exemplify.