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Wings of Hope Living Forward Inc

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Nonprofit Overview

Mission: The Wings of Hopes mission is to provide grief support services to those who have had someone significant die in their lives or those who are experiencing anticipatory grief from a serious illness of a loved one. The Wings of Hope will be fully present to anothers grief; being willing to go into the darkest places of one’s pain with them, while supporting, listening and assisting them on their grief journey, providing both individual counseling sessions and group support as well as helpful resources and information.

Target demographics: Supporting parents and grandparents after child loss.

Direct beneficiaries per year: Grieving parents with with their grief through healing retreats.

Geographic areas served: many locations mainly east coast

Programs: Our goal for 2020 is to continue to assist parents who have lost a child to attend our retreats. We can’t do this alone and need sponsors to help us reach our goals. Will you help us meet our goal? Here is how your gift will impact our retreats: All donations go toward the retreat rental home, Candle lighting ceremony (each parent receives a candle with their child’s photo), a tribute video in memory of our children Gone to Soon, balloon releases, area excursions, workshop materials, handouts, food and much more.

Community Stories

73 Stories from Volunteers, Donors & Supporters

Eileen M.2

Client Served

Rating: 5

I lost my preciousPatrick 23rd December 1966,my precious Catherine November 1st2012.Somehow I came across Wings of hope.Went on my first retreat to Virgina beach.Didnt know what to expect (I'm from the Uk)Found some amazing people ,so friendly and welcoming (even though though they couldn't understand my way of talking..)Made a special friend there who I have met several times since.Forever grateful that I found Wings of hope.

Client Served

Rating: 5

I am so thankful for this amazing group. I don’t know where I’d be without them. I have been to every retreat since May, 2016 and just knowing these people feel the same way I do is a relief knowing I’m not in this alone. So many of us remain friends after the retreats which mean extra support and that is something you can’t put a value on. I lost my only child May6, 2011 and it took me six years to attend a retreat, why did I wait so long? Now I don’t feel so hopeless.

Advisor

Rating: 5

This group has been my biggest blessing, Shirley Tripp-Johnson reached out to me as I was in another grieving group that was full of drama. No grieving mothers needs more drama or disagreements. I was removed from that group by the owner because we disagree on all the drama . It just added to the stress and no support for understanding of the out cry of grief. My heart would just hurt for the ones who were bullied in that group . Shirley Tripp-Johnson seen that I was lost again and invited me into her world of how to handle grieving mother's . What stage their UNBEARABLE pain was . Shirley Tripp-Johnson group was well aware of what is happening in her group with so many grieving parents and grandparents. No drama is tolerated. You can voice your hurt and true feelings ,but no bashing another who feels differently. Be kind with words of support. Shirley Tripp-Johnson is a blessing to many and a true supporter. I went to a grieving mother's retreat and met some mothers . These grieving mother's will always have a strong bond . These retreats are amazing ! I can truly say I love these ladies I met at the retreat as forever sister . The cost is outstanding for all the support and bonding you leave with . And the star of these retreats are our children . " If you ever get a chance to go to one ,please do ! Shirley Tripp-Johnson thank you for all you do for the brokenhearted. Always my sister because of our Heavenly Children . Hugs

1 Pamela4k

Client Served

Rating: 5

I lost my 18 year old son Joshua to suicide in 2006. I went along time trying to deal with the loss of that day for years by myself. I then found wings of hope Inc on facebook.

I have been involved with Wings of Hope living Forward Inc for 5 maybe 6 years now. From their FaceBook page to their retreats it is the best help for parents who have lost a child and for Grandparents who have lost grandchildren to get in contact with others on this same unwanted journey that we find ourselves on.

I have attended 3 retreats and will attend more. There is no better help than someone else who is walking the same path that you are. These retreats are amazing. Of course they are full of many emotions. Yes we cry together as we share our precious angels with each other. But we also laugh. I have made friends, really new family at these retreats. They are friends for a lifetime.

I would highly recommend Wings of Hope to anyone who has lost a child or grandchild. Love you all

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Client Served

Rating: 5

I went to my first retreat in Jan/feb 2017. It was their Pensacola all mom's retreat. I was nervous at first but right away they all became family. I lost my son to suicide over 10 yrs ago. I have been handling my grief alone. It was amazing how much love and support you find at the retreats. It was great to share in discussions and learn from other mom's that know the pain of losing a child. I would suggest going to one of the retreats to any one that is grieving the loss of a child.

1 Janet Morgan J.

General Member of the Public

Rating: 5

Wings of Hope Living Forward is a wonderful organization that allows parents who have suffered the loss of a child/children connect with parents from all over the world who are also grieving the loss of a child/children. Wings of Hope living forward has retreats in different states so that parents are able to spend time with other grieving parents, sharing their children, their grief journey, receive comfort, comfort others, and to learn how others are coping with losing a child. The retreats are amazing, healing, and have allowed me to many wonderful people that I could never have met without Wing of Hope Living Forward. There is no one that could ever understand or help a parent who has lost a child except for another parent who has also lost a child and this organization has made it possible for these families to find each other.

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Client Served

Rating: 5

I went to my first retreat in February 2018 and had the best time. I lost my son in December 2007, and never realized how much I needed the strength and encouragement of other parents going through the same headache, living the same nightmare. I have remained close with several others and am so thankful for the love and support that we provide for one another.

Amber S.4

General Member of the Public

Rating: 5

Wings Of Hope has been a sisterhood since I lost my daughter October 11, 2015. Everyone totally understands how you feel each day and are so supportive.

1 Melanie54

Client Served

Rating: 5

Wings of Hope has been a God-send for me! I have been a member of this organization almost since it's inception. After losing my youngest son, Jess, in 2009 I found Wings of Hope quite by accident. I attended the first retreat held in 2013 & found a group of caring moms & dads who were on this same journey of navigating life without their precious children. I formed immediate bonds with the founder of the group & other members. Life-long friendships have been made at retreats & through the facebook groups. These people literally held me up when I could not stand on my own. The retreats are wonderful & each one brought healing & hope for this broken hearted mom. I truly can't say enough about how generous founder, Shirley Tripp Johnson is, both with her time & the efforts she puts into this organization. I tell every new grieving mom I meet about Wings of Hope. 10 years since the death of my precious Jess, I now share the group with excitement instead of sadness. I owe much of my healing to Wings of Hope (after God, of course)!!

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Client Served

Rating: 5

We lost our oldest son in 2001. His baby brother was killed in an accident in 2009. I attended the first Wings of Hope retreat in 2012 & continue to attend retreats, including the most recent one in VA Beach. This group has meant so much to me over the years. I was welcomed with open arms, lots of hugs & understanding from other parents on this same grief journey. The retreats are well planned & bring hope & healing to all who attend. We come from all over the US (& some outside the US). We come from all walks of life. Our stories are unique but, their outcomes are the same. We're just trying to get through this life without our precious children. Wings of Hope is an amazing organization - I don't know where I would be without this group.

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Client Served

Rating: 5

I have been to several retreats since my son moved to heaven January 10, 2012. They have helped me cope with my grief, make lifelong friends who truly understand what it feels like lo lose a child, and we actually have fun while sharing our precious children. I have met so many wonderful Moms and Dad on this journey and look forward to seeing you all again. Thank you Shirley for all you do to help us on this path we are all on. It truly support our forward movement.

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Client Served

Rating: 4

My son passed away in January of 2012. He was my heart and I have been lost ever since. I have gone to counseling and attended TCF meetings but what has helped me the most is attending The Wings of Hope retreats. Just meeting the other parents and knowing that what we are feeling is normal - we are not crazy really helps. While the retreats were not as spiritual as I would have liked, the relationships that were developed from attending these retreats was and is so healing. The organizers of the retreats are grieving parents also so they know what we are going through and they ask for feedback so they can try to improve with each retreat. The retreats are not a one size fits all but I can truly say that I have met some amazing people that I know will be lifelong friends, actually more like family and am so very grateful that I was able to attend these retreats.

1 Anacelia Deluna H.

General Member of the Public

Rating: 5

Wow where do I start, Pensacola 2018 was my very first time attending a grieving moms retreat since losing my daughter Jenese in January of 2014. And I'm so looking forward my next one in October it was the absolute best time for me alone to reflect on my daughter. If you are dealing with stages of grief this retreat is honestly the best thing to help yourself. So worth it.

1 donnajohn

Client Served

Rating: 5

I have been a part of Wings of Hope Living Forward Inc. for several years. They have helped me tremendously with the grief of losing my son Adam. Shirley Tripp-Johnson, who has also lost a son, has been by my side teaching coping skills and has often been my shoulder to cry on. I have been on many retreats and they are life changing. This is an amazing charity and one that I highly recommend to any grieving parent or grandparent.

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Volunteer

Rating: 5

I lost my son on October 9, 2011. I spent my time in a fog not knowing where to turn, who I could talk to. I needed to speak with moms and dads that had also lost a child because only we know the pain and devastation of child loss. I found Wings of Hope. I have been on many retreats and have been in constant contact with group members. We help each other and it all started and continues with Wings of Hope. I highly recommend this nonprofit to any parent or grandparent that has lost a child. They are always there and ready to listen/help. Thank you to Wings of Hope for all that you do for all of us.

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Iva Jean T.

Client Served

Rating: 5

Hi, I am Iva Jean Tennant and six years ago my most precious granddaughter was killed due to the actions of a negligent day care provider and my life was ripped apart, never to be the same again. I discovered this amazing organization and they have loved me and helped me grow through this horrific tragedy. We share our stories and build up one another. We have a safe place to vent our emotions, hopes and fears. Without Wings of Hope supporting me throughout the years, I am not sure I would have survived. They are just that: Wings of HOPE and help each person to be able to take each day one day at a time and to move forward, even in little baby steps.

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Client Served

Rating: 5

When my granddaughter, Kenzee, was killed, my whole world changed forever: watching and being with my precious daughter as she struggled through the nightmare of this tragedy and the huge hole that was torn in my heart made life almost impossible. Then I read about a retreat to Virginia Beach. I knew no one and just packed up my car and drove 10 hours to join a group of ladies and some husbands that I had never met. I remember how scared I was and thinking I must be crazy; I was: I was crazy with grief and a broken heart.

When I got there, I was so afraid to walk in the door, but I soon realized that I had nothing to fear. I was welcomed and brought in with friendly smiles and hugs and helps of carrying my luggage up a flight of stairs. I met the most amazing supportive people who understood what I was going through.

Throughout the week as we opened up and felt safe doing so it was amazing the bonds we were forming. We all were there with a common bond and we knew that it was a safe place to express our feelings. We were together with others who were at various walks along this path that had been forced upon us.

Here we could talk about our favorite memories and share things that helped us or hindered us. We could pose questions and chat. We remembered our children and did various things to celebrate their lives. We could cry or just hold onto someone tight and knew that someone truly cared and understood.

We cooked together, walked the beach together, had barbecues together, swam together and even were lucky enough to go for a ride on a tall ship and enjoy the sun and water.

More importantly, we found people who understood us and validated us and we all had a chance to speak as we needed. There was no pressure, no judgment--just love, compassion and concern.

I met some of the most amazing people whom I continue to keep in contact and will continue.

Since that retreat, I went to a few other retreats: Arkansas and Fort Lauderdale and back to 'Virginia Beach and each time I gained more strength and met more beautiful grieving parents and grandparents.

I am not even sure how the organizers are able to give us so much at these retreats: from the food, little special mementos, the memorial candles, videos, special outings (such as tall ships, or motor boat sightseeing or shopping or beach time), balloon release or butterfly release, or special guest speakers or message in the bottle releasing in the ocean or dj and sing along and ALL at a fabulous retreat house!!!

The outpouring of compassion is amazing and for once you will be with people who "get it" ---who understand.

For those who can't go to a retreat, there are state chapters whose leaders are trying desperately to get little get togethers in your state to make everyone feel like they have a place to belong.

I give everyone involved in putting this together a lot of credit and thanks and love. They, too, have lost a child and they are opening up their hearts to everyone to make a difference with the grieving parent and grandparents. What an awesome organization.

1 Karissa D.1

Client Served

Rating: 5

Wings of Hope has helped me with the loss of my 4 year old daughter. This group has been there to help my whole family and to help me understand that people are there to help get through these horrible tragedies.

Client Served

Rating: 5

I joined this group several months ago & went on my first retreat to Virginia Beach with Shirley Tripp-Johnson. Shirley & fellow group members are amazing. I am sincerely grateful for their loving friendship & support.

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Volunteer

Rating: 5

I joined wings of hope a year ago and so happy I did . I went on my first retreat last week Va Beach , I made friends for a lifetime . Thankful for this group Jennifer Carfrey

1 Dana Borzillo E.

Client Served

Rating: 5

I lost my daughter Kelsea Dionna Borzillo September 2, 2013 to a Heroin overdose. I didn’t have anyone to turn to when someone told me about WOH. I went on my first retreat a week ago in Virginia Beach. I met so many wonderful people who I now call my family. I feel like a new beginning has been given to me, they all made me feel normal again. The worst part of the retreat was having to leave knowing I couldn’t bring them all home with me. Thank you all for helping me move forward, love you all!!

Client Served

Rating: 5

None of us want to be a part of this group, but thank goodness this organization exists . Wings of Hope is a group of parents from all walks of life and backgrounds and have one thing in common, the horrific loss of your child. Even though you will not come back healed or less wounded, you will take away new perspectives. Each of us suffer and grieve differently , but what we can learn from each other and the support is tremendous , makes the shared time together an invaluable experience. I have attended two retreats and both were very different and I have learned from others that have helped me survive some of my daily challenges. Many of the attendees and board members stay in touch while not evasive and are truly a supportive and non judgmental family. An organization that is worthy of your support because they truly support others.

1 Jacquie G.

Client Served

Rating: 5

I have gone on just one retreat with this group, but would like to go on more. The grief retreats bring together parents who have lost a child, and the activities planned throughout the week help all participants share stories about their child and also offer love and feedback to the other parents. I highly recommend these retreats to any parents of 'angels' who are stuck in their grief and need an outlet to help them in their grief journey.

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General Member of the Public

Rating: 5

Every interaction with the people in this group is positive. The parent newly grieving the loss of a child, or for those of us for whom it's further in the past all find comfort and are able to share their grief in constructive and healing ways.

Abigail Adams N.

Client Served

Rating: 5

My daughter Ashlee, age 21 with 2 children (ages 5 & 18 mo @ the time) was murdered on December 20/22, 2012 by her husband.

Client Served

Rating: 5

My daughter was murdered in a home invasion 18 years ago, she and her husband were both shot, she twice in the head, and him 3 x. The father survived, four young men just 19 years old broke in and held the children hostage, 3 little boys, ages six, four and two. I have had many counseling sessions with professionals to cope with the loss and devastation, but not anything compares to having another grieving parent to talk about the loss, you just don't get it, until it happens to you.

3 Margie11

Client Served

Rating: 5

Hi my name is Margie I loss my son over 3 yrs and I found WOHLF I believe like over 2 yrs. My first retreat i was scared to go but Renée and Shirley spoke and convince me to go. When I went into felt so much love at the retreat. I'll be going on my fifth retreat in May.

robertakeene

Client Served

Rating: 5

My name is Roberta, I lost my oldest son in May 2017. I was depressed, lonely, really didn't care if I lived or not. While online one day looking for help before I totally lost my mind, I found an online group of people like me!! Grieving and searching for Hope! I found a group called Wings of Hope Living Forward. Through this group, Retreats for just grieving moms and others for couples began. I have attended many of the Retreats and each one was a part of my living forward process. Tragically in March 2015 I lost another son, both boys were in mid 30's. Through the Retreats I had made many lifelong sister friends. I had support that I didn't have before, people to share my feelings with and not be judged. Friends I could laugh with for the first time in a very long time, I could talk about my boys and people cared instead of cringe. I can cry one minute and laugh the next and the moms at the Retreats understand... because they are living the same nightmare! Shirley and Renee do an outstanding job with these Retreats. It is obvious the Retreats are a labor of love, these ladies hearts and souls are put into everything that is done. For me and many others it's a hospital for our grieving hearts.

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Client Served

Rating: 5

I lost my oldest son 5/31/2010. Unless you have lost a child you can't fathom our pain. I joined an online grief group and quickly found so many others that shared my pain!
I was privileged to attend the first retreat and meet so many friends I had only chatted with online. The retreats are wonderful, I'm able to share my grief and have so much support. In March 2015 the unthinkable happened, I lost a second child. I had more support from Wings of Hope Living Forward than I did from family and local friends. This organization has helped me to move forward. Yes I love and miss my boys, and will until I see them again. I have learned to release my grief as needed and still live. I have been blessed to attend 5 retreats, one was sponsored by a donor just after my second son died. So many of us have been helped by this wonderful group.

3 Nancy291

General Member of the Public

Rating: 5

This my daughter Tracie. We lost her February 17, 2013. The pain from our loss is devastating. I knew there were groups for grieving parents. I searched and found WOHLF. Since i joined this wonderful group, i have attended many retreats. I will be attending my 9th one in May of this year. It is so healing to be with other moms that know the deep pain from child loss. When i walked into my first retreat, not knowing but a couple of moms that i had met in person, i felt more comfortable than i ever had in a group situation. We laugh, we cry and we share our pain. The bottle release, butterfly release, candle lighting are all very emotional. But also very healing. The group meetings, mom talks, and just being with others who understand has been a blessing. I'm grateful to have found WOHLF!

Rhonda49

Client Served

Rating: 5

My name is Rhonda Sykes, I have been in the WOHLF Family for 3 yrs. I lost my 16yr. Old son Dylan in 2012. This group is amazing! I can honestly say they saved my life, gave me hope and helped me to find a wayto live life without my child. The friendships I have made thru this group will last forever! Thank you WOHLF for all that you do.

1 Dawn175

Client Served

Rating: 5

This is a wonderful group where we support each other on this horrible journey after losing a child. There are retreats that are affordable for us to go and help each other heal and support each other. A place where we can open our hearts and everyone understands what we are going through. Attached is a picture of my son who I lost on October 2.2006. I am thankful to have all these beautiful moms to help me get through this.

Catherine98

Client Served

Rating: 5

I have gone on retreat with this organization and these wonderful ladies. Made life changing friendships. Losing my daughter has not been easy but being able to speak openly with other women about our children has helped me to move forward along my grief journey.

2 Susie27

General Member of the Public

Rating: 5

I just like to say finding this group has been the biggest help with dealing with the loss of my only son. I thought I was going to go crazy because I had no one to share what I was feeling with I tried to reach out to get therapy but I was put on a waiting list and months went by with no contact from them so that made me feel more alone. But here I found out what I was feeling was normal, that there is a process to this journey. This group has made me so much stronger and for that I will always be grateful.

1 judyfitts

Client Served

Rating: 5

I don't know where I'd be today if had not got involved wirh this group even now as I'm coming up on my 2nd year they are all here for me I don't have money for a retreat but they are with on my journey with text phone calls cards this group is a god send thank you Shirley and Renee

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Client Served

Rating: 5

Love the wing of hope retreats with out them and the workers I don't know where I would today thanks

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2 Stephanie217

Client Served

Rating: 5

Hello my name is Stephanie I lost my 18 year old daughter may,01 2014 as a passenger in a truck accident. I found these retreats in Facebook one night that I was looking to talk with other people that have lost a child or children. I had to find something to keep pushing me and giving me a reason to keep faith!! And I did I found wings of hope living forward they are my new family. I get to cry,laugh,share, and smile again when I am with my wings of hope family. I have been to 5 retreats and going to my 6th in may 2017.. without them I wouldn't be able to move forward and I am starting to!! I thank god I found this group and will recommend them to everyone. They are wonderful and loving and we all support each other all the time not just at retreats. I have made friends I will keep for life that totally understand me.. thank you Shirley and Renee for the wonderful things you do for all of us.

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Client Served

Rating: 5

My daughter Cierra passed on May,01 2014 as a passenger when a semi hit her side her last day of high school.. I went on a search for groups because I felt alone because I lost my mama the year before of cancer I came across wings of hope moving forward and went to my first retreat in smokey mountains it was the best decision I ever made!! This group is amazing and has helped so much with my grieving process and I have made a new family with all of them I love them dearly. They work so hard and give there heart with everything they do with these retreats!! We get so many gifts and have so many memories at these retreats without them I would probably be locked up in a hospital my daughter is my world and when she entered heaven I was lost!!! I want to thank wings of hope moving forward for the hope I have now to move forward for my 2 sons and not to give up!! Without all of you I will still be so lost!! Thank you for all the support and love you have shared with all of us.. Can't wait to see you in March at Holden beach retreat!!!

2 Robin119

Client Served

Rating: 5

I attended a retreat in May 2014 in Virginia Beach with these wonderful moms, I went there not knowing anyone and when I walked through the door I felt like I had known these ladies my whole life. I laughed so much- I forgot how that felt since the death of my son Greg in 2013, the bonds that were made , the love you feel and the understanding is so amazing! If you are struggling to find your new normal, these ladies sure can and will help, you can be you with no judgment, you can cry, laugh, scream, it is accepted, and being accepted means a lot!!!!

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Client Served

Rating: 5

This group has shown me that I'm not alone, and they have become wonderful friends across the country. My youngest daughter, Bobbilyn's sunrise is 8/01/79. Her sunset is 7/11/06, three weeks shy of her 27th birthday, and 4 months after my dad's sunset. Bobbilyn was healthy and suddenly became sick. 2 1/2 weeks later she was gone from a heart virus called Myocarditis. It's been 10 years but hurts like it was minutes ago.
Our administrators work so hard for us, and themselves. I love them so much. They are going through their own grief along with us. Thank you to Shirley and Renee. ❤️

3 mamabang

Client Served

Rating: 5

I love wings of hope grieving parents and grandparents surviving together I don't know where I would be without these wonderful people the retreats have helped me so much in my grief journey ..

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Client Served

Rating: 5

I have been to 3 retreats so far and I look forward to going to more it has helped me so much I lost my 21 year old son in may 2010 to be honest I don't know where I would be without wings of hope this origination has dine so much for me I have been sponsored and was able to go for free the ladies who run this go above and beyond to help grieving parents learn the tools on how to cope with child loss and do all kinds of activities we have had candle lightnings get togethers done messages in a bottle and threw them in the ocean in Virginia Beach I could go on and on thank you wings of hope for everything I wish I could give a million stars .. always your friend Deb mama bang Schwartz

3 Constance P.

General Member of the Public

Rating: 4

I can't put into words how truly important this organization is to support bereaved parents. Thank God & all those whom are left here on this earth to help gain insight on our broken paths as grieving parents we feel we walk alone. Thank you!

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General Member of the Public

Rating: 5

Wings of Hope has proven over and over to be a wonderful organization for bereaved parents. This organization truly allows you to be free in your grief without judgment. You are able to connect with people time and time again and develop amazing friendships with people who understand the tragedy of loosing a child. This group has the most loving, compassionate, empathetic men and women you could ever meet. Each and every person I met has been a true inspiration and has left a deep impression on my heart.

3 Theresa67

Client Served

Rating: 5

When my son Cpl Brandon S Bowles came home safely from war, not once, but TWICE, I thought he would make it through anything! Sadly, while driving home for spring break from college, he overcorrected a curvy country road, went of the other side and perished!
A year and a half later, I found out that an online group I was recently a member of, got together for retreats a few times a year. At that point, all I could think about was joining my son, I just wanted to stay in bed till I died!
My husband and I took our income tax that year and paid for a retreat. They were out of sponsorship funding at that time.
At the retreat, I learned that most of my thoughts and feelings were shared by other parents there. We not only grieved together, but we laughed too! We are in a setting that requires us to be with each other, talking, therapy groups led by one of the founders Shirley who is a licensed grief counselor. As well as discussions led by our spiritual guru (lol) Renee. We do many group activities, an excursion or two, usually in a beautiful mansion on the beach!
I feel like I woke up and was thawing, I was learning to live again, to find purpose out off my terrible sadness!
Now, almost 3 years later, I'm doing fundraising here in Kentucky, to help send parents to these amazing retreats with Wings of Hope Living Forward. Their purpose to me is about saving lives! They saved mine!

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Client Served

Rating: 5

After the death of my only son, I was so lost in grief and the pain had become unbearable! Counseling helped very little, as I later understood that unless you've lost a child...then how can you truly empathize and understand the pain and daily struggles just to get out of bed!
By chance I found this group online that offered support through sharing our pain, experiences, strength and hope! The group was so loving and supportive, and so many parents were on there reaching out to each other...because it was okay to bare your soul on there, without judgement, ridicule or being abandoned...as many of us were experiencing with even our closest family and friends!
Wings oh Hope Living Forward took our great longing to be heard and understood, and created events where parents could all come together and meet!
My first retreat was amazing! I made lifelong friends of all walks of life, but we shared the same pain of grief and daily struggles to learn how to live without our precious child!
We all stay in a huge mansion style place, where many of us even share sleeping quarters... We bond, share meals, laugh and cry together, we hug, love and support each other! There is a licensed Grief Counselor present the entire week long retreat, and she is one of the founders and is amazing!
I am so grateful for this group of parents, together, we save lives, and learn how to live again, while keeping our Childs spirit alive!
Most respectfully,
Theresa Bowles-Schweizer

3 Amanda203

General Member of the Public

Rating: 5

Hi. I'm Amanda. I have 2 girls but my baby girl lives in Heaven. Amber was diagnosed with Acute Myloed Leukemia 2 weeks before 2nd birthday. My Lil Cancer Warrior fought for 9 months. Amber is forever 2 years 8 months. I joined this group last year. I have attended several retreats. I have met and and became close friends with other Angel Parents and Grandparents. I feel like they are my extended family who understands my grief. The retreats has helped me so much. I have found some peace there. If you havent buried a child, then you really don't understand and can't grasp the long term hurt and grief that we are experiencing on a daily basis. Children is suppose to bury their parents not the other way around. I wake up daily feeling robbed of so much life with my baby girl. There is no "getting over it" or "moving on". Really. We live without our child daily. All we have left is pictures and memories to comfort us. Grieving is a life long process. Grief doesn't go away or take days off. Grieving has become a part of me that will last a lifetime. I wouldn't want this to happen to my worst enemy. Wings of Hope is an amazing group where I can grieve without criticism and talk with others about everything. This non profit group has so many wonderful things to help others with the death of a child /grandchildren. I am so blessed to have found Wings of Hope. I'm including a couple photos of my baby girl, Amber.

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General Member of the Public

Rating: 5

I am also a grieving mother. My youngest daughter is forever 2 years 8 months. She had Acute Myloed Leukemia. She fought it for 9 months. I felt so helpless and alone. My husband also my girls father wasn't there for me at all. My family and so called friends wasn't there for me.. They all used the same excuse. They couldn't handle it. The last couple of weeks, I watched my baby deteriate. She was dying. I rocked her as she left me to go to Heaven. I have been a member of this awesome group for 11 months now. Wings of Hope Living Forward has helped me so much with my grief. A part of me past away when she did. I will never be that person again. I have changed that much. Through this group, I met strangers. Those strangers quickly became friends. After the retreat began to end, I had some great friends. My new friends understands me. We are here for each other. My life has changed forever!
I speak about what I know of. I speak for myself and not what other's say. I speak my opinions, personal feelings, and experiences. I do not get involved with hearsay/rumors. It causes alot of drama. Some people thrives on it. I have been through enough. No drama, hearsay or rumors. This way I don't get fooled, and drawn into it.
I know and asked an accountant and business finance. Same person. Yes Wings of Hope is a nonprofit organization. An nonprofit organization must account for every dollar that comes in and goes out. Susan G. Kolmen foundation is also nonprofit for breast cancer awareness. Both sell merchandise. I don't have a problem with Wings of Hope Living Forward store. No one is required to purchase anything. The cost of retreat includes cost of the huge rented homes, covers all food, unless you want something else. There is always plenty of food. Materials needed for the retreat, candles,t-shirt , gifts, prizes, and all activities. I have been to 3 retreats so far. And I will be going again. All of us volunteer to help with daily running of household. We all do whatever needs done. There are no outside volunteers. I haven't experienced any problems. And I haven't been disrespected either. If volunteers left, that is their right. We all must do what is best for us.
It isn't anyone's business who makes what. Just like you. But nonprofit, the state and federal does keep up with the different rules and regulations. Personally, I have wrote up an employee for discussing his. Just saying. In my opinion that should get paid. They dedicate all their time for this group and organizing retreats. Who are you,need to know, judging people about what kind of people they are and their morales. I do not judge people, I'm not suppose to.No one knows their personal situation. The memorial page if you read it in its entirety it says small donation. A certain amount is not asked for. And no I haven't done it yet. But I plan on it. The parents do most of the memorial. It is the parents who gather their favorite pictures, favorite poems, and then send it in. The parent obviously wants a copy if it. If someone is disgusted with a group, I don't understand why you are still in it? Especially since you are going on hearsay, which of course does not hold up in court. That is exactly why I don't believe hearsay/rumors. Causes more drama.
I did notice you did not mention any of your personal feelings or experiences. Also personally attending retreats was not mentioned. Surely a person would not talk about other people drama especially without having her own personal experiences to back anything up. This is why I talk about things I know about or have facts to back it based on my personal feelings and experiences. I am glad I found this group. Wings of Hope Living Forward has helped me so much.

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Client Served

Rating: 5

I went to an all mom retreat in Feb. 2015 to Fort Lauderdale Fl. & this past October my husband & I attended a couples retreat in Va.. The above mentioned are so far my only two. I liked them both. They had similarities & differences. My husband enjoyed it also. There is joy, there are tears & new friendships to be made. So many people from so many different places, so many different back grounds; but yet, one thing in common. Grief is what unites us & our children are the ones keeping us together. Shirley & Renee (& Frank) work so hard to put these together & we applaud them for their efforts. Great retreats, we highly recommend them & can't wait to do it again. Miss our friends, till next time......To all of our children: Rest in peace, sleep in love, greatly missed

3 Teresa83

Client Served

Rating: 5

Wings of Hope Living Forward is an awesome organization. I have been to 2 retreats. The first one I went to, I didn't know anyone. I felt very welcome and comforted the minute I walked in the door. I made new friends who had something in common with me. I am so grateful I was able to go to those retreats. I learned something at each one, that has helped with my grief. It is well worth the money. My family and friends comment on how helpful these retreats have been for me. Renee and Shirley work very hard on the retreats and do a great job. Thank Renee and Shirley for all you do!

4

Client Served

Rating: 4

Don't let 1 bad review discredit the Wings of Hope Forward Inc.. It is an attempt to cast false allegations this wonderful organization. Of course, if you are a trouble-maker & can't follow the rules, read no further, because these will not be tolerated. This is for grieving, hurting people that have suffered the loss or losses of a loved one. I lost my son to suicide in 2008. What an unimaginable & overwhelming hurt & pain & emptiness, that it left me with!!! If I had not found this grief groups & these retreats I just don't know what I would done. I have gone to 5 retreats. I am so thankful for the comfort & understanding that I received. I have flown & traveled by car in a group. The retreats are planned in advance, giving plenty of time to decide your mode of transportation. We stay in safe, beautiful fully furnished house with a spectacular or scenic view, which provides for your comfort & relaxation for healing. We have meetings, talks, & sharing. We make new friends that we can cry or laugh, knowing they will understand our emotions. Our 3 meals are tasty & good. We have lots of snacks anytime you desire. We have balloon & bottle release to our angels. My favorite event is the beautiful candle-lighting honoring our angels. Sponsor a Mom! Donate! Donations are tax deductible. Hats off to Renee & Shirley for planning these retreats at reasonable cost! They are heartbroken Moms, that gives comfort & strength to those that are grieving. I come away looking forward to the next retreat.

4

General Member of the Public

Rating: 5

I lost my son José Adrian Campos, to the awful horrible disease CANCER. José was diagnosed at age 17, ando 4 days to his 20th birthday my sweet boy gained his angel wings. Leaving this painful hole in my heart. Wings of Hope has help me move forward, even though the pain will remain with me forever, I know I can always have the loving, caring and understanding of other angel mom's from this site.

3

Client Served

Rating: 5

I have been to several retreats and gotten so much from each one. The people that run the organization are wonderful and very real- they genuinely care for each and every person.
(It saddens me to see the bad review on here, but you can't please everyone all the time!)
The retreats are life-savers for many, including myself, and I would highly recommend that anyone donate to this cause or attend a retreat if you are yourself a grieving parent.

3 Sandra Q.

Client Served

Rating: 5

I went to my first retreat this last spring in Virginia Beach. It was so nice to be able to talk out loud about my son Keith. Friends and family get too uncomfortable to talk to me about him. At the retreat i was even able to cry in front of people. And they understood. I met some very awesome people on this retreat. I can still talk to them on the web page. I was really alone before i met these wonderful people. I asked people to please talk to me about my son. Only his friends would. Here, i don't have to ask, i can just talk and it's okay. It makes a huge difference to talk to people who really understand and get it.

3

Client Served

Rating: 5

I have been with this wonderful organization from the beginning. I lost my daughter Feb.15th 2013. My world was turned upside down..I was online one night and received a message from a women I never had spoken to..She reached out to help me. She is part of this wonderful group. My husband and I went to the first retreat they had,I have to say that I found hope,love and understanding..We made forever friends attending this retreat..I have been to several retreats now, and they have helped me in my healing..I will continue to support this wonderful group..They have helped so many that had no where to turn to..Thank you for all you do...I am forever grateful! Barbara

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General Member of the Public

Rating: 5

I am a mother to an angel..My daughter passed away February 15th 2013. Losing a child is the most horrible thing a parent can go through. I want to tell you about the wonderful retreats my husband and I have been too. The first time I went I did not know what to expect. We did not know anyone. When we came through that door, everyone greeted us with so much love. I felt so welcomed. The meetings they have everyday helped me so much. I knew I was not alone in this journey,that they were going through the same thing I was. We made life long friends and so much healing going to these retreats. We laugh,we cry,we comfort each other,but most importantly we can talk about our children without being judged. My husband and I will be going again. Please support this wonderful organization. It has helped so many grieving parents including my husband and I. Thank you!

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Advisor

Rating: 1

It does not give you much choice on your role to chose, but I am a grieving parent, and I have to ask, as a non-profit do you and the women running this give yourself and your husbands a salary? How many Parents that could not afford to go to a retreat have you paid the way for? Does it pay your gas to the retreats? I have heard some really nasty stories like you all having your husbands attacking a female volunteer that wasn't willing to do things your way anymore! I noticed that your merchandise has changed based on the fact that you lost some of your volunteers that could make some of the things you were selling...Still way over priced t-shirts for grieving parents, unless you are out to make a quick buck...You would think that someone that has been there would understand the hard times you go through after losing a child but you do have your husband and seem to have very few morals! And then you have the Paid service of making a memorial..that is never seen on the site, the parent does all of the work, sends you the pictures, the poem and anything she wants said...and wow you send it back so she can display it on her FB page...and you post 1 picture! What does that service cost? If you were doing this because you cared you would have a picture of every one of our children on your site not just the ones that paid! That is why you only have 2 pages, most people are as disgusted by it as I am! Most people just won't say! I am in your group BTW I do have a few friends but thinking of leaving because I don't agree with it at all! I think if you are NON_PROFIT you need to give us some numbers tell us where the money is going and tell us what yours and your helpers salary is! To me that is the worst thing about calling yourself Non-profit, is you can claim it as salary and tad-ah it is still non-profit! After the horrible stories I have heard about you there is no way I would believe you are running this morally....But I bet you are not going to answer not one question I brought up! because all of these people giving you 5 stars are either your personal friends or you have them fooled still! Nothing goes uncovered ever!

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shirdan 11/04/2015

I would be more than happy to address all of your questions and concerns. I am the President of Wings of Hope Living Forward Inc. and we run our organization with integrity. Wings of Hope Living Forward was not set up for our board members to receive a salary, however we do have one paid member who is compensated $200 monthly as our State Chapter Administrator. Due to our privacy agreement with members, we will never disclose the names of members who have received a sponsorship. I can say that WOHLF has sponsored 35+ parents and we have held seven retreats so far in 2014 and 2015 to date. Every non profit has expenses. Travel is an expense just like our website cost, office supplies, brochures, printouts, printer ink, printing, business cards, gifts, excursions, etc. I had to laugh when I read about someone being attacked. That has NEVER happened at any of our retreats and will NOT ever happen. I am sure the made up nasty stories were told by someone who has acted improperly and have been asked to leave or has been banned by Wings of Hope due to behavior or drama. We keep all retreats drama free. Thanks for the reminder about the Memorial pages. We need to change that wording because we are no longer continuing that service. As far as numbers, that is all public and as soon as the IRS makes it available, it will be available for anyone to view. It is obvious to me that you are someone who knows nothing about non profits and is out to try and start rumors about our organization that are just not true. I would ask that you start one and see how those quick bucks come rolling in...because they don't. There is a lot of hard work that goes into our retreats and we are dedicated to it's growth and longevity. We have been blessed to have met so many wonderful parents who have lost children. Wings of Hope will continue to support parents and grandparents who have lost a child. I think I have answered all your questions and concerns. God Bless you and I am sorry about the loss of your daughter.

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Client Served

Rating: 5

I lost my only child on January 1st 2013 unexpectally. It is the worst thing to ever face in life. I had no clue how to go on or where to turn for help in trying to go on after such a loss. I found Wing of Hope Living Forward and went to a retreat. It was hard for me to share my loss with anyone. I was not able to share much but have recieved more then I thought I would or could long after the retreat was over. I am now ready to attend another retreat where I know I will be able to share and hopefully help others as well. The best thing I could have done for myself and family. Please go to a retreat for the sharing and healing. Well worth it.

6 Renee63

Board Member

Rating: 5

The Wings Of Hope Living Forward retreats have helped me in so many way. I lived a lonely life before making all of the wonderful friends I have made at the retreats. It feels good to connect with others who understand child loss. Broken hearts never completely heal and we find ourselves wearing a mask for the public. At the retreats you can take the mask off and be yourself even it is only for a short week a few times a year.The friends you make become lifelong friends...people you would have never met under different circumstances. And I might add wonderful people! I am so happy to be apart of Wings Of Hope Living Forward. I hope all grieving patents have an opportunity to experience a retreat someday!

5 Aunt K.

Client Served

Rating: 5

I attended my very first retreat in November of 2013. I had only met a few ladies online but formed an immediate bond with them after finally searching out a group three years after losing my only child, our daughter Autumn, in 2009 from an aortal arch aneurysm aka Takiyatsu Arteritis.
Everyone walked in not knowing what to expect but immediately felt at ease meeting and being able to hug in person others they had only had an online connection with for years in our groups.
To be able to spend a week in a beautiful place with others who can understand the heartache of losing a child having gone through it themselves is priceless.
The retreats consist of meet and greets, meetings with helpful information on dealing with your grief, balloon releases, a candle lighting ceremony, everyone getting a chance to talk about their child, one on one talks with someone who has lost a child recently and a person who has been on this journey for a while, crafts and free time and so much more.
If you can only go one time you will be glad, it will have an amazing impact on you and how you can better deal with your grief.
The friends you make last a lifetime. The bonding and sharing your story and knowing you are not alone is so comforting. You will walk away from this wanting to attend another and keeping in touch with new friends and a smile, guilt free laughing and a feeling that where there was no hope, a whole new door and way of dealing with your loss will open up and you can begin to heal.
Losing a child is the most devastating loss a parent can ever face. Don;t face it alone. There are others going through the same and to be able to share with them and keep your child's memory alive through these retreats is the most amazing thing to happen to a parent who has not even been out of their house or gotten dressed or have been able to function since their own loss.
Please support us in any way you can. Tell a friend or family member who has suffered a loss and has no where to turn. Once you attend you will look forward to returning because the support and love you get is wonderful and like no other out there. This is an awesome idea and it works... No one but a grieving parent can help a grieving parent. It works. No doubt about it.
So please go to our non profit site www.wingsofhopelivingforward.org and support us any way you can through donations, purchases of grief items, or just getting the word out to everyone that Wings of Hope Living Forward is here to help. Thank you...

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Client Served

Rating: 5

My husband and I had the opportunity to attend a retreat. It had only been a year since we lost our son. We were not sure what to expect - staying for the weekend with strangers but all had experienced the loss of a child! From the moment we arrived at the retreat we were greeted with love and warmth. After meeting many of the parents we felt like we knew them for a long time. The retreat was a forward step in our healing. Anyone who is considering a retreat like this I would highly recommend it. We hope to be able to attend another one in the future.

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Volunteer

Rating: 5

I lost two sons four months apart in 2013. I'd never gone through such tremendous pain before. I just wanted to disappear. I don't remember how I came upon Wings of Hope but I was so thankful I did. I could talk to anyone on line or on the phone or at the retreats and they understood what I was feeling, thinking and going through. The retreats have been a Godsend to me. There, I experienced, love, understanding and comfort. I received information that was a big part of my healing process. It was very organized while at the same time, allowing for personal time. The workshops and crafts are interesting and fun. The videos of our children along with the balloon release and candlelight service give us the opportunity to share our beautiful children with others and honor them in these special ways. The food is very good and fun times are had. Before I went to a retreat, I thought I'd never laugh again or have fun but I was wrong. This is such a wonderful group that I thank God for everyday.

2 Maryanne H.

Client Served

Rating: 3

I have been with Wings of Hope Living Forward since my son Tyler passed away 06/01/2011. I have been through so many bad days and this site has saved me several times. The woman are wonderful and supportive. I had he pleasure of meeting Shirley Tripp Johnson the founder at her home for a balloon release. It was a wonderful experience and also touching. I have been fortunate to meet other wonderful woman. Ruthann runs the New Jersey chapter also. She to I meet and has been so supportive. I wouldn't leave this site for anything.

5 Ruthann G.

Volunteer

Rating: 5

I am chapter leader of Wings of Hope New Jersey I have been in Pennsylvania for a balloon release for our wonderful children it was the most amazing time I have had since the passing of my son the women that were there which was also lost their child where sweet understanding an extremely nice women my experience to be with other women that understand my situation was amazing

6 Gail48

Client Served

Rating: 5

I never thought I'd look for help thru Wings of Hope Living Forward, Inc but when I found my son dead in his bed at the age of 27 I needed help. He was perfectly healthy Chicago Ironworker. I wondered if I could ever feel normal again. I don’t believe you ever “get over” your loss, rather we learn to "live with it" in time. But, we do live in a society here in America where everyone wants us to get over it, and get back to what others deem as our normal life.I tried weekly counceling, Compassionate Friends, Grief Share & many sources but for me Wings of Hope has offered me personally the most assistance.
I know from my own personal experiences of loss that I felt like I was in a deep hole looking out and life was busy and chaotic all around me and I felt frozen in time. I acknowledge others accept death differently but I myself was stuck.
Having Wings of Hope Retreats as a grief support is an important part of my own grief journey and healing process..We begin our retreats by introducing ourselves & our children, being allowed to openly speak of them, Lighting candles in their memory, Writing letters to put in a bottle & release into the ocean, doing a balloon release & supporting each other by openly talking to each other.
At the retreat we acknowledge that grief affects us spiritually, mentally, physically, emotionally, and socially. The attendees were encouraged to remember that death ends a life not a relationship! Couples are welcome to many. We honor our childs memory keeping photos in sight to remind us of our relationships. It's a healing week for everyone in attendance.

7 Lynne Ellen S.

Client Served

Rating: 5

My son was murdered 02/26/12 by somebody he was helping. He left behind 4 daughters and a son that was yet to be born. My son was my life my only child we talked everyday . When he died part of me died also . Everyone thought I was so brave so strong but I just wanted to be with my son. I did not want to live. I met an amazing group of moms that were just like me they were broken. I was invited to the 1st retreat that is where my healing started. At the retreat I got to meet face to face other moms I knew I was no longer alone on this journey. I have formed lifetime friendships with other moms. Now I am helping other parent that are on this journey . This group has saved my live and I am trying to give back. Thank you Shirley and Renee you gave me purpose.