My daughter was murdered in a home invasion 18 years ago, she and her husband were both shot, she twice in the head, and him 3 x. The father survived, four young men just 19 years old broke in and held the children hostage, 3 little boys, ages six, four and two. I have had many counseling sessions with professionals to cope with the loss and devastation, but not anything compares to having another grieving parent to talk about the loss, you just don't get it, until it happens to you.
I lost my son Adam and found Wings of Hope shortly after. I have been on many retreats sponsored by the wonderful organization and they have helped me tremendously. I highly recommend them to anyone that has lost a child or grandchild.
I have attended quite a few Wing Of Hope retreats. They have been a tremendous help on my grief journey. Our administrators, Shirley and Renee have both lost sons but they put their grief aside to help us. They are kind, caring, and giving. I am blessed to be a part of their group. I would urge every grieving parent or grandparent to become a part of this wonderful organization.
Hi my name is Margie I loss my son over 3 yrs and I found WOHLF I believe like over 2 yrs. My first retreat i was scared to go but Renée and Shirley spoke and convince me to go. When I went into felt so much love at the retreat. I'll be going on my fifth retreat in May.
My name is Roberta, I lost my oldest son in May 2017. I was depressed, lonely, really didn't care if I lived or not. While online one day looking for help before I totally lost my mind, I found an online group of people like me!! Grieving and searching for Hope! I found a group called Wings of Hope Living Forward. Through this group, Retreats for just grieving moms and others for couples began. I have attended many of the Retreats and each one was a part of my living forward process. Tragically in March 2015 I lost another son, both boys were in mid 30's. Through the Retreats I had made many lifelong sister friends. I had support that I didn't have before, people to share my feelings with and not be judged. Friends I could laugh with for the first time in a very long time, I could talk about my boys and people cared instead of cringe. I can cry one minute and laugh the next and the moms at the Retreats understand... because they are living the same nightmare! Shirley and Renee do an outstanding job with these Retreats. It is obvious the Retreats are a labor of love, these ladies hearts and souls are put into everything that is done. For me and many others it's a hospital for our grieving hearts.
I lost my oldest son 5/31/2010. Unless you have lost a child you can't fathom our pain. I joined an online grief group and quickly found so many others that shared my pain!
I was privileged to attend the first retreat and meet so many friends I had only chatted with online. The retreats are wonderful, I'm able to share my grief and have so much support. In March 2015 the unthinkable happened, I lost a second child. I had more support from Wings of Hope Living Forward than I did from family and local friends. This organization has helped me to move forward. Yes I love and miss my boys, and will until I see them again. I have learned to release my grief as needed and still live. I have been blessed to attend 5 retreats, one was sponsored by a donor just after my second son died. So many of us have been helped by this wonderful group.
This my daughter Tracie. We lost her February 17, 2013. The pain from our loss is devastating. I knew there were groups for grieving parents. I searched and found WOHLF. Since i joined this wonderful group, i have attended many retreats. I will be attending my 9th one in May of this year. It is so healing to be with other moms that know the deep pain from child loss. When i walked into my first retreat, not knowing but a couple of moms that i had met in person, i felt more comfortable than i ever had in a group situation. We laugh, we cry and we share our pain. The bottle release, butterfly release, candle lighting are all very emotional. But also very healing. The group meetings, mom talks, and just being with others who understand has been a blessing. I'm grateful to have found WOHLF!
My name is Rhonda Sykes, I have been in the WOHLF Family for 3 yrs. I lost my 16yr. Old son Dylan in 2012. This group is amazing! I can honestly say they saved my life, gave me hope and helped me to find a wayto live life without my child. The friendships I have made thru this group will last forever! Thank you WOHLF for all that you do.
This is a wonderful group where we support each other on this horrible journey after losing a child. There are retreats that are affordable for us to go and help each other heal and support each other. A place where we can open our hearts and everyone understands what we are going through. Attached is a picture of my son who I lost on October 2.2006. I am thankful to have all these beautiful moms to help me get through this.
I have gone on retreat with this organization and these wonderful ladies. Made life changing friendships. Losing my daughter has not been easy but being able to speak openly with other women about our children has helped me to move forward along my grief journey.
I just like to say finding this group has been the biggest help with dealing with the loss of my only son. I thought I was going to go crazy because I had no one to share what I was feeling with I tried to reach out to get therapy but I was put on a waiting list and months went by with no contact from them so that made me feel more alone. But here I found out what I was feeling was normal, that there is a process to this journey. This group has made me so much stronger and for that I will always be grateful.
Every interaction with the people in this group is positive. The parent newly grieving the loss of a child, or for those of us for whom it's further in the past all find comfort and are able to share their grief in constructive and healing ways.