I highly recommend attending realty tour. Our children are facing a large variety of challenges in these unprecedented times. Realty tour offers an immersive educational safe space for families to see first hand where negative choices in regards to drugs and alcohol can lead a person. We would all like to pretend that these situations won’t happen to us however they unfortunately do happen more often then we may acknowledge with the proper tools we can steer our children on a drug free path.
Absolutely the best thing you can do for your child especially children that are hard to talk to or refuse to talk on sensitive subjects. I would highly recommend this to everyone for your children, nieces,and nephews anyone in the age group that would be tempted to use recreational drugs and or drinking and driving. I cannot say enough about what your child will learn.
I attended the Reality Tour as a middle school and high school student. The Reality Tour taught me the dangers of drug use by show casing its effect on a persons life; the stages a person may go through if they choose that path. Its one thing to learn about drugs in school, but the Reality Tour is an interactive program that makes it feel real, bringing it all home by making it personal. This is the wake up call everyone needs!
After seeing class mates in high school fall into the trap of drug use, I felt fortunate to have learned what I did from the Reality Tour. I wanted help pass on the message to others of what drug use does to people, so later as a high school student, I volunteered. I decided to volunteer at the Reality Tour to teach kids how serious of a mistake using drugs can be. The Reality Tour has the ability to change lives!
I have been an active supporter of Reality Tour since 2007. My son went twice, at age 16 and again at age 17 and was positively influenced by the program. I was so excited about the program myself, I got a boy scout troop to go through the program and then became a committed volunteer myself. I have been supporting the program in various capacities for over 14 years. I feel strongly that young people as well as adults attend.
I have seen Reality Tour make such a difference with children and adults of all ages. The program is impactful and personal. It's apparent the work that went into the research and preparation and the staff and volunteers are committed to saving lives. I highly recommend this program to everyone...children and adults!
I have been supporting Reality Tour/CANDLE, Inc. since 2009. This family and child drug prevention program is operational because of the support of our volunteers. As a volunteer, I can directly see the impact I am having in the community. I feel appreciated by Reality Tour staff and other volunteers.
I experienced Reality Tour when I was a sixth grader. I learned so much by attending the program and it really made me understand the impact that drugs can have on everybody, whether that be young teens or adults. This is a program that I would recommend for people of all ages. I especially enjoyed hearing the personal stories of the people who attended and were part of the program. I am the oldest of three, and my family often references what we have learned from the program even to this day.
I am a mother who has 26 years of sobriety, and 2 years ago my teenage daughter had struggles. This program helped me to step back and really look it saved my child's life as well as my sanity. I was the director of this program years ago and the parents that attended loved that they were able to get raw and real information. This is so needed right now.
I think one of the biggest mistakes as parents, educators and community organizers is thinking that most youth don't care, they don't want information that would help them make better choices and better lives. Being part of the Reality Tour helped us realize that was not the case. After students experience the Reality Tour and have a chance to speak with adults in recovery and professionals, many young people actively listen to the information and ask questions regarding choices they face with their own peers. The way the Reality Tour is presented makes it "real and tangible" not preachy. One major highlight is knowing that parents are given tools and talking points to have those uncomfortable but necessary conversations with their children. Ms. Norris and her team do a fantastic job by offering this very important and viable program to the community.
As a former high school teacher, coach and prevention specialist I had the opportunity to interact with teenagers on a personal level. Many of these young people were desperately reaching out for help after taking the wrong path at some point in their young lives. Fortunately for some, the Reality Tour provided a message of warning and of hope, and was the impetus for prevention, and in some cases, change. Often times there was an opportunity for opening dialogue between parents and teens that didn't exist before. The Reality Tour is a worthwhile program that sends a brutally honest message that today's youth needs!
My connection with Reality Tour was through interning for them in Butler, Pennsylvania. Before my internship, I was not familiar with Reality Tour, but I can say I have increased my knowledge about the program since then. The work I did as an intern showed me how powerful of a program this is and the importance of drug prevention. I always thought the solution comes after the problem, but Reality Tour has proved that otherwise. I think Reality Tour's method of addressing drug use before it becomes a problem is so effective and can help save lives. I believe in the work that Reality Tour does and can see its impact on participating families. I am thankful that I had the opportunity to intern for such a wonderful organization.
I was an intern for the Reality Tour in Butler County. Prior to being an intern, I had only briefly heard of the Reality Tour and what the organization entailed. While volunteering my time, I was amazed by the organization's involvement and the great response of the community. It is eye-opening that there are now over 30 programs across nine states that host the Reality Tour. From the research I have done, this program shapes and impacts lives of not only young teenagers but also their parents. This program is great because it gets the parent involved in their young teenager's life. I think experiencing such an influential program together creates a better bond between the child and parent. It is critical for parents to be involved in their child’s life. It creates trust, open communication and awareness. The Reality Tour allows for all of these opportunities. This program has changed many lives beyond Butler County. I know the successfulness of this program will continue to grow. I would recommend everyone to attend the Reality Tour, you can only learn from this experience.
As a member of the Law Enforcement Community and also a father, I am so thankful for organizations like CANDLE. As a young adult trying to navigate life's problems it can be very challenging and especially when trying to do it alone.
CANDLE does a great job including parents, teenagers, community and public to combat the dangers of drug and alcohol abuse/addiction.
Amazing program. Our community struggles with addiction and Reality Tour gives our youth a strong foundation to look upon when hard choices with drugs are presented to them. I would highly recommend parents and schools to participate in this program.
I first was informed of this program through my daughter's middle school. My 2 older girls have attended & my current 7th grader will once it resumes due to covid. This program was extremely informative, eye opening, shocking, and necessary. I am a nurse of 24 years and even I learned things. My daughters and husband surely did as well. It really helped to contribute to the conversations we as parents have already had with our girls. The program was organized extremely well & the performances felt so real. They were emotional to observe even though we knew it was a performance. So well done. The real life stories of the young men who spoke were so meaningful. This program is something every parent should attend with their children. Thank you for the work you do and assisting in the antidrug and addiction conversation in our home.
Today parenting is overwhelming with responsibility for the safety and successful launch of our children. CANDLE, INC is an answer to one of the primary concerns of how to effectively prevent interest or start of drug use. The education is geared to the youth but supports us parents in ways to be aware of changes and conversations to help our child. The program easily relays how what seems to initially be harmless escalates to trouble. Most beneficial is the instruction on how the young one can say no and not be harassed for their wise choice. There are countless lives spared the tragedy of drug use because of this program. Rosie H.
I love everything this program does and stands for! Everyone thinks "this can't be happening in my community or in my school" but that really isn't the case. It's not brought to our attention on the news and unless you actually know someone dealing with this stuff first hand, it's practically invisible. But it is very much real and an issue in our community. Reality Tour brings this all to life in an effective, educational manner. The responses we get from every tour are along the lines of "wow I did not know this was so bad, I will be more cautious and stay away from drugs". Which is great! It's saving lives! We are teaching students and parents how bad drugs can really be and what to look out for before they reach an age where they will likely start to get exposed to it. We equip them with the knowledge of the truth behind drugs and the prevention tools so they can make the right decisions in the future. Again, great program and great mission and message! If you have not experienced it you really should!
One of our Southwest Detroit Community Leaders addressed Whippets (nitrous oxide cartridges used in whip cream dispensers) in a Facebook Post that got a lot of traction and came to the attention of Norma Norris Executive Director of Candle Inc. Norma shared information about the health and safety hazards with our young leader.
While this Southwest Detroit community formed a coalition to educate residents, businesses , and non-profit organizations; our young leader led a Go-Fast Team that recruited other youth and community organizations to launch a Whippet Wipe-Out Campaign. In four weeks this youth led initiative collected over 25,000 whippets from Southwest Detroit streets and walkways and got the attention of local government, law enforcement and the Michigan legislature.
Candle, Inc's experience with youth and parents proved very valuable to this Southwest Detroit community that came together to address a problem in two Detroit zip codes.
When I started my internship with CANDLE, Inc., I was immediately blown away about how this organization takes drug abuse prevention and makes it a lesson you’ll never forget. I honestly wish I could have attended a program like this when I was a teen! My experience working alongside Norma Norris has given me guidance on the importance of families being educated together to help lead healthy lives.
Candle Inc.'s Reality Tour is truly a great mission. Their team is dedicated to helping drug addiction is such a great way - before it even starts! They are knowledgeable, personable and incredibly generous in their cause to empower drugfree lifestyles!
The Reality Tour was a real eye opener for myself, my wife and my daughter (oldest of 3 daughters). This program should be mandatory in all schools and it helped open up a lot of dialogue with our daughter. Please continue to provide this great service to all communities that you can. Thanks!!
As a young father of three I thought I knew about helping my kids avoid the trap of drug abuse...boy was I wrong! This program is so eye opening, informative and impactful! It opened dialogue with my wife, our son and our other two younger children! We were so moved by the work of the reality tour our family has now volunteered several times helping in the tours and acting as well!!
Jim H. , Cranberry Township, PA
I took my 13 year old son to this and we both thought it was a great presentation. The speakers there included law enforcement personnel as well as teenage kids who shared their stories of how they have had problems and how easily peer pressure can help cause kids to make wrong decisions. The live stations were impactful too when the actors made us feel the pain of losing a loved one because of this issue. I would highly encourage everyone to take their kids to see this. It's important and unfortunately it is part of reality these days and something that we all have to face openly with our children.
I was afraid to take my first child to the Reality Tour. But, once I did, I was so glad! It was a great way to really show my child that the world has so many dangers that can be avoided. It taught us a lot, opened communication, and was impactful. We took my second child when she was old enough. I highly encourage all parents to do this!
In 2017, I attended a Reality Tour event with my son who was then in 6th grade in Cranberry Township Pennsylvania. Saying that this event "moved" me would be a huge understatement. First and foremost, my son loved the program and felt a true sense of accomplishment when he pledged to never do drugs, which led the two of us toward having an awesome conversation about the perils of teen drug usage. Secondly, it resonated with me as I unfortunately experienced the loss of many childhood friends when I was a teenager in the early 1980's in the DC area. I strongly feel that, had a program like this, with its very grounded approach, been available when I was a teen, a good number of teen lives would have been saved. I loved every aspect of this program. The reading materials, skits, and overall presentation are all crafted in a way that is positively impactful. Simply put, this is a must see event.
I took my 4 children to this about 7 years ago. it was definitely powerful and memorable. To be honest they STILL complain that I dragged them to this. LOL But they can still tell you all about it. They'll tell you what they saw and the things the speakers said.
This was an excellent program. I believe schools should get involved and very student should go through this. Extremely informative and helpful. Well done!!!
Best think YOU could ever do for your child is to sign up TODAY for a tour . It just might save a life !
I highly recommend that every parent and child attend this! You will be glad you did and well worth every second! We are fortunate to have a group of people in our area to put this together and educate parents/children about the common dangers we face each and every day. A special thanks to all that contribute to Reality Tour and I will plan to attend again in the future!
The Reality Tour has been such a blessing while raising my children! Teenagers absolutely do not have the ability to navigate through middle and high school without parents educating themselves and their teens on the pitfalls and dangers of drug use! The Reality Tour does just that. Their “family health policy” (random drug testing) is exactly what teens need to keep them safe. The drug epidemic is real, and no family is above it’s reach! Thank you Reality Tour for helping me to help those I love!
My friends and I enjoy planning a night out with our teenage children (both boys and girls in the group) and decided to attend this tour together. We opened the evening by taking the children to dinner then each drove in our own vehicles to afford them the opportunity for one on one discussions in the car on the way home from the tour. This was one of our most valuable nights out as a group. It was an eye opener for the children and educational to all of us in attendance. I will be forever grateful for the education provided as well as the reality of the consequences when confronted with unwarranted circumstances. My daughter had so many questions afterwards and now years later, often refers to the tour and how it impacted her teenage years. Thank you so much for a great experience! I would highly recommend this tour to anyone wishing to educate their child on drugs, but not so sure as to how to initiate the discussion or where to begin seeking out materials!
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Hello everyone my name is David Griffith and i had the honor of being involved with the reality tour in Butler Oct. the 8th. I was the undercover cop that made the arrest. I have to tell you that i myself am in recovery for the last 22 months. I was amazed at the reaction of the parents and the teens that were in attendance.I feel that this program could change the attitude of both parties involved. I myself spent 22 years in prison for different offences ALL DRUG AND ALCOHOL Related. I don't know if a program like this could have changed me or not. there was no program at the time. But rest assured that if we only change one person it could be your son your daughter or even you. I hope that this will peak your curiosity and would welcome your visit to the program. In Recovery GRIFF!!!
The Reality tour is an effective way to make teens (and parents) aware of the tremendous dangers of drug use, as well as the negative impact drugs have on individuals, families and communities! Well done, RB
The reality tour was an amazing experience and something that every parent/child should do together. In the middle of an opioid pandemic in this country we def need to be able to open lines of communication in the house n the reality tour helps do exactly that with a very hard stigmatized subject that many parents don’t wanna talk about. Thinking it could be your child on drugs is never an easy concept, however at the rate of overdoses in this country, it very easily could be anybody’s child. Addiction does not discriminate and the reality tour helps bring all of this into focus. Excellent tour with exceptional people. This tour also serves a bigger purpose for the community and our country by getting facts about drugs out there. I personally feel prevention is way better than treatment for addiction.
I went to my first Reality Tour in 2017, in search of a Drug & Alcohol program to introduce to the Parents' Association at Vincentian Academy, and have been impressed to the point of now participating in the local Cranberry Twp., and Mars monthly sessions (usually the Grieving Father), while trying to gather a core group of movers and shakers in the Pittsburgh North Hills to form our own Reality Tour.
It was my turn to tally the post-session survey last month, and see clearly that both the parents and their 10-15 year old children benefit from all aspects of the three hour event, especially from the actor scenes and the testimonials of the recovering high school addicts, while long-term previous participants report that the Tour opened up a lasting channel of communications within their families--and opened up the eyes of often naive parents.
Reality Tour is a successful, winning step in solving the drug and alcohol problems plaguing our nation. Respectfully, Ed Catozella
I attended a Reality Tour by CANDLE Inc just recently and after experiencing it I immediately wondered why I didn't have something like this when I was a young kid. Instead of the kids hearing about what happens to you if you starting abusing drugs, they actually witness it happen. Which obviously leaves a bigger impact on them and the parents watching their kids watch it. I think every school should partner with CANDLE Inc so the kids not only see what could happen to them, but their friends and family as well. I can't wait to help out with more and impact more parents and their kids lives.
The Reality Tour is still helping families prevent drug and alcohol abuse after all these years. I've been so fortunate to be a part of such a wonderful organization! The friendly staff and dedicated volunteers really have designed and crafted a wonderful program highlighting the reality of what drugs and alcohol offer: jail, tragedy, and death. It's such a courageous and honest approach to a topic that was clouded in stigma and misinformation for far too long! I support the mission and wish many years of success!
As a volunteer in 2009, the Reality Tour helped to change my opinion of the value of drug prevention programs. The approach brings real-life experiences into plain view, which seems to have a greater impact than traditional methods. I've since returned as a board member to help carry out CANDLE, Inc.'s mission, in hopes that perhaps one young life may be pointed in the right direction.
"I attended Reality Tour as a member of the Slippery Rock University community who is studying public relations at the university. In the public relations field of study, I have learned that having strong community relations is vital to the success of all organizations. Reality Tour does just that in looking after the youth and parents of local communities and showing them the dangers of drugs and alcohol. Public relations is all about appealing to the audience with information important to them and working with their best interest in mind and that’s exactly what Reality Tour does."
After attending Reality Tour with our son, we all gained valuable knowledge and talking points to discuss issues, as a family, that surround us. It is a great program, very informative. We were so touched by the program that we now volunteer and hope to make a difference.
I attended my first Reality Tour and I gained a lot of insight on exactly what the nonprofit was all about. I learned a lot of vital information that is now able to share with my family and friends. I have begun to encourage those friends and family members to also attend the tours located near them.
My family attended Reality Tour in Butler shortly after we lost Amber to this horrible disease. Reality Tour is a very good program that brings up good conversations within families and communities. My family had some very good talks about the program and the information.
Thank you for organizing Reality Tour and making it available to communities.
I attend Reality Tour for the first time this past April and it was such an eye-opener. The information presented to the parents and children is shocking and needs to be made more public. There were times that parents would gasp when told a statistic, or get teary eyed when the guest speakers discussed their past addiction and how it has negatively affected their lives. I was touched by the whole experience and I hope that I will be able to take my kids to a tour in the future.
The information was good and informative. However it lacked child engagement and age-appropriate activities.
What's an amazing program! Every child and parent should see. The dramatic scenes are very impactful. Definitely worth attending and could truly save your child!
I first experienced Reality tour when I took my boys. It was a great experience for the entire family. We all learned something and it opened up the door for more open communication. The fact that the parent experiences it with their child is priceless. We were so impressed with it that we now volunteer with the local tour to hopefully direct other kids away from drugs.
I would have loved to do this when I was younger. I think this opens the eyes to parents on what to look for. I think Kids will have an eye opener also , they will see how much peer pressure and the desire to fit in is very strong.
The Reality Tour program is so wonderful for our community and others. I love knowing that I am able to make a difference in people’s lives. Our society has a drug epidemic and it will not get any better if people do not try and help. The Reality Tour does just that. I appreciate that this program enables me to be an advocate for drug prevention. I will continue to help my community through the amazing program of the Reality Tour. This is an awesome volunteer opportunity for anybody wanting to make a difference.
We attended the October session of the Reality Tour with our 6th and 7th grader. Wow - it was impacting! The presentation was "real" for both kids and parents - never a dull moment. Understanding the difference between 1980's and today was sobering and scary, but I was so glad to have received the information accurately, in an open forum, and explaining the consequences to our kids and the community. The two boys from the Detention Center that spoke definitely made it real for our kids because they are so close in age and describing how fast or unintentionally it can happen. The tour ended by providing a guide to continue the conversation for the next few weeks, which has opened up conversation even further. I'd highly recommend making the time to attend.
The Reality Tour was an amazing experience that taught me about the harmful effects of drugs and alcohol. I learned so much from the program and I truly believe that the Reality Tour is the reason for me staying clean throughout high school. I feel everyone should experience it and learn that drugs are not irrelevant in the community and how to stay away from them.
As a new volunteer for Reality Tour, I cannot think of a more worthwhile program for our children, grandchildren, parents, grandparents and extended family. Reality Tour is not just informative, but a tool for parents and children to learn about alcohol, drugs and its serious and dangerous ramifications. It is an evening of learning and hopefully, life long prevention.
I recently attended a Reality Tour and was very impressed. The program was very informative and impactful, and also provided helpful prevention strategies for both parents and children. It was so nice to have a program that parents and children attend together. If you have adolescents or teenagers, I highly recommend that your family attend a Reality Tour.
This is a fantastic program and one that I would most definitely recommend for anyone with pre-teens and teens. It is extremely informative, well executed and holds the attention of all involved. I found it to be life-changing for myself and my children.
I attended the Drug Reality Tour with my middle school daughter (three years ago) - it was insightful! The experience gave each of us a common ground which we could use to begin conversations - those began immediately and are ongoing. Based on that experience we continually talk and discuss current issues facing my teen and peers...drinking, drugs and especially the opioid crisis. Thank you Drug Reality Tour!!
CANDLE, Inc has done so much for the families of our community. The organization stresses the importance of talking with their children from a young age about the dangers of drugs. The impact that the Reality Tour has had has been significant and education is the key to success.
When I first came to a reality tour I was not sure what to expect; but soon learned that it is a program crucial to parents and kids everywhere who need this information to protect their families from the drug epidemic. It is a lasting feeling of satisfaction that I can help make a difference in the lives of my fellow youths, and I will never forget how this opportunity has prepared me for the next step in my career.
Being an intern for CANDLE Inc. has given me the opportunity to be a part of an amazing organization and give back to the community by helping to spread the word of drug prevention. Out of the many important things I have learned during my time at CANDLE, it is just how important working as a team is to the smooth running of a company. From day one, being able to listen to each other and work together is the base of what we accomplished this semester. I've also learned how to improve and further tailor my messages to my audience as well as a hands on look into event planning.
I attended my first Reality Tour prior to starting my internship with CANDLE,Inc. I wanted to be educated on the process of the tour from an outside perspective before my time spent behind the scenes. The tour immediately made me think about my education about drug prevention. I remember my middle school education of learning what drugs did to your body and how they were bad by watching videos in health class. Other than learning of the harms from a mandatory class in middle school, I only remember my parents telling me I would ruin my life if I ever did drugs, which made me stay away from the kids who were using.
I truly believe Reality Tour goes above and beyond the class curriculum of watching a series of videos in health class. Having a parent attend with their child is a mutually beneficial tactic for drug prevention. The tour gives hands-on access for a child to see the consequences of a teen who made life-changing bad choices. The impact of visualizing a mother losing their child is beyond what any video can show.
Being 22 years old, I was moved by what Reality Tour does and how it impacts the audience. The opportunity to intern at this nonprofit has opened my eyes on how everyone should be educated on drug prevention. I was able to use my public relation practices I learned at Slippery Rock University to this nonprofit to help reach more Butler county community members.
Having first attended a Reality Tour, as well as interned for CANDLE, Inc., I can say that this non-profit is amazing in-and-out with the work that they do for families and the community. While we all hope that no one we know or love is subject to drugs or drug abuse, it is an epidemic that needs to be known and understood by all parents and children. The dedication that the executive director, tour directors, and volunteers hold is the power behind what is making a difference in all of the communities that Reality Tour can reach. Not only do the tours open the eyes of parents, but their children as well which is equally important and beneficial. The tour shines a light on not only what can come of drug abuse, but ways to prevent it within each household. I have a younger brother who is soon to be attending the Reality Tour in Murrysville and I am more than excited for him, as well as my parents, to have the eye-opening and informational experience that Reality Tour gives. After working for this amazing cause, and seeing the impact it has on others, as well as myself, I would recommend it to any and everyone.
I just scheduled my our second trip to the Reality Tour in Greensburg - this time with my daughter. We attended 4 years ago with my son who was 13 at the time. It was very impactful. While we never believed (as no one ever does) that our children would ever get into drugs, we know 100% they will be in a situation where they might be able to use the information they gain through the Reality Tour. We're taking the preventative approach.
Thank you for the work that you do for this program AND for being parent partners in helping my children to be informed as to the dangers with all drugs.
Thank you SO much for organizing the Reality Tour! I thought I was up to date on what was going on in the dark realm of drugs and other inhibitors, but boy was I wrong. This was very well put together. The action skit, the videos, and the live testimonies all had so much information, and those boys from George Junior just tore my heart up. So young, and so brave to share their story so another child will not have to walk in their shoes. I just can't express how much I appreciate the hard work everyone put into this event!!
We brought our 13 year old to the Reality Tour not knowing what to expect. I have to say that this was a very powerful experience for myself, my son and my wife! The powerful content of this tour is right on target and much needed for all of our children. We will be referring our youth group as well as our Celebrate Recovery family to this mission. Thank you!
The Reality Tour held by CANDLE, Inc. on September 12, 2016 was an amazing and memorable experience. Previous to attending I had heard that the Reality tour was very powerful and the message was well done. After attending I can say that it far surpassed my expectations, was very powerful, and was done in a very nice way. All parts of the Tour were impactful but the most powerful were the interviews with a retired PA State Trooper and also interviews with young individuals from a correctional facility who were there because of involvement with drugs from a very young age. I must thank the CANDLE, Inc organization for providing this service to the community.
Having both worked for CANDLE, Inc. and attended Reality Tour, I can honestly say this is an amazing non-profit and program. The drug epidemic across the country is growing each day and the passionate people that run CANDLE, Inc and Reality Tour are desperate to stop it. The Reality Tour program really opens up the communication lines between parents and children so they are comfortable talking about drugs. It also shows the consequences and provides coping skills. Something that I found very influential about the program is the talks from law enforcement and at risk youth. It shows parents that this is happening in their own community and kids that this problem could happen to them. Overall I highly recommend the program, it has made an impact on my life and I'm sure countless others as well.
I'm a mom of three kids now 22,20,15 All of whom experienced the reality tour with a group of friends when they went to Middle school. THEY STILL talk about. The older two successfully avoided the trap of drugs as did the students/friends they attended with. We were talking about it the other day and the 20 year old remembered the Jail. "there was a person behind the glass, they had tennis shoes like mine, I realized they had lost all their freedom and I didn't ever want to end up there," Now in college entering into her Junior year...the memory is vivid. She continues to avoid the path that drugs could take her. The 15 year old said the funeral is what cinched it for her. She said, "Looking at the body and knowing people were missing their friend I didn't want to lose a friend to something stupid like drugs or want people looking at me in a casket and wondering how I could have been so stupid." As a parent I remember grilling the students who were in recovery and asking them HOW did your parents MISS this? They willingly shared with me their tips and tricks on how they got away with it...I am grateful. To this day...if my kids go somewhere and call me on the cell, I ask to speak to their friend or friends parent from the cell...to be assured they are where they say they are...they know it will happen...no need to try to be deceptive. My son is pursing a career in law enforcement...he remembers the question about giving something up for 6 weeks and thinking as a child what it would be like to never have pizza again, or some other enjoyable thing. They drew the parallel about why "try something" that could become addictive to have to live the rest of your life NEVER experiencing it again..to the point of having to experience extreme pain because a narcotic could contribute to a relapse. For my olders its been 7 and almost 10 years and THE REALITY tour is still shaping their thought process about drugs and their use. I am thankful that so far their path has strayed away from the destructive one involving drug use. Those morphed images of their photos are etched into their minds as something to avoid. As homeschooled students the olders never encountered the peer pressure that kids grew up with. The REALITY TOUR prepared them for what peers can do. They have the ability to pull you down...or lift you up and out of the pit and away from the drug scene. Kudos to a program that makes a difference and leaves an impact. Our family is proof!