I have had so many friends I've been able to refer to Resource: a teenager I was tutoring who dropped out of school, a older woman who lost her job, a man needing chemical dependy counseling and housing, a friend with mental and physical health issues. They've all gotten respectful help. I feel lucky to know about Resource.

I found the "prostatecancerandgaymen" site after having robotic surgery for prostate cancer in February. It has really been a help in helping me understand my recovery and benefitting from the experience of others who have gone through this. I don't know how many men use the site, but every question seems to get several helpful answers either from men who have gone through the same thing or a citation to a good source. In my case dealing with a delayed return of continence made me feel quite depressed and alone, and knowing that others have been through this and recovered has given me more hope and relieved my depression a bit. I also know that if more problems arise I can always ask more questions. Can't tell you how much this means to me!