My mother died over a year ago, and our experience with Main Line Hospice was for the most part awful. Up front, I want to say that the aides who came in to bathe her were kind and gentle to her as well as me. The social worker was good and the chaplain who came to speak to me was outstanding. The nurse, however, was a nightmare for us. She was hyper-focused on getting drugs into my mom (vs. non-pharmacological ways to ease pain), despite my mom's insistence that she did not want morphine. Her bedside manner was appalling. She did not listen to my mom and ignored my input about how to communicate with her. The icing on the cake was the fact that I have a hearing impairment and we were all wearing masks due to COVID. This nurse made only the barest of efforts to accommodate my disability; I needed to have a family member with me whenever we spoke (I was her primary caregiver) because I could not understand her. She did absolutely nothing to educate me or easy my escalating stress.
Aftercare was abysmal. Shortly after her death I called and asked to speak with a bereavement counselor; I was in crisis. I got a voicemail three days later. I tried multiple times to contact the director, but never got a call back. After receiving a letter from another bereavement counselor, I called again. I got two voicemails back because we kept missing each other. My third voicemail never got a response.
I wouldn't wish this hospice on my worst enemy...unless they needed to learn what a hospice should NOT be.