I have two Masters Degrees and am successful in life. Great wife, job, kids. . . I have it all. I however have been controlled by one specific anxiety my whole life. This group helps and is doing very important work with very meaningful consequences for millions of people like me. In my situation, drug testing, which is required, is my worse nightmare even though I have never done any drugs in my life. anyway, this is a great nonprofit.
I have worked with and for non-profits large and small, and have never met another that does so much with such a modest budget. Ethical in its spending and accountability, decade after decade, IPA pursues new avenues and persists at long standing ones, to improve the lives of paruretics around the world.
Excellent organization! Great tools and information at a minimal cost.
For over 40 years, I suffered from the damaging effects of Shy Bladder Syndrome (paruresis). I simply could not urinate at will when I needed to, no matter how hard I tried.
The serious emotional toll that was exacted was just as debilitating as the physical discomfort. My daily life became severely restricted: I constructed it around the presence or absence of bathroom facilities - and the people I might encounter in them. I missed out on all kinds of life-affirming activities and opportunities.
Over the course of many years, I consulted with a host of urologists, psychologists, psychiatrists, and social workers. No person or technique helped because the nature of my condition was misunderstood.
In 1997, I made a startling discovery that ultimately changed the course of my life. I located an Internet-based Discussion Forum that is now operated by The International Paruresis Association (IPA). Here I found others with my symptoms - people who communicated and commiserated about this condition. I felt as if I had just found a lifeboat full of survivors from the same nightmare.
Supported by members and leaders of the IPA, I began a journey toward a goal of complete recovery from paruresis.
I learned that Shy Bladder Syndrome could effectively be treated through exposure-based Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy. I enrolled in two workshops that the IPA sponsored and at each made tremendous progress, step by step. Armed with new-found confidence and dedication, I continued to practice many of the exercises I learned - over and over. Instead of avoiding bathrooms, I confronted them head on. Gradually, I won my battle over paruresis, to the extent it no longer controls my life.
I am eternally grateful to the International Paruresis Association, which, for over 20 years, has helped those who are afflicted with and affected by Shy Bladder Syndrome. Operated by a small group of professionals and primarily staffed by a core of hard-working volunteers, the IPA has helped thousands of men and women realize a difference in their lives through its workshops, newsletters, websites, counseling sessions, research and outreach.
As someone who suffered from a severe case of shy bladder syndrome for 40+ years, I didn't know who else to turn to. All the professionals from whom I had sought help had failed me, and the people in my life, while supportive, didn't know what to say or do to relieve the constant and heightened anxiety I felt each time I entered a bathroom. My life had become increasingly limited because of my condition. Then, back in 1997, I discovered the IPA, then in its infancy stages. Suddenly I found others with my symptoms who commiserated and communicated. I went on to take two IPA-sponsored workshops, practiced the exercises that were taught to me there, and gradually recovered. As a result, I regained my life. What more could one ask? At the same time, I developed meaningful and longstanding friendships with many of those people who are either fellow sufferers of paruresis or equally dedicated to helping people recover from this debilitating condition.
Great organization. It helped me deal with my persona situation and learn how to recover from it. If you suffer from Paruresis, I highly recommended contacting IPA and attending a workshop.
I attended an IPA workshop many years ago. It was at an airport hotel in Los Angeles. And it helped, a LOT! I have been pee-shy ever since my mother scolded me MANY years ago, for peeing on a hedge in our backyard. (I'm now 83.) By no means did the workshop "cure" me, but it has made an enormous difference in my life. I am much emboldened now and, given the "modesty panels" that most rest rooms have these days, I have little or no trouble peeing (urinating sounds too "clinical"). I have supported IPA with a donation most every year, I believe. And hey, it's tax deductible.
The IPA workshops that I attended with Dr. Soifer and his team were extremely helpful. I was so happy that I could find a group that could help me work through these pee shy issues that I suffered from for years and years.
Great group. Dr. Steve Soifer has put together something not available anywhere in the world!
IPA is truly a fantastic organization. They provide a service to so many that no one else does and do a great job. I have donated to them since 2012 when I found them and will continue to do so. Keep up the great work IPA!
The only organization out there that is of real help for the social phobia paruresis. Great workshops and support. They made all the difference for me.
If it were not for the IPA, I would not be where I am today. The help and support that I have received from the workshops they offer and the wonderful support of the people on the message board, have helped me to partially recover from paruresis. When I found this website for IPA, I thought it was too good to be true. Other people have shy bladder too? I thought it was just me! When I finally got up the nerve to sign up for a workshop, that is when things started to change. When I left that workshop, on the long drive home, I stopped at a large rest area for the first time in my 44 years. Why the first time? Because before I knew I couldn't "succeed" in one, so why stop? This time I had a little bit of hope. Low and behold I was able to "leg go" for the first time ever in a public rest room with others present. This opened up new hopes for me. Travelling had always been very difficult. Now I have less fear and more freedom to do the things I want to do. IPA is a wonderful organization, one of a kind. I'm so glad I found it.
IPA is an amazing non-profit dedicated to dealing with a social anxiety called paruresis. They address the hidden phobia that no one wants to talk about with an excellent website, education materials and workshops. They have made a huge difference in thousands of lives.
I first met Dr. Steven Soifer in 1997 when he was the President of the National Paruresis Association, which now is the International Paruresis Association. I sought Dr. Soifer out after my then-boyfriend revealed to me he had paruresis. As a writer, my initial intent in requesting a meeting with Dr. Soifer was to interview him for an article. By the time I left his office, his passion and dedication to the education about, and treatment of, paruresis was so persuasive that I accepted his invitation to be a Board Member of the association on the spot. I then served as the Secretary and Advisory Board Member of the organization for many years, and was invited to co-author the definitive book on the subject, "Shy Bladder Syndrome: Your Step-By-Step Guide To Overcoming Paruresis." I can personally state that for more than twenty years, Dr. Soifer has earnestly and successfully navigated, along with a team of dedicated staff and volunteers, the International Paruresis Association with time, ethic, integrity, and unparalleled commitment. To take on a topic that is not publicly appealing (no one likes to openly talk about embarrassing bathroom phobias) and to persevere in difficult economic times, is nothing short of heroic. The International Paruresis Association is fiscally responsible and socially impactful. It is an amazing organization that serves a hidden suffering population. I enthusiastically endorse this non-profit.
IPA is the only organization in the world offering support, educAtion and advocacy for parauresis. It is a lifesaver to thousands who are stigmatized and isolated.
I had the opportunity to participate in both a week-end workshop and a local support group. Both were extremely positive experiences that made me realize I was not alone and that there was hope to deal with paruresis. They were very powerful experiences. Thank you IPA.
Dr. Soifer and IPA gave me the path to true recovery. They were my last hope after almost 30 years of misery.
This organization has changed my life in the most positive way. After 30+ years, I am truly free!!!
IPA has helped thousands of people with parauresis know that they are not alone. They provide education, support and legislative/regulatory advocacy for an issue that no other organization addresses. They are a lifeline to many internationally.
Paruresis is such a hidden and personal problem, it’s difficult to reach out for help. IPA not only helps you connect with others, they host workshops where you can work to overcome your anxiety in a safe and empowering environment. Most of all, you learn to be comfortable with yourself at whatever level you’re at, to stop beating yourself up, and to find the courage to keep working.
I lived with the frustration and the embarrassment of Paruresis for fifty years before finding this wonderful organization. The help and support that I have received through wonderful volunteers has taken me to a high level of recovery, and thankfully this condition no longer controls my life. Now I am giving back by helping others.
IPA literally changes people's lives. Paruresis is a social phobia that affects all aspects of one's day-to-day experience from going out to accepting that next big promotion that requires travelling. IPA workshops help people experience live to its fullest and I'm honored to support this great organization.
Proud to be a part of the group that advocates on behalf of 7% of American population who can't urinate in public. This disability makes one's life miserable: people can't travel, date, go to concerts, get promoted if the job is related to flying, pass a drug test...thankfully, there is a treatment that IPA uses in its workshops all around the world. It has helped thousands of people and is continuing to do so by raising awareness of this problem and treating sufferers. I've been supporting them for 5 years and will stay a loyal member for more years to come.
IPA has completely changed the life of myself and others with shy bladder. Thanks to their workshops and the advice I've gotten on their message forums, I can now lead a completely normal life while previously my life was severely curtailed by my shy bladder. The people involved with IPA are completely devoted to helping people cope with and overcome this condition. It is a wonderful organization, and any money given to them will have REAL benefit and POSITIVELY change people's lives!
Wonderful group of people! They really helped me to help my son (he has shy bladder) who is in prison. So thankful that my son can use a "dry cell" for his scheduled drug testing. Thank you IPA!