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Nonprofit Overview

Causes: Interfaith Coalitions, Religion

Mission: To empower interfaith families to make jewish choices and to encourage jewish communities to welcome them.

Programs: To promote jewish life and identity in interfaith families through the provision of education, information and assistance. Interfaithfamily. Com provides, amoung other things, personal stories and professional views offering a broad base of writing on interfaith family issues, with hundreds of articles and online discussions, all accessible through an archive, and a book. The guide to jewish interfaith family life: an interfaithfamily. Com handbook (jewish lights publishing, 2001); online discussions and the opportunity for interested people to be introduced to each other in their local communities; listings of outreach programs and welcoming organizations in the website's "network" section; and advocacy by means of publications, petitions and contests.

Community Stories

16 Stories from Volunteers, Donors & Supporters

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Volunteer

Rating: 5

The first time I found the InterFaith Family web site, I stayed up until 2am reading the stories. I wish that I had found the site earlier when it would have been reassuring to hear about other families like mine with a non-Jewish parent raising Jewish children and about people like me who took decades to finally convert. It was good to feel that we weren't complete oddities. I thought how ironic it was that since I was finally in the process of converting, my family would soon cease to be "interfaith". And yet since converting, I visit the site as often as ever because it gives me a connection to a community of people who have had similar experiences or feelings, or whom I can help by offering my own experiences and thoughts. I found the IFF web site from a link on the web site of the synagogue to which I had sent my children to Hebrew school and which was led by the rabbi I was studying with for conversion. I clicked on a link to an IFF story because it sounded interesting, but I did not think the web site would pertain to my family because my household had always practiced only Judaism even though I was not Jewish myself. And since even before marrying my Jewish husband I had thought of myself as being on the path to conversion, just a very long, slow path, I did not think that my family was really "interfaith". But I forgot that once I converted, my own birth family would become "interfaith", and the web site has many stories and discussions about dealing with non-Jewish relatives. The IFF web site has inspiring and uplifting stories by people who have happy interfaith families. But it also has stories in which people share painful and difficult experiences. Some stories of people who acted in hurtful ways towards intermarried couples made me very grateful that most of the rabbis and lay-people I have met have been welcoming, accepting, and non-judgemental of me and my family. I like that I am able reassure people who write on the discussion boards about negative experiences on the discussion boards that not all of the Jewish community will necessarily be so negative. The stories about real people and situations and the postings on the discussion boards encourage people in interfaith families to "make Jewish choices", the goal of the site. For instance, recently a poster on the discussion board was convinced that it was "impossible" for a non-Jewish mother to raise Jewish children with strong Jewish identities. But articles and examples by other posters indicated that this is not necessarily true. That information may help parents to at least consider the option as a possibility and possibly to try it rather than to not try because they believe it can't work. I have contributed four articles that were "published" on the web site plus two others that I have submitted more recently. Writing the articles allowed me to think more deeply about my experiences and emotions as I gave form to feelings that I had kept to myself. And the articles generated both positive reader feedback and some criticism. For me, it was especially a relief to hear about other people who had taken decades to convert. Sometimes I had wondered if there was something wrong with me that I should take so long to work through the conversion process and that I should be hesitant and have doubts and fears even while wanting so much to convert. The Jews by Choice that I knew had mostly converted when they were in their early 20's and I certainly did not know anyone who had taken as long as I did to finally convert. I was very moved by the story by woman who converted after many years and so eloquently described the very same feelings I had myself both before and after I converted. I hope that my stories might similarly touch other people, both those who identify with the stories and those for whom my story might allow them to understand what might seem to be a contradictory situation: that Judaism has played such an important role in my life and for my family even though I was not Jewish for many years. The best thing about the IFF web site is definitely the way it enables readers to feel like they are part of a "community" of other people who share their experiences and concerns. Being able to be a full member of my close minyan community was a key factor in my decision to finally convert. But with only two other interfaith families in the minyan, both of which are interfaith in a different way than mine, my religious community cannot give me the type of support I find on the IFF website. I visit the site so frequently that I keep a tab open with the site in my Internet browser. I appreciate that the web site is well organized, has many features that other user sites lack, such as the ability to tag "spam" and the "Facebook"-like feature that allows users to create profiles and to communicate privately with other IFF users. The site is also closely monitored. The staff are there to jump in when a user is unreasonably nasty or giving bad information. And the staff also offers additional information. When there was an abuse of the system, the staff were on it so fast that I got the fake "friend invitation" at the same time as an email noting that it was due to web site abuse and that "user" had been blocked. The IFF web site is much better run and monitored than the vast majority of the web sites with a "forum" feature. The Interfaith Family website is a fantastic resource for so many people: people in interfaith relationships or interfaith families, or friends or relatives of interfaith families. With the high rate of Jewish intermarriage, this is indeed a very large number of people. With intermarried people and their families often scorned or rejected, it is so refreshing to see the positive approach taken by IFF. I am certain that it is effective in helping people to make Jewish choices.

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Client Served

Rating: 5

The resources and services provided by interfaithfamily are of unique value for young couples who are new to the dynamics of interfeith families. Its contribution extends far beyond supporting the planning of an intefaith wedding: it is a precious guide for the spiritual growth of a family, and its support will continue to bear fruits for a life-time. I would like to express my deep appreciation and gratitude for the useful resources that interfaithfamily puts at disposal of interfaith couples and families like mine.

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Client Served

Rating: 5

InterfaithFamily.com has been an invaluable resource to me since the beginning of my interfaith family life: my wedding to my non-Jewish husband. Yes, the site gave me referrals to clergy, and we were very happy with the rabbi we chose, who spent time with us and both sets of parents in his office prior to our engaging him for the Jewish ceremony. But even more valuable have been the extremely thorough and high-quality written materials about the ceremony and other holidays and rituals, which provide me with great reinforcement and provide my curious friends with excellent, easy-to-understand descriptions of our customs.

4

General Member of the Public

Rating: 5

InterfaithFamily.com provides for me an excellent forum for learning all manner of significant things about Jewish life and about interfaith relationships and how partners and families work out or work through issues and needs. It also offers a myriad of interesting and valuable articles from people of many different backgrounds and histories, articles illuminating a wide variety of cultural, historical, and social phenomena and ideas. InterfaithFamily.com offers as well highly beneficial opportunities for people to connect in community and to share, exchange, and gather. Lastly, I looked to InterfaithFamily.com as a resource to seek out a rabbi willing to perform intermarriage wedding ceremonies, an immensely useful service.

4

Professional with expertise in this field

Rating: 5

I have had the pleasure and privilege of being both a content provider for, and consumer of, InterfaithFamily.com's esources and have found it to be tremendously helpful to me in my work as a congregation rabbi. It provides a wide array of perspectives on issues relevant to Jewish life and, especially, to the challenges and unique aspects of interfaith families. I frequently refer people to this site and consider it one of the more helpful Jewish resource websites available.

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General Member of the Public

Rating: 5

A wonderful website that is a priceless resource for interfaith families. Great features, very helpful and supportive advice and we presented stories and articles.

2

General Member of the Public

Rating: 5

Interfaith Family.com's website is highly informative. But it provides much more than information. It provides a sense of connection and inclusion that motivates me to seek greater involvement with Jewish organizations and events. It's also provided a non-threatening way for me to share Judaism with my son's Indian fiancee. I'm very grateful to have a non-judgmental source of information and inspiration.

2

Client Served

Rating: 5

I've written for interfaithfamily.com website I love the articles on line and the supporting environment for interfaith families. The website is an amazing resource for interfaith families and those working with interfaith familes.

2

Donor

Rating: 5

Always great information. Interesting stories. Very courageous website. IF I can't find osmething on the site and I call they help.

2

Volunteer

Rating: 5

Interfaithfamily.com has been an extremely valuable resource to me as I raise my children Jewish in an interfaith family. Also in my volunteer work in Outreach at my synagogue, I often refer temple members to the web site and use the articles to lead discussions. Interfaithfamily.com has promoted a sense of inclusiveness to all the interfaith families out there trying to have Jewish households rather than make us feel we shouldn't even try.