I am a Big and have been matched with my little for over 2 years. She has brought so much to our partnership and has taught me much about life. We enjoy learning from each other and I look forward to the time we spend together. This organization strives to introduce youth to mentors who can be a positive influence in their life. From organized group activities to one-on-one time together I have nothing but positive words about BBBS.
I've been a big and my personal experience with my "little" continues to be a great one which has been very rewarding for both of our families. But the disappointing data and troublesome trends for BBBS of SEPA are unfortunately not surprising. In my experience, the organization overreaches on what I assume is most donors expectations: Matching 'littles' with 'bigs' and providing the necessary oversight to protect all involved. It's not understandable how a CEO here could justify a salary of well over $300K for this organization. That there are many volunteers overseeing bigger responsibilities in apparently, a far more efficient manner.
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Great organization. I am a Big Brother. They did an excellent job of matching me with the perfect Little Brother. We have monthly check-ins with a match support specialist who gives us advice. There are also great activities for us to participate in -- the agency has tickets and discounts for many events. The agency is well run and I've enjoyed my time as a volunteer. (I am also a Board Member, but I'm writing this review about my experience as a volunteer.)
I wish more people could experience attending an annual Big Brothers Big Sisters award dinner and hear from the Little Brother and Little Sister of the Year about how much they enjoyed the program. Listening to the comments from the Big Brothers and Big Sisters of the year really make you aware of how important this program can be in your community for your children.
Having been a Big Sister for over six years, I can truly say that this is a most valuable program for our country. While attending the high school graduation of my Little Sister, I read her positive comments in her yearbook regarding having a Big Sister.
I became a Big SIster when I was 37 years old, after seeing an article in a local newspaper. I've made lifelong friends from attending the various events with my Little Sister, which were held by the Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Lehigh Valley organization and were of great importance to my Little Sister in many ways: meeting new people, experiencing new places, etc.
Needless to say, if I won the lottery, I would definitely give a big chunk of it to Big Brothers Big Sisters!
Big Brothers Big Sisters has been a tremendous resource for children who need someone to be a consistent, positive role model in their lives. I've seen three girls grow their confidence, education and social abilities thanks to Big Brothers Big Sisters.
This organization brings out the light in children through adults who care enough to say "You can do it." I was matched May of 2007. The program, Native American Scholars, was brand new at BBBS of the Sioux Empire, and created to increase graduation rates among Native students. I felt the program called to me; being Native myself, and struggled through most of life, I could see easily how mentoring could make a difference in a child's life. My Little, Tiffany, has just turned 14, and was quite the firecracker. We had a lot of rough starts; she was from an impoverished and broken family, with minimal hope of overcoming heavy obstacles. If she made it to 12th grade - heck, if she made it to 10th grade - it would be a means to celebrate. To say it bluntly, I had no clue how I was going to help this kid. I had been a troubled youth myself, but under totally different circumstances. Still, four years later, I look back on our time together and she has out-distanced every expectation placed upon her. She'll graduate in 19 days (yes, we're on a daily count-down). She'll be 18 in just over a week. To say that I'm proud of her is putting it mildly; she's watched her friends drop out of school, or get pregnant, or go to jail. More than one has committed suicide. She's gone through juvenile detention, rape crisis, counseling... And yet she'll walk across the stage at her graduation as one of the few high school graduates and the only college matriculator in her immediate family (she'll attend Dakota State University beginning this summer!!!!!). She's made it. She'll tell you she never would have made it this far without me, but that's not true. She always had it in her. If I've done anything, it's that I've pointed out the obvious and been the broken record: "You can do it." My job in all this has been pretty easy. It's Tiffany who has shined. If all a kid needs to hear in life to accomplish goals is "You can do it," then I see no reason why more volunteers can't come forth to help a child realize his or her potential. Big Brothers Big Sisters was the catalyst that connected Tiffany and me together for life. They provided realistic advice that kept our relationship functioning, even through the bad times, and offered valuable resources (counseling, school supplies, test fees, etc.) to Tiffany when her guardians or I were unable. I am thankful for the opportunity they provided.
I became a Little Sister in the program at age 7 in 1985. Having a Big Sister changed my life. Being a child of a single mother struggling to make a living, times were rough. It was hard to concentrate on school when you were worried about what and if you would eat that evening. I was a C student at best and never had any hope of going to college. I was told I was not a good enough student and I defenitley wasn't rich enough to pay for college. My Big Sister gave me the self confidence I needed to succeed and told me I could do anything I put my mind to. Thanks to her I have met many of my goals. Because of my own childhood experience I decided to become a Big Sister myself, hoping to have a positive impact on another child's life. Happily my time as a Big has been just as rewarding, if not more so, than my time was as a Little.
I have just been matched with my second Little Brother. My first match lasted 4.5 years and was so much fun I decided to do it again. I really love the fact that I can use mentoring my Little as an excuse when I go out to have fun.
I have been a Big Sister for nearly 10 years with the same match. Yesterday, she turned 17. We have one more year to be a "match" but we plan on being "sisters" forever. She even talks about being a big & things she wants to do with her little. Even about doing 3-generation stuff once in a while.
People always talk about what a blessing being a big is for the little. But, I have found that being a big is a huge blessing for me as well. I look forward to my time with my little. Even when we don't have big plans & we just watch a movie and talk I am just happy to be with her. Just seeing her lifts my spirits every time.
I have been matched with my little for 6 months now. It has been a very rewarding program. My little and I enjoy many activities. Including bowling, playing board games, talking, watching movies and much more. One of the most amazing things about the program is how accurate the matching is. She is an absolute delight and a perfect match for me!
I have been a big sis for a couple months now. My little sis has the biggest heart, but she was struggling with her shyness. She wasn't participating in school or activities. She loves to sing and dance, so I have been taking her to some hip hop dance classes for some of our outings. She would barely talk the 1st week in class, but has continued to grow confidence these past 2 months. Yesterday she sang an incredible solo for the entire class and teachers! I was so proud of her! She has also started participating in school, and she even won a contest for answering multiplication questions 1st. I have seen her start to grow into a confident and caring young girl in just 2 months! It's an amazing experience to be a part of!
I have been a Big Sister with Big Brothers Big Sisters of North Central Arkansas for the past 2 years. My husband and I mentor a nine year old boy together. Our Little lost his dad when he was 3 and lives in a single parent home with 2 other siblings. He has no male influences in his life besides my husband. His mom goes to school full time and is a wonderful mom but at the end of the day she just doesn't have enough time to give her son everything he not only needs but wants. My husband and I spend time with him doing normal every day things. His favorite thing to do is hammer wood in our garage. I thought by mentoring a child that I would make his life better, but what I've found is that we have both benefited tremendously. Big Brothers Big Sisters helps change lives of not only children but also the adults that mentor them. We have seen our little brother become more confident. When we first started hanging out with him he had a hard time making eye contact and didn't like to talk to people he didn't know that well. The other day we had lunch with a friend of ours that he didn't know and he sat and held a conversation with him for 20 minutes. Our little will be a part of our lives forever. We look forward to helping him graduate from high school and go to college. He will always be a part of our family no matter where life takes us. Without Big Brothers Big Sisters we would never have had the opportunity to change a life and also to be changed! The impact that this program makes is huge and we will always be involved through mentoring and being donors.
I'm a big with Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Greater Twin Cities. I've been matched with 'little' for about a year and half. It's been amazing. Not only do I see a boost in his confidence and grades, but a better relationship with his family, and becoming a leader amongst his friends. We've come a long way in our relationship and have a long way to go! Thanks to BBBS this relationship has been facilitated and lives are being changed. Thing is, I don' t know if mine has changed more or his! Thanks BBBS!
I had long wanted to be a "Big" with Big Brothers Big Sisters; however, I felt that my lifestyle of moving around every few years would not be conducive to the kind of commitment I wanted to give to a child. Thus, when I finally settled down 3 years ago, I made the call to the local chapter.
I have thoroughly enjoyed mentoring my Little, who was 8 at the time of our pairing. She is now 11. My plan, so long as I am in the area, is to stick by her side through high school (and beyond if she wishes). If I should ever have to move out of the area, my plan would be to maintain contact.
I have enjoyed getting to know a young girl who had lost her mother. I have enjoyed seeing her grow into the young lady she is today. The activities we do each week vary. We've read books together, played games and done puzzles. We've gone out to the park or the lake. We've simply walked the dog. We've been to the Humane Society often to volunteer by playing with thecats and walking their dogs. Mostly though, it's been about building a trusting relationship and allowing my Little to have a chance to have a female someone to turn to and ask questions. I know that the questions are going to get increasingly harder and likely more personal. I also know that I am making a difference in the life of a child. I take that responsibility very seriously. That's why I plan to stick with her through graduation.