Soaring Spirits International

Two weeks after I turned 55 (the average age of widowhood), my husband died, leaving me to raise two teenagers. I went to a bereavement group and sought counseling. But it was Soaring Spirits that really helped get my feet back under me. At Camp Widow I met other widows - some younger, some older. We all shared a tremendous loss and immediately bonded over our common experience. Being with other widows turned out to be the best way for me to heal on my widow journey. I commend Michele Neff Hernandez for seeking out other widows and founding an organization that benefits many of us to this very day.

SSI provided me with support & Resorces to live again.

As a new widow I was completely lost. I was able to join up with a couple of new widows in my area, but we didn't really have any type of roadmap as to where we were going. A friend told us about Soaring Spirits Camp Widow. We each applied for and received a campership and were able to attend in San Diego this past summer.
Camp Widow was the most eye opening, informative, emotional experience I have had. As a result of attending and seeing first hand what they do and how they help, I realized there was nothing in the high desert to help (new) widows. We started a High Desert Soaring Spirits Regional meeting.
I would be amiss not to say Soaring Spirits has changed my life!

Being widowed has been the most difficult challenge of my life so far. I felt very alone and misunderstood in my grief. Soaring Spirits provided a safe space for me in my grief, normalized my experience, I made friends, I had the opportunity to get involved, and I was given compassion, support, understanding and hope! I would never have accomplished what I have in my recovery without Soaring Spirits. Thank you for all that you do!

I lost my special person David to cancer November 2017 following a 3 year battle. We were married for over 31 years and together for 33. A huge loss and I really was broken and exhaused after being a carer and so traumatised after watching David go through that very cruel journey. People always said my David was a gentleman. He would help anyone, gentle, loving and extremely thoughtful. My best friend. We had 4 beautiful children together and lost 2 shortly after birth. We had both experienced so much together and we were closer and stronger as a result. Our family was a little team.

Following David's passing I very quickly learned that people really did not understand the depth of my hurt. I never caused trouble, broke down in front of people and tried not be a nuisance. Still I felt excluded. I learned of the term Secondary Grief. Many of our best friends for years just completely cut me off. They never contacted me and I was not invited to any gatherings. This really was a huge hurt.

I am a teacher so very busy on a daily basis so that is what I did. I went back to work after 3 days and on the surface probably appeared I was coping well and underneath I was like a little duck paddling furiously to stay afloat. I was so lonely.

I had contacted a widows group in Ireland but not to be harsh all much older and I could not relate. Then I found my tribe. I contacted Soaring Spirits, I realised that widows came in all sizes and shapes. I was put in touch with Orlagh and Gary. To put simply they understood. I realised I was not crazy, that I did not need to explain myself to anyone, cover up my grief and hurt, all I had to do as Gary put it each day was breathe. One foot in front of each other each day. Not even a walk just a step. They were both so gentle and respectful. All emotions were acceptable and understood. Such a relief to find a safe place and people who genuinely understood, did not want to take advantage and it cost nothing. No pressure. You came to meetings or not, joined zoom or not all fine. They were there when you needed them.

I cannot thank Soaring Spirits enough for the lifeline I was thrown when I really was sinking fast. They really saved me and helped me to move forward not on from my David. Gary said one night in the future you will help other people like we helped you. I really did not believe him. It is true I now run the European group with people from many differrent countries. My role is not to give advice as untrained apart from life experience. My job is to listen, support and provide a safe place like it was provided for me. Rita XX

I found Camp Widow and Soaring Spirits quite by accident. There were post cards with a message about camp widow. My first thought, a camp, for widows?

I decided after, doing some research about Soaring Spirits was to go Camp Widow in Toronto. I remember coming down that long escalator, with that "what-did-I-get-myself-into" look. I knew when I was greeted so warmly and hugged so tightly by perfect strangers, I was in the right place, with the right people. My new people.

The workshops gave you hope to the possibility that you can grow with your grief. And that you are not alone, here there are people just like you, going through the same crap as you.

Is there a light at the end of the grief tunnel, no. But that tunnel is not as oppressive as I once thought. You leave camp with a new sense of hope. You leave knowing that you did something good for you. You also leave with new friends who get you and you can call upon for support.

I now co-lead a support group for grieving men through SSI. We meet twice a month and the men appreciate being in the presence of other men like them.

Soaring Spirits International and now Soaring Spirits Canada are providing a much needed service to the widowed community.

When I lost my husband suddenly in 2017 a friend connected me with resources that led me to Soaring Spirits. The advice shared during their keynote speech just days after my loss shaped my path through grief and helped me surround myself with other widowed people who shared my experience if not my circumstances. As I rebuilt my life, I found myself drawn to their mission and got involved as a volunteer to build an online community for the LGBTQ widowed as well as a dedicated track at Camp Widow. The organization's dedication to serving all widowed people including underserved communities like mine has helped so many people feel seen and less alone in this harrowing experience called grief. They provide hope and inspiration to those who so desperately need just that.

Soaring Spirits has been a lifeline for me and countless others! Sitting with others in a safe space of care and understanding which is incredibly meaningful and comforting. Camp Widow and the Regional Groups provide all that and more. SS has been a powerful part of my journey through grief and I am profoundly grateful!

When widowed, you feel lost and alone. Finding Soaring Spirits has truly been a blessing. To find a community who “gets it” is life changing. This organization has been a light for me during dark and hard times. To have connections and support by others who understand helps to give me hope. I can move forward knowing I’m not alone in this journey. Soaring Spirits does all of this and so much more for the widowed community. So grateful and so blessed.

I have been incredibly grateful for Soaring Spirits since I’ve been widowed. Until I found them, I felt so alone in my grief. Knowing I am NOT alone has made this difficult experience just a little bit more doable. Seeing others who have walked in front of me gives me hope and inspires me to shine a light for those who are coming behind me.

Knowing I have a world wide community that understands and supports me has been quite literally life changing. Thank you!!!

I honestly don't know where I would be today if it wasn't for Soaring Spirits International. When my husband died, I felt so alone. Then I came to the Soaring Spirits International website and information for Camp Widow in San Diego. After reading what this was all about, I knew I had to attend. However, being a new widow, and out of work, I didn't think I could afford the cost to go. Then I saw that there was a sponsorship program, so I filled out the application and waited. When I received the email saying I was accepted for the sponsorship, I was so happy. I received so much support attending Camp Widow. Since then, I have attended 3 Camps, have volunteered at camp, and now I'm a Regional Leader. I can't put into words how much Soaring Spirits has helped me. I am forever grateful.

My husband died of complications of Covid19 back in early 2020. One day several months after his passing, I googled widow support groups and saw the Soaring Spirits website. It changed my life. I have a community of support. A tribe who "gets me" and is there for me through the laughter and the tears. I have made life long friends through Soaring Spirits. From the in person events, Camp Widow, Zoom calls, pen pals, blogs, etc. a path exists for every widowed person.

I have been a co-leader of our regional group for a couple of years...I doubt I would have the desire to help others, if it hadn't been for the support and resources shared through Soaring Spirits. I believe helping other widowed people has been critical to my healing and understanding of this new life that I didn't ask for.

My husband Jim died in March 2021. We did not have family in our area, plus Covid levels were restricting much travel or access to family and friends, so I was at a loss of where to turn. I found Soaring Spirits International's website during my search for any information on "how to be a widow". I was immediately struck by the unique programs offered on their website, specifically their pen pal program. I signed up for it and was assigned 6 pen pals, one of whom coincidentally lived in my home town, where I was planning to return to in order to be closer to family and friends. I have since become close friends with 3 of the pen pals, having met all 3 in person, either in my home town or through participation in Camp Widow. I attended 3 Camp Widow events between October 2021 and July 2022. Each was special and life-changing. The information shared, the community built, and the opportunities to give back to the campers/widows who follow has been incredible. I have volunteered at the camps and participated in the regional group in my area. I have found life-long friends, several of whom I am in contact with on a daily basis. Those who have not been widowed do not understand the needs or pain we go through. Being connected with so many wonderful people who just "get it" has helped me move forward and start rebuilding my life into something Jim would be proud of. I cannot thank the SSI team, volunteers, and the many widows they have connected for helping bring light back into my life!

July 28, 2010. That is the day that my life changed in a second. My husband of 34+ years had a massive Heart Attack that minutes of performing CPR and then EMT medical intervention could not come back from. It wasn't until a year later when I found myself at Camp Widow in San Diego that I found Hope again and started to live a new life with the support of these fellow widows and widowers gathered to support each other and others who would come along their way. .... Now I am happy to be a part of them as a Regional Group Co-Leader, with twice monthly gatherings of widows and widowers.

Soaring Spirits International fills a need that no other organization in the world does. I went to a very helpful support group for spouses offered by a local hospice, but the program only ran for 6 weeks. I needed more. One morning when I thought I was beyond my grief in November 2020, after my spouse had died in 2017, I woke up crying and overwhelmed with loss. It was the day after Thanksgiving and I just felt so alone. I went online to see if I could find some support and found Camp Widow of Soaring Spirits. I was so disoriented in my grief that I thought I had just missed a Camp Widow virtual event, but then I realized that the event would start in a few hours on that day. In my disorientation I called the conference number at my 8:30am in Philadelphia and at 5:30am spoke with Jenny Sellers. Jenny was representative of the love and care for all spouses who had lost a spouse. She knew my story and held it as she registered me for the conference. I would find later that day that there are many like Jenny who are available to hold grief for however long it takes. The Soaring Spirits approach to grief needs to be shared with the whole world. Everybody needs to know the vision for holding grief in stages of life. I am deeply grateful for the Soaring Spirits mission and the people especially Michele Neff Hernanadez who developed the organization out of her own tragic loss and needs. Thank you will never be enough. I support Soaring Spirits as I am able.

This organization's event in San Diego was the first place I felt there was hope for a decent life after the death of my husband. Camp Widow was inspiring, safe and caring environment where I could let my hair down and feel normal and have so many of my feelings validated.
As a regional group leader for soaring spirits, I strive to create that space for widowed people in my hometown. Picture shows some of the Denver Regional Group members at a local event.

Soaring Spirits changed my life. I've made lifelong friends who truly understand what it means to be widowed. I've also grown so much and learned so much through Camp Widow, workshops, and as a volunteer running a regional group. I owe them so much. Thank you for all the work you do!

Ive been involved with this organization for almost eight years now. I take part in many of their programs, and I volenteer as a speaker/presenter at their biggest most well known yearly event, Camp Widow. Not only does SSI provide hope, purpose, community, and tools on living life after the loss of a partner, they also are way more than just an organization. SSI is a family. THe people I have met through SSI are some of my dearest friends, and we walk through not only the grief of loss together, but LIFE. They cry with me, and they are right there with me celebrating my victories and achievements. I honestly dont know what I would do without them.

This week will be 5 years that I have been widowed. I honestly don't think I'd be where I am now without Soaring Spirits. Finding other people who are widowed has given me a team of new friends who get it, and who support me through all of the ups and downs of being widowed. It's so nice to be able to share about my story and my feelings without feeling like I just sucked all of the air out of the room. The peer support at SSI is priceless for feeling *normal* (as normal as you can) in my journey.

Soaring Spirits' commitment to the widowed community has been so apparent, especially during the pandemic. Regional groups quickly switched to having virtual meetings and socially-distanced outdoor events when possible. Camp Widow even went virtual! It wasn't the same, of course, but it really showed how SSI doesn't back down from continuing services for people who have lost their person.

I found Soaring Spirits this past January. Immediately, I felt I had found my kin.
So much support, knowledge and inspiration.
So many thanks!
Jane McIntosh

I attended Soaring Spirits’ Camp Widow event in San Diego August 2017. I was 20 months a widow then. This organization led me to my people- new friends and eventually I became a volunteer leader because I believe in the power of a safe community to help widowed persons not just survive, but thrive!

I lost my long time girlfriend in June of 2015. I found Soaring spirits after a few months and went to the Widowed Village chatroom on 12/23/15 for the first time when I was crashing and burning. That save me and so many others. I can't say enough good things about Soaring spirits

I am a recent widow (approximately 2 months out). I am really glad that I found Soaring Spirits. They have a lot of useful information on their website and forums to connect with other widowed people. I find the weekly Zoom meeting especially valuable as a way to meet and connect with others going through similar losses during the pandemic. They offer 2 different Zoom meetings each week -- one for individuals who are newly widowed (1 year or less) and one for individuals who have been widowed for any length of time.

I found Soaring Spirits International while searching for a support system after losing my husband of 42 years. I have gotten so much support from them. I am a member of Widowed Village and their pen pal program. I am looking forward to attending Camp Widow next year.

What a wonderful group giving so much kindness, love and hope to widows/widowers.

Soaring Spirits has changed my life of loss and grief. When you lose the one you love, the one you can’t live without, not much helps ease or touch that level of pain. Soaring spirits is one of the few things that can help carry some of the ache and let you know you are not alone. Their programs have truly touched my broken heart and lifted me up in some of my lowest moments of grief. Thank you for everything you do.

Wonderful organisation that helped me so much through the worst time of my life. They showed me that hope matters and that Id be ok and have a good life again after I lost my husband of 20 years . Now I serve this community in an effort to give back some of what they gave and continue to give me .

As a Widower this organization has changed my life for the better every day. Great support group!

This non-profit has "literally" been a life saver to so many, including myself. After being widowed, I knew I didn't want to stay stuck in grief. I wanted to return to "living WITH my grief" while still finding positive ways forward. This non-profit, Soaring Spirits International, provided me with the support, tools, and compassion to help me on my journey forward. I didn't "move on", but was able to "move forward" with the help of Soaring Spirits International.

I am so happy that I found Soaring Spirits after my husband died. This organization has helped me find my way in this new life that I was suddenly thrown in to. The love, support and understanding that I have received from this widowed community has been amazing. I have formed so many new friendships through Camp Widow and from becoming a Regional Leader. All of my experiences with Soaring Spirits has helped me in my grieving and healing process. There really are not enough words to express how much this organization means to me.
❤HOPE MATTERS ❤

So grateful that I found Soaring Spirits! It changed my life. I felt so alone and misunderstood but being a part of this community changed that. It provides a sense of belonging and acceptance. Speaking to others that understand is such a necessity for widowhood. I will be forever thankful for all they do.

A little over a year after I lost my husband of 23 years, a friend told me of Soaring Spirits, and I found myself attending a “Camp Widow” with many others who had lost their spouse also, from weeks before to years before. The healing and learning to cope were just part of the information benefitting me, and the camaraderie was amazing. A widowed Soaring Spirits friend I met at Camp Widow and I started a Regional Group in September of 2018. My new husband and I now, 6 years after my loss and 13 years after his, co-lead this Soaring Spirits Regional Group that has been going 2 years benefiting Omaha, Nebraska area widowed people. Long live love.

When my husband died three years ago a part of me died with him. I was lost alone and very scared left to raise a challenging 13-year-old alone. I found Camp Widow about a year after my husband died through research and decided to go.

I was shocked when I walked into the registration for the conference and found 300 people, who were just like me. Well not really, they were men and women from all backgrounds, but they understood the pain of losing a spouse. This was a place I was able to build my network of widowed people who understood the struggles of this new life we didn't ask for.

Camp Widow and its founder, Michelle Neff Hernandez, and all of the Soaring Spirits staff are amazing. They are constantly creating new programming to support the underserved widow population. In the face of the current pandemic, the Soaring Spirits Team created a virtual camp widow to allow people the opportunity to connect virtually during a time when many were isolated.

Thank you for taking the time to come speak to our class at USC about your organization. Soaring Spirits is giving hope to so many people. Keep doing what you are doing!

Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation has done an amazing thing: it has saved a life. In fact, it has saved many lives. I know that I am here today because of this organization and I am now on the board of SSLF because I believe in it so much. Other widowed people have personally told me their stories and that they, too, wouldn't be alive if it were not for SSLF and the work we do. We support people who find themselves somewhere they never expected to be: widowed and on a very, very hard path. SSLF lets them know that they are not alone and we are here for them. We give unlimited encouragement, hope, strength, moral support, sometimes financial support, and the chance to bond with other young widowed people. And those bonds are instant and strong. This is the most deserving nonprofit I've ever worked with. We give hope. And that's a very big thing to have.

Soaring Spirits offers HOPE to those who have lost a spouse/significant other. I found them a year and a half into my journey of grief after loosing my husband. When you experience the forever life changing event of loosing your spouse, this group offers support like no other. They know the anguish you feel and give you the shoulder you need to lean on, allow you to cry and share. I would not have healing without these beautiful people (men and women).

It has been amazing to watch this organization grow and positively impact the lives of so many widowed people. From the face-to-face Camp Widow West and Camp Widow East programs, Widowed Village on-line community, to the Widow's Voice blog. Widowed at a young age, all of the support systems around me were for those much older and none that related to me. I wish this organization had been around years before it was. Amazing organization!

I continue to be amazed at the work being done at Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation. It has been an amazing gift to so many who have lost their beloved spouses. Keep up the wonderful mission, Soaring Spirits.

Death Sucks! The t-shirt says it all. As a widow of long years, I am pleased to find a peer-organization that understands the need for compassion, humanity, and humor in times when all three can literally save lives and mend emotions.

I have followed Andrea (andrearemembers) for quite some time and am amazed and astounded at the help, love and support she has received from your Soaring Spirits. I have walked by my Mother's side for 3 plus years since she lost my Dad after 58 years of marriage. Some people would say she is one of the lucky ones, she had a full life with him. Grief is grief regardless of the length of time you had your loved one. I think this soft place to fall for the widows and widowers is such a blessing. Please continue your great work and my God bless you.

My husband was diagnosed with a brain tumor when i was 9 months pregnant with our second child. He died 3 short weeks later when our daughter was 10 days old and our son was 17 months old. I was 38 years old and had no idea where to go to for support even though I live in a big city.

I turned to the internet to search out people like me...young and widowed. I came across SSLF and the Widow's Voice blog and immediately felt a strong connection to the writers and the other widowed people online. I cannot stress enough how much having these connections have helped me in my journey. I never would have found such a supportive and understanding community without SSLF. They have created an organization that provides resources, support and friendships to those of us in this unenviable club. I'm so thankful for their presence!

Having been introduced unwillingly to the arena of young widows and those facing tragic loss by a member of this organization who is a personal friend, I can speak to the necessity and value of this organization as a vehicle for support, healing and hope. SSLF fills an underserved need....and I, for one, am grateful for their mission and dedication to helping those like my friend journey back to being whole and happy after suffering a devastating loss. My highest recommendation goes to this organization.

SSLF and Camp Widow made me feel like I wasn't alone. It took being with other widows to finally not feel like one anymore. It is empowering to be connected to a community of people who have experienced a similar tragedy. It shows us that we can indeed survive, and thrive.

There are no other organizations like SSLF, and no other events like Camp Widow. It fills a unique gap in the care community.

There are limited resources out there for the recently widowed, but soaring spirits works extremely hard to fill that void. As a young widower with a baby and a toddler I was, and still am, in a extremely small and unfortunate minority. Soaring spirits connected me, and numerous others, with people and resources that I would otherwise be without. Until you're in such a situation you have no idea how import such an organization really is.

I met Andrea Row after she and her beautiful children moved next door to me and my family. Andrea and i soon became close friends of which I then heard the story of what had happened to Matt. All I could think of was "How is she getting through each day with such small children and still portrays amazing strength?". As I have gotten to know Andrea she has expressed to me that Soaring Spirits has been a place of comfort and a resource to reach out to other Men and Women going through similar situations. She believes so much in what Soaring Spirits has done for her that she wants to give back and help others by working with Soaring Spirits. We all Love Andrea and the kids and only want the best for her as she approaches each day with such courage and compassion.

Thank you Soaring Spirits for being there for my friend!!!

I don't like to talk about what happened much, but they let me have my space. There's still so much I can't say because.

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I got to know The Row Family when their son Jacob was in my class. What a loving family. Our whole school was so sad when we heard of Matt's accident and death. Andrea and her kids have been through so much since this happened. I can see Andrea getting stronger and looking at life in a more postive way...with the help of Soaring Spirits. This is a Foundation that seems to help the whole family when they really need help the most!!!!! Way-to-go. Love you all.

My friend Andrea tragically lost her husband Matt on November 15, 2008. Since that time Andrea has had to readjust to life without him. A life she never planned - raising two amazing children by herself, relocating to a new home, starting a new career. Soaring Spirits has helped her grow, heal and live new experiences. She has attended "Camp Widow" and is excited to attend again this year! I know that she looks forward to the events and time together with other members.

I find it difficult to put into words what Soaring Spirits has done for my dear friend. I believe that it has placed a patch on her broken heart - one that while it probably will never be fully healed - is secure enough to have the smile returned to her beautiful face and that is what Matt (and the rest of her family) is so happy to see. It has been an invaluable tool for her the past couple of years and I am forever thankful to everyone at Soaring Spirits who have helped Andrea on this journey.

My best friend, Matt, died tragically on Nov. 15, 2008. I lived with the loss (and still do) and witnessed the destruction it had on Andrea and her kids life. My wife and I did what we could, be there is only so much you can do. Since Andrea has been involved withSoaring Spirits I have seen her recover (as much as one can) from her loss and build a new life again. It makes me happy to see her moving on and enjoying her life. Thank you Soaring Spirits!

I feel my daughter-in-law Andrea has received a lot of support and love through Soaring Spirits since the untimely death of Matt. She has attended conferences, met many women living in the same situation and made a lot of friends, which is so meaningful. It matters not how the loss - albeit a long suffering illness or a sudden death, she understands the full impact of losing her husband, friend, lover and is sympathetic and helpful to others in her situation.

I wish there was a Soaring Spirits for Mothers that have lost a child....maybe I should start one!

My sister, Andrea Row, sufferd the loss of her amazing husband and father to her two young children: Sydney (3) and Jacob (6) over 2 years ago. I also lost my brother-in-law, who was every bit the brother - law or no law. Following this sudden and tragic loss, Andrea was fortunate to find the Soaring Spirits Foundation. The Foundation introduced her to a network of caring, supportive people, who have all been dealt a "bad hand", enduring the loss of a loving spouse. I believe it was the compassion and understanding shared by Foundation members which helped Andrea with the greiving process and to find renewed meaning and purpose after her loss. The Soaring Spirits Foundation provided an extraordinary role instilling hope for a better future.

My Husband's cousin Andrea lost the love of her life and father of her children in a work accident, it was a terrible situation that no one should ever have to endure, but there are many people unfortunately who do suffer from the loss of a spouse daily. Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation has helped Andrea cope through her loss, by getting her involved with others who have suffered the same loss. She is not alone and has many people supporting her, through this foundation, she wishes to do the same for others, provide support!

Thank you to the Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation for all of the help you provide to the widows and widowers out there. I have witnessed all of the good it can do after my cousin lost the love of her life in a tragic work accident and was left with 2 small children at home. She got involved with your organization and was able to connect with people that understood and that were going through similar experiences. Your organization has provided her and continues to provide her with the added comfort and support that she needs after the loss of my cousin! Thank you and please continue the beautiful work you are doing!

One of our employees, Matt Row, died at work in a tragic accident - it's been difficult on us (as friends), but especially hard on his family. For a wife to lose a husband at a very young age, with two small children to raise is unfathamable. It seems her saving Grace has been in two areas. The strong support from her (& Matt's) family and Soaring Spirits. In reading her blog and in general conversations, I could tell that Soaring Spirits made a difference in her life. Although she is still sad, and missing Matt everyday, Soaring Spirits has helpled her through this very difficult time.

Thank you so much for all the work you are doing at soaring spirits. My husband lost his 1st wife unexpectedly. We attended camp widow last year and my husband was able to connect with so many other widow(ers). We attended workshop about grief and recovery -- it was so very helpful to both of us. We also read widow's voice for help and encouragement that we are not alone in this. Connecting with others ont he same journey helps so, so much -- and soaring spritis has enabled that connection to happen for us and for so many others. We are looking forward to attending camp widow again this year.

I am so glad that programs such as Soaring Spirits exist. When my friend tragically lost her husband, she desperately needed to communicate with people who had walked in her shoes. She was able to find that through Soaring Spirits. As a friend, I can only do or say so much, and without having experienced her pain, it's impossible to know what she needs to hear. I am so happy to see how much Soaring Spirits has been able to help her and how it continues to help her in ways that only they can.

I support SSLF and all the amazing things they are doing for widows everywhere.

SSLF has changed my life in so many ways. I lost my husband in 2009 after a 2 year battle with cancer. He was 26 when he passed away. I was 27. The devastating loss was just compounded by the feelings of loneliness felt in not having any around me that I could relate to. To be so young and deal with so much is so difficult, and doing it alone makes it almost unbearable. When I found SSLF online through other widows that I met on facebook, my whole life changed. Not only was I not the only widow in the world, but I wasn't the only 27 year old widow whose husband died from cancer. Finally someone to relate to. Someone who knew exactly how I felt. I love SSLF. I see women just like me who have moved forward with their lives and I know it is possible. The support and love that radiates from everyone involved in SSLF is so overwhelming. They are an amazing organization. I hope they can continue to help other lost souls like me.

My Brother Matt died in 2008 in a work related accident. SSLF has helped my Sister in Law Andrea in so many ways I cant even find the words to describe the support and dedication to helping her deal with the loss of her life. Thank You Greg Row

Soaring Spirits has helped my Aunt Andrea a lot. Since the death of my Uncle Matt, and her soul mate, she has gone to the conferences and being surrounded by people who could actually truly understand how she was feeling. She could laugh with them, cry with them and have a good time. I think this foundation is necessary, many people struggle with the loss of a spouse and I think without a foundation like this, that struggle would be longer and harder.

From what I have heard the organization has helped MANY widowed individuals in their time of need. It is VERY important for an organization like this one to be around because being in the situation of a widower it can be a very scarry time especially if you have no one to share this frightening expereince with. Keep up the good work!!

I have witnessed the effect that Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation has had on a friend who tragically lost her husband. She received outstanding support from those who had actually stood in her shoes. They are there for widows during the worst times, and continue to be there long after.

I have seen and experienced the work that Soaring Spirits does. I am grateful for their efforts and life-changing work.

This is a wonderful organization- one that serves people in their time of greatest need. I know firsthand that after experiencing the sudden loss of a family member, support from people who've been there means EVERYTHING. These organizations are few & far between. I have seen how Soaring Spirits has helped a friend. After losing her spouse, this organization was there for her. She has begun helping others through this group. One thing that can help with a loss is trying to make something, anything, positive come out of the situation. SSLF has done this for my friend. She has used her pain & experience to reach out toward other widows. I wish no one ever had to lose a loved one, but since that is not reality, I am so grateful this organization exists.

Soaring Spirits is an amazing organization. I have personally seen it make a huge positive impact on a friend who tragically lost her husband. I hope I never am in the position to have to use their services myself, but if I was, I know that they would be one of my first calls.

I'm proud to be the 200th reviewer, since I think this organization is amazing and really deserves recognition for all the hard work and good that they do in the community and for widows all over the world.

I support SSLF and am grateful for the services of helping widows and providing them with necessary contacts to aid in the grieving process.

I wish there were some way that I could help aside from money, since that's so limited. I hope that SSLF wins.

I donated on behalf of all the women in my life, hoping they will never need such services.

I helped out at the first Widow 5K and only wish that I was able to go again in 2010. The widows there are inspiring.

When my daughter lost her husband I was at a complete loss for words. Nothing so terrible has ever happened in my family. I'm so glad she found SSLF to help her through the grief that only another widow can truly understand

I am glad that my sister went to the SSLF conference last year. I think it really helped her with the grieving process.

My sister was widowed and was in vast need of help and community. I was so grateful that she found SSLF where people understand what she is going through.

I support SSLF every year through a well deserved donation. They do so much good for widows in our community.

After our daughter was widowed last year, it was amazing to see how just knowing that an organization like Soaring Spirits even existed had powerfully positive effect on her. When we actually met Michele and other supporters of -- and beneficiaries of -- Soaring Spirits at the 12/4 NYC Event in NYC, we understood even more what an important role Soaring Spirits plays. And she is looking forward even more to the program this August at Camp Widow. Thank you for all you do.

I appreciate all the work of the members of SSLF and their commitment.

I hope SSLF finds a means of increasing funding so that they can help more widows and families in need.

My friend Beth really benefited greatly from this foundation. She asked me to write this review. Thanks SSLF.

My widow match was a life saver and we are now the best of friends. I didn't think my loss could ever have brought me something this beautiful.

I live in San Diego and fully support the efforst of SSLF.

Can't express enough how much I needed SSLF when I found them online. Thank you, Michele, for all your personal attention and commitment

I know of SSLF through friends and I think their work is amazing.

I think that helping widows to deal with their loss through community and communication is an amazing idea.

I hope my review can help SSLF to advance their worthy cause

As a member of the military I really understand the need for grieving persons to find support in community.

I attended Widow Camp with my aunt and it was really amazing to be involved with the foundation.

I donated as a tribute to an uncle who I never knew.

I donated in honor of my mother, who cares about all causes for women.

Just lost my husband less than two weeks ago, and SSLF has already been a comfort to me.

I hope that my donation and this review help to advance the cause of the SSLF.

I donated due to a loss in my family that made it clear how necessary an organization like this one is to our community.

I've never been married, but witnessing such a loss in my family was extremely hard. I'm grateful for SSLF

I think it's crucial to provide this kind of understanding support for grieving persons.

My family lost someone suddenly and it was really hard. I'm glad SSLF is here to help others going through that experience

I know from losing a family member that it's a very difficult time and much support is needed.

When I think about how hard it is to lose a parent, I know it must be just as hard to lose a partner. That's why I donated to SSLF.

I know someone who lost her husband and it hurts my heart just to think about it. I fully support SSLF.

My mom has really benefited from the founding and work that she does for SSLF

I donated because I feel so sorry for people who lose their spouse. It's a tragic event.

My friend Patience asked me to donate to the cause. At first it was just a favor to her, but once I learned about SSLF I was very glad I did.

My dear friend is involved with SSLF and I give them my full support.

I support SSLF because I have a friend who lost her husband.

I volunteered to help my friend Barbara with an event.

I donated on behalf of my friend Michele Dippel who deserves the happiness that she's found through other widows.

I donated on behalf of my sister who lost her husband.

My husband is in the army and I'm so glad there is a resource like SSLF out there for those of us who fear such a loss.

I live in San Diego and think it's great that SSLF has a conference here every year for widows.

I donated on behalf of my aunt who lost her husband in 2005.

I have a friend who has greatly benefited from the services provided by SSLF. I'm so glad they do such great work.

I try to support worthy causes and upon evaluating the works of SSLF, I found them to be quite inspiring. Keep up the good work.

My wife volunteered at the SSLF conference and came home with such a new perspective on loss and grief. It was eye opening for both of us.

I'm glad that I've never lost a husband, but I was very troubled after my mother died, so I'm grateful to SSLF for helping people who need it.

As a member of La Jolla Lutheran I was really pleased to learn that there is an organization to help grieving widows that meets in San Diego every year. This is definitely an unmet need.

Though I'm far too selfish to donate my time or money to any cause, I figured writing this review is the least I can do for a friend who I know helps an awful lot of people. Great job, Michele.

My daughter-in-law organized the first Widow Dash 5K. Her sister is an amazing woman who has helped so many. I just hope this organization can get enough reviews to win the competition because they deserve it.

I am in high school and I did a research project for school based on grief. I found SSLF online while I was searching for help options to list. I am glad that I did that project and learned about SSLF. I hope I never need it.

I came across the SSLF chat room while doing some internet searching the other day. I was really impressed with the level of support these women give to one another on a very personal level.

I happened to be staying at the Marriott last summer while the widow conference was going on. It was clear that the community formed through SSLF is helping a lot of women. I referred a friend as a result of my interactions with some women at the hotel.

I work at JNJ pharmaceutical research and development. We sponsored the Widow Dash 5K in 2009 and I'm not sure why we didn't in 2010. It was a great event and we really enjoyed helping a good cause as a team.

I lost a loved one and it really changed my perspective on life. I am glad that there is an organization to help those who lose spouses, which would be so very terrible. Thanks, SSLF.

My aunt is a board member of the SSLF and I'm very proud of the service that she is providing the community.

My mother-in-law lost her husband over a year ago and it has been incredibly difficult for her and the family. Michelle Dippel with Soaring Spirits has helped me understand what my mother-in-law was experiencing during the different phases of grief. It has been enlightening and I am better able to give her the emotional support she desperately needs. Visiting the web site gave me perspective on widows' thoughts and concerns, some of which I hadn't realized my mother-in-law also shared. I've passed the web site information on to a friend of mine who lost her husband.

I live in San Diego and was really impressed to hear that there was a conference going on to help those grieving the loss of a loved one. Bravo.

I have never felt more alive then when I was surrounded by widows. Amazing!

I won the first Widow Dash 5k, but was more impressed with the women I saw talking and travelling along their path to healing.

My father's best friend died a few years ago and his wife really felt alone and sad. She found hope through SSLF and felt less alone. Thanks for being such an amazing resource

I have a friend who is widowed and reads the blog every single day. It's been an amazing comfort to her. Thanks, SSLF.

My dear friend is a widow and an active participant in SSLF. Ever since she started participating in this organization her healing has been evident and I'm so grateful.

I attended Widows Rock the Holidays in NY and participated in the auction. I was very glad to have the funds go to a great cause.

Though I'm too far away to attend any of the events as a volunteer, I like to express my support for this organization through funds whenever possible. I hear stories from my sister-in-law about the events that she's planning and doing and I am very proud.

My sister is a board member for SSLF and spends so much time and effort selflessly supporting this cause. I help out any way I can and only hope that others can see what good they are doing.

A good friend of mine is involved with SSLF through her sister, who is the founder. I'm impressed with the help that they are providing to people who are grieving terrible losses and I want to support the cause.

My sister-in-law has been hiding out since my brother died 8 years ago, and nothing seems to get better. A friend of mine referred her to SSLF. It would be perfect for her, since she is ill and stuck at home, so a pen pal might do her good. I still can't get her to reach out, but I keep hoping she'll use this resource. I'm very glad to have something to recommend to her.

My oldest daughter lost her husband in a tragic accident 6 years ago. Since then she's been in need of the kind of compassion that only someone who has also experiences such a loss can provide. Thanks to SSLF, she has that.

I participated in Widow Match after losing my husband to cancer three years ago. At first I was disappointed, as my matches did not write me back, but once we were finally in touch I made a lifelong friend. Thanks for being such a great support system for widows, SSLF.

I donated to SSLF after viewing their website. I was glad to have done so, as I think they are very committed and interesting people.

My best friend is involved with this organization and I admire her commitment, so I agreed to donate last year. I was not disappointed, as their website highlights how much good they are doing for widows.

A friend of mine appealed to me to help out with her sister's organization. When I visited their website I was really impressed. I continue to support SSLF.

My wife and I drove down to San Diego from Riverside to volunteer at the widow dash 5K. It was well organized and so much fun to watch the widowed women enjoy each other. They obviously got a lot out of the experience.

When I first signed up to volunteer at the Widow Dash 5K I didn't know how many women would be there. These chicks were awesome. It's amazing to watch them bond and be strong together.

I was asked by a good friend to help out at the first widow conference in San Diego. I did it as a favor, but ended up being so touched and pleased to meet the women impacted by the loss of their spouse. They were inspiring and brave.

I went to a 5K and met a lot of cool people there. I think this organization has a lot of potential.

With my friends from JNJ I ran the 5K and had a good time.

When I ran the Widow Dash 5K in 2009 it was a great experience.

I came out to run the first Widow Dash 5K and was impressed with the organization.

I was a young widow of 42 who lost her husband in 4 months to pancreatic cancer. I didn't know where to go what to do to help overcome the grief. I was left to raise two kids and they needed me. I found soaring spirits and attended the first widows conference I never felt more loved and embraced. It gave me a place to just be myself and grieve with other who just "got it". Through the organizations web site I was able to link up to a host of resources to help my kids and me get through. I also met a group of bloggers through soaring spirits and they have become life friends...and Michele Neff is just....no words can describe her and her dedication to the organization and all of us! Outstanding organization that reaches and cares for so many and truly HELPS!

I have had the privilege of volunteering for Camp Widow, which is a two day workshop for widows and other widowed people; hosted by the Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation. Talk about an amazing event. The Foundation started Camp Widow in 2009 and I got to witness first hand the impact on those who attended. It was uplifting and inspirational and is an amazing resource for those struggling with the loss of a loved one to begin the journey of rebuilding their lives. Camp Widow is the brainchild of Michele Neff Hernandez - a widow of nearly six years who while grieving the loss of her husband, discovered that reaching out to other widows was a great resource. She launched Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation for that very reason - to serve as a resource and a place for those coping with loss to come for answers and hope. Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation is impacting the widowed community greatly and is making a difference in the lives of so many widowed people - on a national and international basis.

Michele was a guest speaker in my university class on Death and gave a wonderfully relateable and accessible presentation. Her leadership to this foundation reflects admirable creativity and initiative -- and a life-giving, fun-loving spirit -- that inspires. June O'Connor

I have known Michelle since she was a young girl. I am amazed at what a beautiful woman she has become. Her ability to use her grief and turn it around to help others is truly wonderful. I became a widow just 3 weeks after Michelle did and she is much further along on her journey. I attended the First Widow's Camp and met some amazing people. If it weren't for Michelle and her website and inspiration, who knows what most of us who are hurting would be feeling today.

This foundation is such amazing group of people who are able to help people suffering from the loss of someone they loved dearly. This foundation has the ability to help people when they don't know who to go do. I have read Matt Logelin's blog for almost three years, and I continually see all of the changes that he makes in other people's life. The grants and donations that go to families in need help them pay for diapers or cover bills, now that half of their income is gone. Not only do they help money-wise, but they are also a huge support group that people can go to to talk about how the loss has affected their lives.

I have know Michele Neff long before this part of her journey began. She was my children's babysitter. I always knew she was a very special woman and today I see that even more clearly. She took a tragedy and with God's lead she created a community of people who would reach around the world to embace the broken hearts of widows and help them begin the healing process. It takes an courageous person to be vulnerable to such loss and open her heart to others who are suffering. I beleive that this organazation can change our world. Thank yuo Michele for being a woman of vision and sharing your life with others.

After my very good friend lost her husband to an industrial accident, a little over two years ago, I never thought I would see her smile again. Raising two small children on her own, one just a year old, her wonderful life as she knew it was destroyed. She lost the love of her life and the wonderful father of her two children.

Luckily, she came to know about the Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation and actually moved from the Buffalo area to California knowing how much she needed to be part of this organization. My wonderful friend is now very involved with the organization and she has found a group of people who share a commonality. Although, it is a tragic commonality, it is a wonderful support group.

Although the pain of losing a loved one never diminishes, my friend no longer feels alone and I hear excitment in her voice and her beautiful smile has returned.

Thank you Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation!

This organization, started out of the grief of one widow has transformed into a place where widows can find other women dealing with the same issues of loss and healing. Although I am not a widow, I have recommended this organization to others dealing with the loss of a spouse. I believe SSLF was formed and continues to grow, because there was an unmet need for widows trying to make sense of their loss and find a way back to leading a joyful life.

After being widowed for two years, I was surfing the web in search of articles on the subject of widowhood and grieving. Considering myself a "younger" widow at the age of 48, I wasn't exactly sure of what I was searching for, but knew I would recognize it once I found it. The Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation caught my attention. I liked what I read on their website. These were women just like me! Like me, they were "younger" widows, ranging from their 20's to their early 60's. Nevertheless, they were all widowed much sooner than one would expect. The more I read about SSLF, the more interested and connected I felt. I decided to attend their conference that year. It was one of the best things I did to help me through my grief. I connected with real women and men just like me. No matter our socio-economic status, ethnicity, culture, sexual orientation, or religious beliefs we all stood on common ground, feeling welcome, validated, and loved. The workshops are relevant and practical. The social events are fun and postiive--not the pity parties one would expect. To date, I have attended two SSLF conferences and can honestly say that this is a group that supports and empowers widowers from all backgrounds. I plan to attend again as a participant to gain more support, but also to give support to those newly widowed. Their work is not limited to an annual conference, but is a 365-day endeavor of love and support through its website, extended events throughout the year, and even its Facebook postings. The SSLF has changed the face of widowhood. We are not elderly people dressed in black who have dropped out of life. The SSLF has given us the support, encouragement, and empowerment to have a voice, a purpose, and a life ahead full of possibilities.

Our daughter's husband died recently. She found SSLF a very helpful resource and attended their widow camp. These resources have helped her immensely as she works through her loss. Their daily messages give her something to focus on. The messages are very positive. I just can't find enough good things to say about this resource except that it has been very very helpful.

When my dear friend tragically lost her husband, she had support from friends and family, but nobody to relate to as a young widow. This group has given her that support and the community she needed to help her learn everyone grieves differently and to know that she can continue on with life and be happy. I know she looks forward to the annual Camp Widow and she is doing remarkably well for all she has been through, thanks to SSLF.

The SSLF is a wonderful organization! They are helping define and bring to light what a widow/widower looks like today. The community that they have formed is inspiring. I am proud to be a supporter of such a wonderful organization.

I've heard great things about SSLF and what it's done for those who have lost a loved one. I read 'Andrea Remembers' blog and her experience with this organization so clearly shows how important it has been to her. Michelle Neff Hernandez spoke at our local Rotary group and they were so impressed with her work. It's important to have support groups like this - thanks to all who are involved!

As it is said, "The proof is in the pudding". If one reads the history of the genesis of this nonprofit it becomes clear as to the tremendous value and truly "gift" this organization has become to countless men and women living with and processing the often overwhelming grief that one endures with the loss of a spouse. That one woman found this avenue of reaching out to others to live with and help process her own grief and to see how far reaching it has become and how it has grown leaps and bounds attests to its geat value for so many. It still amazes me that a small seed could grow to these numbers in such a short time; a mighty oak indeed! As I am a grateful participant in several support groups I have come to know that not only are they important in my life but vital to healing. While professional help can be an important part of a healing process, for myself, I have found that a community of support in my losses and struggles has been most helpful. We need those connections with others and no one can fully understand one's pain than those who have "been there" so to speak. Soaring Spirits has brought more than support through understanding and shared experience, it has provided participants with life long friends. What a gift!

Walking the widow grief journey with others "who get it" is a gift. While we would not choose this life, knowing that you are not alone and you can count on others that are walking a similar walk to help you along the way. Camp Widow offers guidance to assist with the journey and an opportunity to make new friends. THANK YOU TO SOARING SPIRITS!

I've watched a dear friend struggle from initially feeling appalled to be labeled a widow to building, supporting, and embracing an amazing community of women and men who have given each other the understanding, friendship, love, and support that only they could really give each other to help them live and thrive again. I witnessed many widows at the inaugural Camp Widow finding friends, support, and valuable information to help them along their way and to understand that they are not alone and that others have emerged from the inevitable grief surely changed, but OK, even better than OK! The sessions, concert, gala, and 5K events offered a variety of positive ways for participants to connect and learn....and ultimately to enjoy themselves and laugh as well as cry...together. It was an awesome experience for everyone involved. I wholeheartedly endorse the positive approach and philosophy of SSLF.

I attended Camp Widow 2010 less than a year after losing my husband. Although I was a bit overwhelmed, I found it comforting to be surrounded by so many others who have been through the same thing. It was an amazing experience organized by SSFL and I plan on attending again. I made friends there that I feel like I will have for a lifetime...

I attended the first Camp Widow in 2009 and found it inspiring and helpful. The one aspect of the weekend that stood out is that no one went unnoticed and walked alone. What a welcoming group. I have been a widow for three years and still gratefully read the web site and blogs.

Hello! I stumbled across this wonderful organization and I'm so glad I did! I became a widow at the age of 23 after being married for only 2 months. There were no groups, organizations, etc... at the time, and I felt very "foreign". I didn't fit in with my married friends, or my single friends. I just felt very alone. I think it's great to have a forum, an organization, and caring people to help you cope, understand, and feel "normal" again. By sharing and learning together, we will be strong! Thank you SSLF for being that rock for so many!!

I became a widow at 33 years old. I did not have any widow friends and felt alone. SSLF is an amazing organization! I will be going this year to Camp Widow and can not wait to meet all my new friends in person. I am looking forward to the workshops from people who understand what i am going through. I have a supportive family but having a place to turn to when i need help from people who really understand me is just amazing. I am so thankful.

I think what Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation has done with Camp Widow is phenomenal. I am the founder of another widow-related non-profit and can admire the love, strength and determination required to turn your grief into something positive that helps others. I'm so glad organizations like this exist!

There is no handbook on how to live after you loose the person you thought you were going to spend your life with. Being a young widow presents constant struggles. Having the support of family and friends is wonderful, but sometimes its hearing from those that have been through something so similar that gives you hope that you'll be okay, that its okay to feel pain and anger; okay to feel happy and loved again too.
I'm glad I've found this organization and look forward to being more involved.
My husband, Yuri, died on June 4, 2006 after completing a half Ironman triathlon. He was 28 years old. His death was sudden and unexpected. We were college sweetheart, about to celebrate our 1st wedding anniversary, and 11 years together. We had plans to buy a house and start a family. Our dreams were shattered.
In my healing, I have done a lot of work to get to where I am today. I have relied on inner strength and encouragement from others. I am not alone in this journey. It is a process, this healing we must do. SSLF is a wonderful resource.

I have referred a good friend to Soaring Spirits because of a dear friend who benefitted from the Camp Widow experience. In this day and age of technology and communication, we need to connect widows with other widows so they can share their stories and support one another. This is a tremendous resource for our worldwide community!

It has been amazing to watch this organization grow, the rate of which is a testament to the magnitude of the need for such a service. The widow population is one of many whose particular needs have historically been overlooked. It is good to know that this need is beginning to be addressed.

I have heard of this organization from family members. The wonderful work that is being done and how many people are being helped as a result of this organization. I often wonder what a gift this would have been for me when I had my loss in 1983. I pray that the SSL Foundation continue to be successful so that others can receive the benefits offered.

We have know Michelle for many years. She dealt her personal loss by offering up prayer and a venue to help others going through the pain only one who has experienced the loss of a loved one understands.

I have been honored to have referred SSLF to several who have lost a spouse or loved one.

This is an organization that is truly Heaven sent.

Marylyn and Gary Jones

When my husband died in 2008, I felt like I was the only one - the only young widow, the only one who understood this terror of raising two little ones totally alone, the only one who knew how other's often insensitive, yet wellmeant, comments bit. And in the small town that I live in, I was the only one.
But then, I stumbled across the Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation. From the kindness of others, I managed to fly to San Diego and meet so many other "only one"s.
I was no longer alone. It was still scary and new, but it was less lonely.
I don't know that I have laughed as hard or felt as supported as that weekend in San Diego since the death of my beloved husband.
This foundation fills a need, a void, where our families/friends/community is not able to.

I am a family therapist with over 20 years of experience. In my practice I've dealt with many families and individuals going through grief and loss. Other than small local support groups, it's been hard for them to find support from people who really know what it's like. Soaring Spirits has found a way to fulfill that need in several different ways. Camp Widow, Widow Match, and the Widow's Voice blog are the highlights of what Soaring Spirits has accomplished so far.

Although I live in a city there is virtually no professional service available here, nor a community for dealing with the grief after losing your spouse. This was the first place I found on-line that provides a community for those in need. I have not yet been able to attend Camp Widow, I hope someday to be able to attend, and grants make that a definite possibility. I can say though that without organizations such as this I would still feel absolutely isolated and alone- when newly widowed I started out saying that my grief is no more profound, than the next persons- but having others to talk to lets me know there is a light at the end of the tunnel, and a means of community when I have no-one close by to relate to.

This foundation is all heart! I volunteer and have a family member who is a big part of this foundation. I have seen first hand the healing relationships that are formed as a result of the dedication and vision of SSFL's founding members. This is a great cause and many people's lives have been enriched by their experiences with the many aspects of this organization, from Camp Widow to Widows Rock the Holidays to Widow Match! SSLF has so much to give and so many more widows to reach out to!

As a volunteer at the first "Camp Widow" I was able to witness the passion and sincere connection on both sides of the event - both the organizers and the participants. The love and commitment, the connection and desire to help, the trust and openness goes both ways in this organization and the benefits to the widows involved is immeasurable. I saw real, powerful friendships between people from opposite parts of the globe who connected through SSLF and came to Camp Widow.

When I was widowed in 2001 there was no Internet widow(er) support anywhere. As I was a young mother at home, the lack of support made a very lonely journey even more lonely.

I became aware of Camp Widow last year--too late to swing the conference this year, but I'm definitely on board for next year. However, thanks to their website and blogs, etc., I already have connected with more widowed people in the last 6 mos. than all the years prior to.

The work these folks are doing is truly irreplaceable.

I’ve been a speaker at Camp Widow for the past two years and plan to participate again in the summer of 2011. I greatly admire what the Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation and Michele Hernandez are doing to help widowed persons. It was from my own personal grief experiences as a widow that my life purpose evolved—helping other widows to be more self-confident, knowledgeable and secure about their money matters. I feel passionately about empowering my widowed sisters to take control of their financial futures. So, that’s what I do when I speak at Camp Widow. I greatly appreciate what Soaring Spirits has done, in providing a safe place for widowed persons to come together and mutually support one another.

Being involved in the planning aspect on the hotel side, we see many conferences come and go. The Soaring Spirits conference is one of the most inspiring groups we have had in the 25 year history of our hotel. So many emotions are evident, observing the tears, the smiles, the learning, the grief, the comradery of the attendees all in just a couple of days. The founder Michele and the organization has made a difference in thousands of lives, including mine. Positivity and strength are pouring out of San Diego, when Soaring Spirits is in town.

I am eternally grateful to Soaring Spirits for the work that they do. When one of my closest and oldest friends was widowed I didn't have any idea what to do or say. Neither did any of our friends (at 25 widowhood isn't terribly common) or even our older family members. Soaring Spirits was able to provide the advice and (most imporantly) the empathy and understanding I simply could not, no matter how much I wanted to. As much as I love her, Soaring Spirits was able to fill the hole I couldn't and I am so thankful for that.

When I was widowed last June, I was fortunate to come across Soaring Spirits within the first few months. It was amazing to be able to connect with others who lost spouses. It is very difficult to understand the loss of a spouse without experiencing it first hand. I am thrilled that Soaring Spirits has an event like Camp Widow and I am excited to attend this August. I also attended an event that Soaring Spirits held in NYC last December. It was amazing to meet Michele and see the strength and hope that she emanates. Soaring Spirits is hope, love and strength and a way for widows and widowers to connect, gather resources and heal.

When I found myself a young widow 15 years ago, there were very few services available to me. Widowhood was thought of something that happened just to "old" people. In actuality, there is a whole segment of society that encounters the loss of a spouse before turning 50. SSLF is instrumental in bringing this to the forefront. It serves a wide population and lets each one know that he/she is not alone on this difficult journey. It provides peer support through a Widow Match program, social media interaction, and workshop gatherings. Sharing one's story with those who have walked the same path is a truly healing activity. Bravo to SSLF for providing this forum.

This is an amazing organization. It's hard to list all the ways it has helped me and others, but I will just say I think it saved my life. When friends and even family deserted me when my life got some uncomfortable segments in it. I felt so very alone and figured it was just me and my dog from here on out. This group, who by the way, I have only met face to face with 1 member, has shown continuous love, support, understanding and made me think that maybe I am not insane. You become familiar with names, personalities, personal losses and how others have handled their grief, and you also see some blessed one's who are several years ahead of you and doing well. It is a wonderful perspective for anyone who has lost a loved one no matter what the circumstance. This group is my family.

I have followed the writings and the good deeds of SSLF and have asked the same question over and over. Why didn't this organization exist thirty four years ago when I lost my wife. Widows and Widowers are welcomed into SSLF and they are there to support them each and every step. Camp Widow what an awesome program. Guest speakers, work shops, all dealing with the journey that widows and widowers have been thrust into. My journey was so long and so hard if SSLF had been there it sure would have made my journey a whole lot easier.

As a friend of a widow, I have seen this organization help not only my widowed friend, but countless other widows who feel lost and alienated. The variety of tools that SSLF provides to widows is phenomenal. There is the facebook group, the blogs, the matching of widows with widow match, various helpful links, and the conference for widows to meet and have unity with others in their loss and recovery.

I became a widow 3 years ago, and I wish I had known about this organization at that time. I had the support of friends who cared, but the support, information and guidance this organization offers can only come from another person who has been in those same shoes. It's a club we don't want to join, but we all have the same bond. Now, 3 years later, I still find this organization helps me, and I have referred other widows as well.

I am unhappy to share that I have had the misfortune of being able to refer SSLF to a few of my friends. They were all happy to find them, and I was happy to be able to help them in some way. People on the outside never know how to help. You have help me to be a being friend in those situations. Just today I learned of a dear friend who just lost her husband. I will be telling her of SSLF.

Soaring Spirits is an amazing organization that helps widowed people and their family and friends. It creates networks to connect people who need support from each other, and it creates opportunities for sharing of experiences with a larger population on the web. It has helped me better understand the experiences of my friends and family members who have lost spouses.

There is nothing as compelling as a shared experience to help in the healing process after suffering overwhelming grief. When I found myself dealing with the loss of my husband and son, I turned to the internet to connect with someone out there who might understand what I was going through. Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation came as a recommendation and when I explored the site and connected on the Forum and then attended Camp Widow I knew that it was just what the doctor ordered. I believe that God specifically answers the widows plea by connecting us with other widows who have traveled the same road before us. SSLF and Michelle Neff Hernandez are the conduit for that vital connection.

I am a friend of three of the Board members of SSLF. The work and dedication I have seen and heard about that they put into the running of the Foundation is amazing. The help they provide to Widows and Widowers is truly inspiring. I can see that SSLF has been of immense help in aiding with the healing process and ensuring these people can lead more fulfilling lives. In short, SSLF provides a much needed service to a largely forgotten section of the community.

Nothing is more rewarding than helping those in need. At Camp Widow, the bond formed because of the hard work done by such an extraordinary foundation, is truly heart-warming. It is amazing to see such honest compassion shared between members of the widowed community. I would highly recommend this organization to all widows, new and old.

In my opinion, no one in the world has done as much for recent and struggling widows than Michele Hernandez and the Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation. I had the great pleasure of volunteering with the organization for two years, mostly doing Photoshop work for various events, and I have been able to see first hand how much the organization has helped grieving widows. For example, Camp Widow, which is held once a year, is a place where widows can get together and meet other people who understand exactly what they are going through. This idea was imagined my Michele, the founder, while she was grieving the loss of her husband; she brought her dream to life when she created the Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation, and the Camp Widow program.

After offering my services and many places, from church work to feeding the homeless, my best experience by far has been with Soaring Spirits. each and every person that I talked to while I was working on "Widows Rock the Holidays" last year would tell me about what an amazing and wonderful opportunity it was to know that they are not alone in their struggle and that they have met people who are going through the same tedious and sometimes painful grieving process. And that to me was a beautiful thing to behold, the sight of both men and women whom have lost their spouse, conversing and telling stories about what a fabulous person their significant other was, and what quality and greatness that this person brought to their life. With a beautiful message and a beautiful cause, Soaring Spirits is by far one of the most wonderful places I have worked at, and with one of the most exquisite and genuine founders that I have had the pleasure of conversing with.

On March 20th, 2009 my world changed forever when my beloved husband died suddenly, leaving me a widow and a single mom to our boys, then 10 & 12. Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation was one of the resources I found to help pull me up off the floor, literally. Connecting with the organization and the amazing people at SSLF online and then in person at Camp Widow has been truly healing. They helped me find the strength and courage to get back into my life and to realize that, even though I was dealing with a tremendous loss and life altering tragedy, I could survive and my kids and I would be ok. Being able to connect with so many other widows and Camp widow was truly a gift that I wish all widows could experience. Laughter and tears were both so healing. I hope that SSLF wins this grant so they can help so many other people in my situation see that there is light and life after the loss of a spouse.

5 years ago I watched as my step daughter in law lost the love of her life to cancer. Even though I wanted to reach out and hug her and tell her how much I loved her, I knew that nothing I could say would take away her hurt or that of her son. Over the past 5 years I have watch her change jobs, move to a different town and all the while raise her son and continue to live life with out the love of her life. So many times I have wondered how in the world has she does this? She writes a weekly blog and through her blog I have seen how. She has had her bad days, days she didn't want to get out of bed, days you hated the world, hated life in general, but through all of this she has managed to share this with other widows by her blog and Camp Widow. I have refered several of my widowed friends and even my own mother to camp widow. Camp Widow does make a difference and give support to those that have lost the love of their life, and I have seen and read where many of them have found happiness again and with the hope of helping others to realize that it is ok to love again and find happiness and to know they don't have to live the rest of their life alone because the love of their life is no longer with them. I find strength by reading each blog each day. Some days I cry and say oh I don't know if I could do what they are doing, I don't know if I could move on. I know through watching my mom and my step daugher in law that it isn't easy, and there are times you hate the world, God, life and anyone that you see that is happy. When some says move and move forward, they doesn't know what they are talking about, and they never will until they have lived in these shoes. I could not move on and put it behind me it would always be a part of who I am, and I see that and read that in each blog I read. They don't want to forget or let go they want to live with it and embrase those memories and find a fullfillment once again in their life. So I admire what these men and women share each and everyday with everyone. How they hurt, cry, hate, remember, love, smile, scream, kick, and embrase life as they walk each day knowing their loved one is not coming back. Soaring Spirits is amazing and they do make a difference just read the blogs and the comments. They have helped so many people, even me deal with family issues, death of my dad, and my step son. It has given me strength when I didn't realize I needed it. It has helped me to look at life in a different way, to apprecaite the little things, and be more accepting of even those that have crossed my path they I didn't get a good feeling from.

I participated in the Widow Dash 2009. I was amazed by the joy that could be felt that beautiful Sunday morning. Yes joy! No one could have guessed that this was a group that had been brought together by grief. I saw first hand the strength and hope found through the friendships formed through SSLF. I would recommend this group to anyone who has experienced loss in their lives. SSLF know that losing a loved one doesn't have to be an alone process. That is what sets this organization apart from the others.
I wish this organization much success in the future and hope it can continue to touch lives everywhere.

We lost my brother-in-law at a very young age to cancer. His wife and young son as well as his extended family was not prepared for all that is associated with such a loss. Watching this organization from its inception changed me. It provided my sister-in-law and her new sister widow an outlet and resource through a very dark and difficult time and beyond. I have watched this organization literally save my sister-in-law's life in a way that I couldn't no matter how badly I wanted to. Since then, when I hear of a loss I forward the website link to those grieving. It's direct and practical advice is invaluable to those not knowing what to do next. It's blogs and other forums provide an invaluable resource that help prepare others for the various stages of grief. And Camp Widow? There are not words that describe the relief those that attend must feel to see the faces of widows and widowers and the comfort that they understand each other and can learn from each other. Thank you Soaring Spirits!

July 23rd 2009 was the day my life changed forever. I was so alone and scared ... Finding camp widow was one of the best things that could have ever happend to me or any other widow in my eyes. It has opened my eyes to all the things that are there to help widows. More than all the councling I have had...family and friend support I have.... being involed with other widows in a social enviorment, has given me the tools to continue on with this journey... I think that Soaring spirits has opened a whole new way of looking at things and brought so many people together who would have never been able to find eachother...The people I have met because of this event, has changed my life to the point I want to keep going on and be there for the new ones to see there is hope too... Thank you Michelle for all you do!!! You are a life changer!!!!!!

My husband died in April 2006 and the first 'Camp Widow' was two and a half years later. So much different than a bereavement group...we helped each other just by being together and knowing that we 'get it'.

Lots of laughing and relating and hugging. The workshops gave support and information I'd never seen or heard anywhere before. All the volunteers are kind and caring, making the atmosphere a safe and loving place for a widow or widower to be. I know that in my own social group I am the only widow. This is true for so many, but at the sslf conference we are the same. We are a family in the best sense of the word.

This organization stepped in and helped me tremendously when I lost my husband suddenly and with little warning. I attended the conference last year and walked away with an invaluable experience of love, hope and promise. They are a great nonprofit and I'm proud to support them.

Lynee

I was astonished that the founder, Michele Neff Hernandez, had the strength to take such a tragedy and turn the loss of her husband into something that helps so many people. Many people will have to live through the death of a spouse at some point in their lives. This organization created a support structure like no other. Tough I am not a widow I am passionate about this organization because it was built from the ground up and filled a need out there in the world that not too many people would dedicate their lives to doing. This organization is a GREAT no profit!

When my husband past away suddenly ,I felt totally lost ,there was no one around me who had experienced what I had at this time in their lives. I was desperate to find something or someone who felt the way I did. This led to internet searches where I stumbled upon Soaring Spirits.
It has been a true blessing to me to be able to read about someone else who has been there and done that .I feel like I know everyone personally and that we are all connected by the same circumstances. I start each morning with them and sometimes if it wasnt for Saring Spirits I could not make it through my days..............

I lost my first husband to cancer when he was only 40. Our children were 10 and 13. It was indeed a dark time for me, as I navigated the unfamiliar territory of discovering who I was without my partner, best friend, soul mate, lover and father of my children. Finding Soaring Spirits, though years after my loss, helped me to conncet with others who had suffered similar losses. I found great solace in the knowledge that I was not alone. Grief is so isolating, even when you are surrounded by friends and loved ones who are supportive and caring. Now I find myself widowed once again--after a four year battle with congestive heart disease, my second husband recently succumbed. It is indeed conforting to have this wonderful organization to help me forge my way on this new journey of grief.

Soaring Spirits has been a great help to those in need. My dear friend lost her husband and best friend to cancer last year. They have two young daughters and, understandably so, my friend was more concerned with her daughters' emotional states than with her own.

Because I am friends with Michele and Barbara (not to mention many others involved in this Amazing organization!) I encouraged my friend to attend Camp Widow in San Diego.

She came back with a new perspective and said that she felt that she had regained a bit of her identity back. She said that it was comforting to find a group of people who understood her more than most people do, and that it was OK to be a widow. She had a bigger understanding of who she was and how she would proceed.

Being suddenly widowed.. you are in a state of shock. Being able to come to a forum 24/7 and reach out to or connect with someone else's story is very comforting.. No one wants to be in this situation in life.. but life happens.. there is no prep class for how to become a widow.. and deal with a loss.. this website has been very helpful and should be recoginzed for its merits

SSLF was formed a few years after my stepdad passed away. When my mom got involved with SSLF I saw what an impact it had on her. Being able to be within a group of people that have gone through a similar feeling of loss, sharing their stories, and knowing that there is someone else out there just like them, has really made a profound impact on my mom. She is able to tell her story, tell my stepdad's story, and help others. You cannot get much better than that. Having a group like this is priceless, the support you get, the people you meet... priceless.

Ever since the tragic death of my brother in a bicycling accident I have worried about my sister. This organization has helped her find purpose and understanding friends.

After my sister lost her husband and found a friend through widow match I donated to the cause.

I am a minister in San Diego and have heard from several patrons that the Widow Camp was a great opportunity for healing.

I attended Widow Camp and found so many wonderful women there. Thanks for all you do.

I used their website to find comfort at a bad time. Thank you for being such a great source of information and help.

My sister found a friend through Widow Match and is so happy. Thank you.

I will never be the same after attending Widow Camp in 2010. I met so many wonderful women and I'm grateful to feel like a part of a community of people who understand me.

SSLF is an amazing organization. No one wants to be a widow or widower. This is an organization made up of Widow's helping other Widow's. They know and understand what each other is going thru more than anyone else could possibly understand.

As a friend of Michele Neff Hernandez it was so very hard to see her going thru the loss of Phil. We couldn't help her thru the grieving process. So when she met another widow and they became friends it was obvious how they "got It" they understood each other. And from there the wheels started turning for Michele and SSLF was formed.

It is unbelievable how many widows SSLF helps. Widow Match was started because of the friendship Michele and Michelle (yes the same name) formed and were totally able to understood each others needs.
When she decided to start Camp Widow I was a little skeptical. But I have to say I volunteered last summer and there are no words to describe it. A camp for widows you would think would be a downer, but I came away from there feeling so uplifted. These men and women are amazing. Sure there were tears and times of grieving, but it was like they had a weekend to let themselves go, to relax, to share things that only another widow or widower could understand. There were workshops, books, a 5K run/walk, & there was laughter and dancing. It was amazing!

4 years ago a friend of mine read an article in the local newspaper about Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation. He found himself cutting it out and saving it...two weeks later I saw his wife at a park, he called on her cell, I said, "hello" and he told me he had heard about my late husband, Eddie - he had an article for me..the rest is history. That night I looked up SSLF, signed up for a Widow Match and began the journey of communicating with young widows like myself. My husband died on May 9, 2007 of a freak motorcycle accident at the age of 39. I was left to mother a four-year-old little girl by myself...Suddenly my life had turned completely upside down in a matter of minutes - no one will ever understand that unless they've been there. I can not thank Michele Neff Hernandez enough for what she has created and done for the widowed communtiy. I have attended Camp Widow two years in a row and plan to attend for as long as they will have me. Michele asked me to volunteer last year at the sign in desk - I couldn't wait to meet and greet new members arriving for the first time, to let them know that we "get it" and we are there for them. I witnessed tears and laughter, shaking and nervousness, empowerment, and love. I have since remarried just a few short months ago. I never thought I could be in love with two men at the same time, but I am and will forever be. I thank this community who no one ever wants to join, but without them, I would be lost in a life of confusion and despair...struggling to make it on my own. I have made some amazing and life-long friends because of SSLF and for that I am forever grateful.

I was widowed in March 2009 when I lost my husband suddenly to an undiagnosed acute form of leukemia. He was only 43. Our daughter was 5. In the ensuing long months, I found local grief support groups for widows, but most of them were for older widows in their 60's or 70's...I just didn't feel like we could relate. I wanted to connect with young widows who also had younger children at home. So, I Googled young widows and found SSLF. I read about the organization and the camp they put on for widows and I was intrigued. I found them on Facebook, "liked" their page then started friending and connecting with other widows. I started a Facebook friendship with another widow and we chatted about the possibility of going to Camp Widow together. We ended up being roomies along with another Facebook friend and it's the best thing we could have done for ourselves! We shared our stories, met other young widows, attended helpful workshops, and laughed and danced the night away at the dinner banquet. In the spirit of competition, they even held a 5K Widow Dash for us the last morning...so fun! I will be forever grateful for the new friends I met that weekend and the camaraderie and kinship we shared with one another. Michele Neff Hernandez, SSLF's founder, has done a phenomenal job reaching out to these young widows through the Widow Match program and Camp Widow by giving them practical tools and providing an environment filled with compassion and hope. There is a light throughout this long journey of grief and that beacon is SSLF! I'm already registered for Camp Widow again this year! Thank you!

When Terry passed away I felt all along I punched in my search engine for widows and help etc.. I have used this site and thru it have met so many widows and we are now facebook friends we have a group of us that encourage each other .. sites like this are so important because many times so many friends and family members leave you alone after your spouse dies and you are left with out your income your way of life and even anyone to talk to . I would love to attend camp widow sometime but I cannot afford it
it is nice that this site is trying to help people to get there and some day I may
I beleieve it would help so much in my grieving and healing process .. I love the site
thank you for the people who have developed it . without the friends here I might not be making it . some days are so hard to get thru
Sara Castle

I found Soaring Spirits 13 days after losing my husband of 19 years. Every time I visit the sight I am reminded that I am not alone. The kind and loving souls who staff this sight have become a priceless lifeline for me. I go there almost every night. It helps me to see how they reach out to help strengthen others in this terrible painful time.

Our good friend Michel lost her husband Phil 5 years ago. It was so hard to see her going thru all the phases of grief. She searched & searched for help to know what was normal in this process but couldn't find the help she was looking for. So being the person she is she set out to help others & herself at the same time by starting the Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation. I am continually amazed at how many people have been helped thru this organization.

I am the friend and co-worker of a widow helped by Soaring Spirits. My friend and co-worker and I have known each other for several years, and our current jobs have us sitting together, alone, for 6.5 hours a day, Monday through Friday. I spend more waking hours with this friend than I do with my own husband.

When my friend lost her husband, I was heartbroken for her, obviously. But the worst part about losing him was that for a while there, we lost her too. I don't want to go into the details of the situation, and frankly they're not necessary, but believe me when I say that my friend was not herself for months.

Then, thankfully, she found Soaring Spirits. She found people she could talk to who understood what she was going through. Through this foundation, she found hope. The change was dramatic. I watched her slowly come back from rock bottom.

It is abundantly clear to me that this foundation provides the vital service of community for widows. It provides a lifeline for people who have otherwise lost theirs.

Every day I see how SSLF reaches into the lives of people that others can't fathom.
Every day I hear of the tragic torment people deal with in the loss of a partner.
Every day I hear of a family that has a new light for their way forward.
Every day I hear work of angles.

I love them.

My 43 year old husband died 3 1/2 years ago when I was 38. Three months later, my daughter went off a 20 foot cliff on an ATV and nearly died... nearly lost her leg... has had 8 surgeries since. A year later my 16 year old son's best girlfriend died. And a year and four months after that my daughter (who was then 19) lost her boyfriend/fiance who she'd been living with for nearly a year.
The widow friends I have made this past year through facebook and organizations like SSLF have made this journey so much more bearable than it was before.
And now... through SSLF ... my daughter and I are going to be able to go to Camp Widow this summer. We would not have been able to do it without their help. I expect this trip will be a great experience for both my daughter and I... but I am especially looking forward to her being able to meet women as young as she is who are widows or have lost their significant other... so she can talk with someone who "gets it". Thank you Michele and everyone at SSLF! There aren't words enough for my gratitude!

I was widowed at only 48. My husband was 29 days shy of his 50th birthday. He died 6 days before he was to walk our daughter down the aisle. I didn't know anyone my age locally that had been thru what I was going through. All the other ladies in my shoes were, for a lack of better words, Grannies! I found Soaring Spirits about 7 months into my journey. Michelle called me one night and told me I needed to come to camp. I had never gone anywhere to place where I knew no one. But, by the time I left San Diego, I had lots of friends. Friends who knew about the path I was on, sisters who shared my grief. I really do believe Soaring Spirits saved my life. I would, and still do, get so blue, but I check in with my other sisters and find so peace in my sorrow. I miss my husband every minute of everyday. He was my best friend since I was 17 years old. But Soaring Spirits teaches me how to go on with my life. Even though my husband died, I had a life to live. At our last camp in 2010, Michelle told us about the rock wall. I think about it alot, when I am having a bad day. I realize she and others are ahead of me, reaching down to help me up. Just as I am reaching down to help others out of this hole. Thank you Soaring Spirits for all you have done for me and the others that walk this journey.

I was widowed at the young age of 34 with two young children. I searched for help via grief groups or counseling, and searched online for support. I found Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation and was connected with other young widows; people who really understood what I was going through. This organization brought me together with about 200 other widowed people when I attended the 2010 Camp Widow: a national conference for widowed people. There is nothing so comforting as to learn from those who are also on this journey or ahead of us on this difficult life path. I am very thankful this organization exists so that I am able to connect with other widows.

Great organization that has helped my family in uncounted ways.