Skamania County Council On Domestic Violence

This place is a heaping pile of bull crap not only did they collude and help to enable and guide illegal actions but they left the person the real victim completely helpless and bear out there without any knowledge to what rights he had not all victims are females females are the aggressors just as much as males in my case I begged them for help I sent them messages texts pictures and proof as it was happening begging them to not just help me but to help my ex and my kids who was at the time I thought confused or just emotional to the point where she was lashing out but it turns out that she knew exactly what she was doing and with the purpose for gaining an advantage in family law not only that but they helped her and guided her giving her the knowledge of how to fill out the forms for court falsely and fraudulently not even listing that we shared children in the wrong courts that didn't have jurisdiction as well as knowing that they had not even been down here long enough for this County to have jurisdiction over our children I have a friend who is also a member of domestic violence who specifically told me that she witnessed my ex inside of their office stating things that were just obscene she told me that she went over to them and told him about how my ex was spending time with me and how we were getting along and how I was just working on her car doing everything I could to help her and they leaned over and told her we know everything and yet they still helped to strip my rights as a father illegally and to abusively litigate me in court helping two separate people to try and file orders against me regardless of the fact that her first trial or court case was completely thrown out of court sitting right there next to her as she was accused of perjury two separate times by the judge even finding out things themselves that she had told them she didn't do because I witnessed them lean over and ask her I thought you didn't do that I was a victim on two fronts my sister was throwing hot soup in my face while I was sleeping extorting me for money and trying to have me arrested when I would not give in or accept the abuse anymore and then at the same time my ex who had me come down here from where I was living with the false pretenses of being able to be in my child's life tricked me and then enticed situations with holding my child for up to 7 weeks at a time having people send me false emails from fake email addresses that were threatening and horrible moving without telling me where my daughter was going I gave up my job my home and everything to be down here and to do everything I could for her she talked to me for months after her first order had failed and then after the 6 month period of being down here past she waited and took her chance on another order this time in Superior Court except for this time she listed that there was no previous litigations or court cases between us and then told the judge that I had called her over 300 times in a two week period but I have showed my lawyers and proven without a doubt that I called her not 300 times not even close it was a total of about 40 times and that was because the police had told me to try to communicate and to try to re-establish a connection with my daughter there was about four times where she had done or said something that got me upset or worried and scared about my child or hurt that you know like I said being emailed horrible things where they literally stated her name in them at times that no one could have known unless they were advised by her or even given them my email address they wouldn't have known unless giving it by her the judge told us in court to talk about the well-being of our child and in court he said the mental and psychological health and things pertaining to the child because I physically stood up and told him there would be an issue in the relevancy what she thinks and what I think I tried talking about my daughter and the things that she was telling me which I have plenty of witness to attest to and she not one single time try to communicate with me in a helpful or collaborative way in which to help my daughter deal with the struggles that she was having instead one single time she replied and basically claimed b******* even though I have messages and texts that prove that the things that I was saying or something that was bothering our child and then every other time she just completely f****** ignored me ignoring our child neglecting her called me in saying that I was violating my order when I wasn't not even trying to ask me why when or where I was talking about it or what it had to do with our child she had no intention of trying to do anything as a co-parent it was a plan all along even her friend in court lied and tried saying that I violated the temporary order she had against me before her case was thrown out lying and stating that I had gone to the upper parking lot by her car at A&J where she worked which I have never been in that f****** parking lot in my life they stated in all their declarations and petitions things that contradict each other they both stated that my ex was at the house one time when I went to find out what was going on with my child because I kept going to an empty parking lot just to pay people money take me to an empty parking lot and then an open court under oh she stated not only did my ex know who was sending me the emails from the fake email address but she also stated that the time in which I went to her house where they talk about in their declarations as her being there she wasn't even home she had already moved another lie more perjury it is unbelievable and then I find out she's stating in a private format in which I am not allowed to see which is extremely f***** up because how can you defend yourself against something that you not allowed to know she states against me things that are absolutely obscene and untrue spreading rumors across town this organization has helped to victimize a real life abuser reactive abuse is a term used to describe somebody that lashes out after constantly being attacked or abused or manipulated by another person maybe they should look it up since they are an organization on abuse I am not an abuser I am a f****** victim my child told me she was afraid of her mom her mom has hit me slapped me while I was holding my child broken glass doors into the side of my face chased me through the house terrorizing me and not leaving me alone as I tried to escape our fights or arguments and then talking trash behind my back and making secret plans to take away my children ripping up the acknowledgment of parentage form that I signed at my daughter's birth and then putting in one with only her name on it making contracts with me and deals stating things that would protect us in case someone got upset letting her make all the goddamn rules and then when she wanted to she completely broke in annihilate at all contracts withheld my child and then enticed situations to make me react so I reacted and then took those reactions and then cut and chop them up again after a second time to make me look like I was a bad guy I was scared I was helpless I was terrified for my child I was supposed to be a member of domestic violence too yet they send me to log app and have him act as my advocate to which he absolutely does nothing helps me in no way gives me no options or resources to deal with the things that she's doing and then after sending them the proof in the beginning about how she is either creating a situation or misunderstanding or something you know whatever is happening begging them for help instead they tell me stop sending us pictures stop sending us proof or we will submit harassment charges against you as well and then not only that but they tell me that I'm the conflict what an organization helping people is an amazing thing but helping people do wrong is the worst kind of thing they only care about their budget they only care about how many people they have in their program for government counts and organizational handouts all we are is just a number to them we don't matter they don't care and they have no heart I have not seen my daughter and who knows how long she could be going through all kinds of things she went for being the happiest little girl I've ever seen to constantly talking about how she was depressed or scared or worried or how people were going into her f****** bedroom I hate these people they are not saviors they are villains disguising themselves and helping one out of 10 people in order to keep their reputation way to go domestic violence