Kaitys Way

Kait's Way is an amazing organization on an important mission to make the world a safer and healthier place for teenagers! Get on board!

This organization does amazing work in the community for prevention and promoting healthy relationships. They are dedicated, helpful and committed to helping others in teen dating situations and getting resources out to the community. This non-profit raises awareness on teen dating violence all throughout Arizona and in the country. I appreciate the hard work and dedication they have to make a difference in people's lives and brining awareness, support and understanding of healthy relationships for generations to come.

Kaity's Way provides critical services in our community! The message delivered by Bobbi Sudbury, Executive Director, and her team are sorely needed in today's world. It seems that everywhere we turn we see hateful speech, hateful actions, and hateful relationships. The media is filled with it. Yet, Kaity's Way teaches a better way. Through the message of PEACE (Peace, Empathy, Acceptance, Caring, Equality) there is a way to coach young adults to develop healthy relationships. Kaity's Way provides that much needed coaching. Sadly, some have already entered into unhealthy, potentially dangerous relationships. Kaity's Way provides guidance and resources in how to appropriately leave those relationships. The services that Kaity's Way provides will inevitably result in healthier individuals, healthier families, a healthier community, and a healthier society.

A great help to the community. Helped me live a better life.

I recently had a similar situation happen to my niece and I wanted to help get the word out about the importance of knowing the signs and what to do for these teens. I decided to volunteer and I have been met with such acceptance. Getting to know every one involved and seeing the success of reaching out to teens is just amazing. Thanks for helping me help you.

This is a MUCH NEEDED organization and is intended to help save lives. Domestic violence is rampant in our society, you hear about it almost everyday on the local news. It happens in our schools, in our homes, and in our neighborhoods. You do not have to look far to see a battered adult or a battered child. Due to a terrible, unthinkable tragedy, one awesome mother, Bobbi Sudberry, gathered all the anger and grief she had inside and decided to fight back! She is fighting back by educating women and children everywhere on what domestic violence is, what the early warning signs are, how to break the cycle of violence and leave before it is too late. As a volunteer with Kaity's Way, we participate in schools, community events, conferences, anywhere we can reach the most vulnerable and share Kaity's story. Bobbi presents a history of Kaity's life, how beautiful and successful she was, how much she was loved, and how she was murdered right after graduating from high school. We always have brochures and printed material available for all. The goal is to educate everyone about the early warning signs, how they can escape the relationship safely, where they can go, and where they can seek help. We are here for anyone in need.

I first learned about Kaity's Way when I was in high school but it wasn't until I came to ASU that I got to here Bobbi present to my class. She shared her daughters emotonal story with us and was so willing to talk to us about domestic violence in relationships. Bobbi is incredibly passionate about this organization and empowering other women and girls to be aware. After listening to her I felt so much more passion for the fight against domestic violence. I think Kaity's Way is an incredible NonProfit Organization that fully reaches it's purpose and mission.

I did not know much about Kaity's story until her mother Bobbi came into my class and spoke. You could sense her passion in her words that she was hungry for the fight against domestic violence. In hearing Kaity's story, I not only felt for her and her family but the many women out there struggling with the same problem. I am happy to hear that Kaity's story has impacted the way it did, especially it's impact on the law.

Bobbi came into our class and told her family's story in regards to domestic violence. It was very eye opening to the realities of intimate partner violence at any age and what could happen if young teens are not aware of the severity of abuse. She described how she did not get any help from local police or services so decided to do something about it when her daughter was killed. Now there is a law that has to do with dating relationships and protection from abusers. It was very inspiring to see what Bobbi is doing with her tragic story and I appreciate her taking the time to share her knowledge and give us advice.

Bobbi presented to a group of foster youth between the ages of 16 to 21 through our ogranization Independent Living Program with Arizona's Chidlren Association. Bobbi's presentation captivated the youth's attention and provided them with much needed information on dating violence and healthy relationships. Our youth reported that they enjoyed the presentation and some even reported recognizing warning signs in their own dating relationships. This presentation is great for all ages, but specifically for young adults learning how to have healthy relationships. We really appreciate Bobbi sharing her family's story to help prevent other families from having similar losses.

I recently hd the privilege to volunteer with Kaity's Way. The focus of this great group of people from all walks of life is amazing. They truly honor Kaity in their efforts to educate the public about teen dating violence and teach ways to build healthy relationships. Kaity’s Way has grown from a statewide into a nationwide program over their short four-year existence and they couldn't have done it without their volunteers and contributors! Their great energy, dedication, and examples of PEACE in their everyday lives is truly inspiring.

Great presentation to my high school class. My students were deeply engaged with Kaity's story and learned essential information about healthy vs. unhealthy relationships. Valuable!

As a former victim of dating violence, I wish that I had the opportunity to listen to Kaity's Story. I feel that listening to her story and the message that comes from it can truly impact people and change lives. Kaity's Way is a the only program I have seen that helps the community recognize the signs of a violent relationship, and advice on how to protect yourself if you are a victim. Not only that, this organization allows people to realize what kinds of relationships are healthy because oftentimes it is difficult to determine what kind of relationship you are in.. until it is too late. Thank you Bobbi, for telling Kaity's Story along with the organization's effort and passion to putting an end to teen dating violence!

The only way we can stop domestic violence and negative relationships, is by spreading awareness throughout our community just like Kaity's Way is doing. This organization is wonderful and I hope that it will have a very long future through donations and community involvement and support.

I believe that Kaity's Way non profit organization is a great eye opener to young girls and boys over the country. It lets young ladies know that its not okay to have an abusive boyfriend and lets guys know that girls now are paying attention to the warning signs of these abusive relationships. I like the fact that on the website it gives red flags about what could be going on and gives girls an idea of what to look out for. it also has a place to go if you need the help or a place to give help to these girls that found themselves in this predicament. I think that this organization will help many young girls and guys realize the rights and wrongs of a healthy relationship no matter how young or old they are. Keep up the work I know many of us are thankful you are there.

I feel that Kaity's Way is a great organization. It lets young girls know that abusive boyfriends are not good. To ask for help if the boyfriend is being abusive, jealous, manipulative. Kaity was a very young girl; a future ahead of her and it was destroyed by someone who was angry and jealous. This organization is eye opening to those girls who do not understand fully that if a boyfriend is acting abusive and jealous it might have a bad ending. Kaity's organization has a future ahead of it.

Ive read Katy's way after learning about troubled relationships in my crj 204 class. My best regards go out to her family and friends who have lost a sweet young lady to troubled relationships. I hope through donations and volunteering. We as the general public can prevent this from further happening.

This story is a tragic one that could happen to anybody. It was a very touching story that made me think about how careful I need to be. The story told by the mother is very emotional and it has helped many others.

Kaitys Way is an excellent movement that has started here locally in Arizona. Its mission is something hold power and meaning to many that have been silenced. Unfortunately many that have had to deal with any type of family violence-- many of their stories are unheard either because they are too scared, arent aware that there is help. And the times where when we do here about this violence, its too late becasue they are dead. Kaitys Way is a start of a positive movement that should celebrated and recongized. Its work is great! Having people like them is a way for the community to help those who have been silenced.

This presentation was very interesting and a huge eye-opener. This Presentation opened my eyes to a lot of the red flags and provided me with a lot of helpful information.

We are often ignorant about our surroundings and Kaity's Way does an excellent job at reminding the public that incidents like that of Kaity's do occur and in order to avoid them, it is important for everyone to get involved; the families, law enforcement, friends and so on. Hearing about Kaity's story definitely opened my eyes about the unpleasant existence of abuse in relationships and I am now more aware of those around me.

Kaity's Way is a very important nonprofit organization that should be recognized as such. Kaity's story was a heart breaking story but it can help other girls in the future. This story gave examples of what signs to look for in an abusive relationship. I think this organization is doing a fantastic job raising awareness about these type situations that are very common and happen daily when it comes to dating violence.

Although I have not experienced such saddness, I can only provide empathy for such a heart wrenching story. What happened to this innocent girl is beyond words. It really breaks my heart because I have never heard of this story before or anything of its nature. Kaity's Way is a very important nonprofit organization, especially to the kids in their preteen years.

Kaity's way presenation was a good presentation to show the issue of dating violence. Kaity's personal story was a heart wrenching story that does give examples on what to look for in abusive relationships. Kaity's family is a strong family and is very strong to be able to share their story to educate others. With more people hearing this presentation it will hopefully in the future show the importance of healthy dating relationships for everyone.

Although this story was very sad and unfortunate, I think this organization does a phenomenal job raising awareness for situations that are becoming more and more common it seems. This story can be used as a model to many females who do not understand the actual possibility of partner violence, and will hopefully change or even save the lives of many individuals.

Thank you very much for coming into class and speaking with us. I feel that the message does reach out to all different ages of people. It was a real in depth example of how a relationship can turn south in a bad way really fast. Kaity s way is an amazing program that i feel touches the lives of other and help reduce domestic violence. I really appreciate Mrs. Sudberry for coming into the classroom to speak to the class. It must be a very difficult thing to deal with.

I think the point made by the awfully story is a great one and was and still is needed. The law that was put into place is a great one and will be used in future cases. I am informed and will inform others of this law.

I really liked the personal story that was shared to the public. Because it made women more aware of assault, and I feel as though many women can relate to what happened to Kaity. Even though Kaity's situation was a very tragic one many women can learn from her story and I believe her family as well as herself saved many women's lives because of the awareness campaign that they have established.

Thank you Mrs. Sudberry for the privilege of having you as our guest speaker at Downtown ASU for CRJ494: Juvenile Justice.
I am not proud to say, “I was once a Victim.” I had so many; many red flags…that I also tried to justified for his wrongdoing; emotional and physical abuse. What a fool I felt knowing what I know now. I was so blessed to have someone (Phyllis Lovelace) in my life to guide me and encourage me to get out of that horrible bondage I caught myself in for three years. Today, I had gained a deeper insight on Katy's Law that I did not know before. I am inspired by your contributions and powerful message. Thank you again!

Kaitys way presentation during my criminal justice class really opened my eyes to the reality of domestic violence against teens. So many of the signs that Ms. Sudberry went over are usually brushed off as just being teenage drama. However through Katys way she is showing everyone not to just brush of signs of a problematic relationship as just teenage drama. I believe that Katys way will spread their message to many people throughout the valley and eventually the nation.

I hope that Kaity's Way and Bobbi Sudberry can continue to inspire the world around us about how REAL and scary these situations can come to be. I personally know people who have gone through situations such as this, minus the severity that Kaity went through. I think it's amazing what this family is doing to help others who may be going through a similar situation as Kaity was, to prevent this from happening again in the future. It should also educate and help young adults and teens to prevent themselves from going through an event as unfortunate as this. Her story and its impact has had an effect on my life, and I pray that it does to others.

Thank You,
Anthony

Listening to your daughter story, and how it changed the way things are today is very touching. I'm from Los Angeles, and a couple years ago I lost one of my friends, due to her boyfriend. Just knowing that Kaity's way is able to help others, from being in those types of situation and getting the right type of help is amazing. Your family id doing a great thing, and I thank you.

Unfortunately I’m not a stranger to violence within relationships, well... more along the lines of crazy, controlling behavior from friends and family members that they implement onto their girlfriends or wives. I thought that the presentation by Bobby, I believe that’s the mothers name, was very informative in the sense that it brings to light the characteristics of an abusive relationship and how these characteristics can lead to serious consequences.

Kaitys way presentaion was a real in depth example of what dating violence can escalate to regardless of the age. Unfortunately the life of young girl was taken in order for people to realize how severe this issue can be. Kaitys Way presentation was very inspiring, really opens your eyes to relationship violence. Personally this is a tragedy that should have been averted and is very upsetting another innocent person is gone in order to create a law or policy. Kaitys Way presentation was one of the most inspiring presentations I have ever witnessed it was something diffrent and actually very hard to believe but its true.

Kaitys way presentaion was a real in depth example of what dating violence can escalate to regardless of the age. Unfortunately the life of young girl was taken in order for people to realize how severe this issue can be. Kaitys Way presentation was very inspiring, really opens your eyes to relationship violence. Personally this is a tragedy that should have been averted and is very upsetting another innocent person is gone in order to create a law or policy. Kaitys Way presentation was one of the most inspiring presentations I have ever witnessed.

Kaity's way came and talked to our Juvenile Justice class. Her mother was the speaker and really touched our class. She is a strong women who has made such a difference in the domestic violence world. Our class learned her daughter's story as well as the warning signs to look for. You really felt the emotion in the room, and was one of the best experiences I have been a part of.

My teenage daughter and I volunteer for Kaity's Way together. It really gives us a chance to talk openly about dating and the importance of establishing appropriate relationships and boundaries. We learn a lot by listening to Bobbi's stories and advice. I know my daughter applies that information in her own relationships and helps to share it with her friends.

I have been working with Circles of Peace, a Santa Cruz County domestic violence treatment program, in a teen violence prevention program at Desert Shadows Middle School in Nogales, Arizona. Bobbi Sudberry volunteered to come and speak to the seventh and eighth grade students. Her presentation was very moving and extremely beneficial to the students. Bobbi held their attention for more than an hour and a half. She brought brochures about teen violence and information about Kaity's Way. She was truly inspirational. Mary Helen Maley

I have been a volunteer for Kaity's Way for about 2 years now. This organization is very dear to my heart. I'm a mom to 4 children and 12 grandchildren. I have 5 teenage grandchildren. Because of Kaity's Way, I've been able to share the warning signs for my grandchildren to look for.

Bobbi Sudberry is a very special lady. She has so much compassion. She truly is concern for our teens of today and teens of tomorrow. She does not want what has happen to her daughter happen to another teen. She is trying to reach as many teens as she possibly can. As a volunteer, I try to help her in any way I can.

I have been to several events where Bobbi has been the guest speaker, tell Kaity's story. I have done the domestic walk, yard sales, etc.

I feel very honor to be a part of this wonderful organization. I will be by Bobbi's side for a very long time. I'm truly bless to have Bobbi a part of my life.

If you want to volunteer your time, this is the organization you want to be a part of.

Mrs. Bobbi Sudberry came to Douglas High School in Douglas, Az. The response from our students and staff far exceeded our expectations. It made everyone aware of the progressive, subtleties of dating relationship abuse. Our students were touched by Bobbi's personal testimony of a real life tragedy. Bobbi gracefully presented and brought our students into her daughter's world as well as her own.

I recommend this program to any high school. It will make a positive difference regarding how students view themselves and others in dating relationships. This program has made a difference at Douglas High School. Thank you, Ms. Sudberry, for your courage in the midst of your personal grief.
Sincerely,
Mr. Ralph Schneider
Principal

Bobbi came to Ajo, her home town and told her story to every organization that would lisen in a three day period this winter. The inner strength she pulled on amazed me because this is a very emotional story. It is a tear jerker and all I could think of was what a wasted life and at that time there
was nothing the family could do. Now, because of Bobbi there is, thank god. I help out at the local St Vincent thrift shop two days a week and was so suprised and glad to hear parents talking about Kaity death and they heard it from their teen children. The signs to watch for and the help a teen can get now is all thanks to Bobbie and her three years of hard work changing the law.

As a college instructor, former probation officer and someone who has worked and trained in the criminal justice professionals for over 20 years on violence against women issues, I have to admit that the impact and message in Bobbi's presentation was extremely powerful. It not only touched my heart but there were many lessons learned by my students. They learned not only the risks and dangerousness of domestic violence but by Bobbi's example, the perseverance and accomplishments of making a difference.

Many discussions were generated in class about Bobbi's presentation and students clearly were impacted on many levels. As these students pursue their criminal justice careers down the road, it is my guess that they will not forget the messages sent in this presentation. Thanks you for your efforts and commitment! You are leaving many footprints along your path as your share this important message.

I have had the pleasure of having Bobbi Sudberry representing Kaity's Way provide presentations at Paradise Valley Community College for all of my classes. As an Education faculty at PVCC I know first hand that these students are especially vulnerable to dating violence, plus as future educators themselves, they will need to know the signs that their students might be in an abusive situation.

Ms. Sudberry has been coming to my Marriage and Family, Cultural Diversity in Education and Parent Child Interaction classes for the past 6 semesters and each time she has made an impact on students' lives. Each semester she helps students who would not have otherwise found help.

Because of her/Kaity's Way's presence on campus, students have recommended her to the Counseling Department at PVCC and Bobbi will now be providing important training and information to the entire campus.

I first heard one of the volunteers speak at our local school in 2009 to youth in our rural community and saw the impact she made. The youth were really listening to what she had to say and they also had input. I then heard Bobbi Sudberry speak at the Arizona Victims Assistance Acedemy in May 2010 and she had a powerful presentation that I feel our youth and parents need to hear, not just once but be reminded of what they can do if they are in a situation that leads to violence. Bobbi is able to adapt the presentation to the audience she is presenting to at the time.

Kaity's Way is an extremely beneficial organization providing awareness and education on the prevention of teen dating violence. Coming from the heart, founder Bobbi Sudberry tells Kaity's story and makes a huge impact on youth and adults alike. She covers warning signs and other important topics that people need to know about concerning domestic and dating relationships so that hopefully others can heed the red flags and prevent these occurrences from happening in the future. Her work is a heartfelt remembrance of a life lost.

Because of the prevalence of abuse in our society, the work of Kaity's Way is of great importance. This organization is made up of very dedicated individuals who work hard and believe in their mission. Bobbi and Kaity's Way have accomplished a lot, including but not limited to helping with the passage of Kaity's Law, and they have more yet to do. It is a pleasure working in collaboration with Kaity's Way.

Kaity's Way is a grass roots organization on its way to building a solid infrastructure. I've been meeting with their ED since October and have been impressed with the steps she has taken to guide the growth of Kaity's Way in a strategic manner. The mission is solid and there is passion behind it but that isn't what makes an organization sustainable. The steps Bobbie Sudberry and the Kaity's Way Board are taking will create the kind of foundation for this organization to continue to make significant impacts in its community.

Bobbi Sudberry and Kaity's Way are true inspirations to professionals like us, she reminds us of our mission and engergizes our passion for activism . The clients of Faith House have been moved by Bobbi's dedication of the time she has spent to share Kaity's story.

Thank You,

Faith House
(Domestic Violence Shelter)

Due to the personal courage of Bobbi Sudberry, and the organization Kaity's Way- lives have been forever changed at The Catholic Charities DIGNITY Diversion Program. We were honored and grateful to host such a thought provoking and professional presentation for our staff, representatives from other agencies and clients

Bobbi presented a beautiful slideshow while telling the story of her teenage daughter Kaity, who was murdered by an unstable and possessive boyfriend. With a quiet sense of grace and dignity she brought Katy’s memory to life; she made sure we all “knew” her Kaity. She navigated us through her daughter’s relationship with a disturbed young man; from an innocent beginning to the isolation, the subsequent “red flags” in the relationship, and then to the unthinkable - Kaity’s murder.

All those in attendance, were deeply touched by Bobbi’s presentation. Despite, the tragic ending we all left with feeling of empowerment and awareness of safe teen dating, domestic violence issues, and the laws concerning them.
We welcome Kaity's Way back quarterly so many more can have this moving experience