I am an author. During research for my first book, I came across information for Honor and Remember. Since I am also a military/veteran's advocate (as well as a Vet, myself) I thought about this organization's mission on a very deep level. I was selected to be a guest speaker at a little school's Veteran's Day assembly on the Arkansas Delta. I endeavored to challenge this school in a :Collecting Coins" campaign to sponsor a flag for a Gold Star family. The community responded tremendously and within the space of a year, this school collected funds for two flags; one of which is on display at the school in a case in the main hallway. The community helped this school present it's first flag to a local family who had recently lost their son to the war in Afghanistan. Since that first flag, the school has presented Honor and Remember flags to two more families and anticipates this action to be an annual event. They have a wonderful Veteran's Day ceremony every year which is highly attended by everybody in the community. This little town on the Delta shows it cares about its veterans and I am proud to have been the one to introduce Honor and Remember to the school. Everybody helped make the flag donations happen, and they can be proud to feel a part of something so big.
Honoring our brave fallen heroes with compassion, respect, and love is what makes Honor and Remember one of the absolute best nonprofit organizations. To let families and friends know that their loved one will never be forgotten provides solace and healing for so many.
I lost my USMC Don just last year, Hinor and Remember has already made such a huge difference & impact in our lives, from the Run for the Fallen, to the personalized flag I received, and excited to attend the Gild Star Family night coming up! Hearing others, and know that my Son will never be forgotten is a huge blessing and brings some kind of peace to my heart! They are probably my Favorite organization that honors fallen soldiers and their families!
Honor and Remember does just that ensures our Fallen Service Members are just that Honored and Remember. It’s important that we do not forget the Fallen.
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Read moreThis organization and its mission is so uplifting, gracious, respectable and honestly supportive of the Gold Star families in keeping the memories of their loved ones alive. As a Gold Star mother, the sense of a national appreciation for our loss is truly immense. God Bless George Lutz and his devotion to HONOR AND REMEMBER.
It took me 34 years to find the right wife, 41 years to have one child, and 18 years to nurse our child to a Marine. It’s been truly difficult to be motivated and excited over life’s scenarios following the loss of our son. This devastation is the pits. Dreams are lost by both parent and child. But just like everyone else, when we lose someone we love unconditionally, we must learn not to live without them but to live with the love they left behind.
Within the last 10 years I've been blessed with countless love, affection, hugs and respect from folks near and far, including foundations such as Honor and Remember. This foundation goes all out to pass on the respect we military families deserve while honoring, remembering and speaking our loved one’s name, so they will never be forgotten. This is what Run For The Fallen does. Just look at that flag. The red for blood spilled. Blue star, military service in all our nations’ wars. White border, purity of service. Gold star recognizes ultimate sacrifice by many veterans. Folded flag, tribute to families by a grateful nation. Flame, eternal memory reminder for all who knew and loved a fallen veteran.
I look upon this flag with admiration and give it the same respect as I do the Stars And Stripes. It flies on the battlements of a castle, in Charleston’s harbor. It symbolizes my Marine son’s contribution during Operation Enduring Freedom and all military personnel, lost in the pursuit of maintaining this nation’s freedom. It says to me that Rory is among heroes who loved this country, their brothers and are part of America’s history. My son’s name does not need to be on this flag, but to have one, sends total respect and thank you from the Honor And Remember foundation. That flag depicts heroes, has helped make my grief manageable, which Honor and Remember intended. God bless you all and God bless America. Semper Fi.
Presenting 300+ personalized Honor and Remember and Honor and Sacrifice (LODD), has meeting the families on military and 1st Responders has been life changing.
To see and feel the emotions of family and friends when opening the flag with the heroes rank, name, date of death and either country or branch of service, is heart rendering.
This flag is given as a Remembrance gift to the family, but lives on when we're all gone. The name and memory stays alive!!
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I've been involved with this non-profit unofficially since 2009 and Officially since 2013 as a Chapter Director.
The impact made when presenting personalized Honor and Remember and Honor and Sacrifice flags to our Gold Star/LODD families, has been overwhelming as you can see it in their eyes and emotions displayed by paying tribute to their son or daughter by saying their name.
It has been a life changing experience for me to be involved with this organization and paying tribute to those heroes that give us our Freedoms that we enjoy.
I have been a core runner for the last 2 years. It is very hard to explain the feelings . Seeing the faces of the loved ones just makes it all worth it showing them we will not forget what their loved one did for us.
When my son, SSG Nicholas Huse was honored by HONOR AND REMEMBER this year (2023), everyone in attendance was moved to tears as the flag was presented. 18 years after his death and still my son was truly remembered.
My son, CPL Kyle W. Powell, died in Iraq in 2006. It's been almost 17 years as of Nov. 4th and this organization remembers him always! I love the thoughtfully designed personalized Honor and Remember flag I was presented many years ago. I love the Run for the Fallen that happens every September in CO where others say his name. He existed and fought for this country and he needs to be remembered and with Honor and Remember he always will be! Thank you!
As a Patriot Guard Rider, being asked to escort these incredible runners on their noble task is an opportunity that is as inspiring and rewarding as anything I've ever done. Being able to interact with the Gold Star Families and hearing about their Heroes is beyond description. I am SO blessed to be a part of the Run For The Fallen and being able to give back a tiny, tiny bit of recognition and respect in honor of a life given for my freedoms and liberties. I am immensely thankful for the Run For The Fallen and all the honor and respect that they bring to America's hallowed Heroes! God Bless You all for your selfless efforts to Honor and Remember!
I lost my son, US Army MAJ Christopher Nogle in December 2018. The grief was overwhelming and incapacitating. Eventually, I found support groups of other grieving parents. Some had received Honor and Remember flags and suggested I request one. When I received the call that 3 other families and my family would be presented these very special tributes to our sons, my heart skipped a beat. My husband, one of our sons, and a close friend were with me at the presentation. George’s heartfelt words and sincerity touched my heart and came from the same depth of tragic loss - an understanding only another grieving parent can share. Stacy, from the Florida chapter informed me of the upcoming honor run and ensured that she had my contact information to keep me updated. George also ensured that the 4 families got to meet each other, talk about our sons, and share some hugs. It was a day I won’t forget and the flag honoring my son, his service, and his life is treasured.
Utmost respect for this organization and what it stands for. We run the land of the free because of the brave. Honor and Remember did a fantastic job in remembering our Fallen every step of the way. The thought put behind honoring each individual hero was felt not only by the families but by the runners as well. That being said, as a runner I have not been part of a more organized, kind and supportive group in my many years of running. I wholeheartedly recommend others to support this organization.
Shortly after my son gave his all for our country, I learned there was Run for the Fallen to honor our fallen service members. I contacted the organization and had my son place on the route. However this was the year they were running from California to Arlington. My son's marker was in North Carolina. My father and I meet George Lutz and the team of runners in Williamston SC and followed them to the end of the day. What an amazing group. For the past few years I have been following them in most of the state run since then as to me, they honor our heroes in the most amazing way by running mile by mile and saying each name of the fallen. What an honor it is to watch the runners. Oh yes, they also have the Honor and Remember Flag for families and loved ones. I do believe it is now the official flag for our fallen service members. May God bless and keep each of members of the teams (drivers, support groups, runners, all of them). George, thank you from all us Gold Star Families for being the founder. Love and hugs to all.
This organization is absolutely amazing and a proud team that deserves recognition. The whole experience with them was moving and inspiring.
During my 80 years on Earth I've been exposed to and/or affiliated with my fair share of organizations, for-profit and non-profit alike. One stands head and shoulders above all the rest...Honor And Remember.
First and foremost because of its long-needed mission: "To Publicly Honor and Remember Every American Fallen Service Member and Recognize the Enduring Sacrifice of Every Family".
Second, because of the selfless dedication and passion of its volunteers to fulfill its mission.
Third, as a volunteer it provides me the opportunity to comfort family members of our Military Fallen Heroes by letting them know that the sacrifice of their loved ones and their own lifelong pain has not be forgotten...and in doing so ease the pain of having been ostracized by my country upon and for years after my return from Vietnam.
God Bless founder, Gold Star father and friend George Lutz.
This great organization has helped me heal due to the loss of my child. They have taken me and helped me work thru my pain. They have actually helped me by talking about their cause and assisting others that have lost a son, daughter , spouse , father or mother while in the service of our great nation.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart
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Honor and Remember Inc and the selfless people that work for the organization have deeply impacted our lives. They have introduced us to the families of our greatest heroes and made sure those families know that their sacrifice and the sacrifice of their loved one would never be forgotten. They have educated the youth of this community on the importance of never forgetting the sacrifice these heroes and their families made for this country.
This organization has done so much for hold star families. It's an organization I hold dear to my heart and will always support. The time and effort they take to remember the fallen , and love they pour into the families is truly unbelievable.

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Please note that this 1 star review was an error and meant to be a 5. Thank you Dino0504!
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I’m so very thankful that I had the opportunity to meet the founders of this amazing company! I haven’t ever had such an honor presented to me for being the Gold Star Mother to SFC Mark D LESHIKAR ❤️♥️
This year was my third year activly honoring our fallen, to include my husband SSG John Hansen and his 1Lt Sean Jacobs KIA 26 July 12, with Honor and Remember as part of the Run for the Fallen in Colorado. Each year I get to share their story with my team and in return learn about my team members loved ones. This is how we keep their memories alive, this is my mission.
Founder George Lutz and his team are the best! Our family are extremely grateful for the Honor and Remember organization.
If you're thinking of getting involved, you couldn't pick a better bunch to work with.
Thank you all so much for what you do to help keep our loved ones memories alive.
Family of Spc. Benjamin D Leftrick TN National Guard
Died 10/1/2012 Nashville Tennessee
Incredible organization that is ensuring that those who lost a loved one protecting the freedoms we cherish everyday will never be forgotten.
I attended a 5K a few years back as a new supporter. I watched the before and after and how much comfort was provided by the gathering of people who were honoring the fallen and how much love their families felt by people who were in attendance to support them! What a tragedy to lose a loved one but this group organizes and mobilizes to ensure that they are remembered! What a fantastic community organization that rallies behind the families that remain.
Over 8 years ago I was introduced to Honor and Remember. I was able to hear the founder, George Lutz, tell his story and testimony to why the mission started. It changed my understanding of what families of our brothers and sisters in service may go through. I couldn’t imagine being a gold star wife, parent, sibling; I just can’t imagine the strength one would need to go on. Honor and Remember gives hope to those left behind, give love, fellowship, understanding. I think it gives them a community to mourn with and a flag to wave or frame to honor their own. This organization is unbelievable. I’m so thankful to have learned about it and to meet so many in our community (CONUS and OCONUS) who benefit from their support.
This organization not only spreads awareness of the cost of Freedom, but provides a vehicle to acknowledge that cost in the form of the Honor and Remember Flag. This tangible symbol recognizes the ultimate sacrifice of our American Service Members since the inception of our country and sends a message to their families that their loved one's service and sacrifice is not forgotten - they are Honored and Remembered Always.
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Honor and Remember is an amazing organization that brings comfort to the Gold Star and Combat Veteran communities by assurring them that our country's Fallen Heroes will never be forgotten. They educate our public on the cost of our freedom and provide a tangible, perpetual way for America to say "Thank You! We will not forget your sacrifice" via the Honor and Remember Flag. This should be on every flag pole in America underpinning Old Glory as it is because of those sacrifices and those willing to fight for our Country that we have our freedom.
Tremendous organization and wonderful people! They involve Veterans and make them a part of everything.
I lost my son LCpl Armando Hernandez-USMC while serving overseas. Honor and Remember not only recognized his selfless service but honored him with a beautiful flag within months of my submission to request a flag. A sponsor was found and the flag was promptly sent to me. I am grateful to Eric Michael, Don Finnegan, and George Lutz for running this organization with the sole purpose of honoring those who gave it all and their families.
Ana Hernandez Gold Star Mother-Texas
There aren’t enough words to express my gratitude for this organization. My husband was killed in the line of duty as a undercover detective for Virginia Beach. This organization included his sacrifice as well as other LEOs in their mission, and my oldest son and I were invited to attend a ceremony where we accepted a flag in honor of my husband. The entire experience left my heart full. When grieving, you always feel the loss (every minute of every day you are consciously aware of your loss and your children’s loss-but as days turn into months and years, the sacrifice made by your love one falls into the memories of yesterday for everyone else except those who feel the loss most deeply (the spouse, children, mother, father, siblings). Honor and Remember helps the surviving family by making sure they know their Hero is Never Forgotten. My family feels blessed that my husband was honored by such a selfless organization.
With a heart of service, the Lutz family has brought our country a symbol to honor and remember those who paid the ultimate sacrifice for freedom. A Gold Star family, they know the importance of remembering the survivors of the fallen. Their collective sacrifice, dedicated efforts in advocacy and service above self have given Gold Star families the recognition they deserve. I am proud to support The Lutz Family and the mission of Honor and Remember, Incorporated.
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Honor and Remember is an amazing organization that respectfully honors our Military and First Responders that have paid the ultimate sacrifice for our nation.
Thank You Honor and Remember and the Run for the Fallen events to continually remember our heros and the Gold Star families
Honor and Remember isn't just another organization to me; it's a deeply heartfelt mission that I've been honored to be a part of whenever time allows. My connection to this cause runs deep, as I was with the founder's son when he was tragically KIA in Iraq. This profound experience has bound me to the mission and to George, the remarkable founder, in ways words can barely capture. Whenever I can, I stand beside George, assisting in presenting flags to families who have faced the unimaginable loss of their loved ones. Together, we've been part of events that echo with the heartache, pride, and honor of countless families. Every moment I dedicate, whether it's assisting in marketing or other activities, is more than just a gesture; it's a personal commitment. George's unwavering dedication is inspiring, and his mission is clear: We must say their names and ensure they are forever remembered.
This organization is truly committed to Honoring and Remembering our Fallen Heroes. I have seen firsthand the positive impact it makes and how appreciative Gold Star families are of the efforts conveyed by this organization.
I was contacted by Honor and Remember after the death of my son. They wanted to honor him by presenting a flag to me and having his name on a hero marker. I was impressed with their dedication, professionalism, and commitment to honoring all fallen service members and first responders. Four years later and I am now a volunteer within the organization. My admiration for the founder, George Lutz, and the volunteers within Honor and Remember has only grown. This is truly a worthy nonprofit.
I was thrilled to meet George at the Connecticut Fallen Heroes Tribute many years ago. He graciously presented me with the first in Connecticut Honor and Remember Flag. I was absolutely humbled as many of hmy late husband Ron's brother Rangers were attending the Tribute with me. The flag has flown every year from Flag Day to Ron's birthday in August. He would have been 19 a month after his death and the flag is a forever reminder . Thank you to Honor and Remember
Kat Cardona
I have volunteered with Honor and Remember for13 years. We have blessed many families with Honoring and Remembering their loved ones by name. It is a true blessing to meet the Gold Star Families in person .
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I volunteer with Honor and Remember because all over this great nation, families are sitting down at their holiday tables only to see an empty chair around their tables. They have given so much, an entire lifetime of love, and memories so that the rest of us can live in the greatest nation on earth. It is the least we can do, to Honor their sacrifice, and remember their loved ones by name.
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My son & soldier passed in June 2020. All of these organizations are new to but Honor & Remember is one of the ones that stands out the most! They sent a lovely flag with our sons name on it. We proudly fly our memory flag next to the American flag when we are out doing events for the nonprofit organization we started in his honor. Honor & Remember inspires us as we move forward carrying on his legacy. Thank you, Honor & Remember for your dedication to remembering our fallen such as our son, PFC Matthew Guyon - US Army
Hello, I have been Chapter Director in Massachusetts for the last 10 years, going onto 11 years in 2023. To speak with these Gold Star Families and present a flag to them is just an unbelievable feeling. These families think that they have been forgotten about, then when the chapter comes and introduces themselves and invite t these families to event locally held by the chapter and on a national level, they see that a small group of people will never forget them and will also Honor and Remember the sacrifice that the loved family member made for our freedoms.
Outstanding nonprofit with the sole purpose of honoring those we have lost fighting for the freedoms we all enjoy. For every Gold Star family member - we will not forget your loved one and will honor and remember them by name.
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I have personally met George, the founder of this fabulous organization, and completely support his mission. I am a veteran who is actively involved with organizations that honor and support those who have sacrificed for my freedom. What impressed me most about Honor and Remember is that its' mission is to pay gratitude and respect to those that have paid the ultimate sacrifice - they did not come home. In a world where many do not even know the purpose of Memorial Day, it is time that we have a national symbol to recognize the men and women that have fallen to protect the freedoms that each American enjoys. The courage that George has shown through the loss of his son CPL George A. Lutz II is not only admirable, but is worthy of our support. Starting a nonprofit organization takes time, resources, and the unwavering energy created by a cause that is bigger than any individual. Honor and Remember has the cause but now needs all of our support and resources to keep the momentum building.
Edward B.
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Honor and Remember not only remembers the family who lost a loved one to war, they also remember our hero. What a great service George does for those of us “left behind”.
Thank you George!
I’m lucky enough to be able to volunteer for this great organization. The mission is of great importance. The families we serve end up becoming like family to us. I’ve made many friends and new family members working alongside the founder and his dedicated team.
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Ran to our son’s marker
Gave us some closure
In our grieving process
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Read moreI am a volunteer for New England Run for the Fallen and I’ve become great friends with George Lutz and Laura Sutton. The mission of Honor and Remember and Honor and Sacrifice is really awesome to have a core group honor our fallen soldiers and first responders. Without the vision of George Lutz and the volunteers he has across the country making is vision stay alive is truly amazing.
We were the recipient of an Honor & Remembrance flag and we witnessed several other presentations. Very special events.
My first experience with the organization was at the America's Run for the Fallen in 2018 on the side of the road in the little town of Lewis, Iowa, as they read my son's name out in a dignified ceremony to honor him and his buddies that died on May 1, 2009 in Afghanistan.
I soon came to know more about the mission.
Honor and Remember is a wonderful organization that recognizes the families of fallen members of the military in such a magnificent display. The flag is a symbol of remembrance for us Gold Star families, seeing the flag displayed gives us hope that our loved one has not and will not be forgotten.
The sponsorship of the state Run for the Fallen events is another example of continuing to ensure that our loved ones are remembered every year by calling out their names as they run across the states.
One Team One Mission One Tribute
I 100% support the Honor and Remember organization's mission. I originally met Mr. George Lutz back in 2009 during Rolling Thunder's Pentagon meet-up of gold star VIP families. He had personalized HR flag attached to his motorcycle and it was the most beautiful hero tribute I'd ever seen. Ironically, we both realized that his son and my brother, SSG LeRoy Alexander died the same year and were assigned with the Special Operations in Ft Bragg, NC. Mr. Lutz didn't know that I had ties within the entertainment industry after my cheerleader role in the film of "The Replacements." So I promised him I would educate others whether on the red carpet, sporting event, parade, my college at the US Coast Guard Academy (Go Bears!), etc. My favorite annual events include the Holiday Dinner and the State-wide Run for the Fallen tributes. I will always cheer on Honor and Remember until every state and US territory adopts this national symbol of remembrance. Please consider donating today. Thank you and God Bless America :)
Honor and Remember through it's mission provides compassion and comfort to families who have sacrificed their greatest treasure. Their moms, dads, sons, daughters, aunts and uncles. Without these heroes our country would not be here. It is up to all of us to say Thank You, and Honor and Remember does that.
I began working with Honor and Remember in 2017 as part of the planning group for America's Run For The Fallen, a coast-to-coast run memorializing thousands of fallen men and women of the military. I am a veteran of the U.S. Air Force, and sadly, I recognized some of the names from my time served. I had a primary purpose though as to why I became invested in the organization. My precious cousin, SPC Eric Scott Bivins had just died a few short months earlier and what better way to honor his memory than to be a part of this group.
Upon joining the team, I have had the extreme honor and privilege of meeting and becoming friends with some of the most amazing people, and even more so, loving these Gold Star families, these families that we call out the names of their loved ones, the families that have the assurance that their soldier, son, daughter, mother, father, whatever the case may be, they are NEVER forgotten and will ALWAYS be remembered.
I do want to add that when we arrive at a Hero Marker, and there is a Gold Star family standing there, waiting for the group to arrive, and more importantly, waiting to hear their loved one's name called out, my heart is pulled in every direction and I feel pain for them. I want to take away their pain that they endure each and every day of their lives. I hug them tight, and we share a comraderie of hearts.
Honor and Remember presents Gold Star families with the Honor and Remember flag in honor of their loved one, personalized just for them. They deserve so much more, but this shows that someone cares, someone remembers, that someone will never forget.
Not only does Honor and Remember, Inc. bring much deserved recognition to our fallen military, but also to our fallen first responders through Honor and Sacrifice. This does my heart so good, they put their lives on the line as well.
I am thankful and blessed God placed me with Honor and Remember. As a veteran with PTSD, this is my purpose, my go-to, my family.
To me the personalized flag to honor my deceased brother is priceless. We had a small ceremony at our local coffee shop and I have it hanging on my brothers honor wall in my home. I am forever grateful for this remembrance.
I have been with the charity since it started in 2008
I remember when I came back from Afghanistan in February 2008 and in April 2008 I was at a legion meeting where I heard a story from a gentleman who at the time all he had was a cardboard screen print of the Honor and Remember flag. After he explained what he wanted to do I walked up to him and told him that I just left Afghanistan and the last thing we saw was a flag draped coffin as we rendered honors as the motorcade passed and there it began.
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I remember the very first time I met George Lutz He had done a presentation at the American Legion I was a part of in Norfolk Virginia He came in and presented what at the time was a piece of cardboard with a flag painted on it. Then he broke down the meaning of the flag. After the meeting I walked up to him and told him I just left Afghanistan at the end of February and the last thing I saw was a flag draped coffin
How can I help and since then I have been volunteering in some capacity for this non profit since day 1
Honor and Remember is a wonderful nonprofit. I was very impressed at how they recognized and honored ours and other families that were at the presentation of the flags. They talked to all of the families and gave representation to our Gold Star Families and the ones that we have lost. We must never forget anyone that has given their life to keep us safe. After some time people tend to forget who paid the ultimate price for us. By continuing to represent these family members we will never forget them. As a Gold Star Family we remember everyday, but most people remember only on Memorial Day. This organization wants to make sure that we remember everyday. We are so great full for Honor and Remember and what they are doing for Gold Star Families.
I’ve known the founder for over 40 years. His tenacity and unwavering passion for the mission of H & R is unparalleled. I’ve witnessed the power, comfort and dignity that is imparted to the military families who have lost loved ones through Honor & Remember.
I can’t say enough about George Lutz and the mission he has developed with Honor and Remember. George took the tragic loss of his Son and turned it into a statement of comfort for Gold Star Families throughout the country. Please take the time to learn more and help spread the word. Gold Star Families need to know their loved ones have not died in vain. Those of us who appreciate the freedom and liberty we have owe it to those who’ve sacrificed for us and the Gold Star Families they left behind...
My brother was killed by an IED in Afghanistan in 2008. Honor and Remember has never forgotten. I can’t tell you how overwhelmingly wonderful it was when my parents (In their 80s) and I greeted the running team at Jim’s mile marker near Williamsburg one year. Or how cathartic it was to share a meal at the Founders Inn with another Gold Star Family. Or how proud I was to help place a field of valor at a local high school and witness Honor and Remember give a high-schooler the flag with her Dad’s name on it. This is a wonderfully supportive organization to Gold Star Families! Semper Fi! -kyle
H&R Nebraska chapter honored our son and family years ago. They have never forgotten us even living in Florida. The latest event was honoring 30 fallen hero’s golf tournament in Nebraska of Which we attended.
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This organization has shown remarkable support to our family and other Gold Star Families, after the loss of military family members. They help others understand the pain and sacrifice families all over the United States make when someone they love dies while serving in the Armed Forces to keep all of us safe. The special flag they present to the families is designed to symbolize this sacrifice. God bless those who consistently reach out to support the families of the fallen.
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The Honor and Remembrance Program that was held in Hamilton, Ohio on August 8th & 9th, 2014 was extremely well prepared and presented. All of the comments that I heard while listening to the programs were positive and supportive. The venue was designed to be appealing to just about everyone.
Tom Mitchell should be commended for his work on all of the Honor and Remember presentations and programs that he is responsible for.
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Such an awesome way to honor our nation's heroes! The tribute means so much to their family and friends and ensures their sacrifice is not forgotten!
Thank you for remembering the families of fallen US military members. I've followed the FB page an purchased a flag, shirts, pins, and facemasks so I may share your message, start a conversation. The Gold Star mother who befriended me while my son was young did live to see him enter the US Army. Thank you reminding people of the fallen members and what we can do to honor them.
Having my son’s name on his own personal flag, and then his name being on the list for the America’s Run for the Fallen, and also being able to be there at Arlington Cemetery when the runners came in... was the greatest thing to be a part of. Never forgotten!!
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We had our own mile run in Ohio to coordinate as my son’s mile was run in Arizona by wonderful volunteers who stood for us. The teamwork of Teresa Koontz of Blue Star Mother’s of SW Arizona and Tom Mitchell of Ohio’s Honor and Remember worked with Run For the Fallen and all made it easy for us to participate, we will meet the runners and finish with them in Arlington VA.
What a great organization! Dedicated to honoring our brave men and women who made the ultimate sacrifice serving our country. Founder George Lutz, who lost his son while serving our country, came and spoke at the Chris Moon Memorial unveiling ceremony in Tucson, Az. in 2017 and also has helped us present three Gold Star families with personalized Honor and Remember flags. The Run for the Fallen event is incredible and is just another way Honor and Remember fulfills the mission of making sure every military hero is honored and their sacrifice never forgotten!
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This organization touches so many lives including general public, active military, and veterans all while honoring families and their heroes that have given their all and should never be forgotten.
Thank you for making me feel like I'm a part of your family while I volunteered with you during the AZ Run for the Fallen.
You are ALL Amazing. May God Bless you and your loved ones.
Amazing folks with even more amazing hearts for the families of our fallen military service members. This organization carries out such an important mission in honoring our fallen and letting the families know that they and their loved ones are remembered.
So impressed with the Colorado Chapter's first "Run for the Fallen", from Ft Carson to Ft Logan National Cemetery! Thank you for HONORing and REMEMBERing the Gold Star families in this and so many ways!
This organization makes sure all our fallen heroes will never ever be forgotten. Honoring the families and their loved ones who paid the ultimate sacrifice.
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To say Run For the Fallen and their mission is AMAZING would be an understatement. The pain, sweat and tears will be forever etched in my mind. In 2018, I ran with some super incredible people with Run For The Fallen. As a group we covered 47 miles and I ran 17 of them over a 3 day period. We stopped at every mile to recognize a fallen hero.
Mile 38, my late husbands mile was oh so special to me. The entire group ran this mile with me! As they called Lt Bantee Hall II, I was moved to tears! 6,150 days later, Run For The Fallen (Honor and Remember) made sure Bantee was not forgotten. Almost 17 years later........the emotions took over, as if he left this earth yesterday.
I can’t thank George Lutz enough for his vision for this organization! The compassion he and the runners have shown has been incredible. The instant connections and bonds have been unreal!
Honor and Remember has touched thousands of Gold Star Families with the resonating message that Fallen Military or Fallen First Responders will always be honored, remembered and their sacrifice has not gone unnoticed. Comforting the families and continuing to tell their stories, the love, hugs and the bonds shared last forever.
Our family has been blessed to receive the personalized H&R flag for our two Fallen Heroes - Ssg Travis J Selinsky and Ssg Brandon J Selinsky. It is the compassionate heart & care of the organization and it's people that imprints a permanent place in our hearts.
We will be forever thankful for George Lutz answering the call to make the H&R flag a National symbol of remembrance and sacrifice.
Saying "Thank you" doesn't seem like enough to say but our's is filled with love, gratitude and appreciation.
All I can speak to is why I became familiar with the cause. In 2007, my son in law was KIA in Iraq. He was an EOD with the Marine Corps. As we struggled to process his death one thing I found was Honor and Remember. I ordered my first flag in 2010. I am on my 3rd one. I display it during the summer as other times during the year it is very windy here and damage happens easily. The flag not only honors my son in law but an uncle who was killed in Korea in 1951.
I was able to spend just one day with the Honor and Remember/ Run For The Fallen group that had already run more than 5,000 miles over 4 months honoring America’s fallen heroes....I was both humbled and honored to join these great people who continue to travel around the country honoring our finest Americans. Some of the runners put their families and jobs on pause for a few days at a time, others have fully devoted their lives to pay tribute at every opportunity. While not everyone can put in this kind of physical work, we should all get behind them and give them support along their journey.
This organization does more recognition of the families of our fallen heroes, than most. Every year we go and meet up with the convoy as the tireless runners keep going from town to town. No member is forgotten thanks to Honor and Remember.
My son Hunter was allowed the honor of running a mile in honor of his Father Scottie Smith, then presented a flag this flag. That flag means so much to him. It gives him a comfort to know that an organization is helping him keep his Dads memory alive. He travels with his flag and honors his Dad everywhere we go. As long as he keeps saying his name he keeps his memory alive. Thank you for helping Hunter keep his Dads memory alive.
I was first approached by Brian because of our similar Military past. I am very honored to be able to support such a great organization. His drive for family support, his respect for the fallen, and his ability to keep people aware of Gold Star families is remarkable. H&R flags are something I hope to see much more of in the local area!
I was gifted an Honor and Remember flag to honor my uncle lost in Germany in WWII 1945. He has not been recovered. I gifted a flag to an uncle of my husband who was also lost in WWII. He was a POW on a hell’s hip and will never be recovered. I asked how I could help this wonderful organization and the Ohio Chapter president asked me to be on the board. I am so thankful to be a part of this organization to meet these wonderful families of our heroes
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I was introduced to the Ihio Honor and Remember chapter in 2015. I was gifted a flag in my Morhers memory for her baby brother who was killed and his body was never found in Germany in WWII.
I in turn gifted a flag to my husbands uncle. His brother was also lost in WWII. A POW in Japan and was killed on a Hellship and he was never found .
Our Ohio Chapter with Tom Mitchell presented both flags at the annual concert in Hamilton, Ohio. I was so moved at this presentation, that I offered to help Tom in any way I could .
To my surprise, he invited me to join the board, I am so proud to be a part of this great organization, and hope to be able to stay involved with them.
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Amazing organization that honors not just our fallen heroes, but the Gold Star families as well. Helping keep the memory alive of their loved ones is such a gift and this group does just that!!!
Where do I begin? That I had the opportunity to run with gold star families or run with an incredible, brave, hardworking and dedicated super amazing people. I’m still looking for words to describe this amazing historical run for our fallen heroes. Those heroes are my brothers and sisters, I call them my family. It was such a great honor to run as a volunteer. At some point I felt like doing more. The consistency, motivation, drive, composure, eagerness , braveness and commitment I saw from the organizations made my jaw drop. These people went above and beyond to make this happen. And it went as far as being the best thing to ever bring honor to our fallen heroes. I still can’t find the right words to describe my experience. I will always be a part of this mission and will always give them my ultimate support. God bless America and also bless the families of our fallen heroes.
I hopped on board about 4 to 6 weeks before the core team of Run for the Fallen hit Georgia. I was hesitant at first and was trying to find someone to be the captain for our beautiful state. No one stepped up so I did, with the saying "I'll try". The VFW, with the state Commander Charles Tony Dobbins , Alisha Gosdin and SMSgt Carrie Schmitzer were the core group. Candice King, a Gold Star mother, Joined us later and together we worked hard to ensure the core group of Run for the Fallen was taken care of to the best of our abilities.
As an Army brat, Marine wife and Gold Star Marine mom, I wanted to help spread the word about this Run, honoring our Fallen Warriors. I have stood at the graveside with the PGR, I have attended services for our Fallen and consoled my new family, one which none of us asked to be in.
This Run is important in raising awareness of those of us left behind while our loved one has crossed over. We must go on, we must remember, we must never forget the sacrifices our Fallen Warriors have made to ensure our safety and that of future generations. I thought my grieving was over, or at least subdued, but this event has shown me there are so many families out there suffering silently, just as I have been doing over 13 years now. I am not alone! Raising awareness, spreading the word that our loved ones are not forgotten. Talking with the crew and being a part of this has helped me become even more aware of the pain and suffering of my "family" but also shown me there are people who wish to honor the lives of our loved ones. I am honored to be a part of this Historical event and I know there are people out there, just like me, who anxiously await to see their loved one honored and remembered.
Say their names, never forget and our loved ones will live on.
Catherine Morales Krattli
Gold Star mother
Cpl. William G. Taylor, USMC
KIA 11-30-05
I love this organization! They truly care about all the Gold Star families and the Fallen. Since I first became aware of them I have flown their flag. My daughter’s late fiancé was honored by the Run for the Fallen. I am privileged to help out in a small way by sharing and by getting in touch with TV and radio stations. I am hoping to have a flag made for Luke’s family and possibly one for us which we will cherish.
I was able to be in Winimac, IN when America’s Run for the Fallen passed through and also attended their closing ceremony on June 21st. This group running across America and honoring our fallen military men and women is simply incredible! Leaving their homes and families, running in intense heat and rain so our fallen heroes will not be forgotten!
My experience with Honor and Remember has been through the Run For The Fallen. During this time the H&R has honored fallen service members and their families with great respect. It has been both heartwarming and heartbreaking hearing the names and meeting the families. It is a beautiful organization with fantastic people! It is well organized.
Very impressed with the organization of this group. What a privilege it is to have our son honored and remembered by those that didn't even know him. They recognize the service and sacrifice of all. Blessings
I just spent the better part of a week side-by-side with the folks from Honor and Remember during America's Run for the Fallen, and I can tell you that these are the finest people on earth - collectively and individually. These folks have hearts of gold, and it shows day-in and day-out. After seeing the first ceremony at the first marker in South Carolina, I knew it was important that I be at every marker while they were in this state. So much so that I followed them into North Carolina and didn't want to say goodbye. Honor and Remember is an organization that is true to their word - they say what they do, and they do what they say. In just 7 short days, these folks have become like family to me, and it's because they put they're heart into everything they do for Gold Star Families and the loved ones who they honor.
What an honor to work with such genuine people who are healing through helping others cope with their grief. Such an uplifting group of people. You will leave feeling blessed and have a whole different perspective of true honor.
Honor and Remember is a wonderful organization. Their mission is to remember our Fallen. They touch the lives of many Gold Star Families. Founder George Lutz, Gold Star Dad, puts his heart and soul into this organizaiton.
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Honor and Remember is a wonderful organization. I have an Honor and Remember flag and have participated in many flag presentations. This flag means so much to everyone that receives one. We have given to families of WWII, Korea, Vietnam and the war on Terror. To know that their loved one is not forgotten when they receive this flag and also when they fly the flag is an amazing tribute. This organization is well run and cares so much for Gold Star families and even families of those that have lost loved ones because of Agent Orange or PTSD.
I am so glad to be affiliated with this organization and have seen many families touched by this organization.
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I am not an official member but volunteered with them on more than one occasion. I do so because once I learned what they do for Gold Star families, I was deeply moved. I have made countless friends and acquaintances since being associated and get an incredible sense of belonging a pride. Their mission is clear and selfless and I could not be more proud everytime I spend time with the organization. Thank you for doing so much for so many!
We consider Honor and Remember a true treasure in our lives... This nonprofit honored our son Spc Michael R Demarsico with an Honor and Remember Flag that we now display on our flag pole during the most special to our hearts holidays. and when not outside on display we keep it in a treasured case.... Knowing our son was and will forever be remembered , that our sacrifice as a family matters means so very much to us.... Thank you so much ... this means more than you could ever know.
lisa m Demarsico mother of Spc Michael R Demarsico kia Aug 16 2012
The honor they provide and the feeling the Gold Star parents get is priceless. This organization does amazing work! God bless you George and all those who help you to bring a blessing to Gold Star families.
Honor and Remember brings our Gold Star Families together in our communities. Honoring a Hero loved one by name is an amazimg experience for all involved.
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I've been involved with Honor and Remember for about 3 years. This organization connects Families of Fallen Heroes and presents Personalized Honor and Remember flags to the families of fallen Sevice Members. The more events I go to and participate in; the more I see families meeting and hugging and knowing they are not alone. Also the community gathers; government, civic organizations, Patriot Guard Riders...the list goes on. Honor and Remember connects hearts and hands; I'm honored to be part of this amazing organization.
My son in law was killed in action december 23 2006. My daughter and he were stationed at Ft Drum with deployments to Iraq, we were notified of is death that Christmas as my daughter and granddaughter were in flight to join us for Christmas that night. As an honor this year they added his name to the Run for the Fallen in east Mesa, included us like we were family the first time we experienced some closure in ten long years. They also made a beautiful embroidered flag which my daughter took home in february this year while visiting, you have shown so much love and support. God Bless and thank you
This organization brings honor to my son SPC Thomas Avery Doyle. He was lost to PTS and suicide. A mother's worst fear is that her child will be forgotten. I am blessed now knowing that this won't happen.
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Honor and aremember is a wonderful organization. They recognize all who have given their lives in service to our country. I am beyond proud of the beautiful flag with my son's name. Thank you Honor and Remember! Norma A. Luther
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Honor and Remember is a great organization. They wirk diligently to make sure are fallen are always remembered.
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Honor and Remember has blessed our family greatly in the Run4Fallen every year in Arizona that honors our son, Army Specialist Kale Clay. It helps so very much to be supported in this way. Our deepest thanks to them, and all who volunteer to make things happen.
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Amazing organization that honors families of our fallen Heroes. I appreciate the dedication and sensitivity during the most heartbreaking time of our life. I support the ongoing mission to establish the Honor and Remember Flag as our national symbol, a tangible and visible reminder to all Americans of the lives lost in defense of our national freedoms.
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Honor and Remember has done much for all the families of our fallen heroes. It means so much to our family that our Sammy (Major Samuel Mark Griffith, USMCR, KIA 14 Dec 2011, Afghanistan) was one of many honored by this organization. We can't thank you enough.
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I just got involved with this group last summer. It has been an honor to be able to serve with them.
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Honor and Remember is an outstanding organization. They do so much to bring healing and peace to the families of fallen heroes to be sure that they are never forgotten nor are the families. They educate the public on what a Gold Star is and make sure the families can get together at events they do as they are the only ones who truly know their pain. George Lutz who is the founder is a gold star dad and works tirelessly to make good things happen for the families. It is an honor and privilege to work with George in a volunteer capacity and when you meet the families you really know and understand the importance of what he does. I look forward to working with Honor and Remember for a very long time.
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I joined Honor and Remember 6 years ago, as a Veteran I feel I am giving back in some way to the family's that have lost a family member in combat. It is a great organization to be part of and it is truly the only remembrance you see out there that carries on the remembrance of fallen soldiers.
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I have to say that this is one of the best way my son was honored after he was killed over seas. It really touched my heart what George has sacrificed and done for all the Gold Star families. My flag with my sons name on it is one of the nicest gifts I have received. I fly it as often as I can.
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Mr. George Lutz gave us two personalized Honor and Remember flag for our two sons ( SSG Robert F. White and CPL Andrew R. White) who died serving our country in OIF and OAF campaigns. We fly them on special days to show others that we honor their sacrifice. This would not be possible without the generous sponsorship of this great non-profit organization.
Stan White, Gold Star Father from Canaan Valley, WV.
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I see these flags flown across our city and in my own neighborhood. It's very important to recognize those who have fought for our freedom. I appreciate knowing they have lived all around me and their families still do. I have had a member of our family in every single service as well as police, and still do. God Bless them all.
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Our son PFC James F. McClamrock was KIA in Iraq on 09/07/2010. Honor and Remember contacted shortly after his death. They came to Charlotte NC just to be with our family as we were presented with our H&R flag at NASCAR. We were treated like royalty. Everyone was so patient and loving with our brokenness. It was a beautiful day as we Remembered our son with so many beautiful people. Our flag flies in our front yard on days that are memorable. All the Veteran's holidays, James' birthday and death day. The flag is flown to remind people of our loss but also to let them know that there are men and women who are willing to die to protect our Country and our freedoms. Thank you George Lutz and Laura for all of your work and dedication to the Honor and Remember presentations. Lovingly, The McClamrock Family!
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Thank you Mr George Lutz for everything you're doing to be sure our fallen Hero's are never forgotten. The beautiful personalized flags presented in rememberance of our loved ones are truly beautiful. Mom of Cpl Nicholas J. Manoukian KIA 10-21-2006 Iraq age 22
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As a member of Team Fastrax skydiving team, it is an honor to work with this organization! Honor and Remember has a heart of gold, always remembering our Fallen. Can not say enough good things!
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I am proud to support this wonderful organization and the work they do to support the families of our fallen heroes. Thank you! We will never Forget.
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Great organization that supports Gold Star families and brings recognition to our fallen.
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A great group that supports local gold star families and sponsors the Virginia run for the fallen
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This is by far a very necessary nonprofit organization, it honors our war heroes and helps the families with there loss of a loved one while giving the ultimate sacrifice,
God Bless all the Gold star families
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An amazing organization, led by selfless individuals. Highly recommend donating and supporting their cause!!
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I learned about Honor and Remember this year as a Core Runner for the New York Run for the Fallen. Personally seeing Gold Star families recieve their Honor and Remember Flags during our run is what really made me realize the importance of this symbolism. Honor and Remember is a very pure effort to keep the spirit of our fallen heroes alive and I have pledged to help further it's mission. I have recently become a state officer for the NY Chapter of Honor and Remember. I am so glad I have found this organization. Our Run director for NY, Karen Wright told us that the run would change our lives, and it sure has! I have posted one of my favorite pictures from our NY Run for the Fallen. I think this picture says it all.
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George and Don, the Indiana director, are absolutely two of the finest people you could ever meet!! I am honored to list them among my friends!
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My son was honored this past June in Albany. It was a phenomenal experience. The care shown by the runners and organizers was wonderful.
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They provide such honor and recognition, never forgetting those who sacrifice. So grateful
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Honor & Remember has given me a flag to honor my son. I proudly fly it on his birthday, angelversary, Veteran's Day. It is so important to us Gold Star Families that our sons and daughters are not forgotten. And, Honor & Remember makes that happen.
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I am extremely proud to be a part of Honor and Remember and touching so many Gold Star families across America!
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Honor and Remember organization has touched my life five years ago and has had the most profound impact on my life. The Honor and Remember flag is the most significant symbol next to old glory with the recognition of OUR fallen military Heroes, all generations, branches and causes of death. The creation of this nationally recognized symbol was tragic..You took your tragedy and turned it into a positive action for your loss..thank you for your ultimate sacrifice and all you do to Honor and Remember all of OUR fallen Heroes!
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This group has very dedicated people across the country who are passionate about the cause and genuinely care about connecting with families of fallen service members and showing their support and respect. It's an amazing (and much needed) mission.
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Very honorable organization who recognizes our Fallen heroes and their families. I cannot say enough good things about Honor & Remember.
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I just became a board member in Michigan. I have seen the impact the Honor and Remember Flag has on the families. I am so proud of this organization and the healing that the families receive is just amazing.
This program is truly inspirational. My daughter began running last year and this year she recruited others from NJROTC program to join her in establishing a legacy at GHS. It's a sobering lesson and reminder that our way of life is because of the selflessness of others. They are already looking forward to next year. God bless the fallen, thier families, George and Laura!
I received an Honor and Remember Flag for my husband who was KIA in VietNam in 1971. I love that they help to keep our fallen warriors alive. The presentation was awesome and I will continue to tell everyone I know about this wonderful organization. George Lutz is a very humble and caring man.
In the fall of 2015, a Navy friend of mine nominated my father and our family to receive an Honor and Remember Flag at the organization’s year end gala event. The reason for this special annual event was not only to recognize my father's sacrifice but to acknowledge his tragic loss by presenting a perpetual reminder to our family. Needless to say I was humbled, not only because my Navy friend remembered my father (my dad was a combat infantryman in WWII, Korea and Vietnam) but also the timing of this event since it was the 50th anniversary of the Vietnam War. The presentation of the flag to our family was held on 7 December 2015 (another important day in the history of our Nation) along with other memorable Flag ceremonies for the other twelve families that lost a family member during our Nation’s wars.
My sister Alison was only 10 months old when our family was notified of our father’s death. She is 50 today. This was the first time in 50 years that she received a perpetual reminder of our father’s memory and there are no words that can express the gratitude and pride she felt on receiving this flag and hearing our father’s biography being read as the flag was folded and presented to her.
Each detail on the Honor and Remember Flag is a symbol with a distinct meaning. The Red Field represents the blood spilled by brave men and women in America's military throughout our history, who willingly gave their lives so that we all would remain free. The Blue Star represents active service in military conflict. This symbol originated with World War I, but on this flag, it signifies service through all generations from the American Revolution to present day. The White Border surrounding the gold star recognizes the purity of sacrifice. There is no greater price an American can pay than to give his or her life in service to our country. The Gold Star signifies the ultimate sacrifice of a warrior in active service who will not return home. Gold reflects the value of the life that was given. The Folded Flag signifies the final tribute to an individual life that a family sacrificed and gave to the nation. The Flame is an eternal reminder of the spirit that has departed this life, yet burns on in the memory of all who knew and loved the fallen hero.
Mr. George Lutz, founder of the Honor and Remember Organization, has gone above and beyond the call of duty by making it his organization’s mission to place one personalized Honor and Remember Flag in the hands of immediate families who have lost a loved one in military service to America. This is commendable.
My family is eternally grateful to the Honor and Remember organization for their selfless duty and dedication to recognize our Nation’s fallen warriors and their families. Mr. Lutz’s organization does so much with so little and truly personifies what a nonprofit entity’s center of gravity should be: selflessness. Bravo Zulu, Mr. Lutz, you represent the best of the best!
Barry P. Creed, COLONEL, USA-Ret.
Son of Sergeant Bernard James Creed, KIA (Vietnam-1965)
The Honor and Remember flag has made a hugely significant and positive impact for both Gold Star families and the general public in Minnesota. The flag is widely recognized to honor our nation's fallen heroes - without them we would not enjoy the freedoms we celebrate everyday. Honor and Remember is the most organized and professionally run charity we have ever been involved with.
Pat and Mike LaBelle
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I am on the board of directors for another non profit and we learned about Honor and Remember through our work this an awesome organization that have directors and volunteers that work hard to honor fallen soldiers
Honor and Remember has had a major impact on my life since 2009. Having the opportunity to meet over 70 Gold Star families in Indiana through this association, and being able to remember "our" hero and present them their personalized keepsake Honor and Remember flag that can be passed down for generations is a very special privilege that touches me deeply. I've volunteered most of my adult life; coaching Little League-Middle school baseball, 24 years as a volunteer firefighter-instructor, 15 years with the American Red Cross in Disaster Services, 13 years Sons of AMVETS (Veteran Service Organization, including serving 2013-2014 as National Commander) helping Veterans, but Honor and Remember and its mission holds a very place in my heart......
This is an incredible organization. I received my Hinor and Remember flag at a NASCAR race a few years ago. They are truly committed to the cause, and will stop at nothing to complete their mission!
I heard George speak on the Dennis Miller show back in 2010. He was talking about traveling to all the states to present Honor and Remember flags to a Gold Star family. I contacted George and offered our home as a stop over in New Hampshire. I am a Blue Star Mother and the VP of the NH Chapter. I was also a liaison with our Gold Star Families. June 2010 was the beginning of my volunteering with Honor and Remember. We have presented 32 personalized flags to our Gold Star families. To remember is to honor - and our families know that we will not forget. I am honored to labor beside so many that love the mission of Honor and Remember.
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After seeing the site I decided to introduce the idea of a fund raiser to his classmates of the Class of 1963.Thus it began and the end result now hangs in a conspicuous place above a shadow box in the hall of his high school.As his brother I strive to insure my brother Warrant Officer James Doyle Eisenhour U S Army KIA 18-AUG-68 will be remembered and honored for his sacrifice.His flag reflects those words HONOR AND REMEMBER .It appeals to those who see it to do do those things in memory of a Son, Brother,Father,Classmate and Soldier who like so many others gave his life in defense of freedom.
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Honor and Remember is a fantastic effort to honor our KIA with a flag, a symbol. We've been honoring MIA with a distinctive flag for decades. Let's make the Honor and Remember flag equally as well known!
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This is a great group of people that strives to Honor and Remember OUR Fallen Heroes! I appreciate ALL that they do!
K.Q. Mills
Proud Big Bro of SSG Joshua Mills - KIA 16 Sept. 2009
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It wasn't until my youngest son was deployed to Afghanistan that I really grasped how important it is that we as a people and a nation, hold onto the memory of our bravest, best, and brightest who have donated their all for us. Nothing could heal the pain of losing a son, daughter, brother, sister, husband, or wife in defense of our freedom. It is at least an acknowledgement that the terrible price paid was at least revered by the survivors. Not just the family, but the family of patriots who stand behind the family. I was fortunate to have a healthy son return. That is only a matter of luck. I could just as soon been a gold star father who would ache forever to have his son remembered as a hero by his countrymen.
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As an officer and volunteer for the Sons of AMVETS I am very proud of, and steadfastly support cool the mission of the hmissionHonor and Remember flag what is represents and the positive impact it has had on the families to whom it has been given, in honor of my father my brother and all who serve I am happy that it flies at our post
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People frequently ask me about the Honor and Remember flag on my motorcycle-I tell them I am privileged to display the flag in rememberance of Cpt. Joshua E. Steele, a brother in arms KIA Enduring Freedom, June 07.
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Honor and Remember, is a one of a kind charitable organization. Starting with the first Settler arriving on our shores to our present Military, Honor and Remember has enlightened me as to the tens of thousands of Fallen Heroes that fought and died for the United States of America. The vast majority of these Fallen Heroes have gone unnoticed, unmentioned and unappreciated, until Honor and Remember came into being. My wife and I have flown the Honor and Remember Flag in our front yard almost since Honor and Remember’s inception. Our next-door neighbor’s son was in the United States Marine Core and made it home okay after serving in the middle east. He has commented on several occasions how he appreciates our flying the Honor and Remember Flag.
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The strength and courage that one man 's love of his son and ALL the other parent's children that have been sacrificed in Honor of our freedom started him on a journey across the United states to create awareness of this awesome loss. He determined to never have American's loose sight of this great sacrifice that these heroes love ones suffer from every minute of everyday for the rest of their lives. He created a way to Honor & Remember so we as a nation will never forget the extreme price someone and their love ones have paid for our daily freedoms.
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HONOR & REMEMBER, why because history books get changed. What we pass down from generation to generation is the truth that will keep America free. Only in Honoring & Remembering the sacrifices of those who choose to give their all and the sacrifices their families have made can we truly understand the cost of freedom and how important freedom is to the human race. Honor & Remember is making sure that this will happen by keeping that visual flame alive . Thanks for all you do .
Gold Star Grandmother Janet Scaruffi
I have had numerous dealings with this group. The impact on our Gold Stars is really without measure.
I have been so impressed with George's work and the efforts of the group as a whole that I became a part of it. I am retired Navy (working Civilian!) and this is worth my time.....
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What more can one possibly say about the mission of Honor and Remember and the Gold Star Dad, George Lutz, who manages and cares for it with such passion and respect. I count it a privilege to support Honor and Remember. Honor and Remember our Fallen Heroes, always!
Frontier Communications is committed to supporting military veterans. In fact, 11 percent of the company's work force is made up of veterans.
Consistent with that emphasis, Frontier has embraced Honor and Remember. The company works with the organzation, purchases flags that honor fallen heroes, and participates in the presentation of flags to the families of military personnel who died in service to the nation.
Frontier's general managers and others have embraced their involvement in the Honor and Remember program and have played roles in the planning of flag presentation ceremonies. They want the surviving families to know that our nation respects the sacrficies their loved ones have made.
We have seen numerous moving ceremonies that demonstrate the importance of our nation taking the time to let families know that Americans stand with them. Honor and Remember is a program of great integrity that demonstrates the respect Americans have for those who gave their lives to protect our nation.
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Honor and Remember serves an important function in recognizing the dedication, commitment and ultimate sacrifice by those who serve America in the US military. This recognition is vital in the healing process of those families who grieve the loss of a loved on in this service. Veterans Memorial Gold Star Healing and Peace Garden in York, Pennsylvania felt it appropriate to fly the H&R Flag a symbol to help visitors focus on the loved ones killed during the War on Terror in particular and all US conflicts. I was very proud to receive a personalized H&R flag during the dedication of the Gold Star Garden in 2012 and will cherish it in memory of my intrepid son.
Ordered a beautiful hand sown Honor and Remember Flag for our American Veterans Post 30 Color/Honor Guard for Parades! We received it in time for our largest parade of the year and was greeted with great enthusiasm and applauds from the crowd for such a beautiful flag....The other Color Guards were in awe and said that they needed to order one for their groups as well! It is truly a great flag to add to our group of flags and takes a honored spot next to our POW MIA Flag! Ron Hickey Sr. - Sr. Vice Commander and Color /Honor Guard Leader - American Veterans Post 30, Ottawa, Illinois
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I'm sorry...I am a Gold Star Mom, Blue Star Mom, Blue Star Mom...I had asked for an Honor and Remember flag years ago and have asked 2 or 3 times. I provided the death certificate and never heard anything back. So I'm sorry...but I have not had a good experience with this. Thank you Melinda Browder

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Melinda, Thank you so much for your comment. It is important for families to express their feelings in having to go through the waiting process. Maybe more people will get on board to lend a hand. I understand its not so much a low rating for our organization's mission, but speaks more to the high demand and lack of significant resources. It is unfortunate that well over one thousand families have requested flags and remain for long periods on our list. Although we are reaching families at nearly a rate of one every day, we do not have the manpower or funding to reach everyone in a manner acceptable to us. In states where we have chapters the timeframe is much shorter. In your state we do not have an operating chapter nor any representatives nearby. For that we are extremely sorry. Presenting flags is just one of our mission goals, which includes establishing the Honor and Remember Flag nationally so that all of our loved ones are publicly remembered. We have a small team and the entire United States to cover. Please forgive us for missing the mark, I assure you we are diligently working to accomplish every facet of our mission. Including the presentation of a flag in your sons name. If there are ever any questions you may contact us directly at contact@honorandremember.org Respectfully
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As a Gold Star mother of Sgt. Jamie A. Gray, I have personally met the founder, George Lutz, spent time with him touring our area to promote this very supportive organization. George is a Gold Star Dad and knows first hand the overwhelming grief, healing, sense of loss, that comes with that designation. He can relate to family members of fallen heroes who gave their all for this country, the ultimate sacrifice. Ultimately, as family members of fallen heroes, we wish for assurance that our loved ones will never be forogtten. This organization has worked hard and long to assue us all, that they will be remembered forever. That is the greatest comfort to any Gold Star family. Thanks to Honor and Remember, for all they have done, and contiue to do for our fallen heroes, and their families. The founder and the organization shows the greatest of respect with integrity, compassion, understanding, and support for us all.
Sincerely,
Marion Gray
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After learning the history of how the Honor and Remembrance flag was conceived, I was invited to a ride for the Honor and Remembrance and met Kathy Moore. She made the biggest impression on me from going through what she did and was giving her all for the cause. Since then some years back any thing that comes up to help the Honor and Remembrance if I am able I am going to be there. This one of if not my favorite nonprofit groups that I give to and participate in whatever event they have going. Super organization, I highly recommend it.
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Last year I discovered this charity though a business affiliate. The more I read, the more I knew I wanted to be a part of this movement. I served in the Ohio National Guard from 1971 through 1977. My brother served in the Navy as did my father. This is a wonderful opportunity to honor those that served and paid the ultimate price for all of our freedom. Just by asking friends and associates I was able to raise $500 to help the cause, and I was proud to do it. I also purchased a flag set for my office and a lapel pin and hat. It helps to spread the word.
God Bless the volunteers of Honor and Remember, and God Bless America!
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My name is Cheryl Softich and I am the mother of the late SPC Noah C Pierce. Noah joined the Army in the Delayed Entry Program August 16th, 2001 while still a senior in high school. This, for him was the beginning of fulfilling a life long dream of serving his country. He graduated in June of 2002 and by June 24 of the same year he was off to boot camp. Noah's last day of service was June 24th, 2006. He completed his service and served 2 tours of duty overseas including being on the front lines March 2003 when the invasion officially started. He turned 19 and 21 overseas and was dead at 23. He left behind a grieving mother, father, sister, friends. As his mother my biggest fear is my son will be forgotten and that is not right. He is dead because of his love of Our Country as are so many before him and after him. I am sure I am not the only mother afraid their Loved One will be forgotten after all he/she did for us, the American People. Along comes the HONOR and REMEMBER FLAG and it's wonderful meaning. IT means that We the AMERICAN People will NOT FORGET the FALLEN. It is both an Honor to all who served and Gave All, and to their families who lost the most. This Flag is such a huge part of my life. I know what it means and can only hope others grasp this concept of Respect, Love, and Honor I feel as my own HONOR AND REMEMBER FLAG proudly flies in my front yard in Minnesota. My hope is to see this Flag flying in every State and in every yard where a family has joined the Families of the Fallen.
I read something I saw on a wall in a VFW...it never left me and I will end this with that saying in the hopes it might make a difference. I do not know who wrote it...
ONLY TWO DEFINING FORCES HAVE EVER OFFERED TO DIE FOR YOU, JESUS CHRIST AND THE AMERICAN G.I. ONE DIED FOR YOUR SOUL, THE OTHER FOR YOUR FREEDOM.
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I am a gold star father. lost my son in Iraq in 2008. also have another son who had 6 tours of both ( 3 ea) Iraq and Afghanistan. I am a disabled vet, Vietnam era. my wife died suddenly in 2007. I was promised an honor and remember flag years ago and was told I had to wait. then 2 yrs ago I was told to expect the flag within 2 months. I told whomever called that I did not want ceremony, and never heard back from anyone. I used to support this effort but since have taken all decals and flags that I purchased down. why is everything based on money???? honor and remember is not for support or remembrance. they are a money hungry clic.

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Mr K It is unfortunate that over one thousand families have requested flags and remain for long periods on our waiting list. We do not have the manpower or resources to reach them all in a manner acceptable to us. In states where we have chapters it is much sooner. In your state we had an operating chapter that must have contacted you and then they dissipated. For that we are extremely sorry. This effort has nothing to do with money, but it does take funding to make each flag individually and then to make sure it is respectfully presented. We are in the process of re-forming your state chapter and our hope is that you will soon be contact. Or you may contact us directly at contact@honorandremember.org I absolutely understand your frustration. Thank you
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I've been flying the Honor and Remember flag on my bike for at least 4 years now. I've had a lot of people ask my what it stands for, and I explain it to them. Their response is usually "that is a cool flag". I am actually starting to see a few more flags flying on bikes in my area.
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I'm a Military Veteran (28yrs USCG), I have a 25' flagpole with 2 yardarms, I have been flying a Honor Remember (HR) Flag daily via one yardarm for years. I often get into positive conversations with folks that stop by and ask me Q's about the HR flag, and thank you from folks that know the HR flag. The HR flag along with the POW/MIA flag under the US Flag show my true dedication to Our Country and the Military who serve today and those who have served. Semper Paratus
BOSN Tom
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My first experience with Honor and Remember was the occasion of the presentation of a personalized Honor and Remember Flag to the Parents of Justin Johnson, Killed in Action (KIA) in Bagdad on April 10.2004) by the Blue Star Mothers of America. It was April of 2009. Patriot Guard Riders (PGR) sponsored a 75 mile back-roads ride from Adairsville, GA to Justin's gravesite in a Rome, Georgia cemetery. This was to be the Ist annual Ride for Justin/Ride for the fallen. My husband and I have missed this ride only once in the past six years. This year money earned by participating in activities, purchase of T-shirts, etc. was donated to the PGR's "Help on the Home-Front", which provides support to military families.
The lady making the presentation in 2009 provided the background of Honor and Remember, explaining how it was conceived, the meaning of each color on the flag, and the fact that the material from which the flags are made (in America - Virginia) is much lighter than the heavy cotton one provided by the U.S. Military at a funeral . Members of the deceased service-member find the heavy cotton extremely difficult to handle, especially when wet from a rainstorm. This light material maintains its color and is easy to keep clean and are more suitable for families to proudly display on a flag at their home. I immediately signed the online petition (to give this flag the same USA recognition as the POW/MIA flag) when I returned home.
I purchased a small flag (11"x15") for my motorcycle several years ago; true to usual instructions, this is NOT intended for extended use at highway speeds. Ha! Ha! My flag goes wherever my motorcycle goes and it has yet to need replacement. I keep Honor and Remember brochures in the tour-pack of my motorcycle and hand them out at rides and other motorcycle and patriotic events and I display a rack with the brochures and "top it off" with petitions to sign and small (4" x 6") "stick flags at my local HOG (Harley Owners' Group) chapter meetings, the Great American Motorcycle Show, and such. I have also placed one of the stick flags along with the American flag into a display honoring/remembering my Dad, a WWII Disabled Veteran. I have purchase other merchandise from the Honor and Remember Website and ALL are quality items. Service is always excellent and personal when I call the headquarters. I highly recommend them to GuideStar users.
* a 100% Volunteer, Federally registered 501(c)3 non-profit organization which ensures dignity and respect at funerals, burials, memorial services, etc. honoring Fallen Military Heroes, First Responders and Honorably Discharged Veterans
Lady_EMT_Biker, Donor and Volunteer
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I got "goose-bumps" and found myself unable to hold back the tears when my friends and Patriot Guard Riders (PGR) mentors, "General" Jan Johnson, past-President of Georgia Gold Star Mothers and her husband, Joe, a Navy and Army Veteran, of Lyerly, GA, were presented with the first Honor and Remember Flag I had ever seen . This flag is in honor and remembrance of their youngest son, Army Spc. Justin Johnson, who was killed by a roadside bomb at the age of 22 in Iraq on 10 April 2004.
If you know an American family grieving for a hero who died while serving his/her county, check out the Honor and Remember website. Look at the meaning of the colors and symbols on the flag, read the founder's story, and consider 1) signing the petition to have this flag recognized nationally (like the black and white MIA/POW flag) and 2), that because the large American Flag given to the family at a military funeral is made of heavy cotton which is not suitable for outdoor use, an Honor and Remember flag, which can be personalized, is a perfect gift which can be flown outside in remembrance of their loved one, purchasing an Honor and Remember flag for their family and one for your flag pole as well.
I place both the American and Honor and Remember flags on the "tourpak" of my motorcycle for all Patriot Guard Riders Missions.
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When I designed the Veterans Memorial in Estacada, Oregon I included the American flag,the flags of the six branches of our military and the POW/MIA flag each on its own pole. We were honoring all the branches that the veterans had served in and those veterans that were POWs or MIAs but we did not have a symbol to honor those that had died in service to their country. When I found out about the Honor and Remember flag I contacted them and bought a flag. We installed a pole for it and have flown it ever since.
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My son was KIA in Iraq in 2004. Honor and Remember expresses our sentiment about his and others who have died serving our country.
Keep up the good fight!
Bernie Hennessy
Father of Sgt Jack Taft Hennessy
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I can't think of a better way to honor all of the brave men and women who have made the ultimate sacrifice for this great country, than to fly the flag along side old glory every day of the year, not just on the holidays. A few years ago I had discovered on the internet that a possible relative of mine was killed in action in Vietnam (Terry Dean Shauver)( LCpl Marines). When I talked with my father about this, he confirmed that Terry was his cousin, and did not say much else about it. I think many of us probably have untold stories like this one. The Honor and Remember flag will always be flown at my residence with great pride!!! Hats off to Mr. Lutz and everyone else involved for making this a reality.
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No one can begin to describe the pain of losing a child. Sorrow and grief can both be defined in words, however the impact is different for each mother and father. My husband and I lost our son, a brother, a husband, a friend in an F-16 crash. We knew that everyday when we awoke to see the light of another day, we would never be able to forget the pain. Our son was such a wonderful, giving and kind man. Beyond our wish that he was still with us was the hope that his sacrifice would not be forgotten. Honor and Remember keeps the memory of our son alive along with all the other men and women who made the ultimate sacrifice. We have not only lost our son and so many others, but we are losing America as we have known it. Please fly the red, white and blue and along with it an Honor and Remember Flag for those that gave it all.
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I have made Honor and Remember my Veteran's Chaplain Ministry. I serve the Veteran's community and the Gold Star Families of VERMONT FALLEN.
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I support this organization Honor and Remember. As a Veteran's Chaplain I use the Patches and Flag in my ministry with the Families of VERMONT FALLEN. Thank You
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Far too often we pass by those who stood in our place defending the freedoms we all take for granted. This is just ONE of many efforts to HONOR and Remember those who have and daily stand at the forefront. Although I have Never had the pleasure nor the opportunity to serve, I find that for me NOT to take the briefest of moments to Honor those who stood in my place would be disgraceful. I wholeheartedly hope you do the same.....GOD COUNTRY and Family...as it should be..Bless you
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I became aware of Honor and Remember during a 5K Memorial Run in VA Beach. Seeing the flag immediately touched my heart; there is so much patriotism and symbolism in the flag. My son was a different kind of casualty to the Iraq War, he died with PTSD, TBI, and an addiction to cold medicine that he used to treat what the army denied he had. I take part in a Freedom Bike Ride each year to honor veterans. I made the organizer aware of the flag and purchased it a week before the ride. The flag is gorgeous, arrived quickly, and the staff were courteous with taking my order. The flag was a prominent part of the Lewisburg Veterans Memorial Day parade, one of the biggest in PA. I cannot speak highly enough of this organization, what they do, and what they stand for!
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Honor and Remember has greatly helped us to keep the loss of our son in combat in Afghanistan in 2010 in America's Memory. We treasure the personalized HR flag presented to us and we do all we can to promote HR as well. We have retired and moved to Florida where we are working with vet groups to add HR to their team of contacts and will always try to attend key HR functions in VA and elsewhere. We treasure our relationship with and support from George Lutz and all who drive Honor and Remember.
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I fly the flag every day outside my home in Florida. It serves as a constant reminder of all those who have allowed me to live the life I live and to enjoy the freedoms I enjoy.
One of those is my nephew, LCpl Eugene "Gino" Mills USMC, killed in Afghanistan on 6/22/12.
Until the day of my death, that flag will fly at my house in memory of him and all those who went before him, and all those who will follow him.
Semper Fi, Marine. Til we meet again.
Michael Stea
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My company Charity Charms donated a GivingBands program to help Honor and Remember spread awareness and raise funds. We enjoyed working them...everyone was professional and passionate about their work.
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I think this is a wonderful tribute to our Veterans, and I proudly display the Honor and Remember at my home in Wallingford, CT. Whenever I have the opportunity, I pass out business cards and/or flyers to people along my life's journey.
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I've run for the VA Run For The Fallen two years in a row now. The experience is exhilarating, humbling, and inspiring. I've always had the utmost appreciation for Gold Star Families, but to be able to show that appreciation through physical and mental exhaustion made my experience with Honor and Remember life-changing. The organizers treat every person with heartfelt kindness. I look forward to my next opportunity to participate in an Honor and Remember event. I would recommend this organization to anyone, regardless of if they have pride in their country or not. Honor and Remember will open your eyes to the selfless sacrafices Service Members and their families gave to the nation.
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Presenting families of the fallen with a personalized Honor and Remember Flag is a humbling experience. Every time a family receives a flag I think of:
1. The empty chair in their home in remembrance of their fallen loved one.
2. The liberty and justice for all dream they pledged and fought to defend
3. The special brand of freedom we are blessed to have in the U.S.
4. My own children and grandchildren who remain protected by the fallen's sacrifice
I've been directly involved with the Nebraska Honor and Remember Flag Chapter two years. This includes serving on the Nebraska Chapter- raising funds, raising awareness and presenting flags. I'm pleased to have also chaired the annual Omaha Families of the Fallen Gathering and Dinner. This event presented six flags this year and was attended by 235 people of which 195 were members of families of the fallen.
I believe in volunteering, in giving back, in paying it forward. This Honor and Remember Flag involvement is extremely worth my time and energy!
Jim Meier
The Championship Thinking Coach
www.championshipthinkingcoach.com
Cell: (402)490-9293 Home: (402)779-4712
Military Support Roles:
Chair, May 3 Families of the Fallen Gathering, Dinner and Walk
Chair, May 3 Salute Our Military and First Responder Creighton U. baseball game
Member, NE Honor and Remember Flag Chapter
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I can only say that my "Story" is about my forefathers. It's started with my relative who fought along side George Washington, and as a result I'm a Member of "The Sons of the American Revolution", to my other Great-Great Grandfathers, who fought on both sides during the civil war.
To my Grandfather, who was a civilian contractor on Wake Island when the Japs attacked Pearl harbor and attacked Wake Island. My Grandfather fought along side of the Marines and fought off the first wave of Japs, but was taken prisoner and was kept in a Jap POW camp for 3 very long years. To my Father, who was a Pilot in the Air Force for 31 years, flew during WWII and Korea and did 2 tours of Viet Nam and then spent another 20 years as a Civil Servent for the DoD. They are the ones I Honor and Remeber.
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Itis with great pride we fly the Honor and Remember Flag.We have sent framed flags to the Wounded Ill and Injured program to use in Honor of those that served.
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We have a duty and obligation to honor and remember the men and women who served and sacrificed ALL for our great country. The Honor and Remember Flag should be a National Symbol to honor, remember this sacrifice across our country and provide healing to the many Gold Star families in the United States of America. They live daily with the sacrifice of their loved ones who GAVE ALL, please support the Honor and Remember initiative and give generously.
Very respectfully,
Jack R. Barnes, US Navy Retired
President, Board of Directors
American Fallen Warrior Memorial Foundation
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I first learned of Honor & Remember while working an air show at Andrews Airforce Base about 3 years ago. I was so touched by their mission that I ordered aflag for myself. It has been flying right below Old Glory ever since. I also fly a smaller fly on the back of my motorcycle. Recently I felt I needed to do more, so I bought another flag and donated to our local American Legion along with cards and brochures for them to hand out. I will be buying more to give to other local communities to help spread the word to Honer & Remember!
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I can't even remember how I discovered Honor and Remember in early 2011, but I've been touched by George's story, so like many parents, spouses, and loved ones, who've lost their brave warriors in service to our country. I'm blessed that my dad and brothers and loved ones survived their service, but I bought a flag in their honor and to honor all our other warriors and to support Honor and Remember. . I'm pleased to say that the flag is of the highest quality material and craftsmanship, and I proudly display it. The cost for the value is very reasonable. I continue to follow Honor and Remember via George's periodic emails, and I've recommended his organization and flag as worthy receivers of donation and support. Thank you, George, and Honor and Remember for all you do.
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Honor and Remember presented my son's flag to me at the Illinois Freedom Run in 2011. It is with great pride to fly this flag on Levi's birthday and his Angelversary day. Because of Honor and Remember, I have this beautiful flag that when flown keeps my son's memory and his sacrifice alive. Freedom is a gift paid for by the blood of our soldiers. I will continue to tell my story in support of this wonderful flag and it's founder. God Bless Honor and Remember.
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As the mother of a fallen soldier, I can tell you that this flag is very precious too me. Each time my son's flag flies it keeps his memory alive and his sacrifice remembered. There is no greater pain for a mother then the death of their child. The next worst thing is for them to be forgotten. No Nation should ever forget these fallen. The Honor and Remember Flag needs to be Nationally recognized. My son fought for this Country as well as thousands others. Each person should be remembered and this flag being personalized does just that.
Judy Casper
Mother of PFC Levi W. Derby
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Incredible memories shared and lives honored every year at the banquet. I'm thankful to be a part of the experience.
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I happened upon this cause during a pre-deployment holiday with my son, Army SPC Matthew Green. Given the level of my emotions at the time, the cause was one from which logic would dictate I run, not wanting to entertain even the hint of such notion. However, the cause was so noble and so worthy of support that I could not turn away. Every person associated with this cause with whom I have had the pleasure of interacting has been passionate, enthusiastic, committed, and selflessly devoted. There are dozens of organizations that have jumped on that "Support the Troops" bandwagon. Most of them just want your $$ and don't have a clue about the struggles of our military men and women and their families. Honor and remember is different from the rest of the pack. These folks really care and have discovered the truth in the old adage "Tis better to give than to receive." I strongly believe that all the folks at Honor and Remember have hearts as big as Texas and want nothing more than to do what the name of the organization states.
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I first met George Lutz and his wife at a Gold Star Mothers gathering in Chesapeake, Virginia, in October, 2009. My beloved son, 1stLt Michael E. Johnson, USMC, was killed in action in Afghanistan on September 8, 2009. Since then, the Honor and Remember "family" has been with me and my family every step of the way. We are extremely grateful and appreciative to George, his staff, and the volunteers for their comfort, support, generosity, and tireless efforts to nationally recognize a symbol that acknowledges the men and women of our U.S. Armed Forces who never made it home. The annual Christmas dinners, the personalized Honor and Remember flags for each family of a fallen service member, the Virginia Run for the Fallen, and the Honor and Remember gifts pay tribute to those we have lost and signify to the families that we are not alone. Honor and Remember is more than an organization - it's a community really. We must stand together - we must never forget. Thank you for your service!
I belong to a group of American Legion Riders in a small town in Northern Minnesota. We ride our motorcycles proudly posting American flags and Service flags. We go to military send offs, home comings and sadly funerals of service members. I thought it would be fitting to add the Honor and Remember flag to be flown with pride in our future missions. Our mission is to honor all service members and veterans. Seeing our group riding through a parade reminds people what our veterans did for our country. It brings a tear to most eyes.
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Though I, myself was not able to serve in the military, I proudly display 3 framed flags folded into triangle on the wall in my living room from 3 of my grandparents. I have 1 grandfather, a marine, still alive. I have had many uncles serve and am proud to call America my home. I couldn't be more grateful to our military. Past, present and future. I have purchased several of the Honor and Remember flags so far. We have one on our Harley, I bought my dad and my uncle one for their Harley's as well. I just purchased a large one to hang at my home. I believe with all my heart that those who served this nation should be remembered for their service and sacrifice. This flag, this organization does that with honor and courage to persevere! I am proud to back them and will continue to do so! Bringing the recognition our military deserves, one person, one flag, one article, one state at a time!!!
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Without a doubt one of the best organizations I've worked with. Heart is in the right place and the proceeds go to the right place. We try to learn as much about the charity prior to working with them and we can't say enough about Honor and Remember. It goes without saying we will happily donate funds to Honor and Remember again.
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We are WW @ 45 North. A 501c3 non-profit where we bring Wounded and Deployed Warriors to northern NH for outdoor sport and relaxation. We (Our BOD) have decided to support this organization by sponsoring one flag a year. We believe in helping our Wounded Warriors but also Honoring our Warriors that did not come home. Most of us have lost friends and family to war and we do not want ANY of them forgotten.
At our location we also host Gold Star families for relaxation and a place to reflect for as long as they choose. We have met some of these families and have seen how the Honor and Remember organization lets these families know that their lost loved ones are not forgotten and will be honored. As founder of 45 North I had the privilege of presenting a flag to a Gold Star Mother, It was very difficult but also an honor.
We plan on continuing our involvement with both the Honor and Remember Organization and supporting NH's Gold Star families as best we can.
Honor and Remember - Thanks for giving us another avenue to help our Gold Star families.
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Words can' t even explain how emotional, honored and a privledge it is to have recieved an Honor and Remeber Flag im Memory of my son...It flies proudly in front of my house from March 17-Nov 11. (because of being in upstate NY I take it down through the winter). I was honored with the flag at Arlington Cemetery after Honor and Remember took the trip across country. I have also had the ability to honor some local families with the flag at the Syracuse Basrball games. I know the emotional effect recieving one and also giving one to a family the memories are priceless. Thank you for your continous efferts in remembering our Fallen Heros, may they all live on in our hearts and guide us through this life.
Kate McLaughlin
GSM Sgt Christopher Simpson
Blue Star Mom Richard Simpson USMC 2004-2009
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I have purchased different sizes of the Honor and Remember flags, along with magnets; the customer service is great and the quality of the flags is excellent. I wish George Lutz continuing and growing success in his mission to honor and remember his son, and I also wish Mr. Lutz success in his mission to reach out to other families in his situation. The flags are visible reminders of what this country, all too often, forgets.
Last year on my son, Curt Fike's 30th birthday, Mr. Tom Mitchell accompanied us to the Dayton National Cemetery where he presented my family with an Honor and Remember flag in Curt's honor. I am so proud of that flag. I display it at my house regularly throughout the warm weather months hoping to show how proud of my son we all are and to always, always keep him in our thoughts and prayers. We are teaming up with Tom Mitchel January 24 to hold a benefit in honor of Curt and the Honor and Remember organization hoping to raise money so that many, many other families can be presented this honorable memory of their fallen loved one. Being a survivor, our utmost endeavor is to make sure that Curt is never, ever forgotten. This organization has ensured that this will never happen. Again, I thank all who are involved in making these flags be available to families of our heroes....Semper Fi.
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I have been thrilled to be part of the Honor and Remember story from the beginning. I knew George Lutz's son Tony, who was killed in Iraq. My heart broke for my dear friend as he and his family endured the pain of that loss. But that tragedy birthed a movement that is touching the hearts of thousands of other families that have experienced the same devastation.
Over the years, I have witnessed many personalized Honor and Remember Flag presentations to families of fallen heroes. Without exception, they are moving and memorable moments that demonstrate how important it is to honor and remember the men and women and their families who gave so much in military service for America. There are many worthy causes out there. I'm glad I'm part of one that says "thank you" to American families who have paid the highest price for our freedoms.
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Although other priorities (e.g. family) may equal there is NOTHING is more important for the future of USA and freedom than keeping the memory of those lost & wounded in the minds of the public. This group is the only organization that I know of which will do that. The HONOR & REMEMBER FLAG should be flown under all American flags, so it is not only during war time we think of our fallen/wounded.
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Honor and Remember serves the Gold Star community. The founder of the organization, George Lutz, created this organization to honor his son and all of those lost in service to our country. He has developed a national symbol for those lost in service, the Honor and Remember flag. Our familiy has supported many different groups over the years from homeless, children at risk and others. My wife and I personallly derive more personal satisfaction in donating to and volunteering in the recent AZ Run for the Fallen sponsored by Honor and Remember than anything else.
We highly encourage all American to donate to this most worthy cause.
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Our son was killed in action while serving in the Army Special Forces in Afghanistan.
As is so well stated in the Honor and Remember brochure, after you finally process the
shock of losing you loved one there is a deep yearning to honor and remember your loved one, other fallen heroes, and the troops currently defending our liberties.
Family members and friends often feel at a lose about how to express their own feelings of grief. Honor and Remember makes it possible to express these feelings in a visible way by wearing or displaying items made available.
We are very grateful to Honor and Remember for commitment to their mission and for what they make possible.
Sincerely, Miriam and Bill Mullen
to Honor and Remember for what they make possible.
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We donate time and/or financial support to various charitable organizations. Too often, the impact of those donations are never seen. Likewise, many charitable organizations forget to simply provide a candid and personal thank you to their donors. During good, but especially bad, economic times, it is imperative for charities to treat their donors like successful commercial companies treat their clients.
Honor and Remember continues to show to positive impacts donations make to their benefactors. We had the wonderful opportunity to attend a banquet and meet with two families that received flags. Hearing first hand of how Honor and Remember provided a positive impact on them was tremendous. Likewise, our truly believe the organization appreciated our donation. Customer Service is apparent throughout Honor and Remember. Each and every member of the organization (whether volunteer or not) is focused on their mission. It’s refreshing to see and organization truly focused on helping others!
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We have become involved with Honor And Remember through the American Legion Riders. Our primary purpose is to help and support our Veterans. Mostly through parades and fundraisers. Even though our Chapter is a small one, the Honor And Remember project has allowed us to show our support by purchasing items that show their emblem. Displaying this emblem encourages the people we encounter to ask questions. People love to ask questions about the patches and pins they see on a leather vest. It's a great way to get the word out.
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Honor and Remember was there for us when our son passed. George Lutz founder actually showed up at my sons funeral and offered his condolences and then not long after they honored our son in the Run for the Fallen here in Virginia. George has a quest to make a difference in this world and came up with the Honor and Remember Flag which is meant to Honor all those that gave their lives for our country. Honor and Remember have many events for the Gold Star families through out the year and the banquet that happens in December of every year. One day with all their hard work the Honor and Remember Flag will be a National Symbol for those that gave the ultimate sacrifice for our country. This is a Great Group of people and am HONORED to know them. They also give personized Honor and Remember Flags to the family of every fallen Hero when requested. There is a wait as it depends on how much they have in funds to be able to do this but 1 by 1 they have made it happen with 1 heart at a time.
I've met the founder, George Lutz, several times. He came to CO a couple of years ago to do special flag presentations to a Viet Nam era Gold Star mom who was pretty much house bound caring for her husband. She cried still over the son she lost so many years ago. We also surprised a Colorado Springs mom. I had selected her for George as she'd been treated shabbily at her Army son's funeral and I felt she deserved better. George, Lona and I met with the CO governor, trying to get the flag adopted in a state where there are so many military installations and so many veterans. This past Sept. I was the recipient of one of those special flags with my son's name, rank, date of death at a Gold Star family retreat. I'll cherish is always as I will cherish those memories of my son. I'm so proud to share him with others and the flag is one way we can continue to educate the nation about the huge price the military and their families pay for our freedom. The symbolism of the colors of the flag is amazing. Everyone in the US needs to know about this organization! We parents who have lost children that were proudly serving their country are so afraid that the world will forget them. This organization will make sure that doesn't happen!
My son died while on active duty in the Army. Honor and Remember honored me with a flag with my son's name, rank, date and place of death. While we received one flag from the military that will remain folded and encased forever in honor of our son, the flag the Honor and Remember gave us will fly throughout the year to show our love for him. It was then my honor to meet the found of the Honor and Remember flag, George Lutz, at a Run for the Fallen event. Not even knowing who he was, as he stood in front of my son's picture, and I told him that was my boy, he came and hugged me and cried with me. This is not an organization looking for accolades, instead their mission is to let all know that our loved one's will never be forgotten.
It saddens me to see that people with no first hand knowledge of this organization are writing negative reviews about it especially when they attack the character and motivations of its founder George Lutz. I have witnessed the tireless dedication that Mr. Lutz has put into his mission to honor those who have given their lives in the service of our country and have seen the tears of pride and gratitude from families that have received one of the Honor and Remember flags. I wholly support the Honor and Remember mission and I am hopeful that Mr. Lutz and the rest of his team will continue bless the lives of the families of our fallen heroes by seeing to it that their sacrifice is not forgotten.
George Lutz is a man of high character and is selflessly leading this organization in support of military families who have paid the highest cost for our freedoms. George has first hand experience with this type of loss in his own family and the loss of his son fuels his fire to be certain all our families who have a similar loss are Honored and Remembered.
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The mission of Honor and Remember continues to be our main focus. As a Chapter Director, my goals are to work toward achieving State and Federal recognition of the Honor and Remember Flag as a symbol of remembrance of those who have given their lives defending the freedoms that all Americans enjoy every day, and to continue to present Personalized Honor and Remember Flags to the families of the fallen. Having presented many flags over the last several years, I have seen the expression of gratitude on the faces of their families, and have seen over and over again what the flag means to them. Whether it is becoming actively involved in our cause, or displaying their flag at the various events that the families are invited to during the year, it holds a special place in their hearts.
The administrative burden of running a national organization such as Honor and Remember is tremendous. George Lutz has dedicated his life to our mission and this organization. He travels in support of that mission, according to a plan that has been approved by the Board of Directors, and he is accountable to them. He is a man who understands what these families are feeling, because he is living it. Many Gold Star Families look for ways to honor the memory of their lost loved ones. George is doing that with Honor and Remember. His son, Tony, was taken and he founded Honor and Remember, after meeting with other families who had suffered the same loss, to honor Tony's memory. This has become his mission, his passion, to honor his son, and the sons and daughters of all the families across the country who live with the pain he feels.
Review from Guidestar
Mr. Lutz appears to be making a decent living by promoting a new flag designed to honor our fallen heroes - including the loss of his own son. Although our condolences and sympathy for his loss are worthwhile, I am greatly concerned to see by his filing reports that he is pocketing almost 25% of the total revenue as "compensation" while making 250% profit on his sales and traveling around the country to promote his initiative. Although there is additional investigation required, it would appear that Mr. Lutz has exploited his own loss to promote a "feel good" initiative, which is wrapped in the emotions and heartache of all those who have lost a loved one.
Review from Guidestar
Be very careful of this charity. It appears to be a one man show trying to influence the United States to recognize a specific self designed flag to honor our KIA's. A very noble cause but they hold the trademark on this flag and receive all royalties from sales of merchandise. I would not again donate to this organization after reviewing the founders goals of providing these flags to families of the fallen. Very little money is spent on providing funding of these flags. It appears most funds are spent on salaries, travel, and administrative costs. Money would be better sent to wounded warriors.

contact12 11/06/2023
Thank you for the comment, however that has never been the case. The flag is registered under trademark yes but only so that it can be protected and not made outside the US. Most all flags designs follow this protocol. Royalties paid go straight to the organization, not any individual. The overall admin costs range year to year from 8-12%. We are dedicated to touching the lives of fallen families and years of touching thousands validates our success. Please review and compare our IRS 990s to others. Thank you
Review from Guidestar