When I first started Girls & Gangs I had no sense of direction, I was 16 years old. I wasn't making good choices, but I was referred to Girls & Gangs by court order. Attending my first meeting was one of the best decisions I had ever made in my life. I went from hardly ever attending school to attending regularly, from fighting to resolving, from being mislead to questioning my self "who am I?" and eventually finding myself and who I want to become, a successful woman with realistic goals. They helped me understand that just because you did something in the past and made the wrong decision it doesn’t mean that you can’t change it. Everyone deserves a second chance at life and that it doesn’t make you who you are, you decide who you are and what you want to be.