For Pete's Sake Cancer Respite Foundation

For Pete’s Sake is a meaningful opportunity for every family that comes across it during a time of great challenge. It is all in the name- a respite from cancer.

From start to finish, the experience was efficient, easy to follow, comforting and impactful. We enjoyed wonderful accommodations and activities as a family of 3, including our 5 year old. You have total choice in how much your family engages or disengages with others on respite. We found ourselves enjoying the company and experiences of the other families, and the wonderful staff that make respite flow so therapeutically.

Two members of our family have food allergies: peanut and egg. Woodloch accommodated these allergies well, with a menu on our table sharing what each member can eat. They are very flexible and will quickly find out info on each item.

There are so many activities on the resort, truly for all ages including teens. Night activities are entertaining and appropriate- dancing at the shows are encouraged! And I’m here for it.

Each morning we woke up to an itinerary text from a member of the Pete Sake team. (Again, optional fun). Breakfast is from 8:30-9:30/10, it’s a window. You sit at same table the entire time, dining hall style. Announcer will come on and share about events of the day (gave those old school camp vibes).

The resort is very well maintained and updated. The room reminded me of a Hilton studio with kitchenette. We had a balcony room with gorgeous view of the lake, swim suit drying rack and chairs/ table on balcony.
We happened to stay in the same building as the indoor pool and indoor splash area- this are was very cute for non/new swimmers. Various shallow pools and fountains going. There’s another room for the bigger kids with large water slides- there’s an adjoining outdoor facility with pool and another kiddie pool with little slide.

The lake facilities were wonderful- swimming area with a well maintained beach, paddle boats, kayaks, paddle-boards(the ones you stand up on) for included enjoyment.

The experience ended with a night of family photos with a breathtaking background. We left with many memories and pictures to look fondly back on. Pete Sake is a wonderful organization, and I wish Marci and the entire team continued success on their noble mission.

For Pete's Sake is nothing short of amazing. We had a fantastic experience on our respite. It was great to take advantage of all Woodloch had to offer (from waterskiing to boats to trivia to pickleball) while in the company of other families who brightened our spirits. The FPS staff and facilitators were kind, caring, and fun. This is exactly what a great nonprofit should be: selfless, people-focused, and a true gift to participants. We look forward to supporting FPS moving forward, as the Cancer Center at Woodloch is built and beyond. What an incredible tribute to Pete, who I am sure is smiling down on all of us and this incomparable legacy.

First I would like to thank god for blessing me and my family for this incredible organization. My name is Lauren Brown and I’am a newly breast cancer survivor!! I was nominated by my amazing oncology social worker Gabbi, my family and I went to Woodloch pines last week for respite and it was a vacation we all needed. The facilitors Colleen and Peg are angels on earth. They made my family and I feel so welcomed and loved from beginning to end. We had the most amazing time filled with nothing but love, joy and comfort! My mom and my four year old daughter had the time of there lives we all did. Meeting some of the most strongest, loving and caring families were one of my favorite things from this respite. To take a break from cancer was something we all needed. I’m truly grateful for the opportunity and memories that were made. Thank you is not enough for everything this organization has and is still doing for all families who need a break! I’m forever grateful for for Pete’s sake. Thank you from the brown family!!

Probably one of the biggest scares of my life happened this past fall of 2024.
After visiting the obgyn, I was sent for an ultrasound after what appeared to be the beginning signs of menopause only to find a vascular tumor on my right ovary. What followed was a series of events that I never dreamed would happen to me.
........The first trip to the Hillman Cancer Center was one that l will never forget. I felt the blood flow out of me as I sat there side by side with my best friend as we both teared up while the oncologist explained the upcoming surgery, a test at the office, and bloodwork.
I remember coming home and standing outside wondering if I would ever feel the breeze on my face again or hear the simplicity of a bird chirping. I wondered who would be there for my children if I no longer walked this earth.
The day before Thanksgiving, my boyfriend took me to the hospital for surgery. The surgeon confirmed that I had a rare form of ovarian cancer called a Granulosa Cell Tumor. They removed both ovaries, tubes and I had a full hysterectomy. It was deemed later that it was stage 1A and that it appeared that they got it all. I am cancer free at this moment and will require regular testing and visits to the oncologist probably for the rest of my life. This cancer is slow growing and does not respond well to chemo and the first line of action is surgery
I saw For Pete's Sake online and shared with my oncologist's office who in turn nominated me for a respite. This organization means a lot to me and is dedicated to helping families take a break from cancer. I was lucky enough to participate in a respite with my family at Woodloch Pines. Such a magical place to unwind, relax and have fun. I appreciate the opportunity more than I can ever explain.

Like many other families, our family found ourselves in the throws of cancer and the endless challenges it brings. My oncologist nominated us to be a recipient of a For Pete's Sake respite and immediately from the get-go I was impressed with the graciousness of this entire organization. They are genuinely concerned with the welfare of their clients and did everything possible to ensure we were able to "take a break" as much as possible from this affliction that turns the lives of families upside down. Our stay at the Woodloch resort was absolutely perfect - not only was the resort top-notch for ANY family with an endless list of fun and activities to be had, but the FPS facilitators couldn't have possibly been any kinder and more accommodating to our specific needs during the stay. We extend the greatest thanks to this organization for providing us with an opportunity we otherwise would not receive. With such minimal requirements put on the recipients and the overall generosity experienced, I would recommend this organization in a heartbeat to a family in need.

An Unforgettable Family Getaway – Thank You, For Pete’s Sake!

Words cannot fully express how grateful we are for the incredible respite gifted to us by For Pete’s Sake. Our time at Woodloch was nothing short of magical. It was exactly what our family needed. After everything we’ve been through, this trip allowed us to truly relax, reconnect, and create priceless memories together.

Woodloch exceeded all our expectations, offering the perfect combination of adventure, relaxation, and family bonding. Whether it was enjoying delicious meals, participating in fun activities, or simply soaking in the peaceful surroundings, every moment was filled with joy and gratitude. This experience reminded us how important it is to take time to heal, laugh, and just be together.

From the bottom of our hearts, thank you to For Pete’s Sake and the wonderful team at Woodloch. This experience will stay with us forever, and we look forward to helping others receive this incredible gift.

My husband and I are fortunate to have been one of the families chosen for the March respite at Woodloch Pines. The faciliatators and students that represented the foundation could not have been more amazing. I felt so much better after connecting with other patients and knowing I wasn't alone. This is a top-notch organization and I look forward to giving back after the outstanding experience I had.

I was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s Lymphoma in July 2024. I completed 12 rounds of chemo causing me to lose my hair and become very sick. A few after my last round of chemo, we went on the For Petes Sake Respite to Woodloch. It was the perfect getaway for my boyfriend and I. We engaged in plenty of activities and were able to other families who are going through similar situations. I am so thankful to receive an opportunity like this as it made a huge difference in my recovery. I cannot thank For Pete Sake and the staff enough for all that they do.

Thanks to For Pete's Sake, my family was able to enjoy a respite to the mountains of PA at a beautiful family resort which was like nothing we've experienced before. We were able to enjoy an all inclusive stay in which we didn't have to worry about meals, paying for activities, or best of all, cancer. It gave us a break from appointments, phone calls and stress. We were able to enjoy each other, have fun and take a break from life. It was so incredibly enjoyable. Thank you For Pete's Sake!

I would like to say that experience with For Pete Sakes was good. They helped me and my husband tremendously. Because of them, we have a new outlook on life and to live our best lives.

I was diagnosed with cancer in July 2023. My experience with For Pete Sakes was nothing but positive. First of all the staff are real nice. The resort that we stayed in, the staff were real accommodating. I enjoyed every activity I participated in. I also made friends that I kept in contact with and made future plans with. This organization has taught me that cancer doesn't have to take over my life, just adapt to the changes that it brings.

For Pete’s sake has provided so much joy and relaxation for my wife and I. Not only the respite but they have days at the beach and Phillies games. They help spread so much joy to us who are dealing with so much right now. The respite was simply awesome. To meet and talk with others who understand. To get to relax and forget your troubles for a week in a beautiful surrounding is paradise. What they provide is love. Thank you.

I was diagnosed with a recurrence of vocal cord cancer in December 2023 after a surgery and because the surgeon was not able to remove all the cancer, I was referred to radiation treatment. This was devastating to me and my family. Over the course of several months, my family and I went through a lot. There were many doctors appointments, 2 surgeries and 6 weeks of radiation treatment. I lost my voice for almost six months and had trouble eating during treatment and recovery. I didn't have the energy to take care of them either. It was the hardest thing I have ever gone through, and there were no guarantees. During this time I was nominated for a cancer respite trip from For Pete's Sake, and it was such an exciting thing to look forward to while going through my treatment. We weren't sure what to expect, but this trip went above and beyond our expectations! We spent special time together making memories as a family, relaxed looking at the beautiful lake and had the best time at the escape room and the paint and sip! And as a bonus, we were able to connect with other families going through something similar to what we had gone through and share our story with them. This trip was such a blessing to us and I can't tell you how much it meant to us. This trip that gave us a chance to feel normal again, and we will cherish the memories forever. Thank you to everyone who made this happen!!

I was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer in 2021. I'm widowed with two tween children and have had a very difficult couple of years with several different chemo medications, radiation, and an emergency surgery in the fall of 2022.

One of my goals is to try to spend as much time with my kids as I can and leave them with happy memories. My social worker at UPMC nominated me for the cancer respite through For Pete's Sake Foundation and it was the most wonderful experience for our family! We spent December 3-8 at Woodloch resort. There were tons of activities to choose from but it was up to us to decide how much we wanted to do. Since I have stage 4 cancer, obviously my kids have much more energy than I do. My sister (my caregiver) would take the kids to the indoor pool and waterslide at least once a day while I rested.

Our FPS group was a little smaller than some, with 6 families there that week. However, there was another family that had kids around the same age as my kids and they had a great time doing activities together. The kids played at the indoor playground and arcade, raced go-karts, and ice skated together.

As a family, we did a Paint and Sip class, an Escape Room and a wagon ride through the Festival of Lights.

Woodloch had the best food, especially the baked goods and desserts! I even gained a couple pounds. Some people may complain about gaining weight on vacation but when you've been on and off chemo and losing weight steadily for two years it's a different story.

To be honest, I had not heard of For Pete's Sake Foundation before I was nominated but I'm so glad that my social worker knew about this wonderful opportunity. It was so great to just focus on my family and not think about medical appointments for a week. And the memories will last forever!

For Pete’s Sake was an such an amazing experience!

Staring down the path of cancer not once, but twice is no small task! As I am sure you know, not only does this take a toll on you physically, but it also tends to push you around mentally. This unconditional gift not only allowed us to step away from it all for a few days, but also, I got to spend it with my best friend in the whole wide world! The time went by so fast with all the activities! We did almost everything and didn’t look back! We ate a ton too!

The other piece that was just as amazing is getting to know the families that are also working through their journey’s! The way FPS was able to pull us together it was like we have known each other since we were little kids! The activities to do this were amazing! Paint and sip, building boats, gutter ball, and so much more!

Jamie and I would like to say thank you very much for all the sponsorships to be with the For Pete’s Sake group this past week. It was amazing!

Let’s keep winning!!☺️

Tim and Jamie

In 2022 I was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. I went into remission in November of 2022. In 2023 I was diagnosed with breast cancer. It has been a long and difficult journey from myself and my family. My nurse/oncology team nominated me for a respite provided by the For Pete's Sake Cancer Respite Foundation. FPS sent us on much needed vacation to the Woodloch Resort in Hawley Pa. We had such a relaxing time. There were many activities to participate in and the food was amazing. The resort was fantastic and the scenery beautiful and so peaceful. We went in October and the fall foliage was breathtaking. It was the getaway we truly needed. The best part for me personally was connecting with others going through similar journeys. My husband and I are so thankful to the For Pete's Sake Foundation for providing us with the opportunity to take a break from cancer. This Foundation is a blessing to all going through cancer treatment. Thank you FPS for all that you do for cancer patients and their families.
Stacy and Andrew Z

Today we returned to work and school after a 5-day break from our current reality. Being a single mom of 5, one with a disability and the youngest being 9, this past year has been a challenge. I was diagnosed with Stage IV Ovarian Cancer Feb 18, 2023. A cancer diagnosis is crushing, devastating and fighting thru it is so hard not just on the patient but also on the family. I am so blessed to have been nominated by my Nurses/Oncologist and to have been granted such an amazing break from cancer. I was asked to give 1 word to describe my respite and honestly there isn't one word. When i think about the days i spent at Woodloch last week with my family i think of so many words, love, family, friendship, Amazing, smiles and laughter. I truly was able to FORGET about doctor appts and lab work and platelets and cancer! I forgot that i had a before and an after-cancer life! I am eternally grateful to FOR PETES SAKE. They helped my family heal, bond and smile and reminded us that it is ok to live even with cancer! This organization is absolutely phenomenal. Every single person that works with them has been so giving, understanding, empathetic and caring. They will forever hold a special place in my heart. Thank you FOR PETES SAKE for giving me back some of my life!!!! - Tracy Jackson and Family

For Pete's Sake helped our family so much. After a long year of my cancer treatments including chemo, radiation, and 2 surgeries, we were finally able to get away together and really get a break from it all. My family and I were granted a trip to Woodloch resort in the Poconos. From the first dinner we were treated so kindly by the staff and it was just such a relief to be taken care of as a family. My husband spent the entire year taking care of me and the kids and I could tell how much it meant to him to have this break. We spent the weekend with endless planned activities that we didn't have to think about or drive to or pay for. We could say yes to everything the kids wanted to try, and there was always something delicious for everyone to eat. I didn't know how badly we needed this break from all the appointments and worries to just be together for a few days without worry of what will come next. I will always be grateful to For Pete's Sake for what they provided our family after a really difficult year.

I was diagnosed with breast cancer in March 2023. I began my 20 weeks of chemo and towards the end my social worker mentioned she nominated my family and me for a respite. For Pete’s Sake sent us to Woodloch Resort for my family of 4. We had an amazing time. There were so many things to do, the food was amazing, and it gave me time to reconnect with my family. We were able to get away from home where the word cancer is constantly brought up and live a couple days being able to forget cancer. It was a trip my family and I will never forget.

My family and I had the opportunity to experience a wonderful vacation in Lake George through for Pete’s sake… Take a break from cancer! While at the camp, but we got to connect with several other families… while doing fun activities, but also got to support each other with our cancer stories. I am battling stage 4 Melanoma and this has been a true gift for my family and me. Thank you For Petes Sake for this opportunity.

What an amazing surprise to find out our family was given the gift of respite retreat at Woodloch Pines!!! All because the amazing organization For Pete’s Sake wanted to give our family a break from cancer! All I can say is WOW and thank you to such an amazing staff that dedicates their cause to giving an unforgettable respite experience!!! They took such good care of us! FPS did an amazing job at explaining every little detail before the trip to help us prepare. They even sent us goody bags and a stipend for food, gas and gift shop purchases! We were so busy having so much fun, meeting new friends, eating amazing food, and joining in on fun activities! FPS provided our group of 10 families with activities such as an escape room, paint and sip, and happy hour which gave us time to connect while having so much fun! This was an amazing getaway and exactly what our family needed! I actually didn’t think about having cancer during our trip, forgot about doctor appointments, we just enjoyed our time together! We’re so grateful to For Pete’s Sake for making this happen! We’re blessed to be a part of the FPS family and so thankful to have met other sweet families going through the same challenges.

Words can sometimes never be enough, but I want to thank For Pete's Sake for giving me the opportunity to not think about my cancer and to enjoy this wonderful time with my best friend and my sponsor. Mrs. Carol I Love You Guys for everything you've done for me.

As a stage IV cancer patient my schedule is inundated with doctor's appointments, testing and treatment. Finding the time and energy for anything else has been a challenge. For Pete's Sake Cancer Respite Foundation provided my husband and I the opportunity to temporarily forget about my daily struggle, and to focus on one another in a tranquil setting at Woodloch Pines. This respite allowed us to reconnect and truly relax during our time away. The For Pete's Sake Program Coordinator exceeded all expectations in explaining the mission of the foundation, and in coordinating our stay. The welcome package we received prior to the respite provided all of the information and suggestions to ensure we made the most of the experience. For young families facing a cancer diagnosis, For Pete's Sake does a phenomenal job at restoring peace, hope and love during a difficult time.

In April 2023, I was diagnosed with Renal Cancer. The emotional and physical challenges since my surgery took a toll on me and my family.

We were so blessed to be nominated for a respite. We were able to reconnect as a family, relax and have fun and connect with other families in similar situations.

I will never forget this experience and will be forever grateful to our FPS family.

For Pete's Sake is an amazing organization! They care so much about those who are fighting cancer. I have been a survivor since September, 2021. This wonderful organization sent me and my family to Woodloch. It was just what we needed! We spent such quality time together eating wonderful meals together, paddle boating, playing miniature golf, archery, seeing shows. .During that time I forgot about my diagnosis and just enjoyed the family!

We made such beautiful memories. I am go grateful for Pete's Sake.

It was more than I could have hoped for. Lisa and LoriAnn were awesome. The other 5 families became family & by the last night we were karaoking we are family. Woodloch is beautiful and very accommodating. Our 8 year old and 3 year old had a blast! Food was delicious and the stipen helped with an other expenses. The room we had was huge and beautiful. The paint and sip and boat building was so much fun. Thank you for ever lasting memories!

In May 2022, I was diagnosed with stage 2a breast cancer, less than 8 months after my sister passed from pancreatic cancer. The word cancer is/was so frightening. The past 8 months have been filled with dr appointments, tests, medicines, surgery and more dr appointments. For Pete’s sake provided my family and I a break from cancer life for 6 fun filled days. We met some amazing families - created lifelong friends and wonderful memories at Woodloch. Carol from FPS and her husband were so amazing! Even my shy little one loved them! I cannot say enough about For Pete’s Sake and their mission.
What an fantastic organization! I look forward to volunteering and continuing to spread the word about their amazing mission!

For Pete's Sake was a blessing to our family of 6. I am a mother of 4 diagnosed with stage 4 terminal cancer. We were able to go to the Poconos and meet other families with cancer and make lifelong friends. I never imagined that we would make that deep of a connection with another family. It was truly a gift. Our coordinator Carol and her husband Tom introduced us to the property and really helped make our 5 days enjoyable. My little ones loved them and wanted to spend time with them. Our 5 days was so packed with activities and good food and even better company. We hardly thought about cancer the whole time. FPS is an amazing organization for families with cancer.

For Pete’s sake foundation is phenomenal! It’s so hard to put into words! Our gratitude goes beyond just a thank you!
The facility was awesome, it really allows you to take a deep breathe and leave your worries behind!
Who could ask for more in trying times, when you need help but don’t know how to ask, they fill in the blanks!
From day one, they became our support system and really made us feel like we can get through this, helped me rebuild my faith! I was so impressed I linked all my family and friends. I wanted them to see that this foundation really cares.

Thank you so much
Xoxoxo

Very well organized with arranging a break from dealing with treatments especially for those who are not eligible for help from other organizations. Staff very helpful and engaged with families.

Four Days at the Woodloch Resort in November 2022 by far the best four days in the past year. For Pete's Sake Cancer Respite Foundation recognizes that cancer doesn't just touch an individual, it touches the entire family. Thank you for providing us an opportunity to take a break from all the difficulties. Rather than spending days going to doctor appointments and getting refills from the pharmacies, we were able to focus on something else, ourselves. The staff and accommodations at the Woodloch Resort weretop notch and all the other families that also attended this resort while we were there were very friendly. The meals were delicious and the activities were fun from the paddle boats, to go karts, and trivia. We will cherish this experience forever and it was all possible because of this foundation. We also won a few medals after winning in some activities but for us the most deserving of a gold medal is For Pete's Sake Caner Respite Foundation. Thank you from SH and MM.

After my very difficult two-year journey with stage IV cancer I was nominated to travel on respite with For Pete’s Sake organization to camp Kiev in Maine. I was so happy and excited to finally be able to get out of the house and meet other people going through similar struggles as myself. It was the most wonderful trip I could have imagined. My daughter and I met so many wonderful people; the cancer patients, their families, FPS staff and camp counselors were such a joy to be around. We were able to unplug, leave our worries at home and connect with other families that are going through similar situations and experiences. We came in as strangers and parted as family thanks to For Pete’s Sake Organization. Thank you so much for this opportunity to travel.

From the moment I first spoke with Carol at For Pete’s Sake I knew I was going to be a part of something magical. My family had been going through a difficult time and then I was diagnosed with cancer. My husband and 11 year old daughter were there through all of my appointments and treatments. They were living with cancer right along with me. Unfortunately cancer consumed our lives. Every day wondering or waiting on results. All the time cancer was there staring us in the face. And then For Pete’s Sake became part of our lives. Just speaking with their team members you could feel their warmth and compassion and that they really loved helping others. They sent my family on an amazing respite to Woodloch Resort. We met other families going through the same journey as us. We got to just relax and be taken care of. We didn’t have a care in the world. We had delicious food and enjoyed beautiful scenery every day! My daughter enjoyed many “firsts” during our stay. This was her first vacation, the first time sleeping away from home. Riding a horse, making and eating a s’mores! Too many to list! We were treated like family (and royalty!) For Pete’s Sake made sure that we had everything we needed from the beginning to the end. We had a goody bag sent to our home with lots of amazing things to take along on our trip! When we got there we had a meet and greet which turned into playing games that had us laughing all night! But most of all we got to just be a normal family with no cares for a little bit of time. This experience with For Pete’s Sake and it’s team has been incredible. I am so thankful for them and what they have done for my family and I. They have told me I am now a part of their family and I feel very blessed for that! Thank you, thank you, thank you!

This foundation sent me, my son and my mom on an amazing respite to Maine. I have never been to there and it was as picturesque as I had imagined. It was not only good for me but it was good for my son who was deeply affected by my cancer. He got to be a child again and meet other children who were also affected by cancer. This foundation does amazing and meaningful work.

for Pete's sake organization helped myself and my husband reconnect make new friends who are in similar situations with family members or themselves going through cancer. This respite will never be far from my mind . It was peaceful and all staff was helpful and very kind Marci and her family took time from there own vacation to talk to us made us feel welcome. I am telling friends family about this for Pete's sake that helped me and my husband be able to get away and enjoy and not have to think about cancer for a while .
thanks so much,
Sharon Towber

This is an amazing organization that does amazing things for cancer patients and their families/caregiver. I had the opportunity to experience it first hand. It was a great experience and I am extremely thankful. Everyone in the organization displayed great empathy, compassion and understanding. They go above and beyond. Also, the staff at Camp Kieve were wonderful. I enjoyed every activity and adventure. Thank you all so much for blessing my mom and I with this respite. ❤️

From the first phone call, I felt like family. Everyone at FPS is compassionate, driven, friendly, and are motivated to make a positive difference in the lives of those impacted by cancer. As a patient myself, I found the entire process to be smooth and better than expected. Everything was handled, the hardest part was trying to figure out what activities to do during the respite stay! Speaking of which - the respite was great. We made friends with other patients and even the staff at the resort. I highly recommend getting connected with PFS as they have a wonderful mission and truly make an impact on people's lives.

I was diagnosed with Breast cancer on 12/28/20. I had a bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction on 2/13/21, 8 rounds of chemo from 3/19-6/25/21, a second reconstructive surgery on 8/5/21, and 5 1/2 weeks of radiation from 9/20-10/27/21. Because of our large medical deductible, we had tens of thousands of dollars of medical bills to cover, so a family vacation of any kind wasn't possible at all. My radiation oncologist asked I had heard of FPS, and I hadn't, so she told me all about their mission and what they do. She nominated my family to receive a respite trip to Woodloch Resort through FPS, and we went in the end of January 2022. This was by far the greatest thing that happened to my family during my cancer treatment. It gave us a time to just relax and be together, without having to worry about the next appointment, infusion, scan, or surgery. We were able to re-connect and strengthen our relationships and we just had the best time! FPS gave my family what I could not, which was a chance to decompress after a year-long cancer journey. The entire family goes through the cancer journey, not just the patient, and being able to watch my kids play and laugh like kids should, made my whole body smile. The staff at FPS are just incredible: caring, compassionate, loving, and generous. They truly understand the support that cancer patients need, and offer follow up support once patients return from respite. We've been to a pancake breakfast for families who have traveled, which gave us an opportunity to reconnect with some of the families that traveled at the same time. My whole family has truly been blessed by FPS!

For Pete's Sake is a wonderful charity! My fiance and I recently received a respite trip. This trip was above and beyond anything we could have imagined! It brought us even closer together, gave us a chance to make new friends and make memories for our lifetimes! The resort was beautiful and everyone was so helpful and polite. We will never forget our trip or the wonderful people we met! Thank you do much for everything you do!

For Pete’s Sake gave us memories we can never replace by sending us on a respite when my daughter was 15 months old in 2014. My husband had terminal cancer and died at the end of 2016. One of my favorite pictures of my husband snd my daughter was taken in our respite.
When my husband died, I was reeling, but FPS was there. Through them, I was able to help develop a social group for widows and widowers which saved me from feelings of loneliness. I made wonderful connections and friends. I even met the man I know intend to marry, as I approach the five year anniversary of my husband’s death.
FPS doesn’t just send people on respites. They provide love, care and support and they helped me pull out of my grief and get my life back.

During my several year battle with cancer I found out that I was nominated for a trip with For Pete's Sake. Since my mother was my main support and caretaker, I knew she needed the trip as much as I did. We just needed to be able to leave cancer behind for a little while.
For Pete's Sake provided a vacation for us to a beautiful resort in New York state. They took care of everything. There were several families from FPS on the trip and it was such a relief to be around others who understood.
My mom and I had such a wonderful time and created great memories. It gave both of us the respite we needed.

I cannot say enough nice things about For Pete's Sake and what they do for families whose loved one is fighting cancer. My husband was diagnosed with prostate cancer and our world was turned upside down. I heard about FPS and applied for a respite trip. The people who work for this non-profit are angels and such a pleasure to work with. Our family was blessed with a first class trip to Disney, receiving the VIP treatment all along the way. It provided us time as a family to just forget about the cancer and enjoy one another's company. Luckily my husband is a survivor and we are able to look back on this amazing experience with joy and love. Thank you so much For Pete's Sake for everything you do for all of the deserving families. I hope you always continue the mission of giving people a break from cancer.

After finally getting through cancer, my social worker nominated me for a respite vacation, to take a break from cancer. Learning about For Pete Sakes, then getting to experience what this group puts together for families affected by cancer is heartwarming and brings such a positive twist on unlucky situations!

My family had an amazing time. I have a 4 and 3 year old and I can't tell you how much they loved it. There was so much for them to do and watching the excitement in their eyes made this whole experience worthwhile. We loved spending quality time together, especially every morning and night during mealtime. It was also nice to get to know the other people that were there with no pressure to do so. it was all natural and easy. Marcy is absolutely amazing and so are her parents. Mariann was my sponsor and I suddenly feel like they are family. I will continue to support this foundation so another family can enjoy a wonderful week away like we did. What a great organization.

First off I’d like to think for pete sake and the Woodloch resort for an amazing long weekend. The staff could not be any friendlier, and the opportunities of things to do are endless. The food was very good and the rooms were very nice , But my only regret is that I wish I was more physically able to do the things that were allotted to us. That is by no means anything negative towards the resort or the organization, just me in my recovery from all my chemo and radiation treatments that I’ve had in the last year. Again I would recommend This organization in this resort to anybody that would need it, I highly recommend it. Thank you, thank you and thank you again. May you all have a blessed day!!!

I honestly don't know where to start. My husband was diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer and not given much hope. We've never heard of FPS but our Dr and a friend had and recommended us for their program. Knowing what we were facing with treatments, upcoming surgery etc - they offered us an amazing opportunity to enjoy time together, to make crazy memories and spend quality time together as a family. Our trip to Florida started with tickets to Disney (my daughter was all about Elsa), Front of the line access to Universal Studios (Transformers and Superheros for the boy) and SeaWorld . .... Rich was still pretty healthy at this point - it gave him the boost he needed to fight for almost 2 more years and it gave me and the kids beautiful memories and photos to look back on now that he's gone. Not only did FPS do all that, but we had luncheons and met other people fighting similar battles, got to celebrate small victories with them. After he passed they continue to comfort me and connect me with people who I can relate to. They offer a connection to a life not everyone can understand. I appreciate them more than I can ever say and will forever be grateful.

My wife was diagnosed with ovarian cancer in June of 2019. While receiving treatment our social worker asked our permission to submit our names to a respite foundation she felt we would be a good fit for. A month or so later my wife received a call from For Pete's Sake. She completed a phone interview and a couple of weeks later we were informed that they were going to send us on respite. All of us: me, my wife, our 9 year old daughter, and our 6 year old son. Needless to say, we were floored and cried right there in the kitchen. Little did we know For Pete's Sake was just getting started. They were sending us to Florida and they sent us some preliminary information. We were going to be booked at a cabin in an RV park. This was perfect! Our family camps a lot and we felt this was a very customized fit. It had a pool, mini golf, a basketball court. We would have a great time, and it was in Kissimmee. So we started thinking maybe we would be able to take the kids to Disney for a day. Boy were we mistaken! The RV park was just where we were staying. Our trip was to include a day at a Disneypark of our choice, 2 days at Universal, and a day at Sea World! It still makes me smile and cry a little when I think about it now. They really took care of everything (convenient flight, special travel bags filled with goodies customized for us and the kids, rental car w/EZ Pass, per diem, and special fast pass for Universal) so that we could truly relax, enjoy each other's company, and truly "Take a Break from Cancer." The people at the foundation are kind, compassionate, and thorough. We will spend the rest of our lives trying to pay this forward. We are forever grateful!

I simply cannot say enough good things about For Pete's Sake. I was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer in March 2015. Then after going through all the treatments for my breast cancer, not even a year after, in August 2016 I was diagnosed with colon cancer. My oncologist nominated me for a trip with For Pete's Sake.
For Pete's Sake sent me and my husband on a week's vacation to Davenport, FL. We were able to relax and leave cancer behind. We were able to relax in the pool at the house and by exploring the Florida Theme Parks. It was fabulous not having to worry about cancer or treatments or doctors for an entire week and to just be able to focus on the two of us. We were both smiling the entire time, and we got to experience things for the first time such as Harry Potter World and Sea World. Being a huge Disney fan, I really thought the first time I would cry was when I would see Cinderella's Castle in the Magic Kingdom. But it wasn't until after my first full day of Magic Kingdom, which was also my first full day of this trip, when we were watching the fireworks which is set to the music "Wishes" that I started to cry like a baby. "When you wish upon a star, makes no difference who you are. anything your heart desires will come to you." This reminded us that dreams really do come true.
This trip really has changed my life in ways that words cannot fully describe. My husband and I continue to talk about this trip three years later and I know the memories we made on this trip will last a lifetime.
What this organization does for families like mine, is beyond amazing. And we are both so grateful to this organization for all that they do. Thank you so much, For Pete's Sake, we will be forever grateful, and words truly cannot describe how thankful we are.

For Petes Sake is an absolutely amazing nonprofit. I was diagnosed with Advanced stages of Metastatic melanoma and was nominated by my Oncologist at Sidney Kimmel Cancer Center at Jefferson Hospital in Philadelphia.

When I received the phone call from For Petes Sake about our nomination and the amazing offer of a trip away I cried. Our family had been turned upside down and so scared of what might happen to me the Mom and Wife and honestly the glue that holds us all together. We all were thrilled.

To be given the opportunity to get away from it all and just be together and make memories was amazing. We traveled to Orlando and stayed in a beautiful home, visited the theme parks and swam in the pool. No one can ever take that away from our family. So many memories without the cancer diagnosis in our thoughts 24/7

For Petes Sake took care of everything for our family. We are truly blessed to have a part of For Petes Sake and all they do. Thank you Marci

For Pete's Sake is an awesome charity! My radiologist nominated my family for a vacation respite! My husband and I went to WoodLoch Resort in the Poconos. After doing nothing but healing from surgery for the past year, it was very nice to get away and relax. I forgot I had cancer for a while. It was nice to be there with others who understand what I am going through. For Pete's Sake had all of their ducks in a row.

This foundation is incredible. From the very beginning, they were compassionate, caring, and professional. They took care of literally everything. We wanted for nothing, and never worried about a thing. The respite my family enjoyed was a God send. After several years of cancer treatments, I have often felt isolated, exhausted, and stressed. This trip brought my family together again. We laughed, talked, spent time together. It was amazing. We all feel blessed for having the time together with no worries whatsoever. I can't say enough about For Pete's Sake. It was a miracle when I needed it the most.

I am a oral and throat cancer survivor. Peet's sake was able to give us a wonderful experience. We were able to reflect and be grateful for all that we have went through and how far God has brought us. Everyone from Woodloch and Peet's Sake was Awesome!!!

This is a great Organization that helps families going through Cancer to enjoy reconnecting . The staff at F.P.S are so nice and really do alot to help cancer patients. I can't thank them enough.

I have been volunteering with FPS for several years. FPS has so many noteworthy and beneficial functions. I enjoy my work with FPS and feel good from the help I provide!

When my husband had cancer and his social worker told us about For Pete's Sake, I thought it was such a fantastic idea - to get away and "take a break" from the illness. Unfortunately, we didn't make it on a respite trip, but since then I have volunteered with them, and the enthusiasm, commitment, support, and straight up love within the organization is amazing. Such a great group!

In 2016, For Pete's Sake Caner Respite Foundation sent my wife and I on a trip to Davenport, Florida. I had only just recently finished my 8th round of chemo and it was so nice to just spend time with my wife and enjoy a vacation. They provided us with a house to stay in and tickets to Disney, Universal, and Sea World. It was the best vacation we'd ever had in a time we could really use a break. They are a wonderful organization that has helped thousands of other families just like us.

What a great organization! My husband has stage IV cancer. We have 3 small children. They sent our family to an amazing all inclusive resort in the Poconos. It was great to see huge smiles on the entire family’s faces and meet other families going through the same thing. I can’t even express just how grateful we are to this organization.

I was diagnosed with cancer in mid 2018. After 12 weeks of treatment, 28 treatments, and more doctors appointments than I can remember, all I wanted to do was sleep.

For Pete's Sake sent my family and I to Florida on a respite. After a week in Florida, we felt like a family again. The work they do is amazing. I cannot thank them enough.

I was diagnosed with brain stem cancer on Mother’s Day 2018. I reached out to For Pete Sake and they have been nothing short of Amazing to me and my family! They sent us to Florida for one week as well as a Phillies game. We will forever be greatful for the wonderful memories we made and time spent together. Thank you For Pete Sake.

After a four year battle with recurring cancer, For Pete's Sake was there right when we needed to be lifted up. They heard our story, brought us into the fold, and sent us on the most amazing journey with 10 families who were all in need of the break that this respite trip provides. Not only were we well cared for, rejuvenated, and loved, we met a whole new crew of lifelong friends. Now we all fight and heal from cancer together and couldn't be more blessed. Thank you, FPS.

Compassionate staff , that truly made a difference in our lives. My husband and I are so grateful for our cancer respite vacation that definitely gave us memories of a lifetime!

For Pete’s Sake is an amazing nonprofit who aims to serve the young adult cancer community. The respite that cancer patients and their caregivers receive are life changing!!

FPS is a wonderful foundation, my husband has stage 4 prostate cancer, underwent Chemotherapy and has had a break, and One great break, FPS sent our family to Disney world...What a great week we had. If not for FPS that would never have happened. Everyone with FPS is a blessing! What a great foundation!!! ❤ With Great appreciation and Love FPS will be our Forever Family!

For Pete's Sake is a wonderful group of people who provide a respite to adult cancer patients and their caregivers, moral support for the families dealing with this illness.

This organization is AMAZING. They go above and beyond to help others when they are at their lowest. They have a unique way to help the entire families get a well deserved break form Cancer and create much needed and life long cherished memories. They can't save everyone from getting diagnosed, but they do everything they can to help families get a "break" from Cancer. I was lucky enough to be awarded one of their family trips and have become an annual pledge member ever since. Even 15 years out they are still doing things to help my family and engage members to help and uplift each other as well.

I was diagnosed with Small Cell Cervical Cancer at the age of 29. At the time I had a 4 month old. Not only was treatment rough, so was the effects from the treatments.
For Pete's Sake took us in their arms and sent out little family of 3 to Maine for a wonderful vacation we so dearly needed.
They have kept in touch and continue to care for those they have helped!

Being told you have cancer will flip your world upside down. Everything changes. There is a new normal that involves Dr visits, tests, bloodwork. With treatments that can make you so sick and drain your energy. It can put such a strain on your family.

For Pete's Sake gave my family the opportunity to go on respite and spend time as a family and focus on us and not my "illness". It was such a healing time for us. We didn't have to worry about anything. They took care of everything. When your respite is over the For Pete's Sake staff continues to follow you and check in on you and your family. I am honored and grateful to be part of this amazing organization.

For Pete's sake sent my family to Maine to stay at Camp Wavus after my breast cancer diagnosis. As you can imagine, life during cancer treatment is difficult. Being able to go on this vacation let my family final relax for a little while. We met other families that were going through the same thing and it was good to be able to spend time with people who can relate to what your going through. I am thankful for organizations like For Pete's sake. It brought a little bit of happiness to my family that had been stripped away by my cancer diagnosis.

This amazing non-profit sent me and my husband on a vacation to sunny Florida in January. We got to escape the polar vortex in northeastern Pennsylvania and also got to escape the reality of his fight with stage IV colon cancer. We could never thank them enough for their generosity.

For Pete’s Sake was a light in a very dark time for my family. In December of 2018, they sent my family on a much needed “break from cancer” respite to Orlando. It was definitely a trip of a lifetime. Pete’s vision and the fabulous employees, volunteers and donors will hold a special place in my heart forever. I’ve gained another family with For Pete’s Sake!

When I first found out about for Pete's sake, i was what felt like rock bottom . I had just completed extensive cancer treatment and a bone marrow transplant. Most of my year was spent in the hospital. I was in the worst physical shape of my life and very depressed. When I began to recover and was allowed to travel, I was fortunate enough to be nominated for a Pete's sake respite. Upon my initial travel date, I became ill and had to cancel. They were very understanding of my situation and were able to reschedule for me. The property was at the tides inn, of Irvington Virginia. Pete's sake provided transportation, and a stipend check for expenses. It was a nice break from the hellish year I've endured. Pete's sake is a wonderful organization, the equivalence of make a wish, for adults. Their staff, volunteers, and donors are true heros.

A VERY NICE doctor once told me tha
t 50% of the population will hear the word cancer once in their lives. He looked at me and said you have heard it three times. That was 8 years ago. SINCE THAT TIME I have heard cancer two more times. Last year I was told that my breast cancer had come back and that it had metasized to other parts of my body. I had a pet scan and I was told that there was also a farely large size tumor on one of my kidneys.

I have had two surgeries - one to repair a broken hip and the other to remove my cancerous kidney. I am surviving and I am thriving.

For Pete's Sake came and helped rescue me and my family. I enjoyed a fabulous Florida vacation courtesy of this wonderful organization. For a week we were just a family on a worry free respite vacation. We got up in the morning and each day was a new adventure. There was laughter and there was love. Thank you to Marci and Company!

My name is Danny Reimer and i was diagnosed with stage four colorectal cancer. I have done 15 chemo treatments and have now had a colectomy, and liver resection to get this cancer out of my body. During this journey my oncology team nominated me for a vacation with For Pete’s Sake Cancer Respite Vacations. We were granted a vacation to Florida this November for my wife and I. She is my life, my caretaker and has MS. This has been extremely difficult for her but she is a warrior as well and we have come through this together. We are so grateful for For Pete’s Sake to give us the opportunity to be normal and enjoy life without being in a hospital. The people at For Pete’s Sake have just been wonderful to work with so compassionate and understanding!!! We cannot wait to go on our vacation!! We are so grateful for For Pete’s Sake!!!

Wonderful Nonprofit serving young adult cancer patients and their families. Provides time away to re-connect and create beautiful memories together by taking a break from cancer. Bonds are strengthened, families are reminded love is greater than cancer.

For Pete's Sake sent my parents on a much needed vacation when my mom was battling cancer. Not only that, but through their outreach, events and connection, they provided our family with much needed support through the difficult journey.

My husband was diagnosed with throat cancer six years ago. For Pete's Sake gave our family a wonderful respite vacation. We didn't know we needed it until we went. They truly make you "take a break from cancer" and reconnect and value your special relationships. The For Pete's Sake staff is top notch and truly cares.

For Pete's Sake gave my family the most wonderful gift we could have receive...other than a cure for cancer...they gave us smiles, memories and love during the toughest point in our lives. Our vacation away from cancer allowed us to break the brutal daily routine of drs visits, plain, worry and sadness. We loved and laughed as a family & I treasure every one of those memories and photos. Thank God for FPS and all their amazing volunteers!!!

As a volunteer I saw first-hand how caring the people who work at FPS truly are. They are respectful, compassionate, and kind. They are also organized and careful with the funds they have with no waste of resources. We have now moved from the area but continue to support their work because we believe in what they do and how they do it.

My sister was diagnosed with esophageal cancer in Oct. 2012, by then, it had already spread into her liver and lungs. Her name was given to For Petes Sake by one of her nurses. Her and her husband were sent on an all expenses paid trip to Florida in March of 2013. She had a wonderful break from cancer! That was when she decided to support FPS by walking in the next event at Citizens Bank Park, unfortunately, she didn't live long enough fulfill her plan. But, her whole family and lots of friends (over 50 people) walked in her honor as Team Georgiann! And we will ve there

A month shy of his 40th birthday and two months shy of being cancer free for 20 years, my husband was diagnosed with Stage 3 Lung and Throat cancer. We never saw this diagnosis coming! We knew what the diagnosis meant, as we experienced all the elements of having cancer and the devastating effects nearly 20 years earlier; the only difference now is our children and the constant attention they need. Upon diagnosis, our 3 boys were 10, 7, and 4. I knew I was in for a long, stressful ride!

My husband was treated in Philly. This was an added burden on us because we live 2 hours North of the city. He had to drive there every week for doctors appointments and chemo. After 5 months of chemo, he was ready to add radiation. Because this was administered 5 days a week, he had to live in Philly for 3 months. We only saw him on weekends.

It was while waiting one day for Teds treatment to be over that a social worker told me about For Pete's Sake. After 7 months of Ted receiving treatment, being without him, having him almost lose his life due to a serious infection, working full time, taking care of 3 young boys by myself, cleaning the house, shopping for food, making the food, driving back and forth to sports by myself, worrying about paying our bills, Etc, that I welcomed the opportunity of just "get away from it all". No running to Philly to the doctors, no hospitals, no work, no schedules!
I cannot say enough about the opportunity that this organization provided or our family to be together without thinking about cancer for 8 whole days, worry free! They covered everything for us to travel to Disney World after enduring a long, hard year of many disappointments and time away from Ted! We got to be family for the week. Together, happy, re-energized! This organization even continued to help our family through giving at Christmas and sending us to Hershey Park this past summer to be together again as a family!
We LOVE "For Pete's Sake" and we are so blessed to have Marcy and her staff in our lives!

For Pete's Sake is a one of a kind group. Friendly, out-going, compassionate, and generous are just a few words that come to mind when I think about FPS.

My daughter went to work on Friday and came home feeling ill. She thought she was coming down with a cold. Saturday, she was not feeling well, and Sunday morning her breast was swollen and hot. A trip to the emergency room started the roller coaster of unbelievable events. A surgeon came in to examine her and ordered a mammogram. Within hours, she was scheduled for a biopsy on Monday morning. Monday came and the biopsy revealed that she had Inflammatory Breast Cancer. The journey had begun. Doctor appointment, tests, chemo treatments, surgery, radiation treatments. For over a year and a half, she went from one place to another, all related to the treatment of cancer. She could not work because the doctor did not want her to get sick. An organization called For Pete's Sake contacted my daughter and asked if she wanted to get away. Yes, Yes, was her answer but she could not afford to get away. For Pete's Sake came to the rescue.

A week away from the hassle of dealing with cancer could not have come at a better time. A home (not a house) with all the comforts of her home, airfare, tickets to Disney and Universal, money for food, gas for a car. Traveling care packages for the kids. FPS thought of everything. At last, a time to relax and to make memories for the whole family.

We participate in the FPS walk at Citizen's Park each year. When people asked who we want to make donations FPS is at the top of our list.

Thank you Marci and friends. May your good works continue and may many people be as fortunate as my daughter and her family.

As a volunteer with For Pete’s Sake, I see first hand the wonderful things they do for patients suffering with cancer. It makes such a difference in the lives of not only the patient, but their families and caretakers as well. Proof of this is in the many grateful letters, testimonials and pictures hanging throughout their offices and posted on their facebook page. I have also had the pleasure of hearing many speeches given by some of the grateful recipients of FPS’s generosity and well as the passionate and motivational speeches given by Marci, founder of FPS, who believes so strongly in their mission. What a wonderful and deserving organization, filled with wonderful employees, volunteers and friends at every level, from young school children to large corporations.

My husband at age 26 was diagnosed with hodkins lymphoma. At the time we had a one year old and a new born I was actually still on maternity leave when he was diagnosed. Our lives went from totally normal to total cauios in an instant. He endured 6 long months of chemo, 16 treatments. Then had a month break prior to a month of daily radiation treatments. During that month off For Petes Sake sent us on a respite to florida. I cannot begin to tell you how much that trip meant to us and what it did for us as a family. We were a normal family again for an entire week. We didn't have to hear the dreaded "c" word for a whole week. It gave us the emotional and physical reset we needed. We are eternally grateful and thankful for what they have done for us as family. We donate monthly to them so they can continue to send people on respites. I am a nurse and I refer people to them whenever I can. Thank you for all you do!!!

Two days before Christmas, 2006, my daughter was diagnosed with brain cancer. She was a young mother of 3 kids (aged 5, 7,and 8). For 10 months she and her family struggled with hospital stays, doctor visits, and treatments. Every day was fraught with worry and preoccupation with her illness. The children were frightened to think about life without her. Then came this wonderful group of people who recognized how much this family needed to be rescued from the intense focus on their mom's illness. For Pete's Sake sent them to Disney World for the most blessed time of respite away from the daily reminders of life threatening illness. While my daughter passed away 18 months later, the children experienced the gift of happy moments with their mother and father when they needed it most. Memories of that time together remain with them forever.

My husband has stage iv sarcoma and it has been a really rough six months for our family. For Pete's Sake sent us to their beautiful home in Florida and gave our family the best week together. There are not enough thank you's we can give, the generosity of this foundation is outstanding. We are forever grateful.

The following is a blog post I wrote in honor of a wonderful organization, For Pete's Sake Cancer Respite Foundation.

I got a text from my Cousin Megan this past weekend- “BAB-You are six years cancer free Sunday! Wahooooo!!! ” I nearly fell off my chair. One, I was so touched that she actually recorded the date of my milestone (I hadn’t even done that) and two, I can’t believe it’s been that long. Yes, I am one of the lucky people that can say ” I am a survivor”. At 38 years old I was diagnosed with a malignant tumor in my Colon (OK, if you really must know it was in my rectum… yes, my tush, hiney, a-s-s. And a pain in the a-s-s it was!) I underwent chemotherapy, radiation, three surgeries including a bowel resection and a temporary colostomy bag. I haven’t thought or talked about it in a while, but since Megan brought it to my attention, here I sit, traveling back in time. You probably think I am going to tell tales of woe, but I’m not. For me, Cancer was life-changing, but believe it or not, for the better! I looked at it like it was an adventure (sounds silly, I know, but that’s where I put it in my brain to force out the negativity and bring on the battle) I compared it to an adventure such as rock climbing or reaching the summit…succeeding at something that I never tried before. That was my defense mechanism…and it worked! The most important thing I brought away from my experience with the “big C” was the realization that there really is only one thing that matters in this life–and that is the people in it and the love that they share… So the amazing people who helped me along my journey were of course, my wonderful and loving family, my neighbors and friends who sat with me during my chemo treatments, cooked, cleaned and babysat and an organization called For Pete’s Sake (formerly Crossing the Finish Line) who sent my family on an all expense paid trip to Disney World so we could “Take a Break from Cancer”. This was by far the best gift I have ever received in my lifetime and I will always be indebted to this wonderful organization. For Pete’s Sake founder, Marci Schankweiler asked me to speak at an event upon our return from our respite. Of course, I did! It was the least I could do! Here is my speech from 2008.

“My name is Bethanne Brown and according to my last Cat-Scan I am cancer free! I suffered from Colon Cancer and I had, as I tell people, a year literally plucked from my life while I tried to beat the dreaded dragon (which I did!!) I have three young girls ranging in age from 5 to 8 and a wonderful husband, Steve, who was my rock during my journey/illness. I was lucky enough to be one of “the chosen ones” and I became what they call a For Pete’s Sake “sailor” when some friends and my doctors nominated me for a respite experience with my family.

The wonderful thing about the people from For Pete’s Sake is their ability to realize that cancer is not only trying for the patient, it does quite a number on the family! The family members of FPS sailors often benefit from these vacations more than the patients! I know that’s the truth in my case. While I was undergoing chemo, radiation, and surgery, my husband had to wear all the hats. He not only had to hold down his full time job, he also became “Mr. Mom”. My girls went without Mom’s touch for a while. I heard one funny story when I returned from one of my surgeries. –Two of my girlfriends were at the pre-school water fountain using the water to smooth down my youngest daughter’s “bed-head” that my husband missed in the craziness of getting three girls out the door for school in the morning. My friends and I had a good time teasing Steve about this one! My worst memory from the whole experience, which I don’t think I’ve ever shared with Steve is–I remember my heart breaking when my daughter came in the bedroom after having a nightmare and instead of going to my side of the bed, which she always did, she went to Daddy’s side. I was devastated! But I fought the good fight and eventually worked my way back to “mommyhood”.

In the middle of our turmoil I got a call from Marci’s mom, Mariann, telling me that my family had been chosen to enjoy a vacation or what they call at For Pete’s Sake, a “respite experience” to take a break from cancer. I had to decline the first time because it was too close to my surgery recoup, but they were able to reschedule and sent us to their house in Davenport, Florida, which is just minutes from Disney World. We had the time of our lives! We didn’t leave a stone unturned and enjoyed every minute!


It’s difficult for me to put into words what this meant to our family… We had just been through a year of doctors, needles, sleeping Mommy, missing Mommy, tired Daddy, worried Mommy… This trip gave us a chance to forget about the cancer and just enjoy each other. It was, for us, a celebration because I had completed all of my surgeries and treatments and was set free to go get stronger and better, which I am proud to say, I did!

While we were there, we took time to read the journal that is in the house where sailors can write about their trip and their fight with cancer. There was something really moving about that book…the fact that all of the sailors had these two things in common; something so awful, which would of course be this dreaded disease , and something so wonderful–this free time with the people they love most in the world! The hardest part for Steve and I, which we contemplated while we were there, was the knowledge that some of these people were spending their last vacations ever with their family and these are some of their last memories they will share. We realized then and there-1. How lucky we were to have a second chance at life and 2. How wonderful and important For Pete’s Sake is for people dealing with this sometimes fatal disease. FPS gets it…There is nothing more important than LOVE, TOGETHERNESS, and FAMILY. FPS is able to give that gift to people again and again and there is no gift greater. Today, Steve and I would like to personally thank Marci and For Pete’s Sake . You should be so proud of yourselves for what you have done for so many families.

I would like to dedicate this blog post to a friend I made during my cancer journey, Joanna Little. Joanna and I had parallel lives for a while. We both had the same diagnosis, the same treatment and we were both lucky enough to be For Pete’s Sake Sailors! It was nice to have someone to know exactly what I was going through and share our stories and complaints with one another. Unfortunately, Joanna lost her battle with Cancer last year and I think about her often… I think about her when I am frustrated with my life, my kids, the crazy schedule… I think about how she would probably give anything to be with her kids, frustrated or not! I often feel guilty because I was given another chance and she was not….why?… My promise to her is to try to live the very best life I can and remember what is important… Forget all the other stuff! It’s all about the L-O-V-E!

CFL helped our family in a way that we couldn't imagine! It provided an escape for us all when we needed it most. We were able to enjoy eachother's company, relax and create memories with Mom that we would not otherwise have. Thank you, CFL for being such a blessing to us! :)

Not only does CFL do wonderful work for its "Sailors", the staff ENJOYS what they do and goes out of their way for every constituent! This is a top notch organization that takes its mission to heart!

This organization has done wonders for renewing the spirit and fight of its sailors. This is evident in the testimony of the sailors at the Gala. Each year that I help with the Gala, I am in awe of the number of people who attend and give of themselves so generously.

I have been involved with fundraising and friendraising for Crossing the Finish Line for 11 years, or since inception. CFL has been an amazing support for friends and family of loved ones with cancer. By hosting fundraisers it allows the community to "do something" for those adult cancer patients and their families as they face an uncertain future and diagnosis. Many of the organizations that donate to the auction portion of our fundraiser comment on the uniquness of the organization. While there are many cancer organizations that fundraise for research for a cure for cancer... CFL is able to assist those with cancer NOW who might not benefit from the research.

Over the years, I read a lot about Crossing the Finish Line in local media and heard about Pete Bossow and Marci Bossow Schankweiler through mutual friends/neighbors. I was instantly touched by the story and the mission. After experiencing the death of a parent at a young age, I knew personally of the unfair circumstances that the patients and their families find themselves facing. I understood the potential for missed weddings, missed birthdays, missed births -- and had tremendous appreciation for the related power of living in the moment as a family free from cancer worry (if only for a week!) I became more involved in CFL to help families through what was one of the darkest moments in my life and to provide them some semblance of normalcy in a not-so-normal time. I got involved to provide that healing family time that so many patients and caregiving families miss whether for financial, emotional or medical barriers. Every day, CFL brings me sadness and joy. Sadness to see how many young adults are being diagnosed. WHY? WHY? WHY? And joy to know that we're giving them a break from this beast called cancer for a moment in time.

I have been part of this volunteer group since is was initiated in 2004. We do all kinds of clerical jobs and phone calls to patients, volunteers and donors. Many of these tasks are time consuming and do not use the office staff to its best advantage. It is helpful, fiscally wise and rewarding to be able to assist in what ever way we can. Our core group has been the same group of dedicated volunteers for six years and our numbers are growing. I feel we are helping by using the office space when it would normally not be in use, by calling people who can not normally be reached during the day and by doing last minute jobs and menial jobs that would otherwise use office personel. Most of our group has been touched by cancer in some way and we want/need to help. Since we work during the day the evening volunteer session is perfect.

The Gala was an excellent time where fun was had by all, especially myself. The raffle prizes are outsanding and the silent auction items are phenomanal (a group of friends won a week in wildwood where I had one of my best shore trips ever). In the two years that I have gone to this event I have learned of and met many people who have been helped by this excelent charity, and so I've joined their young donors program. The only critisism I could offer is to get This organization into the mainstream so more people can learn of it and then choose to help.

CFL is a great organization. It is professional, well-run, and has made a difference in hundreds, if not thousands, of people's lives dealing with cancer. It goes above and beyond a typical non-profit due to the first hand experience of the founder and the management team. It hosts numerous, well-run, and diverse events throughout the year. I cannot say enough about this organization, it deserves national attention and as much financial support as possible.

I knew Marci and Peter Bossow as college students and bore with them as they suffered through Pete's battle with cancer. In the waning days of his life, they were laying the groundwork for an organization that would provide relief for scores of cancer victims and their families. I am stil in awe at the active love that Peter showed almost with his last breath and that gave the impetus to this organization. Over the past ten years, Marci has carried the banner and tirelessly worked on behalf of Crossing the Finish Line. Her creative energy and selfless dedication have inspired hundreds of volunteers to support the cause through participation and volunteer work at galas, fishing tournaments, fashion shows, picnics, and golf outings. As moderator of Pete's fraternity and as one of the original board members, I have supported CFL financially and through staging benefits like an annual baseball game fundraiser. The fraternity and I want to show our faith in Marci, in CFL, and in its mission of serving people in dire need of compassion. Our hope is that this enterprise wil continue to thrive and that it will be able to expand to the national level. I have confidents that with Marci's leadership and with the hard work of all of us the early dream of Pete and Marci will become living reality for people across the country.