Seeking to refresh and renew mind, body and spirit, I was led to by a power beyond myself. experiencing the Butch Femme Retreat I connected with forces within and around me that touched deeply into my inner being. A sense of peace, calm, wisdom and courage continued to grow as each day unfolded. I felt the healing and loving force of the Divine. I take a me a new spirit and deeper longing for oneness with all that is of the Spirit. Thank you C Day and Lady Day for the experience of your retreat.
Looking forward to future retreats.
Doctor Pamela Brown AKA Minister P
Having known the founders Day and Patricia for decades as well as having the honor of joining them together in their Union, I can state unequivocally that their love and caring for others is authentic and their integrity to be beyond reproach.
I have attended an event where the primary goal of "Access" for everyone was always in view.
And besides all of that they are just the loveliest of humans you could hope for.
I met my forever person with the help of the Butch Femme Community site. We met on one of the conversational sites, where we felt safe to communicate with like-minded folks. I have participated in many events, groups, sites, and conversations with Patricia and Daywalker, virtually and in person, for many years. I trust them. I have volunteered, donated, and shown up to participate because I trust them and the work they do to keep us connected and feeling safe. Thank you for being here!
I have been a member of several of the Day’s groups for quite a few years now. Their dedication to their members and promoting a safe space for everyone is admirable. They have dedicated their lives to this worthy cause and community. This non-profit outreach is the next logical step in their plans to continue to help the community by including those who may be underserved due to financial or resources constraints. I was fortunate to attend the last gathering to finally meet so many of my online friends from the group and make new ones also. I have grown and learned so much from this community and the Days, that there is no adequate way to say thank you. But, THANK YOU!
As an OFOS Butch, who can forget this tribe? Well, after the chats we had through the Old Butch Femme - before My Space, before Facebook, we had some truly funny times on the old site, remember? We all had our handles, too. I was Engine Red - silly name now that I recall; I was known as "ER"! LOL!
Anyway, Patricia and Day went on to giving us a warm sense of community, continuing with their outreach and many FB sites to create and recreate the unique bond known as Butch-Femme.
Lead by two unscrupulous people who repeatedly ask the community for money. I would not trust these two with anything financial. Unkind and unfair, they present themselves as the self-appointed leaders of the community and are committed to publicly bashing anyone who begs to differ.
ladyday 07/17/2023
It's unfortunate that you " whom ever you are" felt the need to be so negative about us. If you would like to discuss this please let us know.
I find this organization warm, substantive and connecting. Day & Lady Day are lovely, intelligent and perceptive. Creating all sorts of opportunities for the community to connect. xo
ladyday 06/26/2023
Thank you much friend
I have been a member for many years on and off. I feel protected here. I love the fact that we can all gather together with the same foundation. Love. I have always felt included with Day, and Patricia. If there was ever a "bump" in the road, if someone takes it to the administrators, the problem, or issue is immediately addressed. One of the only facebook groups that truly has no "drama". You can tell that Patricia and Day hold the rakes, and get in the dirt so to speak to keep the yard clean and smooth. Many tireless hours are spent so that I, and all members can feel safe. I like that. The members feel like family. I am blessed for being a part of this page, this outreach. Thank You.
ladyday 06/12/2023
We are the ones blessed because you are part of the family
Day and Lady Day (Patricia) have helped to form a loving family, both in person and online. Many people in our community had no family support before finding this group where they are welcomed with open, loving arms. The Days go above and beyond to create that support in any way they can.
ladyday 06/12/2023
We simply do what we can to show that we all can care about each other as we should. Embracing our differences and hopefully being there for each other as extended family.
I never knew where I fit as a Masculine person AFAB, till I found Butch Femme Main Group on Facebook.
Together Day and hys Wife, started this Nonprofit group to bring community and pride to our unique tribe.
They want no financial barriers to stand in the way of us meeting and creating life long friends and family.
Am proud to be a part of this group!
ladyday 06/12/2023
Beautifully said and on point. There should be no barriers preventing this community from gathering together enabling us to forge lifelong friendships and sometimes find that special love. Every time members have announced they are in love and found each other through the groups we host it makes my heart so happy.