All Secure Foundation helps warriors deal with PTSD, survivor's guilt, death, substance abuse, and depression through various coping mechanisms and hands-on tools, providing a safe environment for both warfighters and their spouses. Tom and Jen fight tirelessly to support the lives of veterans suffering from PTSD, sacrificing their own lives to save others and their relationships. They help navigate the invisible damages that PTSD can cause in relationships, marriages, and friendships.The mental health of military service members and veterans has been overlooked for decades. All Secure is making a significant change. There has been an alarming increase in suicides, from 37 in the Army to 49 in just the first three months of 2023. The Marines experienced an increase from 8 suicides in 2022 to 14 in 2023, as reported by Military Times (July 2023).These catastrophic and increasing numbers must be recognized, addressed, and tirelessly worked to lower. All Secure removes the negative stigma of PTSD that society has imposed on veterans and vows to make meaningful changes.Check out All Secure Foundation's epic event, Camp Homefront.
I cannot say enough good things about All Secure and the impact Tom, Jen, and Stacy have had on my life. If it was not for their help I'm not sure I would be here today. They helped me in so many ways. First and foremost they helped me retire a guilt I had been carrying around for years that had been weighing me down signficantly both personally and professionally. Second, they tought me how to banish shame and feel good about the person I am and the things I have accomplished. Third, they gave me the tools I needed to lead a better life and have better relationships both personally and professionally. Finally, when you have low points, they are ALWAYS there to coach you through them. They are angels to me...and can be to you too if you reach out. I cannot think of a better group of people to help you if you are suffering from PTSD, Survivors Guilt, or related conditions. They rock!!
I was blessed enough to find my way to Tom and Jen through my military network and recently participated in a treatment program through ASF as a Shadow Warrior after engaging with the group as a Volunteer. When I read Jen’s book, I resonated completely with her story from the perspective of a Brat and partner to a SOF soldier. Through connecting with this organization, I learned so much about my own Secondary PTSD brought on from childhood events that escalated into my adult life through the ways I connected in my relationships. I proudly stand in support as a living testament to the invaluable work they are doing to heal our military community and combat mental health and addiction issues, while preserving the family unit. This is a phenomenal effort to stand behind as a charity for any large corporations seeking to make a huge different in the lives our nation’s finest!
Photos below are of my Hero of the Nation! I only wish we had organizations like ASF when we were growing up and appreciate all the work they are doing to support our Warrior families, children included!
A few years after retiring I hit a wall with depression, anxiety, PTS and started drinking heavily. I thought I was holding it together, eventually the thoughts of suicide, why did I come back crept in. I started going to the VA multiple different providers, the Vet center, and even local hospitals for help. It was all a check the block, no consistency in treatment. Three years ago I was at the point that I had a pistol in my mouth on a regular basis. I got to the point I wouldn’t leave the house for weeks, I’d sit on the couch in the dark and physically couldn’t bring myself to walk out the door. Fortunately and unfortunately my wife caught me one morning, she reached out to one of my old commanders and he got me in touch with Tom. After talking with Tom for about an hour he had Stacy call me, that one hour block of time changed my life, she knew what to ask, how to unpack a careers worth of issues. I actually felt hope for the first time in years. I remember wishing I could feel something other than anger, hate, and sadness. Tom, Jen, and Stacy gave that back to me, they worked with my wife to help her process the side effects of military service and combat rotations and the wrecking ball I became. I have no possible way to repay the ASF, but every day I see my kids and now grandkids I know it’s because of Tom. Thank you Tom, Stacy and Jen, I know without a doubt I wouldn’t be here today without you guys. Scott
It's easy to believe others can't help you, to avoid facing what's causing you pain, to isolate and think others don't understand, and to do nothing, to blame, to feel undeserving, and to reject help.
All Secure Foundation has helped me break through these excuses and beliefs I was stuck with. Having seen/heard Tom open up about his journey was my first step toward inner peace. That's true leadership and the result has been profoundly impactful for me and my Wife. I am so grateful for All Secure. Thank you- so very much.
My Wife and I attended Camp Homefront Sept 2024. The language they used throughout the weekend was language I had heard throughout my career in SOF. It was powerful and was the reinvigoration I needed. Reminded me of who I am and that it is ok. Throughout the weekend, the veteran speakers used language that reference SOF planning procedures, training mindsets, mission planning, and actions on drills. I have been on this healing journey for 7 years and have 31 years in the Armed Forces (16 years in SOF). I have never heard this language used in reference to healing, self care, or relational concepts. I now understand on a much deeper level and have finally begun to integrate all my years of therapy all of my relationships have improved. To quote “You are still warriors. You are fighting a beast you were never trained to fight in an arena you have not been trained for. We can give you that training.” Every single speaker over the weekend speak with humility, integrity and true vulnerability. Spouses, Veterans, Serving members, medical professionals, non for profit foundations - all spoke with care and compassion. My wife and I have reconnected on a level I never thought would happen. FNV.
All Secure Foundation can be 100% credited with my husband finally getting help for his complex PTS and TBI issues that had gotten to the point that he was barely functioning, just a shell of his former self. He has refused for years, has been dragged kicking and screaming to on post TBI clinic just to refuse treatment. He heard about the foundation through a friend who knew how badly he/our family were struggling and watching some of the YouTube interviews made him comfortable to contact the foundation. His coach encouraged us to attend Camp Homefront and get set up for the DSGB procedure. Camp Homefront was the catalyst that really made him motivated to actively work on his PTS. He just had the DSGB this week and we are hopeful that we can continue to go in the right direction and help him find purpose in life. I cannot thank All Secure Foundation (and Operator Relief Fund) enough for their help.
All Secure Foundation has been such a helpful resource for my husband and I, in so many ways! They have offered us extremely useful resources, guidance, and most importantly of all, hope. Reading Jen's book, "Arsenal of Hope," was life-changing for me, and from that I discovered their podcast, their coaching program, their Camp Homefront retreat, as well as several other organizations that they pointed us to that have been monumentally helpful in our journey...and on top of all this, they have helped me see how empowered we are, realizing that the struggles my husband and I were dealing with were common among his community, and yet certainly we are able to overcome them! I discovered All Secure a year ago and I can honestly say that this organization has been very instrumental in what has been a year of transformation in my life, in my husband's, and in our marriage, and all for the better. I am excited to see what the future holds!
Amazing organization that completely changed the trajectory of my life. Wife and I attended a Camp Homefront, and a world of resources and education was laid at our feet. The speakers empowered us to take on my mental health struggles. We were able to connect with the Operator Relief Fund for DSGB treatment and have worked with our All secure Coach to start addressing our relationships problems, my personal mental health issues, and ultimately enable me to become a better husband and father. The All Secure Foundation eliminates all the barriers for us to get the help we need. We can no longer make the excuse about lack of access. Go to their website and sign up, it’s that easy.
As a former SEAL spouse with a husband who has TBI and likely operator syndrome, this foundation is the only one that has helped me and has normalized our experience. This foundation is the only one that has helped me realize I am not alone; and neither is he.
All Secure Foundation’s commitment remains strong in providing support to warriors living with PTS, moral injury, survivor’s guilt, and substance abuse. In supporting the warriors, support is also provided to spouses and families to assist in navigating their own healing as well as providing space to heal and repair the impact on relationships and marriages. We remain committed to supporting our warriors and their families.
All secure foundation literally saves lives and marriages. Working with them is an honor and a privilege. Tom and Jen are not only beautiful people inside and out but they work hard in this organization to bring excellence, love, care, heart and soul..want only the best for this country’s greatest heroes and their families. They and their organization are the real deal.
No amount of my own learning / reading / therapy would have given me the credibility to get through to my husband to begin doing his own work.
Camp Homefront bridged a gap. A necessary gap. Both for him and for myself.
We are so grateful for the All Secure team! We attended Camp Homefront & I encourage anyone in the SOF community to attend. We both had so many takeaways, left feeling encouraged, and have hope for healing. My husband has always said he didn't have PTSD - but hearing testimony from a community of peers, Tom, he was able to acknowledge the biology of PTSD and accept this reality. We learned about treatments for PTSD and he is willing to take steps toward healing - amazing wins for us as a couple, and for his future as he nears transition! Recently I overheard him sharing his own takeaways from the retreat, the All Secure Podcast, Tom's book, and website with other SOF guys in his unit -- talk about impact!! Thank you Tom, Jen, and All Secure for all you are doing to change the narrative for the SOF community. Your courageous leadership is changing lives.
My first outreach to All Secure was after a scary night with my husband where I was introduced to a side of him I hadn't met before. He encouraged me to reach out to Jen Satterly who helped me understand what I was dealing with more clearly. PTS was the simple explanation but anyone who has loved someone like my husband will know that barely covers the lived experience. I did a few sessions with an All Secure coach and gained even more clarity. My husband had been working with the coach as well and we did a couples session with her which led us to further our individual work.
We had seen the camp homefront retreats and wanted to attend one this year after he had medically retired from the military. His final days were rough, I can say now that I watched him slowly die of his PTS in his final days, but I didn't know it. He died in his sleep in May 2023 - his death investigation remains open, cause of death not yet determined.
I saw the announcement for the camp homefront retreat for Fall 2023 and that gold star wives like myself could also attend. My intuition said I had to go even though the idea of joining a group of strangers in the woods at 5 months post his death was terrifying. I am so glad I went.
Day one had me back in my room angry at everything he didn't do to battle his PTS. But by the end of day two, I realized that I needed to hear and apply every single thing I was hearing. The speakers who shared their experiences, services and tools told not only his story, but mine and I needed to shift my focus from being mad at him for not being alive to taking care of me. This is the power of events like this. This is the power of the work All Secure offers. It is my hope that at least one warrior at that retreat heard what they needed to hear to engage in their well-being where they need to. Events like this offer me the hope that lives can be saved and no other spouse has to experience what I experienced with my husband's loss.
I currently work with an All Secure coach who is helping me address the pain that lingers from the secondary PTS, the health impacts of living in constant vigilance, and the focus his trauma became in my life. I am so grateful for the work this organization does.
All Secure has been a blessing in disguise for me and my significant other. I was able to receive relationship counseling for my partner and me. It was one of the first times I was able to see him truly open up to me. I'm incredibly greatful for all the wonderful services offered to me through All Secure.
My fiance reached out for help from All Secure due to his own PTSD. Tom immediately put us in touch with a therapist and we began our therapy in Oct 2020. I had been struggling since 2000 with anxiety and depression since my daughter's death and later my cancer. We didn't fully understand at the time how our personal traumas from the past was playing out in our current relationship. Our therapist addressed Luke's PTSD as well as my own unresolved trauma even though I had years of therapy already. She gave us the tools to heal ourself and to provide a safe and supportive place for our partners healing. She also taught us skills to effectively communicate our feelings to each other and to work together so we could grow as a couple. Those bad days still happen but we can face them as a couple and work together for a solution. I am so thankful for the All Secure Foundation because without their help we wouldnt be where we are today.
This organization is so amazing, supportive, experienced and fully understand what those who serve, and the spouses of those who serve/served endure and the PTSD that exists. Especially those who have been part of The Unit / SF.
They provided counseling and support to me and my spouse that likely saved our relationship and helped to make it stronger. Thank you!
These people are truly committed to the well-being of the Military community they support! I feel seen and heard as a spouse, and the podcasts are so enlightening that my husband and I listen to them together! Thank you for all you do and for providing a safe and inclusive environment for spouses—even if our partners aren’t ready yet. Can’t wait to experience our first Camp Homefront.
I have reached out to this organization when I was in need of help for my soldier. He was going down a path of self destruction and we were looking for psychological and medical assistance as military doctors were not assessing his chronic pain situation well enough, to the point of no avail. All Secure was extremely helpful in directing us to other organizations who understood our situation as well as resources that would help me be a better partner through the process. So grateful for this organization and all they stand for as they truly helped our case and our relationship!
Tom and Jen Satterly have been a constant source of information and inspiration. Despite being outside the communities they typically serve, I reached out to Tom for advice, himself and Jen have been kind extending themselves - the All Secure resources, podcast and Tom and Jen themselves have truly made a difference in my life. Some of the insights I have gained have helped me understand how ptsd can be addressed and treated - I can’t think of better advocates or people - All Secure Foundation is a bedrock resource for me and it should be for you too.
My family survived 20 years of war including 10 combat deployments. When I retired I wasn’t ready for the fight that was waiting for me. I wasn’t prepared to confront my demons and the many compartmentalized traumas that had accumulated, and waited for my purpose to become unclear and without my tribe I was doomed. The All Secure Foundation stepped in and guided me and my wife through this most challenging fight. The tools they gave us provided a fighting chance to regain our happiness. Without the ASF, marriages are likely to be crushed during reintegration post military service.
Former Army Staff Sergeant then Federal Law Enforcement Officer who suffers from PTSD. I started listening to the All Secure Foundation because I felt like I could relate to these heroes who are sharing their experiences with everyone! I’m also very grateful that my recovery through all the pain and suffering is greatly improved do to outlets like this. Being surrounded by others that have already walked through some of these nightmares helps you transition through the hard days! May God bless these warriors and their families who haven’t given up on us yet! Give the strength Lord to carry on and help us help someone else! Amen
This organization changed the entire way I viewed my marriage, for the better! My approaches to certain situations and my reactions have entirely shifted in a more positive manner. Jen's book opened my eyes to no longer pointing the finger at my husband for what war has caused but to hold him close and as a team, handle whatever we were facing, together. I am forever indebted.
Awesome service for our Veteran Families!! Continues to make a major impact in the health and transition of our veterans as they integrate back into our communities
I had a friend in dire need of help. He was slipping deeper down a route of no return. He connected with All Secure and they literally saved his life. Saved a human life!! Is there a greater calling than that?
Tom and Jen have gone above and beyond for my partner and myself. Their genuine care and interest in our wellbeing has been amazing.
Both of their books have helped us understand why I am the way I am, that it doesn’t have to be permanent, and how she can best help me get to where I need to be, for both of us.
Tom & Jen took time out of their busy lives to come and talk to the fellow Vets & I (OIF/OEF group) out at Scott Air Force Base
They told us about their non-profit organization "All Secure Foundation" and all the great things they are doing to help Veterans
Even more they are extremely down to earth sharing stories from their own personal experiences in order to help others
I am grateful for their hard work and dedication of service to others
& Look forward in continunuing on the right path w/ my own life w/ the RIGHT kind of company
If you are like-minded these are the People you need to get with❕
I was a former commander for a police unit and had a employee who is a Veteran and was having suicidal thoughts. I phoned Tom and Jen Satterly and they were able to give great advice to the Veteran Employee and also set the employee up for 3 counseling sessions with a Psychologist. What a great resource the All Secure Foundation is!! A+
Incredibly responsive in times of need and extremely knowledgeable for those who have served to provide resources for healing. I recommend All Secure Foundation highly!
The All Secure Foundation is a God send to veterans (active duty or retired),and veteran families. We have been working regularly with their amazing psychologist, who has been a cornerstone of support for us through difficult times. The ceo's Jen and Tom, are also always willing to help, as long as you take the first step - which is reaching out. EVERYONE we have met, worked with,and had the pleasure of spending time with (at the couples retreat) were humble, kind, honest, and beyond supportive. When you've lost faith in the medical system, the lack of care the military show for their service people and their families, All Secure offers a ray of Hope. And we all need that. Especially those who have dedicated themselves to their country, to fight for sovereignty abroad, and come home and are so horribly neglected in their own suffering.
Tom and teAm continue to live their mission. Their service continues and makes a difference to countless people deserving and needing help.
Honest. Donations go exactly where they say it goes. Owned and operated by former Delta CSM and his wife. Tom has experienced exactly what the organization is trying to help what others are struggling with.
Jen and Tom have and are helping us live our best life. The stigma must go away, it is strong and brave to ask for help. There is work to be done that leads to a more amazing marriage. All SOF couples would benefit from All Secure retreats and counseling. The subjects and work are relevant. They and their team are beyond creditable, and achieve results. 31 years and going strong. We are grateful for them!
Meghan and Joe Barnard
I haven't been directly involved but Mr. Satterly regularly posts things on LinkedIn which have reached me. Satterly gets an immediate ear being who he is and what he's done in his career and I have to commend him for writing and communicating in ways that are antithetical to how I know he was molded in his past. It's really important for veterans to read about the feelings and experiences they are in the midst of in accessible ways and when it comes from him there is credibility which may not be a given if delivered from someone else.
I imagine your organization reflects the same care and thought as your figureheads are displaying.
Thanks for all.
I am not sure what my life would be without Tom and Jen Satterly. I was given Jen's book to read as I was navigating the end of a long-term relationship with my ex. Although they do everything to keep the family unit whole, I needed to make myself whole again since I lost myself in that relationship and was the only one working at it. I found comfort in knowing that everything I had gone through and was going through was something Jen had been through as well. I didn't feel crazy for wanting to make my relationship work and I didn't feel alone in navigating the breakup following. I worked with one of their coaches for a few months after the breakup and I honestly wouldn't be where I am at without Stacey. I am in the midst of one of the best years of my life and I feel that has everything to do with the guidance from All Secure Foundation. I can't recommend them, the coaches, and their books enough.
My husband and I attended the June 2022 Camp Homefront retreat All Secure hosted and it was incredible. This retreat was located at the beautiful Big Cedar Lodge in Missouri but the scenery and amenities weren't even close to the highlight of the retreat. The highlight was getting the opportunity to learn from All Secure’s founders, Tom and Jen, the professional counselors they have on staff, and other special ops couples. My husband and I were able to undo some of the damaging patterns of communication we had developed during our “survival mode” and were not equipped to reset. This retreat allowed us to learn different, healthy and practical means of communicating through conflict or hardship and we have been working hard since the retreat to create a new pattern.
This organization truly and deeply cares for the community and it shows, the vulnerability offered at the outset allowed other couples to jump in, share and get to work repairing. It was incredible to watch All Secure work diligently to strengthen couples and families.
Tom & Jen came to Charlotte to speak at the Patriot Gala. The All Secure Foundation team’s keynote helped to raise money for other veteran service organizations. Tom exercised radical candor to share his suicide survival story, with Jen standing firmly by his side, and this story landed with—at a minimum—one veteran in particular. Me. While I think back fondly on the night, connecting with Tom and Jen over more brown liquor than I should have, the true value of the interaction did not sink in until much later. I had a mental health crisis at the end of 2020 and I was hospitalized for suicidal ideations twice due to mania and psychosis brought on by bipolar disorder. In the midst of an episode that made grasping reality an elusive pursuit, I had one beacon of clarity: it’s okay to talk to someone and get help. If the guy who reminded me of the bigger, better, stronger, faster version of me in the mirror (MILK, It Does a Body Good commercials circa ‘92) - Tom Satterly - is vulnerable and courageous enough to take on this thing called mental health, it’s not just okay, it is actually the strong thing to seek help. I have a deep sense of gratitude for the All Secure Foundation’s mission, the message of struggling well after trauma, and the beautiful love story behind Tom & Jen. Keep saving lives!
"Bandaged hand in hand..." -Hail, Hail by Pearl Jam
Tom and Jen Satterly have somewhat miraculously managed to convert their own personal traumas, tears, and triumphs into an organization devoted to help others struggling with the same.
Having both gone through unimaginably horrific times in their lives, they have persevered, and by supporting one another, they now have the strength to support others and help guide them away from the darkness and self-destruction they have experienced.
I can not recommend the All Secure Foundation highly enough, especially to the Special Operations community. Tom and Jen know first-hand what a high price those warriors pay to protect our freedom and safety, and the impact it has not only on the Operator themselves, but on their spouses, children, and loved ones.
If you're a member or spouse of someone in the Special Operations community who is struggling, contact All Secure Foundation today. They can help you just as they have helped hundreds of others.
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I support All Secure Foundation because I know without a doubt and without hesitation they would support and help me and my family. With All Secure, help and hope are only one step away. PTS, TBI and the moral injury can change your brain, but so can healing. I will always support this team with love and light relentless in healing the warrior spirit fight.
I will try to do my best to put my words down. First I will say that the mission executes what the mission states. My husband and I left with the tools we need to get started with managing PTS. We were able to reconnect to a new level. Every person involved during this process was a good listener, caring, loving, and thoughtful. We look forward to being a part of this family. We look forward to our aftercare. We left with knowledge and new friends. We find workshops for marriage and dealing with PTS very valuable and just as important as regular doctor visits, dental, and vehicle services. We hope to attend another workshop in the next year. Thank you to this amazing foundation!!!
I love the job we get to do and watch the lives change from angry and confused to happy and understanding. We will not quit until we physically cannot go on. We are here for all those in need.
My husband has been a member of the Special Operations community for years with numerous combat deployments. Recently, he was officially diagnosed with PTS. All Secure Foundation has been pivotal in our road to understanding, accepting, and surviving his diagnosis without sacrificing our marriage.
ASF invited us to participate in an intensive marriage experience that allowed us the safe space to share, relate, work, cry, and begin to move through some of the unhealthy habits we have created in our marriage. The counseling was true and direct. The people were honest and genuine. The intent, to help, was achieved.
After the experience, we were not left “hanging on the wind”. We were given resources, phone numbers, contacts, and genuine wholehearted support.
We couldn’t be more thankful.
The marriage retreats these guys pull off are bar none the best I’ve ever attended catering to every detail of the experience. The professionals that put these on are absolutely the best you will ever find and my wife and I came back fresh and full of knowledge ready to create an amazing relationship together. Thanks Tom and Jen for making this happen. Both are Rockstars!
The folks at the All Secure Foundation are selfless and relentless in their pursuit to end Veteran tragedy. Experiencing a full range of emotions at once can make you feel overwhelmed and isolated. Dread, panic, anger, loss of concentration, shame, pain, and the list goes on. It starts with listening and the people at All Secure are there for you. Then listening to what others are going through starts to ease the loneliness. The book, “All Secure” and the work of the Foundation make tomorrow possible and rock bottom seem further away. Alcohol numbs my pain. Due to the All Secure Foundation I have stopped magnifying my syndrome with alcohol. I bury my second cousin tomorrow, also a Veteran, due to liver and kidney failure as a result of alcohol. Thanks to Tom and Jen for all the lives they have changed and saved.
Tom and Jen are genuine souls who make a difference in veterans and families lives everyday. Thank you!!!
My husband is a retired OEF Combat, Special Ops Veteran who bravely reached out to All Secure Foundation about an upcoming couples retreat that we attended a couple of months ago. Our marriage is challenged every day, working with PTSD & secondary PTSD. The subject is something Jen, Tom, & Stacey know from the depths of their hearts. Jen & Tom were amazing -they were so open with their own stories, it helped everyone in the group share their stories as well. I am eternally grateful to Stacey for helping us with a real breakthrough we had been struggling with in our relationship. We are on our way to healing & even more love & strength in our family and All Secure helped us attain this precious gift.
This organization has went above and beyond for my family and I. They continue to pave the way for active military/vets struggling with PTS. Living Up to their code No One Left Behind.
Tom and I worked together but at the time I looked up to him too much to ask for help or imagine that he could possibly struggle like I felt I was. When I retired and felt more alone than ever Tom and Jen shared their experiences with humility and with an open ear. I feel confident and encouraged having folks two steps ahead in their journey of healing and wellness. I consider it my privilege to know Tom and Jen and to have them on my side when I need an ear or a voice.
All secure is more than an organization it’s a mantra worth repeating for those who are suffering.
All Secure Foundation has provided the community with the unconditional love and support our Combat Veterans and their families have been praying for since the internal battles first began. Tom and Jen Satterly have broken barriers that have helped to destigmatize Combat Veterans with PTSD as well as embrace spouses who have silently battled secondary PTSD as a result of their warrior’s deployment related traumas. The struggle is real. But, the presence of hope and happiness after nearly two decades of love and war is even more real which is something we’d almost completely given up on. I’m so very grateful to Tom and Jen for being advocates and having the guts to break the taboo topics of combat related PTSD and the Veteran Suicide Epidemic. Tom has taken his vulnerabilities and turned them into a super power by empowering our families to have the courage to face these tough challenges and never give up hope. There are no words to express my gratitude, but we are beyond thankful for everything this foundation stands for.
Reading and learning that there were a lot of demons in my head just from reading Tom's book made me realize that I am normal. A weird kind of normal. There were many times I thought about joining the 22 a day club, and ultimately for whatever reason I chose to stick a round. After reading Tom's book, I was in tears. I sent an email and poured just about everything out. I didn't expect to hear back, but telling someone something about the fears and pain in my head was a step. Tom emailed back and gave me advice. It was some of the best advice I could get. I pass it along to others, to talk to someone, anyone, tell them you are hurt. There is no weakness in wanting to get stronger and overcome demons. Thanks to Tom and the foundation I can help others.
I cannot Express in words how much Tom and Jen Satterly have help me. Podcast, open discussions, real life Veteran topics with no BS candid, professional and heart felt healing answers! They care and the do it on a whole different level. I've been to counseling, clinics and programs and I've received the same regurgitated words every time for different people but, never from Tom, Jen and the All Secure Team. Everything that has been discussed, tabled and mentioned thus far has hit home with me personally and it has been extremely healing for me and my family!
I’ve witnessed first-hand the immense amount of passion and determination to help others that Tom and Jen continuously display. Their devotion to the All-Secure Foundation is making a true difference in the lives of those they serve.
Tom and Jen do everything out of integrity. They are empathetic and benevolent people. They will fight your battles with you and help you see the light at the end of the tunnel!
I love you both and thank you for everything you’re doing!
Adela❤️
We have worked with the All Secure Foundation and have found them to be an incredible organisation with a tremendous vision to improve the lives of US Veterans. We feel truly honoured to associate with them from the other side of the 'pond' (United Kingdom) and look forward to ever improving our relationship in the future.
They come with my highest possible recommendation.
The “All Secure Foundation” has provided unwavering support to so many of my SOF brethren! There is no finer group of people providing this kind of help!
What these folks are doing for our community is amazing. Tireless energy, dedication and non-stop caring.
I experienced their services first hand during an All Secure Foundation retreat in Missouri last September. The time and effort put into this was immediately apparent. While there was certainly counseling and such, the curriculum also included time to enjoy the nature of the area along with alone time with your significant other. A relaxing and non-judgemental environment for all.
I honestly had no idea what to expect going in and have to say the experience FAR exceeded my expectations. I learned more about myself and my brothers, and my fiancé learned much also regarding me personally and our community; that I’m not the only person dealing with things foreign to many.
Tom, Jen and Stacy, I can’t thank you enough for everything, to include my new found tools to reference whenever I need.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL!
The All Secure Foundation does a great job fighting one of the toughest and saddest subjects, veteran suicides. I have know Tom for many years and in his book he details his own demons he had to overcome, and his testimony is a lesson for all of those on the brink. He and his wife Jen pour all their energy into this crusade to prevent veteran suicide.
All Secure Foundation has aided my SOF Veteran family in the most effective manner possible. They immediately provided us with superb professional support that was caring, helpful and fully engaged to help through a difficult process.
I've had the privilege of collaborating with Tom, Jen and Andrew at All Secure Foundation. They're an amazing group of people who have combined their collective deep-level experience, knowledge, and empathy into serving a vulnerable population of veterans in need of help. They work with professionals to provide counseling, programs, and an ear to listen for people who need it most, and they were able to help a friend of mine at a critical time. Proud to know such great people and such a great foundation.
I had the pleasure of meeting them at a fundraiser where he was promoting ALL SECURE. I got the chance to chat with him 1:1, he's genuine and his wife is book of knowledge.
Isolation in the midst of COVID19 was tearing through our home making it a unfamiliar battleground. My husband and I were struggling coping with our PTS and began to act on those dark thoughts and say horrible things to each other. Our lack of sleep and hypervigilance created a boiling pot of emotions. We found neutral space in the house and took moments of silence to collect ourselves. My husband opened his phone and found a link to an FB live post from Tom. My husband started listening to the live feeds and began to not only check himself but bring me into the mix. A few weeks later I was connected on FB. A message about SHAME hit me center mass and changed my thoughts, I knew I needed help. Tom immediately reached out and connected me to a therapist who wasted NO time getting me on the line. Their ability to zero in on some of the issues my family faced brought me out of a dark place yet kept me accountable to be present. To date, we are using every tool provided by the ALL SECURE team. We didn't quit. We put on the gloves and got in the rink to face our invisible enemy.
All Secure Foundation is filling a deep need for support for the families of our Veterans. The professionals there are top notch and they will stop at nothing to support the people who protect our nation.
Tom is a genuine warrior and when combined with Jen, they make a dynamic team helping our nations warriors. I can not speak enough about their character and big hearts.
Outstanding organization that helps Special Operation folks and their families heal through PTS. These folks are amazing, and if it were not for the example that Tom set, I wouldn't have had the courage to seek help.
Tom & Jen Satterly, the founders of All Secure, work non-stop to assist vets, active military, and first responders with their PTS/PTSD. They are truly dedicated, compassionate, & invested in doing what’s needed!
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Tom & Jen Satterly, founders of All Secure Foundation, are truly devoted to vets & their families suffering from war induced PTSD/PTS and related issues. These folks are pretty much at it 24-7 citing relevant articles and research as well as providing various services. If you're a vet and struggling, these are the folks to consult.
In my darkest of times Tom was there for me and attempted/offered to help me and my wife when she quit on me. I know if she wouldn’t have quit and we would have let Tom and Jen assist us we could have made and likely thrived..... but such is life! The fact that Tom listened to me and pushed me to finish his book really means a lot to me. I am huge supporter of the work All Secure Foundation is doing... ALWAYS will be!
Tom and Jen are emissaries of hope that are fused together in first person experience as combat veteran and spouse. I recall a conversation with Tom and Jen in the early stages of building All Secure Foundation. As we discussed the complex needs of SOF veterans, active SOF Operators and the veteran community in general, Tom stated "I'm on it!" To some that might be passed as cliche - but not in my mind. I've seen Tom's tenacity in the dusty streets of Mogadishu and knew those words come only with deep commitment. Jen has proven time and again her unwavering fidelity to Tom and the mission of All Secure Foundation! They are not self-serving as evident in the many great programs they reference in the All Secure Website. All Secure Foundation Team is exemplary!
Toms got your back. I’ve worked for Tom and indirectly with him. He cares about people in the community and would give the shirt off his back to help them. Jen has been right there with him in my experience.
As a veteran, the very idea that 22 of my brothers and sisters are taking their own lives each day is just unconscionable.
The work that ASG does to reach out to and help our SpecIal Forces Vets and their spouses is beyond commendable. Tom and Jen have a keen insight into the needs and the process, because they continue to Walk the Walk through these struggles in their very own lives. These aren’t gurus on the mountaintop. This is a highly-decorated Special Forces vet and his tirelessly devoted wife sharing their own journey-in-progress and simultaneously reaching back within the community to pull others along on the path to recovery and healing.
As Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen, and Marines, we pride ourselves in uniform on not making the emotional decision, but the right decision. Then we struggle to deal with all the emotions we’ve suppressed throughout the years, especially those emotions experienced in combat situations.
As veterans, we’re far more resilient than we’ve given ourselves credit for...and All Secure Foundation helps us remember that fact, especially for those veterans who struggle to cope. All Secure extends a helping hand to our brothers and sisters, so we can decrease depression, suicide rate, and helps our veterans avoid despair in the future.
I applaud The All Secure Foundation’s efforts and proud to say I support Tom and Jenn!
Started by 2 of the most down to earth people you could ever want to meet. They have surrounded themselves with the goals of rebuilding special force operations vets and helping them with their PTSD. They continue to grow and build and I hope they never stop. I’m very fortunate to know them.
The work, passion, of All Secure has generational impacts on the "family unit" through advising, mentoring, and counseling the family members. In order to solidify the family foundation and structure, communication between spouses is key and must be open in order to fill the void that many veterans feel they have in their relationship.
The people at All Secure understand the mission and are passionate. Many have lived through and survived similar hardships while serving in the military, civil service, and spending time away from loved ones.
I’m on the board of trustees for another veterans charity and we have begun to interact with All Secure. Tom’s background, Jen’s devotion, and the methodology they use to bring veterans back into their family dynamic are all reasons we support them unconditionally.
All Secure Foundation ( https://www.allsecurefoundation.org ) is, by far, one of the best veteran focused nonprofits you can support. All Secure Foundation is passionate about providing all-inclusive couples healing retreats for Special Operations combat warriors and their spouses who have been battling the adjustments to life and on the home front and the effects of Post-Traumatic Stress. The founders, staff, and volunteers understand the challenges and stress of life during and after service in the Special Operations community as they have experienced their own physical, mental, and emotional pain and had to learn to heal, cope and rebuild their own lives and families. To really understand what All Secure Foundation is about, please take some time to view 'Original Freedom' Podcast #24 (https://youtu.be/Jyf4-fc1aJ4) where former Delta Force Operator Scot Spooner interviews All Secure Co-Founders Jen and CSM(R) Tom Satterly.
I have known Tom and Jen for a year and have helped them and their foundation during this period. They have a tremendous passion of helping combat special operations veterans and their families heal from the invisible wounds of war. They created All Secure Foundation from their own experience with post-traumatic stress, positive therapy for the combat veteran as well as the spouse, and the constant daily challenges. They are transparent and help others know that healing is a process, a marathon rather than a sprint. This foundation is dedicated to helping not only the SOF combat veteran, but their family as well. All Secure Foundation understands how important it is to help the inner circle of family who support that veteran and who at many times are also experiencing their own secondary post-traumatic stress. Their workshops and programs are designed to provide the tools necessary for the relationship and the healing to begin. I can't wait to watch this foundation and the work that is underway grow further.
This foundation was built by a special operations Soldier and his wife to help others overcome the trauma of the unseen injuries of war. Their experience in this matter is paramount to the overall healing process. They tackle the issues from both sides as family members and the veterans join forces to combat he daily struggles of reintegration into society after combat
Deployments. The book all Secure is written as a how to guide after the trauma.
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I have volunteered for this foundation and they are extremely giving, big-hearted people who will do anything to help out anyone who is struggling. I just wish more Veterans knew about this because I’ve seen so many families whose lives who have been changed already, but there’s still so many to reach. Keep up the good work!
I was privileged to have Tom as one of the leaders in my last organization in the Army. He was always a professional and I never even had an inkling of what he was going through.
I now have the privilege of seeing the same professional working through his troubles and continuing to serve others by helping them to find the resources they need and sharing his story along with his wife Jen. Every day they prove that strength is not just an individual event but a team effort and sometimes includes showing your vulnerability.
This is a great cause.
The All Secure Foundation is a fantastic organization with a truly needed mission. They are veterans helping veterans and are very focused on this mission. Their web site is easy to navigate and filled with lots of helpful information not only for the veteran but also for their families. They help empower veterans to lead meaningful lives. I highly recommend supporting the All Secure Foundation!
Great people giving back to help America's Heroes!! Jen and Tom are two awesome down to earth people with a desire to help others going through some of the same struggles. Even after 25 years of service to our country Tom is giving back more to those who need it the most. Awesome!! Thanks for your service and what the two of you are doing with this foundation.
Below is a picture of me with Josh Collins who served with Tom for many years. Both of these men struggled mightily with depression and both came very close to taking their own lives. I am truly thankful that they are both still around to inspire me to battle my own internal demons. I follow their progress through their new lives every day.
I have had the pleasure of watching Tom and Jen create this All Secure Foundation, and to say that it has been an epic success is an understatement. Tom's willingness to display emotional vulnerability in the sharing of his personal journey makes him one of the few, from his cut of cloth willing to demonstrate leadership in this very unfamiliar and uncomfortable way. This fact alone ensures that his message of awareness coupled with action will save "your" life......if you work for it.
I have first hand experience in what Tom and Jen are doing and it requires the courage to be judged, and both possess enough courage to stay the course.
Jen is no doubt the best partner Tom could have in this journey of facilitating the healing of other warriors. Her passion for executing this mission and true passion, is palpable, and her ability to inspire and connect is a beautiful thing to experience.
Jen has personally helped me with several issues concerning my diet and overall health, as well as provided sound guidance around several personal relationship issues.
All in all I just want to express my support for what All Secure Foundation is doing, and will continue to support and "put my name on" anything they do.
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As a combat veteran and President of a company, I can tell you that it is a rare mix that All Secure provides. You need someone who understands the personal perils of combat and no one on the planet knows more about that than Tom Satterly. If I or anyone I know needed help, Tom would be the first person I would call. Jen has the business experience and background to ensure the service and impact of All Secure can be optimized. You never need to ask whether the right decisions, direction or heart is at work with All Secure. Tom and Jen have always been about others and this is an opporrunity for them to formalize it all and impact so many more in need.
Tom and Jen are two of the most dedicated people I know in the fight against PTS and Veteran Suicide Prevention. They is always available to help Vet's that are in need and have exceeded any expectations I ever had of a Non profit for Vet's
Tom & Jen are spearheading and leading the way for our warriors and warrior families after so much has been asked of them. Tom & Jen are helping to pave a supportive path for these special warriors to find the support they may need after a lifetime of relentless self sacrifice. Opening up this type of soul baring, genuine, raw and honest support for our guys. It’s a godsend.
My personal experience is with special operations veterans. They asked for the hardest, nastiest, and most dangerous work. In my family that person did not come home and his wife and daughters were left to figure life out without him. I see allsecurefoundation.org providing liquid assets and resources for these men and their families. They are appreciated and never forgotten. The best nonprofit