A Mother’s Rest has given me just that several times now. As a result, my parenting, my work and over outlook on life has benefited greatly. Rest is method of healing and a welcome addition to a weary parent of an adult children who require extra care 24/7. These breaks are treasured and wholly appreciated by the mothers, sisters and grandparents who attend. I’ve met so many that now we count on each other for connection and friendship in those good days and not so good ones. There is a special place in heaven for the people who are responsible for A Mother’s Rest. Thank you, Andrea! We thank the organizers, the participants, and the participating inns for this splendor! We are grateful for all of their support.
My husband and I participated in one of the couples getaways, and we had an amazing, restful weekend away. The Sandcastle Inn in South Haven, MI, was wonderful. We had everything we needed in the facility, and it was close to lots of local businesses, restaurants, etc. The price for the rental was a fraction of the cost it would have been if we'd rented ourselves. Communication was great. Would definitely book with AMR again!
This was my 3rd AMR retreat this time at the beach in Ocean City NJ. Met some new lovely moms and had a great few days away . So grateful for this wonderful opportunity .
I’ve Just returned from a wonderfully peaceful, recharging long weekend at The Captain Nickel’s Inn, a Porch Partner with A Mother’s Rest. I can’t thank A Mothers Rest enough for creating this caring non-profit that connects inns around the country with medical moms who are in dire need of respite. This is my fifth retreat and I have been spoiled, nurtured and refreshed each and every time. Thank you for caring for the caregivers and finding such wondering people and places to host us.
A darling friend suggested this charity to me. During a dark and violent storm in my life as a constant care taker; a weekend away of recovery and stillness was just what my deeply wounded, overwhelmed and exhausted soul needed. The quiet, the peace, the beauty and solitude were all so healing.
It was not a spiritual context at all yet brought me closer to God. I am so grateful to have had such a wonderful, cozy and welcoming place to recuperate. The bed and breakfast I was so blessed to visit was simply impeccable and beyond my dreams. More exciting than walking into Disney, this trip was certainly a treat. I had no idea how desperately I needed this break until I had it. I feel so refreshed and better equipped to take care of my family.
My heart and soul needed this break. Happened to get an absolutely wonderful history lesson as well in a quaint historic town.
When I first came to A Mother's rest, I didn't even know I was as tired as I was, in all ways possible. I was drained and empty. I thought their motto "You can't pour from an empty cup" was cute but didn't apply to me. Boy was I wrong. By the end of the weekend, I was so full of calm, wonderful energy instead of the nervous, gotta go go go energy and it made me a better mother to my 3 children who all have complex issues. Respite shouldn't be a luxury, found at the end of your rope. I learned at AMR to make sure my cup didn't get completely emptied and by doing so, I am able to care give with joy. I have stayed numerous times at The Terrace Guest House in New Market and am venturing out to a respite in Kissimmee this Mothers day. Thank you AMR for saving my sanity and introducing me to a community of parents like me, who get it.
A Mother’s Rest has given me a community that I needed and searched for for almost two decades. The respites offered provide peace, calm and tranquility for some and camaraderie and peer support for others.
I am blessed to have found and gained friendships with mothers from near and far, and treasure the times we get to meet up again and again, or even just reach out by text. They are mothers who listen and never judge. I feel tremendously grateful to have found and become a part of this group of lovely ladies.
I have stayed at A Mother’s Rest in Mt Airy, GA twice now. This was such an amazing experience. The first visit was with a group of foster, adopted, and special needs mamas. We had such a relaxing, bonding experience. The second visit was a solo weekend. I have NEVER done anything like that before and it was just refreshing. I can’t say enough about this amazing organization that allows caregivers the true time off we need to regroup, so we can return a rested, rejuvenated mama that are kids need and deserve. The price point allows everyone the advantage of time away from the high stressful and demanding life we have at home. I am ready for my third stay soon.
I’m so thankful for this awesome organization! They have provided so much hope as we wade through rough waters. The time to rest, get away, have fun, connect with others, and learn from those with similar experiences has been invaluable!
I feel like A Mother’s Rest has given me back part of myself. It allows me to get away without having to take care of anyone but myself. Sometimes I go and am a total slug - taking in every comfy nook and crannie. Sometimes I’m more ambitious and hike or shop. It’s nice to be with other moms who get it. You don’t have to explain. When I spend the weekend at Lawton Place, I feel like I’m enveloped in a great big bear hug
A Mothers Rest is a blessing to me and so many other caregivers. It gives us a chance to recharge our batteries. No expectations….relax and get the rest we need. I couldn’t be more thankful that A Mothers Rest is here for us.
A Mothers Rest has helped me so much. Care giving for seventeen years now and it is exhausting and I have depression that going on a weekend has helped me alot. It is a soul and body rest. A mental health break from all the stress. Having a retreat to look forward to helps and gives you some hope. I come home and have more positive energy to do more for my son. Having other moms to talk to about all you are going thru helps and you can get tips that help also. Every time I go the moms bond so quick as we all understand the stress. I can's say enough about how much this has helped me.
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I loved meeting some new moms and spending time with them. I loved the Maryland Inn and how historic it is. It is so relaxing. I was surprised that wine was provided even thou I don't drink but tried a glass at dinner. I loved my room and the relaxing weekend. I love this place and how it helps special needs moms recharge and relax. Caregiving is very stressful. I hope I get to stay again. It is so popular now it is getting hard to get a spot. I love the honey skin care I bought in the gift shop. So many items I wanted so I look forward to next stay.
This organization has been amazing. I even met a mom, who has since become my friend. Can't say enough about the respite I received when going to the retreat! Recommend to any parent, grandparents, carefiver of a special needs person!
This wonderful non profit does something that a lot of people don't think about and that is just a simple act of slowing down and having some peace in your life through the art of sleep. #sleepmatters is there motto in having a beautiful home to go to that doesn't have dogs, cats dishes to clean up from other people or chores to do is a great place to make this happen... Special Needs parents often burn the candles at both ends and cause their self-care to go downhill and having these weekends to recharge makes all the difference in the world!
My favorite place in the world is the Terrace Guest House for A Mother's Rest Charitable Respite Foundation! I've been there 3 seasons so far and each visit has given me what I need to relax and rejuvenate! My last visit was my favorite - watching the snow fall while the birds were at the feeders was so peaceful!
This special needs Mama cannot tell you enough what having this respite means to me! To know that there is a place for me to escape when I am at the end of my rope, brings a little bit of peace to my chaotic world. Lawton Pl., Manor in Mount Airy Georgia is truly a place that brings about calm, peace, and rest.
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This allowed me to rest and refresh so I could continue taking care of my adult disabled son. Without this opportunity, I would never get this much needed time.
Iam so relived ti have found mothers rest.
Iam a care giver of my husband and son. Our son is 33 with Down syndrome and ptsd. My husband has lots of health concerns and alsoand last year was dx with nasal cancer. I also work outside of the home.
I had my first retreat in Galena Illinois in January thanks to a mother rest
This was my the very first time in 34 years of marriage and motherhood I had time to relax / reflex. I was only 2 hours away from home but felt like million miles with positive energy. I also met other caregivers too. This would not had been possible without mother rest
I also like to say mother rest is a great support for us caregivers. Triple A s for Andrea and mother rest
I can’t wait till I go again.
A mother’s rest is a much needed charity that supports a families of special needs children and adults. They have organized very affordable retreats for some of the most precious people we have. They are the caregivers that always put themselves last. And thanks to this charity these caregivers can now be taken care of and given the space and time they need to recoup and get back to taking care of their loved ones.
A Mother's Rest is such a gift to all caregivers of children with special needs. It allows us to recharge and come back better for our families.
I had the opportunity to visit AMR's porch partner Echo Mountain Inn. I cannot explain into words how much this trip meant to me. I was able to recharge so that I can continue caring for my son, who is a young adult with special needs. The inn had all of the best things: cozy beds, private spaces, great breakfast, friendly staff, HOT water for a great bath, and beautiful scenery! I was able to explore the town of Hendersonville, NC and walked Main Street, ate at Mike's on Main and Shine, explored Jump Off Rock, and found some GREAT thrift stores. Also, I went to the local gem mine to pet the goats. I would love to return.
This respite means so much to me and my family. After attending respite, I have a clearer mind, a lighter chest, and I'm able to serve my family no matter what challenge comes our way.
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I have had the opportunity to visit this respite on three separate occasions, both by myself and with my spouse. Each time was welcoming, relaxing, and felt like home. Want to sleep all day? No worries. Want to sightsee? There's lots of beautiful sights in the area. Are you a foodie? You have a full kitchen to cook in or you can experience the delicious local dining. I'm so thankful for this charity. I have met some amazing parents who just get it and it is a completely judgment free zone.
A Mother’s Rest has been a lifeline for not only myself but my husband too. Raising a 24 yr old son with Down syndrome, Autism and cancer survivor is challenging. Having a place to go to refresh, rest and have some fun has been amazing this last few years. Makes our life a little easier to continue with our busy schedule. Thanks for being there for us. We truly appreciate this organization more than words could say. Sincerely- Steven and Heidi Moore
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Amazing nonprofit that allows Mom’s to rest and recharge which is so important when raising a child/adult with a disability. I’ve been at this for 21 yrs now with my amazing son who has Down syndrome, autism and cancer survivor. It is rewarding life but exhausting. A Mother’s Rest gave me the weekend I needed to recharge to continue on. So thankful for this amazing organization. Rest is so important.
I just returned from a lovely respite at the ADK Trail Inn in the Adirondacks. My room was clean and comfortable with both a refrigerator and microwave. I felt cozy with the electric fireplace in my room, as well. There is a fabulous game room and I highly recommend the couch in the dining room. I also bought Amy's wonderful book to help me bring the gift of Blessing into my daily life. It was quiet and peaceful. The wifi was excellent, but don't expect to have phone service. I was able to make and receive phone calls after turning on wifi calling in my phone settings.
I met a group of beautiful, strong and caring women. Listening to their stories and sharing mine was validating and helped me feel less alone in my struggles as a parent of a child with disabilities. I value the resources, suggestions and insight that came along so naturally with the shared meals, friendship and laughter.
This past summer, I had the honor of staying in Hammond's Hideaway at the Terrace Guest House for the first time. This is a unique 3rd floor space that is homey and rustic. I loved that the bathroom sink was remodeled from an antique treadle sewing machine because I'm a seamstress and I'd never seen that before. The rocking chair was as beautiful as it was comfortable. These personal touches are common throughout the Terrace Guest House, making it an experience of true respite by combining beauty and comfort.
I am so grateful to A Mother's Rest and their porch partners who make these respites possible. They are essential for my emotional health and well being. Thank you for supporting A Mother's Rest so that they can continue to support us. We struggle to cope every single day and even knowing that we have a respite to look forward to helps immensly. Of course, experiencing the respite itself is invaluable! Thank you to all donors who support this incredible foundation.
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Since my first experience with A Mother's Rest two years ago, I have continued to get invaluable respite that has helped me cope with caregiving stressors. The freedom to sleep until I can't sleep anymore and to rejuvenate myself with local activities is wonderful.
I made lifelong friends from these retreats who understand my challenges in a way others cannot. I am grateful to share my encouragement and suggestions to help others who are in earlier stages of the disabilities that I have experience with. I gain support and practical advice from others who have experience in the stages that I am struggling with now.
I was a grateful guest at the Scarborough Inn on three different occasions. It's incredible how Sne and his team made us feel welcome and a part of his extended family. I am looking forward to returning and filling my soul with the beauty of the art and handcrafted treasures at Stainton's.
My two trips to the Terrace Guest House were amazing retreats filled with new connections and shared emotions. Andrea decorated the Inn thoughtfully and beautifully. Amy added seasonal updates and was available to help with anything we needed during our stay. I am eagerly awaiting my next visit this summer.
My most recent respite retreat was at the B.F. Hiestand House, a new inn partner with lovely Victorian decor. I had a relaxing stay and enjoyed the many luxury amenities. Pam and Dallas were friendly and helpful. I hope to go back soon.
We are so grateful for the opportunities that AMR gives to parents/caretakers. Our most recent trip for couples was our first trip alone since 2021. If it wasn't for AMR, we probably wouldn't make these kinds of trips happen. We appreciate AMR providing the opportunity. We had a chance to talk, laugh, and enjoy each other's company. Thank you so much for this trip. We look forward to the next time.
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I had the opportunity to spend a weekend at one of the respite locations. This was the most peaceful and warm space I've ever been in. This organization makes sure that moms and/or dads are given the chance to take great care of themselves so that we can take care of our loved ones. I really appreciate this gift. Thank you so much!
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Place for the weary to land and recharge! A haven for self care! So thankful for Andrea and all the time md energy she puts into helping others .
This was my very first experience and it was amazing! I stayed in the cottage. How fun to take a bath in the claw foot tub! I loved all the little touches like cozy blankets and the encouraging signs. It was great to just “be” and unwind with no real plans.
This is an amazing organization and a gift to special needs mothers/caregivers. The thought and care put into these retreats is inspiring. They are in many different locations and so beneficial for a therapeutic reset.
I ran for board of education this spring. I was doing it for my neurodiverse family in the wake of a volatile political climate. The campaign was causing our family great stress above the norm, after having undergone so much trauma and PTSD in years prior. One adult child had been abused in the public school system without my knowledge for approximately nine years, and it was uncovered in a public DOJ case. My youngest child had undergone extreme bullying and assault daily due to his ADHD and LGBTQ status. I needed to get away.
I had known about AMR for several years, but had never been able to reserve anything. I was so happy to learn of some last-minute openings. Since I had put myself on several waitlists, I was able to get a spot at my local historic home in Maryland.
The home is beautiful and every room has a different personality. Andrea and her fellow sponsors have done an incredible job of keeping these places running and offering them to people like myself. I was able to have the freedom to do some of the things I personally wanted to do and also just hibernate some or relax and build new friendships. Since many of the women and men that attend these homes do not have a lot of extra money or time like myself(disabled kids cost more than average), it was so refreshing to get a huge discount on just having a restful-created environment to nurture in. These beautiful homes that are offered deserve more fundraising and support from the public. Thank you so much for my experience and I will be attending my next rest in about 3 days.
My husband and I make a point of attending one couples' weekend at AMR's Lawton Place Manor every year. The inn and surrounding area are beautiful and there are plenty of places to explore if you are like my husband and just can't do nothing for 3 days, while I am content curl up with a book, relax, and give my ears a rest from my son's constant chatter, so we split the time between being out and about and hanging out at the inn. We also enjoy interacting with other couples. Also, Lawton Place Manor has a beautiful kitchen so you can fix your own meals if you prefer to do so.
I was on the waitlist several times and not feeling much hope I would get in. As a caregiver for a husband on disability, an adult son on the spectrum and up until last year also my aging mom, I needed a break. My mom passed mid-year and I needed a place to grieve. When an opening came up for 'Cynthia's Chance' I knew it was God reserving it for me - Cynthia! It was the perfect blending of meeting the other wives and mom's and comparing stories and socializing, but also created space for me to have what I needed on my own without feeling the need for a schedule or other demands on my time. I am SO VERY grateful for this place and all it offers.
Oh my goodness the first time I went, I was so paralyzed from the shock of being away from my family that I didn’t even come out of my room for 30 hours. It took two baths and a lot of rest just to find my breath again. I had no idea how little I had in my bucket at that point. It’s become a priority to take care of my own oxygen mask before everyone else’s so I can do my best. It’s not a luxury, it’s a necessity.
This respite’s been a great experience for me, as a recently widowed mother of five I needed some me time and this was just the answer to my prayers. It allowed me to rest and get recharged for me and my children. Love this place.
Had an amazing weekend in Ocean City. AMR is truly amazing for giving us special needs mommas time to relax. I met wonderful ladies and had time for me. I am so grateful.
My time away was such a beautiful and needed rest from caregiving. Time near Lake Michigan, being able to spend time reading and thinking and being able to be able to care for my own soul for a few days was the best present I’ve had in a long time.
TGH was my 3rd AMR retreat in 16 months and they get better each time! I was amazed at how wonderful the TGH was and really enjoyed my time there. I met wonderful people there - "my people!" My caregiver role has evolved over the years but it all boils down to stepping up when no one else is willing. I chose to step up and I also choose to take care of me too. The time away helps me relax and rejuvenate so I can do my best when I go home. THANK YOU A MOTHER'S REST!
This is was my first time to AMR - Terrace Guest House in New Market, MD. It was absolutely amazing and everything I needed. As a mom with 2 special needs children and her own trauma and mental health struggles, I was feeling lonely, lost and at my wits end. This weekend allowed me time to rest, rejuvenate, meet other mama's who understood me and how I was feeling and share laughs with them. Much needed and extremely appreciated. Thank you Andrea for offering such a wonderful and peaceful escape from our every day.
I am a full time caregiver to 2 adults with multiple disabilities and help my elderly mom. I was burned out and in need of a break, but did not have thousands for a vacation. The April retreat at The Jekyll Island Club Resort in GA was the perfect respite. The resort was gorgeous and the weather perfect. I went to the beach, ate yummy food, saw beautiful sunsets, and experienced the uniqueness of Driftwood Beach. It was so nice to get away and unwind. Thank you!!
I am not a mother but I am a sister to multiple siblings with developmental disabilities and mental disorders and I only have good things to say about AMR. My parents now have access to a community that can help them not only take well deserved breaks but also provide support and encouragement during their fight to advocate for myself and my siblings. AMR has been an incredible resource for our family as a whole and given us a community that knows all the struggles we have faced and those yet to come. My family has been shown so much kindness and assistance during our time of need that will not be forgotten or overlooked.
This past weekend my 8 year old neuro-typical daughter and I had the pleasure of experiencing the Mommy and Me retreat at the lovely Jekyll Island Clubhouse Resort, thanks to AMR. This was the first time my daughter and I ever got to go on a vacation anything like this. This gave us the opportunity for one on one bonding time and the chance to meet other moms/children who understood what life is like as a special needs parent/sibling. I got to give her my full attention and we had so much fun riding bikes to the beach, swimming, on the dolphin tour, all fun adventures that we will remember always. My daughter did not want to leave and has already been begging to be able to come back next year to see her new friends and spend time together. We enjoyed the whole weekend screen free, soaking in the natural beauty of this resort and meeting and spending time with new friends. This opportunity was life changing and I pray that we get to experience this again.
Our group of two mothers and two grandmothers just returned home from our Mothers’ Rest weekend in Lanesboro, Minnesota.
We absolutely loved the Cottage House Inn, how clean, quiet, and beautiful it is! Meeting the builder, enjoying the lovely antiques and comfy furnishings, storing our bikes in the locked shed out back- just felt like we were part of the family! For morning coffee, pastries and quiche, we recommend the Paddle On coffee shop one block down. Wonderful design focused on water & fishing, with a cozy fireplace & lovely handmade gifts.
We also attended the powerful play at the Commonweal Theatre. The story is quite traumatic, centered on a young woman Army vet severely injured, trying to re-enter her life back home after over a year in hospital. While we found it an excellent production, it was emotionally hard to watch. If you have triggers about war, you might want to choose another activity. We’re a group that loves local theatre, and just wanted to give you a heads up.
The Root River bike trails are mostly level and totally paved, on an old railroad bed beside the winding Root River. Beautiful! We biked east about 5 miles to Whalan, where we enjoyed treats at the old depot gift shop. The trails extend about 60 miles total- lots to explore!
None of us had visited Lanesboro before, and we’re already planning a return trip next fall. Just loved everything about our stay! Hope you all have a restful, relaxing weekend! ❤️
I’ve had the honor of staying at both porch partner lodgings in Ashland, Oregon.
My first time to experience AMR, I remember crying as the innkeeper showed me around. I was overwhelmed with gratitude. I’d always dreamed of going on a respite retreat like this and it was beautiful ❤️ I felt so safe, restored and cared for at both places.
It was a balm to my heart and soul. I’m so grateful for the vision behind AMR and for Andrea’s hard work in serving caregivers in this way.
As a mom of five, one of whom is a “gotcha”, there are many extra needs that completely drain you. A Mother’s Rest has been a source of support and respite care during a difficult time. I will be forever thankful for being able to stay at The Scarborough Inn and The Chesapeake Inn. Both are absolutely fantastic and truly care about their guests. 100% Recommend!!
A Mother's Rest has been a God send! My husband and I were able to spend a weekend away to reconnect and get much needed rest at the Chesapeake Inn. The Inn keepers were incredibly gracious and the Inn was amazing. Thanks again AMR!
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We are a family of 10. Our home consists of 3 originals and 5 "gotcha's". Our children all have various level of needs and many, many diagnosis. We wouldn't trade our life for anything but the fatigue is so real. I always thought taking time for myself was selfish. I thought "who would keep the house going, keep the kids alive?" Well, a friend told me about AMR and we took a respite weekend away. Oh how glorious it was to decompress, talk to other parents who understand your tribulations. And guess what, the house was still standing and all those kiddos were just fine! AMR has been a live saver and a marriage saver! If you haven't had an opportunity to go on a respite, please sign up and take the time you need to recharge and be the best you can be for all those that need you.
I stayed at the New Market home a few weeks ago. It was so restful and recharging. Every detail was thought out. Highly recommend
A Mother’s Rest has been such a blessing to me and my family. As a mother of three young children, one of whom is medically complex and disabled, having the opportunity to go to these respites and rest/recharge really cannot be put into words. My husband and I are so grateful this organization exists (and I imagine our children are too)!
I didn't know how much I needed A Mother's Rest until I went to my first retreat. I have a daughter with Down Syndrome, and for the most part she is my sole responsibility - especially now that I'm retired and my husband is still working. That retreat helped me really get away from everything and think only about how I could recharge and refresh. Thank goodness for AMR!
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If you are the mom of a child or adult with special needs, you know that, no matter how much you love them, it's exhausting. Also, you can't pour from an empty pitcher. You need time to replenish yourself, to rest, to reflect. Maybe just to sleep! A Mother's Rest gives you that opportunity. It's such a blessing to be somewhere safe and warm where no one expects anything from you, and you can just be.
This organization gives you a chance to be yourself, not someone's parent, caregiver, or protector. This is just for you. Nothing is required, except that you do for you whatever you need to replenish the spirit within you.
Share your experience with others like you, or just curl up in a beautiful room and just REST.
There is truly no other non-profit like A Mother's Rest - an organization who sees the silent and overlooked struggles of families who are dealing with unimaginable situations. There are few resources for families dealing with children with disabilities, and the gift of respite for families who live 24/7 without a moments rest - is truly priceless. Thank you, Andrea, A Mother's Rest, and donors for providing this respite - it is not a "treat" or "luxury" - it is life giving and life sustaining to those who need it.
Just had my 2nd respite retreat and it was wonderful!! I have 2 adult children with special needs, 2 elderly parents I help and my husband is now disabled. Things can get pretty hectic here, so having a place where I can go rest away from everything for a few days is beyond value. The inns are beautiful and the cost is something I can afford without feeling I am taking away from my family.
I hardly have words for what my weekend away meant to me. The chance to rest and breathe and relax and recharge was priceless, and the nominal cost I paid was more than affordable. What an amazing organization to gift this to me and many other moms and caregivers. I’m truly grateful!
The Terrace Guest House and A Mother’s Rest literally have saved my sanity (and my physical wellbeing) on more than one occasion. I discovered AMR by accident and have become hooked ever since my first retreat in Nov. 2022. I try to go every 3-4 mos. (whenever possible) in order to keep my mental balance in check. As a special needs mom of an aggressive High Functioning Autistic (now) 13yo child I often feel stretched mentally and emotionally and sometimes can’t rely only on traditional self care to keep my serenity and patience steady. Whenever I travel to these retreats (a trip 2-4 hours drive away for me), my entire being almost immediately decompresses. I went to The Terrace Guest House for the first time during New Year’s Eve /Day 12/2023-1/2024. It was the most life-changing trip I’ve ever taken. Between the validation from other Special Needs Moms, the quiet of the inn, and the beautiful walking-friendly neighborhood surrounding it, this retreat hit the proverbial spot. My never ending gratitude to those who keep it going for the moms (including me!) who need it most. Sincerely & w/ warmth, KM
My husband and I have been extra stressed lately with the kids (and one of them getting yet another new diagnosis after 15 years...) and it took a lot for us to make this weekend happen but we pulled it off and are so glad we did. The Mt Airy property is so lovely and well decorated and quiet, the main thing is the quiet. I somehow slept in until almost 11 one day which I didn't even know I needed that much sleep but I suppose I did. With a bad back I usually am very picky about beds away from home but ours was perfect. Every room was just so nice and peaceful to be in and our corner room was absolutely perfect. It will probably take a long time for us to make this happen again but it is on our list! It was also a treat seeing our brick on the front path to the doorway!!
Just wanted to give a huge “THANK YOU” to whoever is responsible for this organization! My husband and I have 5 kids, with our oldest being on the spectrum (HFA & ADHD). It’s been a long road, especially during these teen years. We just finished over a years worth of ABA therapy (16 hrs a week) along with multiple other therapies over the last several years. I liken it to “marathon parenting”….constant paperwork, phone calls/emails, meetings, evaluations, counseling, interventions, etc. IT’S A LOT (to put it simply).
What an ABSOLUTE BLESSING to have someone acknowledge this mode of perpetual exhaustion and to come alongside us to make REST a reality.
We just came back from our weekend away feeling so refreshed and refocused. Also, a big shout out to Sandy at the Richard Bush Renewal Center ~ she’s an amazing hostess who pays attention to all the fine details! We’re excited to recommend her place to others here in Michigan.
This picture was taken today of my husband and I during our 2 hour long bike ride. FYI, I’ve never been on a bike that long in my entire life….apparently this is what it feels like to have free time…and we were happy to take full advantage of it! ♥️
This fantastic organization gives much-needed sleep, solace, peace, and the opportunity to meet others who share our struggles. When I return after a weekend away, I am a better mother. I miss my family but appreciate them in a different way returning to my "everyday life." AMR is the best model of respite I've seen so far. Andrea has come up with an area in so many lives that wasn't getting replenished. Reasonably priced, quiet lowkey location, but things to venture out to do if wanted. I love having no schedule, no clocks in the bedrooms, and the ability to be as social (or not) as I want.
Most moms do not make self-care a priority. Add in one or more special needs children, resulting in a strain on our marriages, fatigue, and poor mental health. I highly recommend this wonderful respite to break away from the daily routines of exhausting caregiving, relax and meet others who understand life's demands, and build new friendships!
The greatest gift is time and A Mother’s Rest gave me that and more! I am so grateful for this organization. I am able to relax and make meaningful connections. The inn is so charming and inviting. It calmed the mind and really renewed me.
I highly recommend the Brook Farm Inn! The owners are so nice and helpful. My room was very clean and nicely decorated, and the breakfasts were great. It is in a good location close to many things in the Lenox area. It was amazing to get some time alone and spend time with moms who "get it". Thank you for a great experience!
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Just got back from a long weekend in Utica, NY. One on my sons has special needs and it was great to get some down time! It was nice to have quiet time alone to read, watch movies, and catch up on work. I also enjoyed getting to talk with the other moms. Thank you so much for organizing and making this affordable!
I discovered A Mother’s Rest three years ago and it has blessed me beyond measure. I used to plug along at life until I hit what felt like an emergency breaking point. I would beg my husband to send me away for a week, which he accommodated if he was able. But now that I can attend periodic three-night retreats at SERIOUSLY discounted prices, it takes so much pressure off our life and our budget. I don’t usually hit that breaking point anymore. THANK YOU to A Mother's Rest for caring for caregivers.
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This respite weekend is so necessary for my mental health as a caregiver for my disabled daughter. Three nights to unwind, relax, sleep, and focus my thoughts on what is important in life helps me to come home refreshed and ready to tackle life as a caregiver. Thank you A Mother’s Rest!
The day to day of taking care of a special needs child can be unpredictable and exhausting. Getting time away in a beautiful setting, not having to worry about cooking or cleaning anything, is just such a gift. Thank you, AMR, for seeing me and taking care of the person inside me that just wants to rest and relax.
As a single foster mom, I don’t get much time for myself. Finding A Mother’s Rest has been life changing! There’s no way I could afford to pay for a stay at one of these beautiful inns without them. It’s given me a chance to rest, relax, rejuvenate - and make connections with other moms going through the same things. I can’t wait for my next retreat!
My daughter and I just attended the Mommy and Me weekend on Jekyll Island and we are so grateful for the experience. Our trip was peaceful, fun and such a sweet way to connect with my teenager. She helps our family so much with her younger brother, often handling his challenges with a compassion and maturity that humbles me. Although I know that the hard things in our life are shaping her into the person she’s meant to be, I also often feel guilty about the “normal” things she has to miss out on. I’m so thankful for this time away with her to acknowledge the blessing that she is to her brother and to our family. Thank you A Mother’s Rest for this special gift, it no doubt made a difference in our lives!
Our respite weekend was truly magical. Such precious time spent with my oldest son. I was teary eyed for sure as we drove off Jekyll Island, realizing just how amazing respite is, and rejuvenating for the soul. Andrea, we cannot thank you enough for the work that you do, to make these opportunities possible for caregivers. And to those who donate to this charity, you are forever making an impact on families who walk a very difficult path in this life. Opportunities like this for respite are so rare, so needed, and so highly regarded by caregivers. We are forever grateful to the AMR foundation.
We just had the most wonderful Respite family experience. My teenage son is profoundly disabled which makes trips away so hard to do. Thanks to Andrea and AMR, my mother and daughter and I had such a special relaxing weekend on the beach! This is the best organization led with heart and kindness for other caregivers like me! Thankyou AMR!
When I first heard about AMR, I thought for sure it was too good to be true. Then I went on my first respite weekend. Wow. Time away from home and responsibilities, in a beautiful setting, with wonderful women who understand the difficulties of caring for those with extra needs. It's ok to socialize, or stay in your room all weekend. No ice breakers or mandatory meetups. No judgement. All at a very reduced cost. I still marvel at Andrea's dedication to us, strangers. So many thanks
A Mother's Rest Foundation illuminates all that is good and right in this world. Surely God must have smiled on the day this charity was born. In my whole adult life can only remember a handful of places, ostensibly "vacations" , where there was not some transactional relationship happening. This is one of them. Months later I still chuckle thinking of the fun I had. I nearly forgot fun is a thing and the freedom to do what I want, when I want, how I want still exists, if only for a few days. Friends, the lady who champions this is remarkable. I remain in awe of how she juggles so many many balls. It's inspiring. Mom's with kids with exceptional needs know one seriously mood disordered kid is like raising 10 typical kids. If you didn't know that already, trust me it is true. And very few (to NONE) of the children with special needs have a single need. Indeed, most could have textbooks written about them. We're intelligent people. You must know there is no way on this side of heaven that so many people (all people
!!! ) have rated this organization with 5 stars for good reason; It's a life jacket for not just mom's but their kid as well since we leave refreshed and ready for battle :)
My experience with A Mother's Rest has been so much more than I expected or imagined. I have had opportunities to form new and lasting relationships. I've connected with other moms in deep and meaningful ways. I've felt validated and have gained new perspective while other caregivers have shared stories of their personal journeys. Throughout the weekends we've exchanged ideas and information, and we continue to offer support and encouragement to one another even after departing. These retreats offer the opportunity to do anything we need to disconnect, recharge, revitalize and re-energize. You make of it what you want. We can be alone, sit in silence, breathe deeply, reflect, relax, sleep, meditate, read, watch/stream television programs or movies, shop, work on a project, be silly, be playful, take long walks, socialize, explore, focus on a hobby...the list is endless...and all without interruption. I feel blessed to have found A Mother's Rest and I am so deeply appreciative for everything this organization does and offers to caregivers.
Fabulous nonprofit with an extremely important mission! I have been attending retreats for 3 years now and look forward to it every time. Sometimes it is the ONLY respite I get all YEAR!!!
I’ve never been one who was good at practicing self care but always excelled at caring for others. The past two years has been a rewarding journey but nonetheless tiring at times. My daughter is the absolute most beautiful human and I wouldn’t change her for anything.But like they say you can’t pour from a empty cup. A mothers Rest gave me such a beautiful gift and I am forever thankful. I met some of the most amazing, strong and loving women all while breathing, learning and enjoying quiet. Thank you AMR @ Scarborough Inn.
I just returned home from my 3rd AMR retreat. I feel so blessed to have the opportunity to have a weekend to rest, relax and do something just for me. Thank you to all that make it possible.
Thank you to Andrea and Scarborough in for an amazing weekend of respite. Don’t know how I would get through life without having this weekend to look forward to they mean so much to me and other special needs moms.
This was such a fantastic experience! I felt like someone was giving me a hug all weekend long because of how nice it was that an organization and individuals recognize that this life is so so hard and and exhaustion is very real and can be debilitating when it comes to caring for our kids. THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart!
I had an AMAZING weekend at the Scarborough Inn in Ocean City, NJ. The owner, Sne, is friendly, caring, and has an amazing, beautifully decorated inn. They serve breakfast to you wherever you would like to eat...the porch, on a sofa inside, etc. The rooms are clean, tastefully decorated, and the staff is super friendly and caring. I would highly recommend the inn and also love how A Mother's Rest has chosen to give special needs moms a needed break at a low cost. It is an amazing organization.
Thank you to A Mother’s Rest! I have stayed at Coppersmith Inn before (first time in 2012) and jumped at the chance to go back. I definitely appreciate the ability to get away and relax. What a wonderful organization!
I attended a long weekend with a group of Autism Dad’s at the New Market, MD home and we had a wonderful time! The home was very nice and the entire experience made for a relaxing time to regroup and gather with friends that are on a similar journey. I cannot thank the foundation enough for this experience!
I can’t put into words how wonderful this organization is! Caretakers of individuals with complex medical needs are running on empty. We have no choice, but to keep pushing forward despite how physically and emotional tired we are. A Mother’s Rest give us an opportunity to get a couple nights of uninterrupted sleep in order to recharge and be able to face the demands of our lives. This is a huge unmet need that A Mother’s Rest fills. Importantly, the respite weekends are extremely affordable and scholarships are available for those in need. This organization is top notch and I don’t know what I would do without them!
Being there for respite/retreat as a combat wounded veteran spouse caregiver I was moved by the flag wreath. I took a piece of the manor home (via photo) and now am sparked with memories of the time I seized for me every time I look at it.
I am a rescuer/fixer by nature and your place was just what I needed. There are many opportunities to get away as a veteran caregiver but they most often come in packages of jam packed schedules and classes on self care. I end up investing more in the other participants than I do myself. I needed a place/time with no commitments, no schedules, no requirements to get true rest and restoration and feed my soul. I needed time to connect with my pre-caregiver self who was carefree, impulsive, adventurous and unburdened. I feel so blessed to have been able to meet her again.
Carpe Diem to those of you who have this opportunity!
I just returned from *A Mother's Rest* respite at a beautiful bed and breakfast in New York state. What a tremendous gift. As a mother of a disabled child, I feel like the need for me to give and keep giving is constant and unrelenting. There is little time to give myself the space and nurturing that I need in order to keep being there for my child, and few supports that allow for it. It's hard to express how much it meant to have this respite, to have quiet and space and time to myself, to heal myself a little. I also had the companionship of other mothers who understood, where we could nurture and support each other.
*A Mother's Rest* recognized and validated my need to take care of myself, and my respite weekend reminded me that I am worthy of being cared for, as much as my child.
Being a mom of a special needs child is one of those experiences no one understands until they live it. Going away for a weekend and meeting other moms who "get it" was a memorable experience I will always cherish, and hope to repeat! The rest, the camaraderie, the silence, the shared experience, the laughter and a chance to reflect over several days is AMAZING. The retreat can be whatever your heart desires it to be, because it is all about YOU! No plans, no demands, no to do lists. Just rest and an opportunity to have an adult experience with other caregivers in similar shoes. Andrea is a visionary for creating A Mother's Rest.
Having multiple extra needs kids finding "me time" just never happens. This foundation made it possible to take A WHOLE WEEKEND of me time. I honestly felt so much emotion I had kept bottled up because i constantly need to be in mom mode for my kids. My therapist was even blown away by what this organization does and so happy at the self care I had the opportunity for thanks to this organization. Hoping to attend again in the future because you can't pour from an empty cup.
What an amazing organization. I am a solo parent to 3 kids and recently went on my first respite weekend with AMR. It was my first overnight away from the kids in 2.5 years and it was absolutely wonderful. So relaxing and refreshing to be able to exclusively focus on myself! Highly recommend!
Scarborough Inn in Ocean City, NJ was the perfect mother's respite weekend, this weekend for mothers with children with special needs. I went with Janet T. and met so many wonderful moms. We bonded in a split second over dinner, breakfast, porch time, winding now in the living room with the fireplace, games, cocktails, coffee, popcorn, cupcakes, chocolate pretzels, craft time, boardwalk, ocean, sunrise and on and on! Janet and I had a great time taking our walks on the boardwalk, enjoying lunches at Manco & Manco pizza and Ike's Famous Crabcakes, getting treats at Shriver's Salt Water Taffy and Johnson's popcorn, taking in the sunrise from the boardwalk/beach, and exploring Somers Point. Innkeeper Sne and assistant innkeeper Monica provided us with incredible hospitality, their impeccable attention to detail, and possessed the skill of listening, all with kindness and compassion. The public areas in the inn were decorated with interesting "antiques" (ha-for example a typewriter), the rooms were renovated to give off a modern design, and they were all clean.
The breakfasts were all presented beautifully and tasted delicious! Thank you for a wonderful time!
Oh my, words can not express the renewal my husband and I got during our weekend. There is just something about Lawton Manor that draws you to rest. The first day we arrived we laid down to rest for a few minutes. Three hours later we woke. We have slept in everyday and just enjoyed our time. We took a quick trip to Helen one day. The rest of the time we enjoyed the grounds, naps, and the fire pit out back. Can’t wait to come again.
As a mom of 11, I needed this respite more than any words can express. This opportunity provided me the time to reset and recharge. The Inn was beautiful, the hosts were amazing, and the setting just perfect. I am so incredibly grateful for this opportunity.
There are no words to express my gratitude to AMR. It is because of my experiences at Lawton Place in Mt. Airy, GA, that I finally learned how to relax after 20 years of being a special needs parent. The 3 night stay is the perfect time to rejuvenate. I have been fortunate to attend the Mommy and Me trip in Jekyll Island this year. Watching the many moms with their children, spending uninterrupted time together away from the stresses of life as a special needs family, brought me great joy. AMR is an amazing organization, and one that has touched countless lives.
Such a great organization and so thankful for the chance to get away with my oldest for some one on one time! Thank you Andrea
3rd retreat with this organization and it never disappoints. Wonderful inn and owners and wonderful women to bond with and to get inspired by if you choose to . Highly recommend.
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This is a great organization and I have gone on 2 retreats that I signed up for. I have needed these solo trips to recharge since I am taking care of my autistic son. Andrea has worked with the best bed and breakfast inns and the stays have been restful and fun to connect with other women who share similar lives as caregivers to those who have disabilities. I plan on attending more retreats in the future and visiting her year round inn in Maryland.
I cannot thanks AMR enough for this much needed respite. I was having a very hard couple of months at the start of 2022 and this time away was exactly what I needed to reset. The $50 for 3 nights made this 100% possible for me due to all the therapies and medical expenses we’ve had this year. What a gift. Such a needed community service to help caregivers take time to sleep, reset and rejuvenate. Can’t thank you enough.
** I adored the Cherry blossom tree that greeted me every morning from my porch! This was my favorite spot to sit to watch the sun set. The reclining lounge chairs in front of the house were also one of my favs!
Thank you a million times over.
A Mother’s Rest is a literal gem of an organization. I’ve gone on two respite weekends so far and it has provided such needed down time and connection with other mamas who know what it’s like. I recently went to the weekend at the Scarborough Inn in Ocean City NJ and it was simply amazing. The innkeeper made sure that we were all so comfortable and the beautiful details from the welcome table with treats, a personalized message to us mothers to the delicious breakfasts and happy hour cocktails. The inn is renovated and gorgeous and so clean. Highly recommend this inn, this organization. Andrea, thank you making such a difference to us mamas (and dads) with children who have disabilities.
I REALLY needed a break and AMR helped me to have one of the best weekends of my life! Everything about this weekend felt like a gift, from the moment I checked into my beautiful room to the delicious breakfasts (that I didn't have to prepare) to our gracious host, Angela and the beautiful, restful Inn! I never wanted to leave and can't wait to go back!
I have an adult son with Autism and ADHD. I also have two adopted sons, one with Attachment Disorder.
I am able to come to the Inn and enjoy either the company of like-minded moms or peace and quiet huddled, recovering, in my room.
I highly recommend a stay for anyone who needs some r&r and time to recover from wherever life has thrown your way.
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This respite retreat has been a god-send in my life. I have three boys; my oldest son is 17, has adhd and is on the spectrum; my middle son is 8, he has reactive attachment disorder from trauma in foster care before we adopted him; my youngest is 2-which in itself should be in medical books as a condition! We don’t have the money for “girls weekends” or overnights in a hotel, but A Mother’s Rest is a wonderful place that allows me to take care of me for a small donation.
I am forever grateful to Andrea and the wonderful volunteers who run the Inn
The weekend I spent at Lawton Place Manor lifted my soul and gave me the time I needed to rest and reset. The women I met over my weekend inspired me, encouraged me and gave me a refreshed mindset. Leaving was so hard… not just because I had to leave such a peaceful home… but because I was leaving a group of friends. So incredibly thankful for this organization and for the work Andrea and all the innkeepers do providing much needed, low cost respite weekends for special needs moms. I included some photos of my fave spots… reading and painting in the sunrooms, group of warrior mamas and my fave spot in the whole house… pure peace. Please consider supporting this amazing organization!!!
We stayed here for the November 2021 couples retreat. It was absolutely perfect. Such a cozy and tastefully decorated home, lots of opportunities to explore the area and just a wonderful time to relax and recharge as a couple. We are very thankful for this opportunity and forever grateful for the generosity that allowed us this time.
We just had the best moms rest weekend in Ashland oregon. It was so great to meet all the moms who have similar and different journeys but all the same, need to just breathe take a break, and be refreshed so we can be the caregivers we want to be for our exceptional kids. Thank you, AMR for bringing your wonderful retreats to the west coast. grateful mom - Doreen
I've been blessed to attend two Mother's Rest weekends. Both have been wonderful and relaxing. What an amazing vision to care for mothers of special needs children.
I attended my first respite weekend in August and it was amazing!
I cannot remember a time being on my own for more than a few hours in the 7 years since my girls were born.
I was fortunate to have booked a suite with a jetted tub! I used that daily and spent many hours relaxing in the pool.
It was nice to talk with other moms who understood what it’s like with special needs & medically complex kids.
I am so thankful for to have had the opportunity!
I went with a couple of friends for a respite weekend at Lawton Manor. I was expecting a relaxing weekend, but I didn’t expect the reset for my soul. They only ask for $50 to spend three nights at this wonderful home. Every other time I have wanted to try and get away I have felt guilty about the cost in addition to burdening my husband. It has been a financial hardship for me to get away. I did not have that weight on my shoulders while trying to forget about everything at home for a weekend. A Mother’s Rest does exactly what it says - I received an unbelievably restful weekend. On Monday morning I was panicked that I needed to be out before 11. After a Facebook search I realized I could stay all day on Monday. What a relief. No stress. It was just what I needed. I told everyone in my family that whenever I pass, I want A Mother’s Rest to receive funds. Unfortunately I have had a couple of people pass unexpectedly recently which is why I wanted everyone to know. The low cost, and low stress requirements, for a necessary soul reset is something no other charity offers. I am a forever supporter.
Wonderful experience. As a mama with an extraordinary little girl. Sleep is a rare occurrence. It was nice to be able to take a couple of days for me and make new friends with wonderful women in the same boat.
I am beyond grateful to have gotten to spend 4 incredible nights at the Terrace House Inn, part of A Mother's Rest respite. It is a gorgeous house with a beautiful yard (where I'd watch the chipmunks and birds come and go to the birdfeeder each morning!). Even more wonderful was the rare and critically needed chance to get to spend time with other moms of kids with challenging health issues who just GET IT. #solidarity This is such an amazing idea for a non-profit and I hope that others will support it. We parents need to recharge - this is a life-long tough slog for our kids, and for us as well. A Mother's Rest allowed me to do that and get the support from other amazing moms that I desperately needed.
Have you ever gotten a break to get away? If you’re a caregiver of a child with high-support needs like me, you’re probably thinking, “No way! Are you kidding?” If that is your reaction, like it was mine, DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN to get to A Mother’s Rest caregiver retreat. A Mother’s Rest is a fabulous charity that coordinates small, affordable respite events at participating B&Bs. I still am in shock that this worked out. IT WAS SUCH A TREAT. I know I’m screaming it but I can’t emphasize it how much I needed this respite break.
Depending on the day, I either (A) scroll social media with delight. I think, wow, my friends are in an exotic place, how fun! Or (B) Say WTF? These lucky ducks are on the move again. I will never get to go anywhere. This stinks! Let’s just say I experienced a virtual lockdown long before anyone knew anything about a global pandemic.
So, when I saw a post about a respite retreat, I thought it was the longest of long shots. I was fantasy-daydreaming of visiting the Olympics in Tokyo, finally seeing Hawaii, or doing the requisite Disney family trip. Could Kalamazoo fill in as my adventure? And by myself! What? Could I really push it and bring a caregiver friend? I thought of my friend Kerry with four kids with challenges, and thought, what the heck, I’ll ask her if she will join me and see what happens.
The stars aligned and my friend’s schedule cleared, my husband was able to take off work, and miracle of miracles, Kerry and I travelled from suburban Chicago to Kalamazoo, Michigan. We went on a wonderful 3-night respite trip. No plans, no required meet-and-greet with the group, no B.S, at all. Just time to rest! A true respite.
We stayed at the fabulous Stuart Avenue Inn. Everything was top notch. Gorgeous vintage home in a historic neighborhood. Super friendly innkeepers, Dana and Chris. Tasty breakfast food. Peace and quiet. Andrea from A Mother’s Rest coordinated everything perfectly.
This three-night stay meant the absolute world to me!
Honestly, there are not enough beautiful, comforting and words of thankfulness to describe how much having a place like to go to for some much needed R & R means to me! I love that it’s only a little over an hour away from home so if needed, I can go home without having a long drive. I truly wish I could go every single weekend. It is medicine for my soul and I get reenergized to go home and face my realty in raising my son with disabilities who is my world and I wouldn’t trade him for anything...but the breaks to go the A Mother’s Rest are so appreciated. Meeting other great and inspiring moms is a bonus! Thank you again Andrea for all you do for us tired and weary Moms. Much love to you and those who bring us breakfast and special treats ❤️❤️
I visited Lawton Place Manor in Mt. Airy, GA with my mother over Mother’s Day weekend 2021. This nonprofit and the service they provide is the most impactful I have ever been fortunate enough to receive. As the parent to a child with multiple disabilities, I have fought for over 12 years for my child - with the government, schools, medical provider, therapy providers, you name it, I’ve done it. It is a hard and exhausting job. I would do anything for my child but the stress and exhaustion is real. Having a place to go and rest at a price that is affordable was truly incredible. I can’t wait to go back and I now recommend it to everyone I know that cares for a family member with a disability.
My first time at AMR- Lawton Manor was an amazing women’s trip. I met some fantastic women and it was reassuring to know that I wasn’t the only one who thought, felt, struggled with some of the same issues. It is a beautiful manor and so much to do around that area. Cannot wait until my next trip.
I just wanted to thank you for this weekend. It’s been an extremely emotionally difficult year for me. AMR has kept me sane. This weekend was exactly what I needed. It gave me time to reflect, pray and relax! I’m going home ready to return to caregiving and the daily challenges that we face.
I cannot thank you enough for all that you do to provide respite for struggling Mamas!!! ❤️
Prior to going here I hadn't had a break in over 7 years. I was exhausted frazzled and felt alone. This gave me time to start resting, regroup, meet others who had similar experiences, and at times get much needed advice and support.
Hang with the group or stay in your room. There is no pressure, just love, understanding and relaxation.
Such an AMAZING organization! As a mom of three children with special needs, the respite provided by A Mother’s Rest is a LIFESAVER! The retreat date on the calendar gets me through the hard days and my weekend away sends me home refreshed and ready to be the best mom I can be to my littles.
I have attended several retreats in Maryland and at Partner B&Bs and each time is a gift. I find rest and rejuvenation which strengthens me to return home to card for 3 children with disabilities. There is no counseling, therapy, psychologist or psychiatrist that helps me to cope with the demands of parenting as much as AMR. ❤️
An invaluable resource to caregivers and other foster parents like me - exhausted, but motivated to persist and help others. I can’t explain how much a weekend here helped me to refocus, rest, and get rejuvenated so that I can continue in my work to support others instead of burning out completely and giving up. Priceless!! Thank you!
This is an amazing organization that gives caregivers (in my case a mom two two children with special needs) a beautiful and relaxing escape. It allows us to get the respite that I can almost guarantee most of us would never get without an organization like this. We can make new friends who have walked similar paths, relax, sleep, and fill our cups in a variety of ways. From the moment you enter Lawton Manor Inn you feel like you are home and with people who understand you. The beautiful thing is that you can make your respite weekend to tailor exactly what are needing to heal your soul and spirit. Whether that is hibernating in your gorgeous room all weekend and sleeping, being social and having adventures with other visitors or being one with nature and taking in all the sights the options are really endless. This organization really makes your respite all about you and is really a lifeline for caregivers who very often are doing nothing to care for themselves. I am so thankful for A Mother’s Rest and as always am looking forward to my next stay.
loved the quiet respite, amazing location, welcoming innkeepers, and fantastic space.
a bonus treat of being strengthened by encouraging moms in the same journey
The Oak Creek Lodge is a great place for relaxation, entertainment (game room downstairs), pool, huge grounds to roam. The food was awesome and the other mom’s were very nice as well! Can’t wait to go back!
Spent last weekend, June 25-28, 2021, finally helping myself for a change! My first A Mother's Rest retreat was spent at The Stuart Avenue Inn Bed and Breakfast in Kalamazoo Mi. On arrival, a goodie bag was in my lovely, well-appointed room, complete with a kazoo for Kalamazoo!! Whimsy, charm and vintage surroundings abounded. Dana and Chris were kind and caring hosts. We even had a bonus 4 pm high tea on Saturday and a scrumptious rustic peach tart Sunday evening. Breakfasts were a meal to really look forward to! Knowing you can't keep pouring from an empty cup gave me the reason to refill mine! Good thing I did, too! As life for caregivers never gets easier, I had challenges to face this past week. However, I had renewed strength to deal with them because of my break. Thank you, A Mother's Rest and The Stuart Avenue Bed and Breakfast, for giving me time to recharge!♡
A Mother's Rest is amazing! This organization provides the much needed fresh breath parents of special needs children are in desperate need of! I am so thankful for Andrea and the other volunteers!
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Have had 2 respite weekends at the GA location and they were both wonderful!!! Restful and rejuvenating, and made new best friends among other moms who GET IT!!! Swimming pool is fabulous, the house is in excellent condition, well-cared for, rooms spotless, beds & pillows heavenly, kitchen well-stocked, coffee gets my highest review. Charming restaurants in close by town, just about 20mins to Helen. Can't wait to go back!!!
As a mother to a spicy 11 year old with Down syndrome, I was able to attend the Mommy and Me retreat this past weekend in Jeckyll Island with my child, Sammy and an extra daughter (aka niece), Kate. My mother, a full-time caregiver of my blind and disabled father, was able to join with a room of her own and brought my sister along as her guest. It was a lovely family affair at the most beautiful resort! We hadn't seen each other for 15 months and the reunion was ever so delightful! This This was the first time my mother and I have been able to travel without the extra concern and added weight of caring for our dependents with special needs. We adore these loved ones, and can't imagine life without them, but this Jeckyll Island trip allowed us a freedom to relax that neither of us have experienced for many years. Thank you, A Mother's Rest. My soul is renewed. My spirit is filled with light. My heart is full of love.
I was able to find rest at Jekyll Island this past weekend, it was the perfect amount of time away with my mom and daughter. I was able to meet several other moms during the weekend and the encouragement was endless. I didn’t realize how much I needed this time with my sweet family but also, how much I needed the rest. Thank you for providing this opportunity, I look forward to coming back next year. We are hoping to make it an annual girls trip.
Had a great weekend with the guys. We hung out by the fire pit and listened to Bill unplugged, did some light saber "fights", saw a movie, ate great food, and learned more than we could ever have expected about bourbon. It was a great weekend to get to know each other, our kids, our struggles, and generally rest. Thanks for a great weekend guys. #awesomeplacetostay at Wild Wisteria Bed and Breakfast.
The opportunity to have some much needed down time and rest is invaluable. The ladies I met and the ability to talk to someone who understands you and your story meant more than anything. It was refreshing to only have to take care of me, if only for the weekend. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
My weekend at the Terrace Guest House was amazing! I made new friends, enjoyed rest/ relaxation & had some amazing cheesecake. The house was beautiful, welcoming & cozy. Amy greeted us as we came in Friday and was very helpful too. Thank you Andrea & all those who make this possible. I am so grateful for the experience!
This place is amazing these women are all true heroes! I'm a military wife and mom to special needs child. I never knew places like this existed until one of my neighbors who is also a special needs mom told me about it. I not one to usually express myself I'm an introvert with horrible anxiety I dont like trying new things and going out on my own with strangers. I was at the end of my rope stressed beyond stressed. I cant explain it entirely but there is somthing truly amazing and therapeutic about being around other moms who struggle daily with the same thing I do. A place where you dont feel judged or different or like your not enough. A place where you feel amazing and special. A place you get that long overdue rest you thought would never come both mentally and physically. A place you can meet true friends that are also family. Andrea I cant ever thank you enough for making this possible it truly meant the world to have that much needed long overdue break and for once to feel like I was enough. TGH snow queens it was an amazing weekend and I hope to do it again sooner rather than later!
Caregivers often don't know how much they need rest. We just keep going, and going, and going. The needs are great. But it's like sitting in your chair and reading a book you can't put down. You're reading by the light from the window but you're so engrossed in the book, you don't notice the sun went down and you are reading in fading light. It's near dark but you keep reading...until someone turns on a light. Wow! You didn't know you needed that lamp turned on but you did and it makes all the difference.
That was and is me. I am the parent of a young adult with a disability. My first stay at The Terrace Guest House was everything I needed but didn't know I needed. Peaceful. Quiet. MY schedule and activities that *I* chose. No medication to dose. No meals to prepare except my own. No questions to answer or needs to meet...except my own. I didn't know what I needed until someone turned on a lamp for me.
My grateful thanks to A Mother's Rest and all of your supporters. I returned to my family truly refreshed. Not just in body but in soul as well. As a parent and as a leader in my community serving families of individuals with disabilities, I can't say enough how crucial this kind of support is for caregivers. I see the need in others and I now I am more aware of my own needs as well.
Thank you for turning the lights on!
I cannot say enough about Andrea and this organization! I've been fortunate to go away a few times to different locations and I come back home refreshed and renewed in spirit. I'm more patient and my whole family sees the difference in me after I've done nothing but rest for the weekend. Being a caregiver is 24/7 and while I'm blessed to be my daughter's mom, it means the world that this organization and all the inns that partner with them really SEE us and value our role. Thank you from the very bottom of my heart! (Also, breakfast in bed doesn't hurt- lol)
This place is amazing! Not only did I have an opportunity to meet and share stories with other Moms whose kids struggle with the same disease mine does I also got to sleep! It’s a beautiful place and an amazing service for people who need it the most.
I had such a wonderful time at the Lawton Manor cottage. It was so peaceful and beautifully decorated. The house was set up with everything we needed from kitchen utensils to bathroom supplies.
I was blessed to find this respite weekend! It was beautiful, quiet nourishment for my soul. The location is perfect and picturesque, can’t wait to sign up for next year.
This retreat was just a blessing! It was very comfy and welcoming. Nestled in the beautiful mountains but not far from town. The rooms are so cute and my bed slept good! I can’t want to go back!
I’ve been several times and always have such a wonderful time. I’ve met several women who I still keep in contact with. Andrea has created such an inviting and caring environment and I would highly recommend going if you haven’t already.
I am the mother of a child with a rare neurogenetic disease that causes profound autism, intellectual disability, a seizure disorder and other challenges. I would never trade her for anything in the world but managing her care, advocating for her needs and supporting her is absolutely exhausting. I spend so much time fighting to get her the supports she needs. This is exactly why A Mother's Rest was such a blessing to me. To be able to go to a safe place where I didn't have to explain my exhaustion and where I could truly rest was amazing. This non profit makes it simple and extremely cost effective for parents/caregivers to be able to take the time they need to refresh. I looked forward to my stay at the Terrace House for months. It got me through the tough days. I had no idea how beautiful it would be or how well managed. It seemed like every small detail had been considered. Having access to a retreat of this kind feels like a lifeline to a weary caregiver and I hope this nonprofit and others like it will get the support they need to expand throughout the country.
I stayed at A Mother's Rest oct 16-19 2020. I had such a relaxing, unforgettable stay. A Mother's Rest goes above and beyond to ensure comfort for all guests. I have not been as relaxed as I was in a very long time. While staying at A Mother's Rest I met some amazing women and I am forever grateful for such a wonderful experience. I hope to return again soon.
As a dad with a special needs child, I need to be "on" 24-7. Most days are long and exhausting. But I need take care of myself so I can take care of others with patience and love. Opportunities to rest and recuperate (both physically and mentally), are rare. That's why I'm so grateful to A Mother's Rest for providing me a special gift: a quiet, restful weekend escape. I appreciate this non-profit and their mission, as well as generosity of the donors who make it possible.
I just returned from spending two nights and three days with six women I had never met at a home that is located only a few miles from my own house. And I loved it! I absolutely cannot wait to do it again. Why was this time spent with strangers so close to my own home, away from my four kids and husband so special? Let me fill you in.
A respite inn designed for giving caregivers a much needed rest opened about two years ago in my hometown. It is located so close to my house it seemed silly to even consider staying there. How could a stay in a home so close to my own provide me any kind of rest? I finally decided though after hearing from so many others on a social media group as to how restful it was to stay that I would go ahead and make a reservation. I booked a room for a stay which was eight months away. If I needed to cancel, I had a few excuses ready and waiting if needed. My son was sick, my mom needed my help, etc. If needed, I could back out. The weekend approached, I received an email reminder from the owner about my stay and she asked for confirmation that I would be coming. Did I really want to go? I knew I needed a break, but did I REALLY need a break? I had just come back from a family vacation. I was good. I rarely get away from my four kids. I can count on one hand the number of times I have actually done that in 21 years as a mom. I was just about to cancel, when my husband pushed me and said, “just go”. So, I did.
I arrived at 5pm on a Friday evening at The Terrace Guest House in New Market, Maryland. From the street you will see the house is a beautiful, all brick, historic tavern home nestled among other historical homes in a very quaint and charming town, but the home is located on Main Street which is quite busy. I have to admit I’m a little skeptical. How am I gonna rest here?
I enter through the front door and immediately a warmth takes over. Oddly, the sounds of the passing traffic are non-existent. The steps I am taking on the rustic hardwood floors are the sounds I am noticing now. It’s clear this house has some history to it. It’s beautiful inside. The stairwell is right in front of me, but I am drawn straight ahead to the kitchen. It is full of the modern amenities that are necessary in any state of the art kitchen today, but the wood beams add a homey, old timey warmth. On the butcher block countertop is a sign that welcomes me and the other six house guests. A quick turn to the left is a sun porch that overlooks an immaculate backyard garden area. The area is bustling with colorful birds, energetic squirrels, cute chipmunks and rabbits. (I didn’t realize it then, but I would soon be enamoured in every move all these creatures would make throughout the day.) I find myself admiring things like the wallpaper, and touching the lush blankets draped over chairs instead of what I am usually looking for which is a way to get my son’s wheelchair in and around the house, or picking out the best spot to change him. I am drawn to continue exploring this warm, inviting space. At each turn, every decoration, detail and furnishing is perfectly in place. There’s a lot to explore here. Thankfully, I have all weekend to do so.
In the living room of the house, I was welcomed by four of the guests. We shared a little about ourselves, and a little about our sons and daughters who share the same diagnosis. Our kids all live with the diagnosis of Lennox-Gastaut Syndrome (LGS). LGS is a rare form of epilepsy. Those who suffer from it deal with daily seizures, take many medications that do not offer much help, often have intellectual delays and/or behaviour issues, and a host of other issues. We live in different states, have different aged kids, but our stories were all very similar. Most of our days are taken up with scary seizures, medication dosing, doctor appointments, diaper changing, therapy appointments. I had never met these ladies, but very quickly realized we were living very similar lives, full time caregiving and very little rest. They were just as educated as me on CBD Oils, epilepsy medications, excellent doctors and hospitals, ER visits, behaviors, seizure safety. It was refreshing to be around others who get all that comes with the LGS diagnosis.
My four kids, including my 21 year old son who is diagnosed with LGS were at home with my husband. He would pull double duty this weekend, taking time off work, and taking care of all the activity at my home. One mom had arranged with several different caregivers in several different homes to stay with her son so she could be there, another had relied on close family members. We had all made arrangements long ago, some easier then others just so we could benefit the most from this much needed time away.
Very quickly, we learned that we all were coming from pretty much the same place. We understood each other. We know how common it is for others to take an uninterrupted night of sleep, time alone, time to just read a book, or to eat a meal, or to shop without anyone else for granted. These weren’t things we were used to. We were all here to simply get some sleep, have some quiet time, and to just get a break from the caregiving we do every second of our days. We wanted to sleep without our child screaming for us, or without a seizure waking us up. We wanted to read a book in one sitting. We wanted to eat at the seafood place we usually cannot eat at because our child won't sit at a restaurant quietly for that long of a time. It was immediately clear we were all grateful to be away here in this cozy space with other mothers who can relate.
Our first (and only) important decision of the night, was where would we have dinner? And guess what? We really did eat dinner at a restaurant we chose, at a time we chose, and we simply enjoyed the taste of the food, all while enjoying each other’s company. During dinner our conversations turned to favorite movies or tv shows, favorite mixed beverages, what we would be doing in our own free time this weekend. The worries of seizures, administering medications, caregiving had thankfully taken a back seat. That was so refreshing.
We arrived back at the Inn on that first evening and enjoyed a little more conversation, and then we all went our separate ways. I was delighted to make my way to my comfortable room. I couldn’t wait to climb into the bed which was so plush and inviting. Gosh. I was truly alone. I am rarely alone. I chose to read. I could hear in the distance the racing of the cars on the nearby interstate. In another time, I may have been bothered by that noise, but here and now it was one last reminder for me for the evening that it was okay for me to take time for myself even though all the craziness of the world is still swirling around me. I am quickly, and happily coming to the reality that I have two more days here all to myself. I didn’t realize how much I had really needed this time. I hope that you too can take some time away to rest.
For more information on LGS, please visit www.lgsfoundation.org For more information on respite, please visit www.amothersrest.org
So thankful to A Mother's Rest for the opportunity to get away this weekend to the Rosemont B&B in Utica, NY and connect with other moms of special needs kids. It was the perfect balance of alone time and company, and I left feeling relaxed and refreshed, having made new friends. These retreat weekends are such a lifeline!
I’m a mom of two special need boys. I have no family and I am constantly on the go. The respite inn gave me a chance to focus on myself for once. It’s amazing. So relaxing and beautiful! I’ve met some wondering people as well. I’m so blessed to have this opportunity so close by. Thank you.
A Mother’s Rest has been a lifeboat for me and so many other exhausted caregivers! They have truly created a welcoming and peaceful environment so that we can just be at peace! For so many of us this is the only time we get to just sit, be still, read, nap, and just rest. I am so thankful for this organization!!
Staying at the Terrace Guest House was something I didn't realize I needed until I got there. I got to let all my worries go and just relax. Nothing was expected of me and it was a wonderful relief to get away from the daily demands of being a special needs mom. I am definitely going to make this trip a priority from now on. Thank you A Mother's Rest!
Absolutely wonderful and will do again very quiet and relaxing with no pressures. Home was inviting and immaculate
Beautiful. Wonderful. Peaceful. Quiet. Respite. Calm. Relaxing. No expectations. Couldn’t be any better place to escape.
What an amazing and necessary non-profit. My husband and I have spent years in the "trenches" of helping our 2 adopted son through extreme trauma from their pasts. It has taken a toll on us and we were desperate for rest. Our boys need 24-7 attention. It was so amazing to attend a couples retreat recently and truly unplug and relax together for the first time in a long time. We believe in this so much that we decided to become monthly donors. There are so many families out there that need this kind of support so we can continue providing excellent care to our loved ones. Thanks AMR for providing this wonderful escape for so many families!
It is a wonderful charity, a much needed resource for all caregivers, no matter our walk of life. We have in common the need to be able to sigh and let go and rest-for a couple of days-so that we may be our best rejuvenated selves when we get back to our precious loved ones. They don’t ask for any fees and rely on the kindness of partners. It is an amazing group, especially during these times. Keep up the good work
This was the first break i have had in 20 years of caring for my children who have a variety of special needs from ADHD to severe profound disabilities. I spent 5 days away, with only myself to worry about. Spending quality time by the pool, on a beach or wandering about a tropical paradise. Alone. With no worries. Awesome. Thank you A Mother’s Rest!
I would like to add a Dad's perspective to all of the other great reviews, since A Mother's Rest also reaches out to others like me who need a break. Whether you are looking for solitude or the opportunity to make new connections with other caregivers who know what it is like to balance work with parenting one or more children with special needs, this is the perfect place. Both weekends I have attended, I found just the right balance of time alone and time with other guys who 'get it' -- swapping funny stories and also broken dreams. The accommodations were awesome and the location is a quick drive to the Catoctin Mountains and Sugarloaf.
As a mom of 2 girls with mental illness issues, I've developed PTSD from all the years of trying to manage the rollercoaster that is mental illness. I cannot say enough about having a place to go to just "be" and take care of us caregivers. There needs to be so many more of these nonprofits and Andrea is the best!
I've attended two of the retreats and I am schedule for another one this month. Time away is key to my sanity and being there for my family.
There has never been a time in my adult life that I was able to care for myself by spending time away. After finding AMR, I have been able to focus on my own mental health and be a much better mother and wife to those I serve. The retreats allow rejuvenation that cannot be achieved at home with those that need us so. I look forward to upcoming respit weekends with this amazing group of people.
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As a homeschooling stay at home mom of 2 children with special needs, the time to rest and refocus this past weekend was beyond necessity. We pour so much of ourselves into others, that frequently there is nothing left. We end up just a shell of ourselves running on a strict schedule and a list of have-to’s. This weekend away at Mast Farm Inn was a time of rest and reflection with the only thing on our schedule was breakfast at 8:30. No cooking, cleaning, laundry, therapies, Dr. appts, etc. All moms put themselves to bed, showered and brushed teeth without me having to tell them, got dressed without a tantrum, entertained themselves, and procured their own food. IT WAS AMAZING! A true rest. The Inn was beautiful and quiet. The Inn keepers were sweet and knowledgeable. The food was some of the best I’ve ever had. I would love to go back as often as possible and plan to!
The weekend I spent at the Terrace Guest House was such a gift! Having a complete rest from caregiving was absolutely what I needed, and I hope to go back.
I adopted a very special needs little girl who is 7 years old, and foster medically complex children. I just spent a wonderful weekend at Terrace Guest House with an amazing group of women. I was able to enjoy the peace and quiet or join in conversation with other moms who “get” it. I have a list of new things to try with my littles, and a little boost of energy and motivation to do them. Thanks for making it all possible!
A fellow foster mom told me about this group and that I NEEDED to register for a weekend away. She was 100% right. I have six kids under the age of seven who are foster/adopted children with emotional and behavioral needs. I stayed at a weekend retreat in New Jersey and it was absolutely perfect. I had no idea had badly I needed to get away and recharge so I could be the best mom for my kids. This group is such a blessing and the impact it has far surpasses just the individuals who attend. Highly recommend!!!
My travel buddy and I were the first two guests in The Cottage @ Lawton Manor in GA this weekend. What a grand experience! I’ll be sure to share w/ other moms of individuals w/ Down syndrome and other extra needs as well as friends who are caregivers of aging parents, etc.
The cottage is well-appointed and near several restaurants from which we did carry-.out only (think COVID). Innkeeper Sharon and founder Andrea were quite pleasant and especially interested in hearing our ideas of necessary items in the cottage that were missing.
My favorite part was sitting under the trees in the cool breeze this last morning, soaking up the sun & solace. Thank you, ladies, for a great respite!
We had a great time. As the first guests of the house, we were very welcomed and comfy. Anyone would have a nice relaxing time here. Check out the area restaurants and shops. Sharon and Andrea were very helpful!
Being at the Mother’s Rest in New Market, Maryland is truly a heaven sent experience. I am so grateful for the opportunity to rest, relax, reflect and renew. I attended the weekend for woman dealing with cancer and it was divine. Every need was anticipated and provided for. Volunteers delivered home made breakfast, delicious baked goods and even brewed a pot of coffee. That is a lovely aroma to waken to. Innkeeper Andrea is the ultimate! The house is gorgeous and has so many little nooks for reading or napping. The inspirational affirmations that are everywhere really have a positive effect. Who doesn’t want to read Good Morning Gorgeous! When they awake.
Many thanks to Andrea and all of the incredible sponsors and volunteers. You are doing the work of angels.
We have two elementary aged, busy boys who also happen to have Special Needs. A Mother’s Rest gave us the opportunity to get a way and refresh. We were able to recharge and as a result we will be better parents and caregivers. We were able to partake in activities our boys may never be able to do and get some much needed sleep. Please support A Mother’s Rest and help provide badly needed respite for caregivers.
My husband and I adopted 5 children with varying special needs as well as having 4 biological children of our own. There have been many years of great struggles. Being tired physically is not nearly as hard as the emotional fatigue. I was blessed to be able to attend the respite retreat at the Mayhurst Inn located in Orange, va. The Inn was absolutely beautiful. The history this inn holds is incredible. The Inn is in the process of changing owners and we were blessed to have both the previous owners and the new ones with us during this time. The retreat was absolutely as advertised. Absolutely no commitment and time to do exactly what “you” want. I will say I did decide to go home an entire day early. The night I arrived and the next day were fabulous as I got to interact with fellow moms who are also in the trenches of special needs. The next day each lady decided to spend the day to themselves and that’s great as that is what the trip says it can be but I am a very social person and truly time alone is not helpful for my mind and soul. I love to get away to be with others but left to sit alone is hard for me, so faced with a a day completely alone I chose to go home to my husband and family. I recommend these retreats as it truly is a time to get away. If you are like me and very social and crave interaction just understand this may not be what happens. I guess it just depends on who comes and what they are looking to get out of it. This is a wonderful ministry and I am blessed to have been able to go and meet new people even if it was just for a little bit of time.
I’m a mom of 5 age range 24 to 10. Our two youngest kiddos were adopted through DHS and had a rough road to us. Our youngest son through this adoption is the older of the two and takes much of the blame on himself for their life before us. As a result and to no fault of his own, he has CPTSD and severe ADHD. Between putting out daily fires, keeping up with his multiple providers, advocating for him at school, and teaching him hourly about how to get out of our own headspace all while trying to keep up the pace with my other kids, be a supportive wife for my husband, and maintain a home- I am worn. I have taken other solo mom retreats, however I had never heard of A Mother’s Rest until recently when it showed up in a Google search. I can’t even begin to explain how amazing it was to take some time for me to simply sleep. This simple gesture seems to come with the understanding that mothers of kids with extra needs really don’t get as much sleep as they should. The purpose is to simply sleep- no sessions to attend, no schedule to adhere to, no expectations to be social. Just come and sleep, read, walk, contemplate, or stay in your jammies all day. What a beautiful gift.
In January 2020 I participated in my first, A Mother's Rest retreat at the Afton House Inn in Minnesota.
I have two teens/adults with special needs that are 19 with multiple diagnosis. The on going care is exhausting
A Mother's Rest and the Afton House made registration easy and affordable. The staff at Afton House were kind and accommodating.
I shared meals with others mom's, and also had alone time in my room. It was a good balance of socializing and rest.
I'm so grateful for A Mother's Rest and it's partners.
I stayed at the Terrace Guest House this past weekend and I had the most rest/sleep I’ve had in 8 years! The Inn is beautiful, the beds are like sleeping in a soft cloud; being able to sit, talk, and share meals with similar Moms was priceless! It took courage to realize I needed this but I’m so thankful that I went
Thank you for this opportunity! This was a great weekend get away at the Terrace Guest House in MD. I was able to come back to my family refreshed and ready to face what may come! Also met some pretty awesome ladies and learned that I am not alone in my adventure of special needs! Thanks ladies for a great weekend! #blessed#spitslap!
I had much needed quiet, very peaceful stay at PIne Terrace Inn.
The innkeeper was generous to open it up to us as well as being kind, supportive. Looking forward to more future respites.
Thank you!
I stayed at a lovely inn through this program. I’m a single mom of two special needs children, so this respite was just what I needed! Stayed in touch with the other moms, too.
Spent a couples weekend at the Maple Hall Inn in Lexington, VA. When parenting our child we are a team...a tag team, so we rarely get a chance to both be at rest at the same time.
This weekend was ideal and filled a need to just reconnect with each other. The Inn was lovely, clean, and comfortable. There were no expectations, no obligations, no social commitments, just wonderful self-guided rest. We spent the first day running around, trying to fit in activities that are usually cumbersome with an active kid (no way are we taking him antiquing or to a wine tasting, lol). We had plans to fill up the second day as well, but after a delicious breakfast (prepared by SOMEONE ELSE--ahhhhh), we went back to our room to relax and we both woke up way after Noon. lol. Clearly we needed rest even more than we realized.
This foundation, run by Andrea and supported through her Porch Partners is an invaluable service that every Mom and Dad should try at least once.
We are already planning for one next year.
Please continue to expand and offer these respites to parents and other caregivers around the country. It is much needed and so appreciated.
This was my first AMR retreat and I'll definitely be back. it was amazing to get a mental break from all the responsibilities of caring for a special needs child. The B & B was beautiful and relaxing and the breakfast delicious!! It was so special to be in a whole house with other special needs moms. AMAZING!
Just returned from my first (but definitely not last!) Weekend away with AMR at Pinehurst Inn in Bayfield WI. Simply being able to wake at my own pace and be fully and completely able to do whatever I wanted to do eased the tension my body has been holding and calmed my mind. Connecting and laughing with other Mama's who get it is absolutely priceless. Sooooo grateful for AMR and the generosity of donors and the B&B partners who make these weekends possible.
Thank you so much! A weekend of rest, relaxation & connecting with other mom's who walk a similar path that was long overdue. I went home feeling recharged and more prepared to better care for my family. Thank you!
I have had two respite weekends via AMR at Pinehurst Inn in Bayfield, WI. Both stats were restful and restorative. Exactly what I needed. I was able to connect with other moms and also spend some much needed time by myself. AMR made the whole process simple and straightforward. I can’t recommend AMR enough!
Nov 1st-4th 2019 was my first stay a the Terrace Guest House and it was absolutely amazing!! I didn’t realize how much I wasn’t resting at home. My first day I took a nap and that never happens. I met some wonderful women who I can honestly call friends. The house is so peaceful and quiet you get time to clear your mind of all the things you don’t realize were there. Thanks so much for the opportunity to get away and reset.
My first stay at the Island Guest House in Beach Haven,New Jersey was the best! So relaxing and fun meeting all the other moms who “get it”. It was so hard to leave! The innkeepers were welcoming and very accommodating. I will have wonderful memories to keep me going until the next time
The weekend I spent at this gorgeous and welcoming inn with several other moms of children with dual diagnosis Down syndrome was a priceless opportunity to connect, relax, hear each others' stories, laugh, cry, bond, sleep, and de-stress...a much-needed break from the constant demands of our everyday lives.
Andrea has done a masterful job of creating a truly restful haven for weary caregivers!
Just returned from a wonderful and fantastic weekend filled with rest and connection. It’s exactly what I needed. So blessed to have been gifted this weekend. Thank you for being the hands and feet of Jesus, Andrea. A Mom’s Rest is a very beautiful, warm and inviting Inn. I pray I can give back in some way.
Sherry Crist
Collegeville, PA
I was blessed to spend a weekend at the beautiful Terrace Guest House with other moms parenting children with the dual diagnosis of Down syndrome and Autism. The Guest House is absolutely beautiful, and in a quaint town within walking distance to restaurants and shops. I cannot remember the last time I felt so relaxed and rested. What an amazing gift for special needs caregivers!
Amazing stay! I was very impressed with my room and the entire inn. Great resource for families with special needs children. My husband is already signed up for the men's retreat in November.
I had a great weekend !! It was nice to just do what you wanted to !! Very nice to get to know the other Moms and share stories about our kids and family. The house is gorgeous !! Thank you so much !!
I absolutely loved staying at the AMR Terrace Guest House! I met amazing women and stayed in the cutest room!! I can’t wait to go back! I love meeting women who get me and get my life!! Thank you so much to everyone who makes this possible. Andrea is someone I look up to! All the parents are so amazing and so nice! I know I’ve made friends for life from this amazing respite!
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My fiancè and I hadn't had a chance to get away for over 3 years! I was desperate one night looking for help! A vacation we could afford! As parents of 4 children with extra needs it was rare to get out and away. I found A Mother's Rest and was hooked. 8/17/19 to 8/20/19 we had the chance to stay at The Mayhurst Inn in Orange VA! We fell in love with the Inn, the Inn keepers Pat and Jack North, as well as the couples we've met! Thanks to Andrea we will be doing this more often! We can't thank Andrea enough for all her hard work and dedication!! You hard work is much appreciated! If you ever need help with anything I will gladly help! Thabk you so much! This mini vacation was just the ticket to regroup and rest while meeting people and realizing we aren't crazy!
I have finally had the chance to stay at The Terrace House and it was gorgeous! The town was quaint and friendly, lots of activities and restaurants! Andrea is incredible for providing such a wonderful time for us parents to rest and meet other parents. Words cannot Express how much we appreciate it.
Actual stay was 8/16-19/2019
We loved our couples' retreat at the Mayhurst Inn in Orange, Va. We had not been able to go away together for more than 10 years, and it was so relaxing. Jack and Pat, the innkeepers, were great cooks, providing a delicious three course breakfast every day and wine and cheese and good conversations every evening. I hope to participate in another retreat next year!
I am mom of seven, mostly grown now, but my 26 year old son has autism, bipolar disorder, diabetes, hypothyroidism "and other stuff." My life is a vast swampland of medical appointments, social services and behavior management. On top of that, I have several chronic health conditions which limit me physically.
Finding A Mother's Rest (for me specifically The Terrace Guest House in beautiful New Market MD) was like finding a great big water fountain in the middle of a desert after a 5 mile run. Okay 10 miles. Okay a 26 year run. Because that's what I do. I run. I scramble. Even when I try to sleep I don't fully rest because I'm always anxious, always listening, always remembering something, ordering supplies at 3am or making a note for tomorrow.
Enter the glory of freedom from daily life.
I'm only about 90 minutes from New Market and it's a beautiful drive but I was so panicked about going I almost froze completely. I couldn't pack. I couldn't remember what to take. I was certain my house would implode while I was gone. I posted my panic to the Facebook page and was reminded by our lovely sweet founder that all I needed was pjs. Get in the car and go. So I did.
My weekend was spent socializing when I felt like it, ordering food delivery when I felt like it, snacking when I felt like it, laying in a big beautiful bed when I felt like it, sleeping when I felt like it. The second night I slept with no alarm for the first time since... ever. There's exactly ZERO pressure to do or be anything for anyone except YOU. Some moms get a massage, mani-pedi, go hiking, go out to eat (2 restaurants within a few blocks plus lots more a few minutes away by car) visit wineries etc and some (like me) just chill. Sometimes it's quiet and you just have a huge family room to yourself to lounge around reading.
Most importantly, you just chill. Rest. Rejuvenate. Reset. To be allowed a setting where that can happen in three days after years of emptying myself out for others was the greatest gift ever.
The Terrace Guest House is old, beautiful, filled with comfort and love in every sign, on every shelf, in every knick knack and quilt. The pillows are so magical I ordered some for my bed at home. The kitchen is a gourmet dream with more bells and whistles than I've ever seen. I have no doubt the partner properties that offer heavily discounted nights for caregivers are likewise gorgeous. To have this one so close by and offered at no cost is just... beyond. I didn't take pictures because I was too relaxed to even think about it but I will definitely spread the word about this incredible opportunity for parched caregivers and I will go again. They even have a ground floor guest room (with a walk in shower!) for folks like me who can't do stairs.
For any mom hesitating... do it. Do this for yourself. For anyone considering donating... the gift you give will multiply and give so much to a worn out caregiver who desperately needs a lifeline. Thank you (and our founder!) for being that lifeline
I had the amazing opportunity to attend 2 respite weekends within a couple of months. Not only was it my first time ever going away without my son but also my very first time not sleeping in the same house as him. And I knew he was in good care with his dad. While it was hard to leave him, especially the first time given his high level of anxiety, I must say it was an incredible experience! This heavenly feeling of just not have to worry about anything - except meals which was no big deal - not have anyone constantly demanding attention, constantly rely on me. I could relax and rest as much as I wanted to while also being able to socialize with amazing caregivers who could truly relate. No pressure of any kind. AMAZING and SO worth it.
This experience of taking time out to care for myself was so healing and gave me renewed strength to continue through the challenges of parenting. As a single mom, I hadn’t been alone on a vacation in 16 years. I look forward to going back again soon to continue to rest, restore, and rejuvenate
My weekend at The Terrace Guest House was the first time in over 15 years that I have spent time away, focusing on myself. As I sat in my room the first night, I truly felt like I had won the lottery!
Every caregiver deserves the opportunity to re-energize themselves, and this was the perfect way to do it.
As an autism mom, my mind and body are always working overtime. Caregiver burnout is real, and the only cure is respite. I am so thankful for A Mother's Rest. I have been on a few respite retreats over the last year, and I can't wait until the next. Most recently I spent Mother's Day weekend in Ludington, MI at The Lamplighter B&B with my sister, also mom to a child with extra needs. Three nights in a beautiful B&B in a charming lakeside town. Three amazing homemade breakfasts. Come home refreshed. What a blessing.
With support from A Mother's Rest, I was able to get away for three nights over Mother's Day weekend at a beautiful B&B in Ludington, MI (The Lamplighter!). I wanted rest, and I got it! More than 36 hours of sleep total over the three days, interspersed with delicious homemade breakfasts at the B&B and time to wander this beautiful lakeside town. It was just what I needed, and I wouldn't have taken the time away without the support of A Mother's Rest. Thank you!
A MUST for weary caregivers. 3 days/nights of pure R & R. A Mother's Rest (Andrea) provides retreat from one's customary environment to REST, get plenty of undisturbed SLEEP, and enjoy a beautiful historic home in a park-like, old-town, quaint setting.
Additionally, other guests visit for the same reasons, and you and they can share experiences, offer suggestions regarding care...tips and resources. Engaging with others who understand another's journey in care giving is invaluable.
There are no words adequate to describe the beauty and inherent value in allowing one's self to break away and enjoy true peace. A Mother's Rest is just what the doctor ordered for caregivers needing some well-deserved self care.
This is a respite that I didn't know I needed until I was there. The time away, to be alone, to be with new friends, to be with others who know what I am going through, is invaluable. The work of A Mothers Rest is amazing. Thank you for everything!
I had the most amazing, restful weekend at the Terrace Guest House in New Market, Maryland! Such a beautiful Inn (the pictures do not do it justice!), not to mention the extremely comfortable beds and delicious coffee. Self-care is so very important and I kept putting it off. This weekend of respite was just what I needed as it provided mental as well as physical rest with some wonderful mamas of special needs children! I can now go back to my crazy, sleepless life refreshed and renewed! A big THANK YOU to Andrea Faris Roberts and all those involved in A Mother's Rest! God has blessed me through all of you!
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A Mother's Rest is filling the gap and providing much needed rest, relaxation & respite for weary caregivers. As I wrap up my first weekend away, I realize this is more needed than I even imagined. I will be arriving home inspired, invigorated and well rested.
An amazing vision caring for those who truly need respite.
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Andrea and her organization are AMAZING! It was such a great weekend, at her relaxing Inn. The world needs more Andrea's and what she's doing.
I was so fortunate to take part in the first Wisconsin retreat this past weekend. As a parent of a child with a disability, this was a much needed and affordable opportunity for respite. I highly recommend AMR, thank you for helping me recharge my batteries!
Through AMR I was able to go on a three day retreat in Bayfield WI. The Pinehurst Inn was an amazing place. Gracious hosts who provided the best breakfasts I have ever eaten. Three nights of uninterrupted sleep, hours of soaking in a Jacuzzi tub, quiet times, naps, hikes...It was just what this weary Mom needed.
I just spent a weekend respite retreat in WI thru AMR. What an amazing experience. It is so awesome to have an organization help us to be able to get a break and relax.
I spent the weekend at an AMR respite weekend in TX. What a beautiful venue they booked! Such a quiet place nestled on a beautiful river in the TX Hill Country. Pure Heaven! It was such a weekend of peace and rest. No schedule, no agenda, no demands, no guilt. It's truly your own time to spend how you need to replenish your soul. I'm looking forward to the next one.
As a mom to 8, 4 with special needs, rest can be the last thing on a very long list. Uniterrupted rest that is not filled with guilt is scarce. Getting away on this retreat has given me just that, uninterrupted, guilt free rest. My cup is overflowing and now I can go pour into my children what they need. I never imagined something like this existed but it desperately needs to stay around. Thank you so much.
This is the most unbelievable, giving, kind charitable organization I have ever known. We mother’s of kids with special needs rarely get to do anything for ourselves. Yet self-care is so important for our health and for the health and well-being of our families. Andrea arranged a weekend at a luxurious inn in Maine, owned and operated by an incredible woman with an incredible life story. It was a true retreat for me. I slept and read and never left the inn. I am so refreshed, and so so so grateful for this opportunity. I am so happy to support and be a client of A Mother’s Rest
What a great weekend! Feeling relaxed and refreshed. Accommodations were great and the breakfast was wonderful. Every mom needs this but especially those with extra stuff going on.
Reading, praying, writing, sleeping, eating, sharing, exploring...“respiting” as a friend called it. A weekend of Bluefield Inn, incredible homemade breakfasts, beautiful accommodations, sweet hospitality, Bible study, writing, no schedule, beautiful turn of the century home, history lessons, country drives, antique shopping, making new friends, sharing all God is doing/ has done in our lives, time alone, time together, time for conversations that have nothing to do with caregiving, , laughing til our sides hurt, crying in gratitude over God’s faithfulness and counting blessings were all part of our beautiful weekend away! Thank you so much, A Mother's Rest, for making this possible!
It was so wonderful and I needed it so much. I had the Heritage room, and it was a little ways away from the other rooms, very private, with a private staircase to the kitchen. Everything was truly five-star. Snacks are provided, there's a fridge stuffed with drinks, and a wine cooler full of wine and beer. Volunteers showed up providing breakfasts for Saturday and Sunday for anyone who wanted. I just sat, read, knit, quilted, and had my own time.
I stayed at the Inn this past weekend. I had the best time, only regret is that I couldn’t stay Sunday night as well. I was a little nervous about going, but as soon as I walked in the door I knew it was going to be a great time. The house is absolutely gorgeous!!! Mama Max made us a delicious breakfast Saturday morning, and the other ladies and I went to dinner both nights. I can’t wait to return. #sleepmatters
This was an AMAZING experience! They are not kidding when they say you don't have to come out of your room if you don't want to...I came out for a breakfast with the other mommas resting, and that was wonderful meeting them all, but most of my time was spent on a balcony, on a rocking chair, in an incredibly comfortable bed, reading a book and painting by the fire in my room, taking a walk, and sitting down on the dock having a stare down contest with the fish (they were as interested in me as I was in them).
I signed up last minute, and fortunately there was room! There was coffee and tea at the Maple Hall Inn in Lexington Va, beautiful views, and a fireplace in every room. The Inn Keeper was friendly and accommodating. And her puppies were soooo sweet.
Other than (optional) yummy breakfast, nothing was scheduled. I didn't have to change diapers, feed anyone, brush anyone's teeth, bathe anyone, give anyone water, wipe anyone's drool, check on anyone, dress anyone, wake up anyone, put anyone to sleep, except for me (and fortunately I'm not needing any diapers or drooling yet, so I was in luck!). And best of all, I knew my daughter was taken care of back at home, a good 4 1/2 hours away, so there was zero guilt lingering, wondering if I was doing enough.
If you're thinking about it...do it. Be alone or bring a good friend if you can. It was a beautiful and memorable weekend. I cannot say enough nice things about this organization. Thank you for allowing this mother to rest!
A Facebook friend had shared an article about A Mother's Rest coming to Frederick County, MD, to serve parents and caregivers of special needs children and I honestly thought it was too good to be true. Blessedly, it was and is quite real and it's an honest-to-goodness lifesaver. My weekend at the Terrace Guest House coincided with my son's first week in a partial hospitalization program for his disorder and I was coming undone, to say the least. Those two nights of sleep, those cozy days of uninterrupted reading and napping in my room, the chance to connect with other moms, it was all downright medicinal. The women of AMR made us feel right at home in beautiful accommodations and even brought us homemade breakfast and goodies in the morning to start our days. I am so deeply grateful for what Andrea and Sandra are doing for the mothers who need to be mothered. I count myself as one of the truly lucky ones to have been given the gift of their care and compassion.
So grateful to AMR and Bluefield Inn for a restful weekend. The inn is lovely and the mountains beautiful. Special shout out to the fabulous Preston who kept us fed and comfortable. We came together as strangers and left as friends. Thank you, thank you AMR for making this possible. I reentered my life with more energy, patience and renewed hope.
This was my second retreat at the Terrace House Inn and i couldnt wait to step across the threshold and close the door, to be enveloped in the utter peace and quiet that the inn exudes. I am a mother of three, two who have special needs. I also help caregive to my father in law, who is battling cancer. I am so grateful to Andrea and A Mothers Rest for providing a place where i can come to recharge and to sink into the wonderful atmosphere of respite. The last night i opted to stay alone while others went out. After a bath in that fabulous tub i just reveled in the silence and utter joy of only caregiving for myself. A thousand thank yous. I will definitely be back!!!!
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AMR was an amazing much needed experience. A weekend spent with 5 other moms who understand what we have been through...conversations without having to define every other word LOL. and the free flow atmosphere where i could participate or not without judgement or comment. One night the chatter and cross conversations got too much and i just retreated to the papasan and read...and it was great! I loved all the moms I met and the house itself was tranquil and serene and filled with beauty all around. It was ALL just perfect! I hope I can come back again!
Spent a very nice low key weekend relaxing in comfort with some other very nice folks. The inn was well appointed, Andrea was a very welcoming presence at the beginning of the weekend and a pleasure to be around. I would definitely like to be a part of more events in the future.
I went on A Mother's Rest #SLEEPMATTERS 2019 cruise. I'd never been on a cruise before and this was the first time I've done anything with A Mother's Rest. I was really on the fence about actually even taking the trip in the first place. I didn't know if I could get the time off and if my husband would be able to care for my son for a week. I also had so much anxiety about the trip in general because I'm so used to taking care of everything at home, how would I know if it was going to be to my liking? Would I have a good time? Would something happen to my luggage etc..... But I SO Desperately needed the break. A Real Break. So I pulled the plug and just decided to do it. Andrea was Great! She was really attentive in the FB group regarding all my questions. So what happened on my trip!? I had the BEST TIME. This was TOTALLY WORTH IT! I was able to relax and enjoy myself and do things I wouldn't normally be able to do if I was with my family. I made connections with other moms in the same boat I was (no pun intended) and I'm totally refreshed. The cruise line is a well oiled machine and took care of all the details and I realized I didn't need to stress about it as much as I did! I can't thank Andrea enough for this opportunity and now I'm like "Why did I wait so long to do this for myself?". Now they are talking about going the next year and I'm already making plans to go for next year!
Hey there, Gina here, this was my 5 th cruise, but first time with a group, and beside having a 24 hr bug onboard in the middle of the cruise, it was good to get away, meeting moms who understood the struggle we all go thru at times with our kids, booking it I had no doubts,. Maybe I ate something that didn’t agree, who knows. I would still go again.
The weekend retreat was wonderful. The house is so beautiful and comfortable, set up to be the right amount of peace and supports rest. I throughly enjoyed meeting a couple of dads that can relate to what is required when you have a child with Speciale needs and those dads where great with conversation and laughter. I can’t wait for the next retreat and I highly encourage anyone in need of a break, to take advantage of this wonderful blessing. Lastly I strongly encourage, if you have the means, to fund raise so that this blessing can go on for a long long time. Thank You Andrea for the love and vision that made this possible.
Just spent the weekend at the Mother's Rest Inn in New Market MD. It was a Superbowl weekend for guys. So great to have time to unwind and relax with no agenda. My wife was also able to attend a weekend in December and had a great time. We are so thankful for A Mother's Rest providing opportunity for us to get away and recharge. #sleepmatters
Can’t say enough good things about The Montgomery Inn in Versailles, KY. I was on the couples retreat there this weekend with my husband. It’s beautiful there!! The food is incredible, the rooms were luxurious, quiet and peaceful. AND Versailles is the perfect place to putter around for a weekend.
My hubby got sick last night and we had to go to the ER. Pam, the innkeeper, was so helpful to me today. We didn’t get back to our room until 2am this morning. (He got dehydrated and now has vertigo.) She let us check out late since he needed more sleep and was so slow moving. She gave us stuff for the ride home in case he got sick again. By the end of the weekend she felt like family.
Thanks so much for arranging a wonderful (well, almost the whole thing was wonderful) weekend!
We went to our first weekend away from our 2 kids in 3 years -to,a small bed and breakfast in Atticus, GA and it was fabulous and exactly what we needed! Thank you mothers rest for encouraging my hubby and I to go. Looking for a girls retreat now!
The best part of my weekend with A Mother's Rest was the absence of expectation. No one expected me to be or do anything, and it was such a great way to decompress. I could lay in bed until 9am (a HUGE luxury) and not worry about changing diapers, stripping linens, making breakfast or even showering! I am going to do my best to spread the word about the amazing opportunity that Andrea is providing caregivers.
What a wonderful time we had!! I'm so grateful for the opportunity to get much needed rest at The Mast Farm Inn. The accommodations, the food, the camaraderie. So, so good. Looking forward to my next!! Thank you!
I cannot say enough about this nonprofit to sum up what it means to me. A Mother’s Rest is like putting on our own oxygen masks so that we can help others with their oxygen masks! It is THAT important. AMR is the oxygen mask! When I came to A Mother’s Rest, I was so completely stressed out. I knew I needed a break but it wasn’t until I got here that I realized how badly I needed it. I rested. Truly rested. The other moms were amazing and wonderful — so different but so alike. It truly is a bit of heaven. And it snowed while we were here and it was just magical. The work done here is so vital because we do some much for our kids and families — we neglect ourselves! Taking a bath! A nap! Going for a walk. It all feels indulgent and can be a struggle for a mom. Even though we know we need to do more self-care if we are to better care for others.
My second retreat and it was so better than the first. Only because I understood the experience and was more comfortable in the solitude I so needed. Thank you Andrea for all the work you do to make these respites happen! Already looking forward to the next one!
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So incredibly grateful for having had the opportunity to attend the retreat at Mast Farm Inn. Feeling incredibly blessed to have met these women who are in different stages of this journey we are on. I cherish the new friendships that were made and have such wonderful memories of tears and laughter. I can’t wait for the next one!
I had the most peaceful time at the Mast Farm Inn. Check in was easy, snacks and coffee was ready, breakfast was fabulous!! It was comfortable and perfect! I feel rejuvenated and will certainly be looking forward to more retreats. Thank you for this opportunity!!
This was my second “A Mother’s Rest” retreat at the Mast Farm Inn and the reason I came back was the first trip was so wonderful! As a mother of six, three with special needs, finding space to rest has to be planned. It is life giving to go away to a quiet place with other moms who get what you do every day. The Mast Farm Inn does an amazing job with hospitality and providing the perfect environment for rest, peace and healing. I came home from this retreat ready to be a better wife and mom.
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A mother’s rest offered me respite from my everyday life at a time I was running on empty. I am so thankful that they see that parents of children with extra needs have needs, too, and offer places to pull away from the daily routine once in a while to rest and recharge before complete exhaustion and burnout. I can not say enough good things about A Mother’s Rest. Thank you! Angela
I’m so grateful for my weekend at A Mother’s Rest. From the moment I entered the front door I could feel myself begin to relax. I was so fortunate to be part of a group of ladies that I felt like could relate to my experiences. We shared stories and pictures and resources with each other. The 3 nights of comfortable uninterrupted sleep were a treat but the true gift for me was the silence. I was able to just be awake and be by myself. That may sound crazy but it was a gift.
This was my first mother’s retreat and the trip was excellent. We stayed at the Mast Farm Inn in NC. The inn itself was beautiful as well as the cottages and cabins. The innkeeper and staff were very sweet and helpful, the breakfast and desserts were amazing. All in all it was great trip with friends and new friends who can relate to the challenges of having children with special needs. Thanks so much AMR and mast inn for this great opportunity
I was SO blessed to go on a moms retreat to a lovely b&b. It was SO restful and I got to spend time with another momma I knew as well as get to know some new ones. It was such a smoothly done thing from start to finish. We were free to hang out together and have fun and share....or just hide away and rest. THANK YOU Andrea for all that you do!!!
AMAZING!!!! I was able to get away for a weekend in Oct. and cannot wait to do it again! Really lke that there’s no expectations - I had some social time with the other moms and also took one day of just being by myself. The 3rd night also makes big difference (compared to a normal Fri-Sun weekend getaway).
I am a mom of three kids ages 11, 9, & 3, and my youngest child has Down syndrome. A Mother’s Rest gave me three nights of uninterrupted sleep of which I was completely deprived. I came back home feeling refreshed and full of energy again. I was able to handle the little daily things better than before my respite retreat. This non-profit organization provides these retreats to moms like me at low or no cost. The only rule for the moms is to allow the other mom(s) complete privacy while each is in her room. So you can sleep as long as you want! But what’s great is having the option to come out of your room and have another mom in the living room or kitchen or other common area and she is also there for a respite and then you have a buddy for dinner. It is wonderful.
Back in November I had an amazing retreat way with other moms like me. I don’t think I could thank the donors enough for the opportunity to get away for a small break to renew myself for my kiddos. The Montgomery Inn B&B was gorgeous and food was amazing
I went on a retreat through A mother’s rest to a partner inn in GA. Both the inn they partnered with (The Horse Stamp Inn) and the organization were amazing and the whole experience was more than I could have ever hoped for. I highly recommend any mom in the trenches of raising a child with extra needs to take advantage of A Mother’s Rest. Rest is important!
Author Chris Heuretz says, "Sabbath is for rest. Retreats are for reflection. Vacations are for recreation. Sabbatical is for renewal. When we don't honor our rhythms and neglect caring for ourselves, then the luxury of sabbatical ends up being wasted on recovery."
Without the insistence of my husband (who knows my tendencies toward workaholism and false guilt), I would have missed this needed time to retreat, reflect, and rest. The opportunities I had to write, read, Christmas shop, and engage at leisure with other selfless advocates caring for their family members was a gift.
I'm so very grateful for A Mother's Rest--for their vision & passion to serve those who need a break from the hypervigilence (and fatigue) that often comes with the role of caregiving.
The beautiful accommodations, the delicious food, the kind & generous volunteers, the quiet, and the freedom to retreat at will were exactly what I needed to honor my rhythms and prevent recovery.
To Andrea and all who make AMR a true respite, thank you, thank you, thank you.
As I drove to "A Mother's Rest" to begin my weekend of respite, I was squeezing in as many cell calls as possible to turn over contact numbers and information. My sons were taking over my usual caregiver responsibilities. The care needs of my loved one were changing.. We were teetering from the news that my young husband (65 yrs) and father of 2 young men was now in the end stage of his life. Our children insisted I still show up AND stay for the long respite weekend, as planned. I thought I should bail. It seemed like it was the worst possible timing. I discovered just the opposite - it was perfect timing and exactly what I needed.
I had many comfy seating choices. I got to choose when I wanted to sit in a quite out of the way space and and when I wanted to be around the other women. I would, sleep, rest, reflect, watch the squirrels, write, and enjoy the company of passionate caregivers. We each knew a part of the others' challenges and heartaches because it was also part of our story. Conversations were easy, but not required. The downtown location of this quaint town was a perfect setting with no hustle. What I didn't expect was to be inspired.. Laura Roberts, the founder, makes us all want to think bigger than ourselves and our singular story. Together we were all women on respite who could honor the boldness of each mother who chooses problem solving and advocacy over anger or resentment. Rest can change perspective. Rest can equip for the next chapter. Rest can put breath back in our lungs. Respite can open a heart to get back to that sweet first love experience. "A Mother's Rest" did all of this for me. I look forward to passing on to others a weekend of respite. I am now part of the tribe and I am grateful for all those I am joining.
Why do people go to an AMR retreat? At the wonderful weekend I just attended at the Montgomery Inn in Versailles, KY there were many reasons! I'm a stay at home mom who needed to be away from my house and to be able to just turn off my "mommy radar" so that my brain could stop spinning. For other moms, they needed an uninterrupted night's sleep and physical rest. Another mom completed a huge writing task because she had peace and quiet to focus. And yet another mom spent special time with a sister. Another mom finished some of her college work. Some moms explored the area and some moms stayed close to the inn. Some of us read books, or knitted, or watched movies, or slept late. And that's the point. Each of us at this retreat had different needs, different stories, and different life challenges. We were young and older, married and single, small families and big.... but we connected. We were encouraged. We were blessed. Do take advantage of a weekend away with AMR if you can. I believe you'll be glad you did!
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This is such a wonderful idea and so needed. I'm a mom of 6 with one child having Down syndrome. Being a mom in general will wear you down and respite is a life changer but seldom encouraged. Moms tend to put themselves last and that isn't healthy for the mom or the marriage or the family. Having a child or children with special needs obviously makes the need even greater. Andrea's heart to not only meet the need for respite through partnerships with B&B's across the country but to also be a spokesperson for moms/caregivers and their essential need for rest is tremendous. To top it off, A Mother's Rest keeps the whole family in mind and sets up all types of respite for fathers, siblings, mom and me, grandparents, etc. I can't wait to take advantage of one of the wonderful retreats being planned!
I had my first respite stay at the beautiful inn in New Market, MD this November. The inn is so beautiful and Andrea such a warm and gracious hostess! I was a caregiver for my mother for 11 years and, after she passed away in October, the inn was a perfect way to regroup and relax. My sister has had several respite stays at different locations and now we hope to visit many more together in the future! Thank you, thank you, thank you for a wonderful stay!
I just had 2 days at the inn located in New Market, MD. It was so accommodating and the others parents there also so easy going. The purpose of this non profit is to give us a rest and I could have it. Looking forward to more days in the future and also to see more people coming with affordable stays.
I recently participated in my first AMR weekend. it was was incredible experience. It gave me a mental and physical regeneration that i didn't know how much I needed. Between getting more rest than I have in years and getting the chance to meet and spend time with other Moms who "got It" is was an extremely positive feeling. I can't wait for the opportunity to do it again.
Andrea has found a way to help fellow caregivers find respite in a most extraordinary way! I'm a single mother with a 6 year old daughter with severe autism, and a chromosomal abnormality. She's the light of my life, but she's my whole life. I also take care of my father, and have guardianship of my younger sister, and with as a nurse. Needless to say my plate is overflowing. I give of myself all day everyday gladly, but I need to recharge sometimes, and it's a challenge. I just returned home from my weekend in New York thanks to Andrea, and A Mothers Rest. The bed and breakfast The Rosemont Inn was extraordinary. Meeting other moms with the same battles was so encouraging and helped erase some of the isolation that creeps in. I can't say enough good things about Andrea and the mission she's undertaken.
I just got home from a dry run weekend at the Terrace Guest House. It was WONDERFUL!!!! The Inn is gorgeous, Andrea has poured her heart and soul into the house. It was so relaxing and Andrea makes you feel welcome and at ease. New Market is a darling town. My sister and I walked to The Vintage restaurant for a delicious meal and just took a casual stroll through the town. I had a wonderful, relaxing and restful weekend.
What a wonderful and well organized event. Stress free, relaxing, adorable Inn, kind and interesting people. AMR is run by dedicated caring and organized individual(s). I highly recommend any events.
I just spent a weekend of total self care. I enjoyed the company of other special needs Moms who get it, who understand the daily struggle. What a gift this organization offers!
My husband and I just returned from three wonderful days in beautiful Nellysford, Va., our first time away together in 28 years of parenting two sons with autism. We enjoyed time on our own, but then got to share awesome breakfasts with other parents who get it. I think my husband especially enjoyed meeting other special needs moms and dads. The best part was we really were able to put our sons’ needs in the back of our minds and just relax and have fun.
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I participated in the retreat at the appropriately named Holladay House and enjoyed a holiday in Orange that pushed aside for a bit the realities of parenting two adult sons with autism. Coffee, wine and inn keeper Sharon’s delicious chocolate cookies available whenever I wanted. The best shrimp and grits I’ve ever had at a local restaurant. Going to James Madison’s Montpelier and actually being able to go on the tour instead of stay outside with my son. Finally using Lush bath bombs I bought last fall. Going to one of my favorite wineries and finding it makes lucious fruit wines I will enjoy this summer. I will be monitoring A Mother’s Rest daily so if and when this retreat is offered again, I can nab one of the beautiful, comfortable rooms! I wasn’t home 10 minutes before reality returned bringing the sometimes minute to minute struggle of dealing with #1 son who is frustrated by the “state of his life” and takes it out on me because I can’t fix everything. A Mother’s Rest is addressing an important need. Caregivers burn out but don’t have the option of quitting. It’s so nice to be pampered a bit in a wonderful b&b at a lower cost, which is what makes it doable. It is disruptive enough for mom to leave without it also being a costly endeavor. Thank you to all the b&bs partnering with A Mother’s Rest!
Thank you so much for the respite weekend. It was wonderful to spend time with people who "get" it. We discussed the stress of being parents of special needs children, the joy we experience when our children succeed, and resources people didn't know about.
My fiancee and I spent most of the time enjoying activities by ourselves, like naps and short hikes. But relaxing as a group in the evening as well as breakfast allowed us time to really get to know each other.
The inn we stayed at was 2.5 hours away but we discovered that 3 of us live less that 15 minutes apart. We never would have met without this vacation and now some of us have plans to do things together.
This really was a wonderful time. Thank you again.
It's hard to say exactly what it is... Everyday we are faced with thousands of tiny choices as parents that shape the the lives of the young people we are raising. It's a job for which we received no formal training. Whether you have one baby or 10 babies, whether your babies are all thriving or struggling, whether you are having a good day or a bad day... These choices, and they never stop. A mother's rest is a blessing to any parent. For me personally it came at a time when I truly needed it. The weekend itself was fantastic. The innkeeper's were amazing! The women I was able to meet sport inspirational. This weekend gave me a pause. It gave me a chance to reflect on myself and my own goals. It allowed me to set a course that will not only help myself but make me a better mom for my kids. I find it hard to put into words how thankful I am. I'm thankful to the innkeeper's that participate in this amazing program. I'm thankful to the organizers of this program. I'm thankful to the other moms and amazing spirits that I have met on this journey. It honestly believe one can be the best caregiver when they take the time to take care of themselves. Like myself I suspect many of us don't generally take that time. I hope many others will benefit, as I have, from this amazing program!
Went on the Jellystone trip with my family.
It was a great time to relax outside of the normal chaos with special needs kids.
My kids are ages 6-12....and their needs vary. But all of them enjoyed the swimming with the interactive ninja warrior style obstacle course at the beach, some enjoyed the fishing, and all also enjoyed the movies, putt putt, and group activities like crafts, bingo, and more. Yogi, Boo Boo, and Cindy bear are all there too!
The offsite activities are super fun too.....cave tours, dino valley, ky down under (interact with/feed kangaroos and parkeets!!!!)
This year was their 1st Jellystone retreat, and I hope that many more people can come next year. The more there, the more interaction we can all have and share our lives, blessing each other with the in real life knowledge that we are not alone on this journey! :)
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Our entire family recently enjoyed an affordable and relaxing five day vacation thanks to A Mother's Rest. After a very hard summer with our children with extra needs, it was just what we needed. We enjoyed the friendly atmosphere, the accommodations and being with a group when we wanted but also being able to just be with our family when needed. Vacations are hard for us but this was perfect. Thank you A Mother's Rest! We look forward to making this a tradition!
This was my little home for the weekend on the grounds of the Mayhurst Inn. I did not know what to expect on a group type retreat. I had a wonderful time. the owners of the Inn were informative and welcoming without being intrusive. They prepared delicious breakfasts with individual needs in mind. I am both dairy and egg free. half of the Moms had a special dietary need. The evening wine and cheese receptions were surprisingly comfortable gatherings. I am not a wine or cheese person. They had a variety of drinks and snacks available. It was a time where we shared our daily adventures and learned the history of both the Inn and the surrounding area. I am so grateful for this opportunity. Truly this was an experience I never would have embarked on without the discount and work done by this group. Thank you from a reenergized Momma Bear.
I've just returned from my first ever AMR experience. I feel SO rejuvinated. I now have the energy to plow though all the paperwork I need to do. I even feel excited to get started and get it all done! Being a special needs mom is 24/7 and requires lots of energy.This program has provided me with a tool to re-charge my "mom batteries". I'm so impressed with my renewed vigor,that I've scheduled another respite week-end in the fall.Knowing that I have that to look forward to motivates me and gives me a bit of "pep in my step". Thank you on behalf of myself and my entire family.Sincerely,C.A.
What a treat! The thought of a real mother's rest is an ever elusive dream in the full of surprises and setbacks world of special needs. The idea of leaving my family for three whole days and nights to rest, reflect, refresh, and be a mom with no demands or urgent cares was never a thing I pined for, but it was like a makeover for the soul. We all noticed it was QUIET. Our hosts were gracious and supportive, and our retreat spot was utterly beautiful. A Mother's Rest gave me a gift of renewal, which, in turn, allowed me to return home to continue to give the gift of myself to my family. The gals and I shared our hearts, ideas, encouragement, and laughs over breakfast. Our time was our own, and I'd planned to have a LOT of alone time, because that is how I rejuvenate, but making new friends was a super sweet part of the deal. A Mother's Rest does retreats for others as well, not just moms, and I cannot wait to see this take off. There is a real need for this, and it was super affordable. Thank-you from the bottom of my heart to everyone who has made this possible. I've already paid it forward by donating to the planned retreat center in Maryland. What a heart-warming vision for this place Andrea has! Michaele
So thankful for all the hard work and time Andrea puts in to give us tired special needs mamas a break! My retreat was a piece of heaven. Our B&B was beautiful and perfectly located for a trip down to the beach, shopping and delicious food. I can’t wait to do it again and we haven’t even headed home yet!
A Mother's Rest provided me with three much needed days of peace. The location was a quiet bed and breakfast at the shore just before the summer season. The weather was sunny but brisky. Invigorating but perfect to curl up with a book or to sit and talk with some of the other Mom's who understand the situations that we face. I highly recommend this organization to anyone with a special needs child. Thank you Andrea!
What a great opportunity to have time to be who we were before having kiddos with extra needs. Thank you for this time to recover and rejuvenate.
Thank you for this wonderful weekend to bond with other moms and to relax from the daily grind of taking care of a medically fragile young adult!!!
Rhonda Friedberg
Finding this foundation has been an amazing experience. I have two children, one of whom has been diagnosed with combined ADHD and Autism Spectrum disorder. She has just entered puberty and it has been a really rough ride, with self harm and clinical depression added to her mix. I work full time and take care of my family full time, and there really is no room for me. A Mother's Rest held a retreat in Camas, WA and I had the privilege to attend. We had beautiful hotel rooms, with a bed I didn't have to share with ANYONE; discounted massages (I went two days in a row!); nearby trails for hiking; and fantastic nearby restaurants. But what really brought me to tears was the incredible kindness of all the people involved in the respite retreat. From the booking, to the Facebook group, to the staff at the hotel, absolutely everyone was so appreciative of what we face as special needs parents. Believe me, that is NOT a common occurrence. Thank you, thank you, for giving me a chance to be seen, to feel respected, to connect with others who live in the same special needs world that I do. It can be so lonely and isolating, but not with a wonderful nonprofit like this.
Our retreat to Valle Crucis was a DREAM COME TRUE. I highly recommend any of A Mother's Rest retreats. It is a fabulous way to rejuvenate and relax when you need it most - and God knows we need it!
A Mother's Rest's motto is "You can't pour from an empty cup." This is so true and sometimes you don't realize how empty your cup is until you get away from all the stresses of life that are draining you. I am a full time working mom with two boys, one with special needs. I attended a retreat in January 2018 at a lovely boutique hotel in SW Washington. What a treat to have my own bed and bathroom that I didn't have to share with anyone! It was almost overwhelming having an entire weekend to myself that I could choose to spend however I wanted. The weekend was so affordable, there was no way I could say no. AMR partnered with a massage therapist who offered her services as well.
While I enjoyed spending time by myself, what I enjoyed most was getting to know other moms. While our children are different, the feelings of being a mom are the same. We could share freely without judgment because we all understood. I have stayed in touch with these moms after the retreat too, furthering the circle of support.
I would sign up for another AMR retreat in a heartbeat! And despite the name, it is open to all parents. Thank you for the opportunity and I hope to help promote this amazing non-profit in anyway I can.
My mom, daughter, and I attended the Mommy and Me Retreat at Jekyll Island. We adopted a little boy with Down Syndrome over 2 years ago. Before then my, now 11 year old, daughter had been an only child. While the adoption has been amazing for our family, our life has changed to accommodate our son and his needs...which means our daughter had to take a back seat for a little bit. She's taken her big sister role in stride and has really stepped up in helping out around the house and with her brother. Even though she had been amazing, I know all of these changes have been hard for her. This retreat weekend was an opportunity for her to feel pampered and special and for the women of our family to relax and bond. The experience was an unforgettable one for us and we made memories we'll treasure for a lifetime! We are thankful for A Mother's Rest for providing an affordable getaway for us! We are hoping to making this an annual trip!
This Non- profit works on getting Mom’s, Dad’s and couples respite to bed and breakfasts. This is very important to so many families who have never spent one night away from their medically complex child. I went and met 15 other mom’s who were strangers on Friday but friends by Sunday when we left. We could relate with one another in so many area’s. Healthy Mom’s= heathy communities
I saw a posting about a retreat on Facebook and immediately booked a spot, and lucky that I did because it filled up quick! The retreat was lovely. I met other moms at the breakfasts but other than that I spent a lot of time in my room resting and reading. I know some of the other moms went for a hike and went to the wine bar, but at this point I was exhausted and just needed to rest. I would definitely do it again, and next time I think I will be more social!
I booked a retreat about 2 hours away from my home (at The Holladay House Bed and Breakfast in Orange, VA) within a week of learning about A Mother's Rest and it was great to be able to have something to look forward to. Mom of three (one with special needs) + full time stressful job = I needed a break. All weekend long I did what I wanted to, when I wanted to; I ate gourmet breakfasts cooked by Sharon, our fabulous hostess; tried local restaurants for lunch and dinners, watched a bunch of movies, went hiking in Shenandoah, took long, hot baths, went to bed when I wanted to and woke up when I wanted to --it was a luxury to have uninterrupted "me" time say the least. (The third night really is the key to the relaxation!) I came back to my family refreshed and I cannot wait to do it again soon!
I was able to attend the Mommy and Me this past weekend with my girls. This was a much needed time to rest myself, reconnect with my girls, and relieve the stress that comes from having a busy home life and a child with multiple needs- physical and mental- and 2 others with mental health issues. I never take time to care for myself and I get overwhelmed and stressed. Then, everyone wonders why I spiral down in fatigue and craziness. Thank you to A Mother's Rest for giving me a place to rejuvenste and rest! I'm a better me and a better mom. And, BONUS, you meet others that share your issues and make new friends!
As a mother of 6 with varying needs, you get emotionally and physically worn down, day after day. It was quite the interesting experience to get away to Jekyll Island with just me and 2 of my daughters! I think I need more practice "relaxing" before I really can appreciate all respite has to offer, although I did return home "recharged". Now if only there were a home maid service involved for when we return home LOL.
This past weekend, my mother and I went to a Mommy & Me retreat in Jekyll Island, GA. To say I am well-rested would be a serious understatement. We both found this service to be a life saver. Having 3 children with special needs takes a toll on a mother and grandmother. I will forever be grateful for this opportunity.
A real life saver! I have never thought I deserved to go somewhere alone. This idea of rest was self-indulgent to me and something selfish mothers do. And then I had 2 kids with special needs. The toddler stage seems to never end for one child. We have been treated like royalty and I realize how little time I actually spend on making sure I am ready to take care of my kids. This was just what I needed. I can’t explain what it means to be able to set it down. I returned with more patience, more kindness, and feeling like I had more to offer this world than caring for my kids. And, I rode a horse for the first time in 10 years...because I could! I can’t wait to come back! Beautiful inn, and beautiful people!
I was so fortunate to have the opportunity to attend a retreat at The Rosemont Inn in Utica, New York. The innkeepers spoiled us with beautiful rooms, spotless surroundings, warm welcomes, and a delicious and lavish breakfast each morning. Grace, one of the innkeepers, offered massages in a beautiful and serene space. She was thorough in getting to know each of us and providing us the best possible massage experience. I am so grateful to Andrea Faris Roberts for creating A Mother's Rest and giving parents of children with disabilities the opportunity for respite and community with other parents that understand our unique challenges. The other women on the retreat instantly became trusted friends. I feel blessed by this entire experience.
A Mother's Rest provides a truly wonderful service for special needs parents. It's hard to decide it's ok to divert financial resources towards respite when so much is needed for the kids, so to have a subsidized opportunity to get away is really terrific. I went to the Mast Farm Inn last weekend in Valle Crucis, NC. What a lovely place is a lovely location - I would easily choose this B&B if my husband and I were going away. They brought coffee to our doors every morning, and the gourmet breakfasts were to die for. The rooms were clean, lovely, and quiet. Truly a break from all the demands of the everyday. Thank you A Mother's Rest and thank you to the Mast Farm Inn for making this possible.
I just got back from my first retreat at the Holladay House Bed and Breakfast in Orange, Virginia. It was so WONDERFUL. The inn is just beautiful and the owner Sharon was so nice and a wonderful hostess.
The experience of being away by myself and just resting and doing whatever I wanted to do was the best. There were absolutely no expectations and it was so great!!!
Thank you Andrea for A Mother’s Rest. Your passion and enthusiasm for these retreats comes shining through. I can’t wait to go on another retreat!!
WOW. This came to me when I needed it the most! Just signing up for the retreat gave me something to look forward to! I get to sleep!l
They have been very supportive and understanding of just what it takes to raise a child with special needs. It takes a little (or a lot) more physically, financially, and emotionally. This group helps Mom's get that little rest needed to gave the next day and the one after that...
A Mother's rest is a dad's dream. Our wives are the front lines of providing nurture and structure in the lives of our children, especially our children with special need. I am a dad of five children and four of those children have Down syndrome. I witness my wife's strength in wading through the river of insurance red tape, IEP meetings and doctor's visits. We lead our home as a team, but she is the glue that holds the team together. Retreat and rest for our wives and moms to recharge is the dream discovered in A Mother's Rest Organization. God bless as you continue to bring the dream to reality.
I am SO grateful for this foundation! I happened to stumble across A Mother's Rest and it blew my mind that this was a thing that existed. It sounded too good to be true, to be honest. I saw a B&B in Annapolis that was available for a weekend (donated!!!) and contacted AMR. Andrea was extremely responsive and I instantly enjoyed talking to her (I loved AMR before I even understood what it was for)! I only live minutes from Annapolis, so it was more or less a "staycation" for me. I just wanted to get away from the house, stop doing laundry for a weekend, let the grandparents watch my little girl, and just "check out." My incredible daughter has Down syndrome and was very recently dual-diagnosed with ASD. She is my entire heart, soul and world. Between raising her as a single mom, going to school full time, working part time, and helping to start a non-profit in Annapolis, I am tired. I needed to get away from everything and just take some time to myself.
I was still skeptical about the whole thing, but my "staycation" at Meadow Gardens B&B was absolutely perfect. The innkeeper was a wonderful woman with a beautiful home. I had my own bedroom, bathroom AND living room! I've never had a more delicious breakfast in my life! To top it all off, it snowed in Annapolis :) There is nothing more peaceful than sitting in a sunroom, eating a wonderful breakfast (that you didn't have to cook OR clean!) and watching the snow fall. I got all my Christmas shopping done AND wrapped most of my presents! I enjoyed a bottle of wine, a nice dinner and laid around in my pajamas Friday night!
Thank you so much to Andrea, AMR, and Meadow Gardens B&B for the much needed weekend getaway!
I’m a mother with five children, three with special needs. My Retreat to Florida allowed me exactly the break I needed to be completely refreshed. It was an amazing opportunity to run next to the rays as they swam next to me. Thank you A Mother’s Rest!
I just returned from the Buddy Cruise with AMR. What a wonderful group of new friends who get .... life.
I had never heard of AMR, but just two days after hearing about it, I was enjoying the best rest I ever had since becoming a mom. Andrea is a genius for coming up with this idea, and being able to fund it. It was so easy to sign up and attend a carefree weekend with other moms in the same situation. I know the cherished memories will last a very long time, maybe forever. If you are able to go to one of these, please do. I didn't know anyone going, and I feel like I found new friends, as the bond is so great when you have a child/children with special needs.
I can not say enough about how important respite is. Not only a break from the daily needs of your children with extra needs but the opportunity to connect with others who are walking a similar path is priceless. This is an amazing organisation that is providing a critical, overlooked need.
A wonderful idea and Andrea is so wonderful and easy to work with!! I'm looking forward to my retreat in September!!!
As the mother of a child with extra needs, I can't tell you how often I've wished for an organization like this in my life. While I've not been on my retreat as yet, I'm booked and going on my first one in October 2017. This will be the very first time I've had a break in 14 years and I owe it all to AMR, as I would never have been able to afford it on my own nor would I have ever gone by myself. The thought of being able to connect with individuals who know what's it's like to be "me" on this upcoming retreat is priceless. AMR is helping to fill a huge gap in the world of our families, one that's usually forgotten in the urge to assist the children; the parents are not inexhaustible and we need respite.
The vision and heart of AMR and it's founder are unparalleled. When Andrea first spoke to me about this project, my thoughts as a single mom were "Yes, please"!!! I know the challenges as a single mother and the desperate need for down time that rarely came. The needing time to recharge and regroup or simply get a break. And in order to do so I had to think of the expense of child care plus costs for me to get away.
That being said, I can only appreciate the challenges and just as desperate and most likely a more frequent need for time to recharge, regroup and energize for parents of children with special needs. I can appreciate, but not fully understand, the complexity for those parents to find the appropriate qualified care, the cost of that care AND compound it with the cost of going away. And like me the added stress of figuring out the cost was and is prohibitive.
The vision of A Mother's Rest to provide a place at a deep, deep discount or no cost at all to the special needs (SN) parents where they can recharge, regroup and fellowship with other SN parents is unheard of but much needed. To remove that burden from those who already carry a heavy weight is a blessing. I hope that the full vision of AMR is reached and reached soon and I am proud and happy to be any part of making this happen.
I've known Andrea for 14 years and I'm so excited about AMR. I can't wait to experience the Mommy & Me retreat next March! This will give me the opportunity to spend some very much needed time alone with my typical daughter. Thank you, Andrea and AMR, for your vision!!
This charity understands the need for respite. Besides providing a way for respite they provide articles and connections to parents seeking help.
AMR is filling a significant gap in service in the special needs community. These families are real and the stresses are real. We as a community can support our own by ensuring caregivers get the adequate rest they need to be their very best for their *children*. Thank you for sharing and giving! www.amothersrest.org
Andrea helps mothers of kiddos with special needs get rest, and get rejuvenated so they can be the best moms they can be.
A Mothers Rest is just what the special needs community has been needing. Being a parent/caregiver of someone with a disability is one of the most rewarding experiences ...but it can also be tiring. You truly cannot take care of someone you love if you do not take care of yourself. A Mothers Rest gives opportunities for the caregiver/parent to rest, relax and recharge.