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Nonprofit Overview

Causes: Family Services, Homeless & Housing, Housing & Shelter, Job Training, Single Parent Agencies

Mission: Good counsel is a family for those in need, serving god who is the father of the orphan, defender of the widow, and who gives the lonely a home to live in (psalm 68). [see continuation on schedule o][continued from part iii] - our lord's call to serve the disadvantaged compels us to offer love, shelter and the opportunity to grow in self-respect and independence. We invoke the patronage of mary, the lady of good counsel, to help us protect mothers in need and to love their children from the moment of conception.

Programs: Housing: offering your home to someone in need is a great act of charity. In fact, for christians, offering shelter is an expected corporal work of mercy. Especially if you are offering a bedroom to a pregnant mother who has no other place to call home. That is exactly what you do when you give a gift to good counsel because that gift becomes a sanctuary for that pregnant mother who has no one else. Like one mother who was told to get out of her house by her mother when she explained she was going to give birth and the father of her child already told her, "i don't want you to have that fetus. " [see continuation on schedule o][continued from part iii] - for those who gave during 2014, you allowed 230 mothers and babies have 43,368 nights of shelter in one of good counsel's 4 homes. Our occupancy rate for the year was 106%. Again we were more than 100% because every time there is a mother in a dangerous situation, literally on the street, or more likely in a domestic violence situation, whether a bedroom is available or not, good counsel staff will take in that mom and transform the living room, an office, or even a chapel into a temporary bedroom. Also, your support during 2014 allowed us to finalize renovations and hire staff to re-open good counsel's 5th home during 2015. If you have ever given to good counsel since our first mom and baby entered on sunday, march 10, 1985, you have helped serve, just in our homes, 6,230 women and children, providing more than 600,000 nights of shelter. More than 900 babies have been born to mothers at a good counsel home. There's more to good counsel than this, but this is the underpinning of our mission helping mothers and babies. Our homes are found in new york city, rockland and westchester counties in new york state and burlington county, nj. Mothers in need come from all over, literally throughout the united states, and some who were born overseas. How does one find herself in a good counsel home? Through hospital social workers or nurses; through people who hear a good counsel speaker at a banquet or an event or on t. V. Or the radio; through an online search; a doctor's offices; pregnancy centers or simply by calling good counsel's 24/7 helpline 1. 800. 723. 8331 or going to www. Goodcounselhomes. Org and sending an email. Inside a good counsel home all the corporal works of mercy are performed. Feeding the hungry: "i haven't eaten in two days," christy told sabrina, our intake worker, over the phone. "i'm starving and i have been looking for food that others are throwing away," the four-month pregnant woman quietly stated in an embarrassed tone. That night christy was having dinner, like a family member, at a good counsel table. During 2014 we served more than 25,000 meals to good counsel mothers and children. We do get some of our food donated and we share community meals at night but it is due to the generosity of you who support good counsel that everyone under our roof is feed. Giving drink to the thirsty: "angie loves her milk! " exclaims julianne her mom. "i think she goes through a gallon a day all by herself! "many of our babies drink formula but on average each good counsel home will consume 10 gallons of milk per week. That makes close to 2,100 gallons of milk per year! Clothing the naked: alicia was late arriving to good counsel in the bronx. Delores, then our house manager, stayed late to welcome her. Delores brought alicia into her new bedroom and told her to clean up before she would heat up some dinner for her. As alicia was in the bathroom showering delores noticed her shoes. They were very worn out and actually had holes in the soles. Delores thought it would be great for alicia to have some new shoes and so she searched all through the house in search of shoes that would fit but came up empty. Suddenly delores realized there was one pair of new shoes that would fit the new woman; the ones she wore. Gladly she gave them to our new resident. Visiting the sick: good counsel has a special home called daystar which is located on the grounds of st. Vincent's hospital in harrison, new york. The easy access to the medical facilities allows us to give special care to those who may be mentally ill or suffer from a substance abuse issue or both. Our special outreach to psychologically troubled pregnant women is one of the few in the entire country. Visiting the imprisoned: some women with a prison history or having outstanding legal issues come to good counsel. Sometimes there are outstanding warrants. Maybe minor offenses, but out of fear or not understanding, such offenses can be cause for imprisonment. Good counsel has advocated for mother's rights, particularly when she is close to giving birth or when it was clear she would benefit from prenatal care outside of a prison health care system. Of course, the good counsel continues to rectify whatever legal matters a mother may have. Thanks to pro-bono attorneys, particularly at the legal center for life of new jersey, many cases have been judiciously and appropriately adjudicated. Burying the dead: one of our most tragic events is when a good counsel mother miscarries or has a stillborn death. A respect for the dignity of each human person requires that we treat each life as sacred. Over many years good counsel has been blessed by many funeral directors who have offered complimentary services and churches that have opened their doors for masses and plots for burial. Grief shared is half grief, says an honduran proverb. "too many hospitals do not consider or offer a burial for a lost child," christopher bell stated following a recent funeral mass offered at st. Joseph's church in spring valley, new york for a baby named angel. "in the midst of the pain and loss we are prepared to be with a grieving mother and help her know that her child is being spiritually cared for as they make their way to the lord. " you may see and read more about good counsel's moms and babies at www. Goodcounselhomes. Org or by liking good counsel homes on facebook or finding our good counsel homes youtube channel www. Youtube. Com/user/goodcounselhomes

counseling:a typical definition of counseling: "advice and support given to help others with problems or to make important decisions. " a secondary definition is "professional guidance using psychological methods collecting personal history, comparing to others, and using various techniques including written tests. " both forms of counseling are commonly employed at good counsel. Every mom walking into a good counsel door becomes part of the family at her home. She begins a unique relationship with one case manager. [see continuation on schedule o][continued from part iii] - she will also have a mentor who is like her sister and can be any member of the staff. The mom may choose who is with her during her time of delivery. Every step of the way trained good counsel staff help each mom seek to uncover the struggles and strains which brought her to our doors. Good counsel mothers often report prior abuse, nearly 80%, either sexual, physical, or seriously emotional. Also, during 2014, some 20% reported having had at least one abortion. We know from other studies that this figure is largely understated. During the first month at good counsel each mom is guided to use online assessment tools to discover more about herself, her educational strengths and weaknesses and her vocational proclivities. Her case manager, along with her mentor and other staff will help her understand the assessments as well as constructively listen to the hopes and desires she has for the future. The case manager will officially meet each mother at least one hour each week. Other informal meetings happen as needed and usually more than once a week. Just the formal meetings totaled more than 10,837 during 2014. Additionally, more than half, about 56% of mothers received outside professional counseling. Given good counsel's open intake and ability to take in and assist for a year or longer mothers with great emotional, and often psychological challenges, seeing that of the 105 mothers who stayed 30 days or longer, their average length of stay overall was 12. 6 months. More than a third, 35%, made educational advances, and almost half, 48%, entered the work force. Also, it's most important to remember that every day a mother is in a good counsel home, she and her baby, before and after birth, is safe, eating well and encouraged to do the best she is capable. It's impossible to know and measure how much abuse and neglect is avoided or eliminated because someone is surrounded by a caring family, which good counsel strives to be for those in need.

life skills programs: a total of 702 life skills programs were received by good counsel mothers during 2014. Life skills help deepen a mother's knowledge and awareness of living a healthy, productive life. Life skills are presented formally in classes and individually as needed. Such areas as proper nutrition, child growth and development, health, and social skills are taught using specific outlines prepared for good counsel mothers. Personal finance is taught individually helping each mother develop her own budget. Spirituality is shared both formally in group meetings and individually as each mother desires and explores her relationship with god. [see continuation on schedule o][continued from part iii] - we share a loving, merciful, forgiving god who has brought us together to live for each other. Paid staff or professional volunteers, with expertise in each area, present life skills classes. Plus, mothers are able to take individual online classes in some of these topics. A minimum of three and sometimes four group classes are taught in each home each week.

in addition to programs already mentioned, there are other significant programs at good counsel, some of which have grown out of the needs many mothers and their children have expressed in our homes. Good counsel's intake staff operate a 24-hour-a-day, 7-day-a-week, helpline 1. 800. 723. 8331. Since beginning this national, toll-free helpline more than 33,200 people have received concrete help, phone counseling and support. During 2013 more than 3,400 calls were received. During 2014, some 3,522 calls came in, plus an additional 465 requests were emailed. Good counsel's website, www. Goodcounselhomes. Org is coming up high on google's rankings for "homeless and pregnant" meaning women in need from all over the country are asking for help. Good counsel is responding with added staff. Future plans will include additional online tools to automate help for mothers looking online in their geographic area, as well as an option to chat with a live person. Good counsel also operates a post-abortion counseling and referral network called lumina to help women as well as men and siblings suffering from past abortions. Confidential counseling is available through lumina's national, toll-free helpline 1. 877. 586. 4621 (1. 877. Lumina-1) or for information, please visit www. Postabortionhelp. Org good counsel stays in touch with mothers who leave through our exodus program, where former residents receive on-going counseling to ease the difficulties transitioning to independent living. Additionally, some single-parent families, not needing a good counsel home, still may receive good counsel staff assistance via outreach through our exodus program in a critical situation. Some 211 exodus and outreach families were assisted during 2014. During 2001, good counsel was one of the founders of the pregnancy services network of greater new york, a coalition of maternity homes and pregnancy centers in the ny, nj and connecticut area. The group meets regularly throughout the year. During 2013, good counsel also helped to form the national maternity housing coalition, a group of three dozen maternity homes throughout the u. S. Good counsel is represented on the leadership team of the nmhc and participates in regular conference calls, an annual meeting and conference all of which continue to bear much fruit in the way of sharing best practices and assisting new and existing homes.

Community Stories

22 Stories from Volunteers, Donors & Supporters

Donor

Rating: 5

Good Counsel is a save and loving home for homeless unwed moms and their children. I have personally been to the Bronx home and the staff truly care about the women and children. It is a charity I am proud to support.

Donor

Rating: 5

When I was in a crisis pregnancy as a Senior in High School I felt I had no where to go, no one to help. I was so scared and went to the school psychologist who told the father and I abortion was the right option. I never want anyone to suffer what I have suffered. Everyday for 37 years I ache. I cannot go back in time and save my baby, but I can help a great organization that does what I needed so long ago.

Enza R.

Donor

Rating: 5

This is a great charity, they help women who are pregnant or have a child that have no where to go, They also give emotional support and well has housing goof, and loving environment!

Donor

Rating: 5

I was at the rectory of St. Mary 23 years ago where Chris Bell met with angry community members filled with fear that this "Group Home" would bring trouble. With the calmness and serenity of St. Francis, Chris assuaged their fears and the anger melted away like butter in the palm of his hand. I have since visited this Staten Island many times helping with door locks and trim, washing machines and other needs as well as annual Masses and have always seen a clean, happy home, that would be the envie of any similar organization. Time and consistency must count for something. Saving the very lives of mothers and babies is the worthiest of causes and no one does it better than Mr. Christopher Bell. Go, Chris, Go! Christopher Pearson Staten Island RTLC

Donor

Rating: 5

There is a great need for what the Good Counsel Homes provide today. If we can provide a loving and non-judgemental place for women in crisis pregnancies to go, we are really caring for the woman AND the child, not just counseling them against abortion. I know many women who would NOT have had abortions if they had had one such home to go to during their time of despair. Thank you Fr. Groeshel and Good Counsel Homes for your mission.

Donor

Rating: 5

This is a great grass roots organization that doesn't have many layers between your contibuted dollar and the mothers and children they help. I have visited the Bronx outreach home and seen first hand what is being done. Anyone considering giving in my opinion should do the same if they are close enough to one of the Homes. I have heard many of the mothers speak that have been helped and it is very moving. Good Counsel is a good investment of your donor dollar.

Carla L.

Donor

Rating: 5

We throw a baby shower each year for the women staying at the various homes. They are invited for lunch and some bring their babies. It is so wonderful to hear their stories about how Good Counsel Homes made a difference in their lives. The women are so appreciative of everything we give them. I am so glad that there is a place for these women to go so they and their babies can be safe and warm. God Bless Good Counsel Homes!!

Donor

Rating: 4

As a former consultant and current donor, I know the staff at Good Counsel. They are genuine and all focused on the needs of the mothers and babies in their care. Truly, the main goal of Good Counsel has not changed since they opened their doors---to make expectant and new mothers feel safe with their families as they build their own self-esteem and skills so that they can go out on their own.

Donor

Rating: 5

I have made Good Counsel my charity of choice, as the people there truly fulfill the beatitudes in the love they give moms and babies in need. I volunteer and tithe to this organization as they not only save lives, they show women the dignity that God has bestowed on them. The love and works performed by all the staff makes a difference in the lives they serve, as well as generations to come, as it gives skills and confidance to the clients served, so they can go out and be happier, healthier and produce a stable environment for themselves and their children. I've seen moms who have completed the programs at Good Counsel, and are in the Exodus program, speak of the help they receive on everyday things like learning how to cook or budget their money; as well as the love they felt for the first time in their lives. They finally feel part of a family.

Donor

Rating: 5

I have been donating to Good Counsel for years and have only found the charity to be an inspiration to one and all. Innovative yet true to its ancient roots in the Catholic Church. Chris Bell and Father Benedict Groeschel (the founders) are each in their own ways profoundly faithful people to the love of God and the love of the poor. Stories abound of formerly homeless mothers arising from poverty to self-sufficient and productive lives. A donation to Good Counsel is leveraged many times over in this life and infinitely more in the world to come.