Good Counsel, Inc.

Rating: 4.89 stars   45 reviews

Address:

411 Clinton Street Hoboken NJ 07030 USA

Mission:

Good counsel is a family for those in need, serving god who is the father of the orphan, defender of the widow, and who gives the lonely a home to live in (psalm 68). [see continuation on schedule o][continued from part iii] - our lord's call to serve the disadvantaged compels us to offer love, shelter and the opportunity to grow in self-respect and independence. We invoke the patronage of mary, the lady of good counsel, to help us protect mothers in need and to love their children from the moment of conception.

Programs:

Housing: offering your home to someone in need is a great act of charity. In fact, for christians, offering shelter is an expected corporal work of mercy. Especially if you are offering a bedroom to a pregnant mother who has no other place to call home. That is exactly what you do when you give a gift to good counsel because that gift becomes a sanctuary for that pregnant mother who has no one else. Like one mother who was told to get out of her house by her mother when she explained she was going to give birth and the father of her child already told her, "i don't want you to have that fetus. " [see continuation on schedule o][continued from part iii] - for those who gave during 2014, you allowed 230 mothers and babies have 43,368 nights of shelter in one of good counsel's 4 homes. Our occupancy rate for the year was 106%. Again we were more than 100% because every time there is a mother in a dangerous situation, literally on the street, or more likely in a domestic violence situation, whether a bedroom is available or not, good counsel staff will take in that mom and transform the living room, an office, or even a chapel into a temporary bedroom. Also, your support during 2014 allowed us to finalize renovations and hire staff to re-open good counsel's 5th home during 2015. If you have ever given to good counsel since our first mom and baby entered on sunday, march 10, 1985, you have helped serve, just in our homes, 6,230 women and children, providing more than 600,000 nights of shelter. More than 900 babies have been born to mothers at a good counsel home. There's more to good counsel than this, but this is the underpinning of our mission helping mothers and babies. Our homes are found in new york city, rockland and westchester counties in new york state and burlington county, nj. Mothers in need come from all over, literally throughout the united states, and some who were born overseas. How does one find herself in a good counsel home? Through hospital social workers or nurses; through people who hear a good counsel speaker at a banquet or an event or on t. V. Or the radio; through an online search; a doctor's offices; pregnancy centers or simply by calling good counsel's 24/7 helpline 1. 800. 723. 8331 or going to www. Goodcounselhomes. Org and sending an email. Inside a good counsel home all the corporal works of mercy are performed. Feeding the hungry: "i haven't eaten in two days," christy told sabrina, our intake worker, over the phone. "i'm starving and i have been looking for food that others are throwing away," the four-month pregnant woman quietly stated in an embarrassed tone. That night christy was having dinner, like a family member, at a good counsel table. During 2014 we served more than 25,000 meals to good counsel mothers and children. We do get some of our food donated and we share community meals at night but it is due to the generosity of you who support good counsel that everyone under our roof is feed. Giving drink to the thirsty: "angie loves her milk! " exclaims julianne her mom. "i think she goes through a gallon a day all by herself! "many of our babies drink formula but on average each good counsel home will consume 10 gallons of milk per week. That makes close to 2,100 gallons of milk per year! Clothing the naked: alicia was late arriving to good counsel in the bronx. Delores, then our house manager, stayed late to welcome her. Delores brought alicia into her new bedroom and told her to clean up before she would heat up some dinner for her. As alicia was in the bathroom showering delores noticed her shoes. They were very worn out and actually had holes in the soles. Delores thought it would be great for alicia to have some new shoes and so she searched all through the house in search of shoes that would fit but came up empty. Suddenly delores realized there was one pair of new shoes that would fit the new woman; the ones she wore. Gladly she gave them to our new resident. Visiting the sick: good counsel has a special home called daystar which is located on the grounds of st. Vincent's hospital in harrison, new york. The easy access to the medical facilities allows us to give special care to those who may be mentally ill or suffer from a substance abuse issue or both. Our special outreach to psychologically troubled pregnant women is one of the few in the entire country. Visiting the imprisoned: some women with a prison history or having outstanding legal issues come to good counsel. Sometimes there are outstanding warrants. Maybe minor offenses, but out of fear or not understanding, such offenses can be cause for imprisonment. Good counsel has advocated for mother's rights, particularly when she is close to giving birth or when it was clear she would benefit from prenatal care outside of a prison health care system. Of course, the good counsel continues to rectify whatever legal matters a mother may have. Thanks to pro-bono attorneys, particularly at the legal center for life of new jersey, many cases have been judiciously and appropriately adjudicated. Burying the dead: one of our most tragic events is when a good counsel mother miscarries or has a stillborn death. A respect for the dignity of each human person requires that we treat each life as sacred. Over many years good counsel has been blessed by many funeral directors who have offered complimentary services and churches that have opened their doors for masses and plots for burial. Grief shared is half grief, says an honduran proverb. "too many hospitals do not consider or offer a burial for a lost child," christopher bell stated following a recent funeral mass offered at st. Joseph's church in spring valley, new york for a baby named angel. "in the midst of the pain and loss we are prepared to be with a grieving mother and help her know that her child is being spiritually cared for as they make their way to the lord. " you may see and read more about good counsel's moms and babies at www. Goodcounselhomes. Org or by liking good counsel homes on facebook or finding our good counsel homes youtube channel www. Youtube. Com/user/goodcounselhomes

counseling:a typical definition of counseling: "advice and support given to help others with problems or to make important decisions. " a secondary definition is "professional guidance using psychological methods collecting personal history, comparing to others, and using various techniques including written tests. " both forms of counseling are commonly employed at good counsel. Every mom walking into a good counsel door becomes part of the family at her home. She begins a unique relationship with one case manager. [see continuation on schedule o][continued from part iii] - she will also have a mentor who is like her sister and can be any member of the staff. The mom may choose who is with her during her time of delivery. Every step of the way trained good counsel staff help each mom seek to uncover the struggles and strains which brought her to our doors. Good counsel mothers often report prior abuse, nearly 80%, either sexual, physical, or seriously emotional. Also, during 2014, some 20% reported having had at least one abortion. We know from other studies that this figure is largely understated. During the first month at good counsel each mom is guided to use online assessment tools to discover more about herself, her educational strengths and weaknesses and her vocational proclivities. Her case manager, along with her mentor and other staff will help her understand the assessments as well as constructively listen to the hopes and desires she has for the future. The case manager will officially meet each mother at least one hour each week. Other informal meetings happen as needed and usually more than once a week. Just the formal meetings totaled more than 10,837 during 2014. Additionally, more than half, about 56% of mothers received outside professional counseling. Given good counsel's open intake and ability to take in and assist for a year or longer mothers with great emotional, and often psychological challenges, seeing that of the 105 mothers who stayed 30 days or longer, their average length of stay overall was 12. 6 months. More than a third, 35%, made educational advances, and almost half, 48%, entered the work force. Also, it's most important to remember that every day a mother is in a good counsel home, she and her baby, before and after birth, is safe, eating well and encouraged to do the best she is capable. It's impossible to know and measure how much abuse and neglect is avoided or eliminated because someone is surrounded by a caring family, which good counsel strives to be for those in need.

life skills programs: a total of 702 life skills programs were received by good counsel mothers during 2014. Life skills help deepen a mother's knowledge and awareness of living a healthy, productive life. Life skills are presented formally in classes and individually as needed. Such areas as proper nutrition, child growth and development, health, and social skills are taught using specific outlines prepared for good counsel mothers. Personal finance is taught individually helping each mother develop her own budget. Spirituality is shared both formally in group meetings and individually as each mother desires and explores her relationship with god. [see continuation on schedule o][continued from part iii] - we share a loving, merciful, forgiving god who has brought us together to live for each other. Paid staff or professional volunteers, with expertise in each area, present life skills classes. Plus, mothers are able to take individual online classes in some of these topics. A minimum of three and sometimes four group classes are taught in each home each week.

in addition to programs already mentioned, there are other significant programs at good counsel, some of which have grown out of the needs many mothers and their children have expressed in our homes. Good counsel's intake staff operate a 24-hour-a-day, 7-day-a-week, helpline 1. 800. 723. 8331. Since beginning this national, toll-free helpline more than 33,200 people have received concrete help, phone counseling and support. During 2013 more than 3,400 calls were received. During 2014, some 3,522 calls came in, plus an additional 465 requests were emailed. Good counsel's website, www. Goodcounselhomes. Org is coming up high on google's rankings for "homeless and pregnant" meaning women in need from all over the country are asking for help. Good counsel is responding with added staff. Future plans will include additional online tools to automate help for mothers looking online in their geographic area, as well as an option to chat with a live person. Good counsel also operates a post-abortion counseling and referral network called lumina to help women as well as men and siblings suffering from past abortions. Confidential counseling is available through lumina's national, toll-free helpline 1. 877. 586. 4621 (1. 877. Lumina-1) or for information, please visit www. Postabortionhelp. Org good counsel stays in touch with mothers who leave through our exodus program, where former residents receive on-going counseling to ease the difficulties transitioning to independent living. Additionally, some single-parent families, not needing a good counsel home, still may receive good counsel staff assistance via outreach through our exodus program in a critical situation. Some 211 exodus and outreach families were assisted during 2014. During 2001, good counsel was one of the founders of the pregnancy services network of greater new york, a coalition of maternity homes and pregnancy centers in the ny, nj and connecticut area. The group meets regularly throughout the year. During 2013, good counsel also helped to form the national maternity housing coalition, a group of three dozen maternity homes throughout the u. S. Good counsel is represented on the leadership team of the nmhc and participates in regular conference calls, an annual meeting and conference all of which continue to bear much fruit in the way of sharing best practices and assisting new and existing homes.

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Rating: 5 stars  

1 person found this review helpful

Good Counsel Homes is a home for the homeless Mom. This is sorely needed is today's society where we are experiencing a great deal of economic hardship.

I've personally experienced the results of this organization in...

Bringing frightened women to this safe haven.

If I had to make changes to this organization, I would...

Have them expand to reach more homeless Moms so they are not alone.

 
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Rating: 5 stars  

I have been helping to start a Good Counsel Home in southern New Jersey, and have visited a home in the Bronx, NY. Good Counsel fills a much-needed gap in helping the homeless: women who are pregnant and want to keep their child. I was very impressed with how well the home is run, and all the services provided. I have met several residents who have REALLY turned their lives around, and highly recommend Good Counsel Homes to any woman in this predicament.

I've personally experienced the results of this organization in...

Bronx, NY

If I had to make changes to this organization, I would...

Nothing.

 
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Rating: 5 stars  

My Wife and I have been supporting Good Counsel Home for several years. It is obvious to us that there is a great need in our area for a home for women who find themselves in need. We've watched women who seem convinced there is no option, choose to abort their child. The beauty of Good Counsel Home is that it provides an option. It meets not only the immediate needs for these women but also provides the kind of ongoing support that will give them the best chance at a successful life, both finantially and spiritually.

I've personally experienced the results of this organization in...

We've listen to women share their stories on how Good Counsel Home has not only helped them in their time of need but changed their lives, helped them realize their dignity and enabled them to stand on their own.

If I had to make changes to this organization, I would...

The Good Counsel Home in South Jersey is on the verge of opening. That is the greatest change - from planning to reality.

 
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Rating: 5 stars  

Good Counsel Homes fills a much-needed gap in services available to pregnant homeless women, who choose to keep their babies. Often, the bureacracy of state-run social service organizations prevents these women from gaining access to much-needed services during and after their pregnancies. At Good Counsel homes, these women are welcomed immediately and provided with food, clothing, shelter, education, and spiritual guidance from the moment of the first contact. If there is no opening available, the women are placed at another Good Counsel home, or they can be placed with a family until a spot opens up. After these women deliver their babies, they may continue to live with their children in the Good Counsel home, which provides day care and transition services.

I've personally experienced the results of this organization in...

I have spoken to several young women, who have been through Good Counsel homes. Each of them is strong, smart, and fully independent. They have jobs and apartments and a plan for their lives and their children's lives.

If I had to make changes to this organization, I would...

If I could make changes, I would find a way to promote Good Counsel Homes so that many more people in the secular world would know about it.

 
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Rating: 5 stars  

Have worked as an event coordinator on several projects involving fund raising activities.

I've personally experienced the results of this organization in...

the realization that many women and children are in desperate need of help with regards to pregnancy and basic needs.

If I had to make changes to this organization, I would...

Increase public knowledge and involvement.

 
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Rating: 5 stars  

Good Counsel Homes is a much needed organization of inestimable value in our present culture. I have known pregnant women, young and not-so-young, who have been put out on the streets by parents or significant others because they would not agree to abort their child. Good Counsel Homes provides a safe home and so much more for these desperate mothers-to-be. In addition to shelter and provisions for them and their child(ren), they are given emotional support and the opportunity to learn skills to become good mothers and providers for themselves and their child(ren).

I've personally experienced the results of this organization in...

I have found the positive results of the organization quite obvious through extensive conversations with volunteers who have transported those in need, in the absence of a local home, to homes in other areas and by meeting some of the women who have been helped at fund raising events.

If I had to make changes to this organization, I would...

currently not aware of any shortcomings

Would you volunteer for this group again?

Definitely

For the time you spent, how much of an impact did you feel your work or activity had?

A little

Did the organization use your time wisely?

Quite well

Would you recommend this group to a friend?

Definitely

Did your volunteer experience have an effect on you? (teaching you a new skill, or introducing new friends, etc.)

The opportunities to meet other like minded pro life individuals is always a good thing! :)

When was your last experience with this nonprofit?

2010

 
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Rating: 4 stars  

I've had the opportunity to experience the efforts of Good Counsel Homes by assisting with the walk a thon and simply asking associates, friends & family members if they would contribute to this cause. Once they heard of the Good Counsel, they were more than happy to help out. I do what I can to spread the word as hearing the stories... and seeing the results - this should continue moving forward!!! There are so many lost mommy's & mommy's to be out there and don't know where to turn... Here is where you turn !!

I've personally experienced the results of this organization in...

hearing about the organizations accomplishments which in turn makes me want to be more of a part of the organization.

If I had to make changes to this organization, I would...

I would get them more exposure !!!!

 
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Rating: 5 stars  

The entire staff, from the Director to the office receptionist, is very knowledgeable of the services of the organization and supportive of both the volunteer staff and the mothers and babies they care for.

I've personally experienced the results of this organization in...

I've personally experienced the results of this organization in meeting with the mothers and babies they care for.

If I had to make changes to this organization, I would...

I would not make any changes to this organization.

 
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Good Counsel homes are homes for homeless unwed mothers and mothers-to-be. It is a home where women and children are welcomed, loved and cared for. There are currently four homes. There is even a home for moms who are not only homeless and pregnant, but also have a mental illness and may have an addiction. We are volunteers in their Bronx home but we love them all the same. Good Counsel really gives these girls the tools to become independent. We started spending time with a lovely young girl and her daughter from the Bronx home. Good Counsel was her home for over two years before she came to live with us for a few months. She is now living on her own and is engaged to a wonderful man who loves her and her daughter. He got down on one knee and asked her to marry him. She always tells us that if it wasn't for Good Counsel she doesn't know where she would be now. We think of her as our daughter and her daughter is like our grandchild. Being involved with Good Counsel made us realize that not everyone is blessed to have wonderful parents and friends. The residents of Good Counsel are blessed to call this HOME .

I've personally experienced the results of this organization in...

I've personally experienced the results of this organization in seeing women move out to live on their own with jobs and daycare in place. The staff is just wonderful - I have had the opportunity to get to know many of them.

What I've enjoyed the most about my experience with this nonprofit is...

seeing how the women and children are cared for.

The kinds of staff and volunteers that I met were...

professional, kind, understanding and loving.

If this organization had 10 million bucks, it could...

open more homes!!! : )

When was your last experience with this nonprofit?

2010-7-01

 
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