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April 13, 2011

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April 13, 2011

Fifty years ago I was given an incredible gift of a child with disabilities. At that time there was no help for families like ours. So, we met the challenges the best we could by determining to raise an independent, happy, victorious child who would function at the very best level possible Early on I realized how blessed I was to have the privelege of being chosen to be this child's mother. What a joy and learning experience she has been not only to us, but to every school teacher and classmate she has had. Yes, the journey has been rocky at times but we all persevered and our child has become someone who is looked up to and loved by many in her world.
Because of Families Together, she has continued to make us proud of her continuing accomplishments. She loves the work of FT with all her heart and has given much her energy to the work it does for others. I cannot thank this organization enough for all it means to us.

The Great!

I've personally experienced the results of this organization in...

My grandchildren are recipiants of FT

Ways to make it better...

If I had to make changes to this organization, I would...

I would donate a million dollars annually if I had it.

April 13, 2011

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April 13, 2011

As a parent of a special needs child in a rural area, the need for such an amazing resource is beyond explanation. Families Together has helped us connect to opportunities, other families and served my son in his own school as an "observer" to help identify issues and ideas for methods of improvement. We would be lost without this great organization!!

The Great!

I've personally experienced the results of this organization in...

Improving direct services for my child in his school. Resources for siblings. Respite for parents and entire family!!

Ways to make it better...

If I had to make changes to this organization, I would...

Find a way to increase the outreach and money to fund more weekend conferences.

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How would you describe the help you got from this organization?

Life-changing

How likely are you to recommend this organization to a friend?

Definitely

How do you feel you were treated by this organization?

Very Well

How did you find this group?

Introduced by a friend who is a special ed teacher

What, if any, change in your life has this group encouraged?

Parent respite and being able to allow others to help us.

When was your last experience with this nonprofit?

2011

April 12, 2011

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April 12, 2011

Families Together is the first service that has placed focus on our family and the needs of our non-disabled children as well as our special needs children. They have given use a multitude of support in meeting the needs of our special needs twins, but never forgot our other children who are impacted as well. Insurance companies focus on client driven 1 on 1 treatment & disregard the training & support needs of the parents and the emotional needs of the siblings. Families Together supports the entire family. Their family enrichment weekends focus on the family as a whole & link you with other families that understand what day to life holds for families devoted to their special kids. Families Together functions are fun and relaxed (even when the kids are not) because absolutely nothing is a big deal, nobody stares, nobody judges, everybody understands.

The Great!

I've personally experienced the results of this organization in...

supportive, understanding, expert staff!

Ways to make it better...

If I had to make changes to this organization, I would...

Make it available to more families & provide more funding!

April 12, 2011

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April 12, 2011

We discovered Families Together nearly 10 years ago. During that time, our son was just beginning school and had already had problems with the school. Not only did FT educate our family but provided advocacy several times through out his time in grade school. We have been fortunate enough to get lots of support in parenting and schooling a child with Autism.

The Great!

I've personally experienced the results of this organization in...

Our son has had a better education and we have become better parents because of Families Together.

Ways to make it better...

If I had to make changes to this organization, I would...

provide unlimited funding so that Families Together can serve more families and have more opportunities to bring together families with children with disabilities.

April 12, 2011

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April 12, 2011

Families together has provided our family with great educational resources and individual attention that has help us be better parents for our challenged son. It is comforting to know there is someone there to help when things get rough.

The Great!

I've personally experienced the results of this organization in...

My improved interactions with my son

Ways to make it better...

If I had to make changes to this organization, I would...

No changes

April 12, 2011

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April 12, 2011

Now it is over 5 years ago my family was first served by Families Together for People with Disabilities.

When life gives you lemons….be grateful you have something to eat.

Not exactly what you were expecting right? After a year of working with Chris Curry and the Families
Together staff I finally feel like I have some idea of what to make with those lemons so that they are not so bitter to swallow.

Many people try to help you by saying things like, “Only special people are given kids with special needs,” “You are such a good mom, at least you know how to work the system” and finally “Things just take time but everything will be ok you will see.”

Unfortunately, life sometimes gives you lemons and then you need a new cookbook because you only learned to cook using apples. That is what it is like to live everyday with a child who has significant developmental delays.

I know in the past 6 months I have told everyone that will listen that the parenting skills in my tool box don’t work with this child. I have asked everyone who will listen to just tell me where the parenting book for developmentally delayed children was and I would gladly pay whatever the price of the book and will implement the techniques today. Only there is no such book called, “What to Expect When you have a Developmentally Delayed/Autistic/CF/Physically Challenged/Mentally Challenged Child”

That is were Families Together comes in….they have a cookbook and they are willing to share the recipes with families like mine. My family met the staff of Families Together in September 2006 at an Enrichment Weekend that offered assistance and hope for families who include “Children who Challenge”. This sounded like our family and when we were offered an all expense paid weekend where each child would have a one on one caregiver, we were ready for a break and hopeful for some answers.

When we arrived to the weekend, I was not a happy camper- I had been eating lemons for the last 2 years. I was not used to being on the receiving end of services. I need some answers but I was sure that my son’s developmental delays could be overcome by intensive therapy and changing some things about our parenting style and life would be wonderful just like all the other normal families in the world. I sat in the back of the room angry and unwilling to admit that my family was struggling in the same ways that the other families who were attending the weekend were.

At the end of the weekend we were offered a program that including some home visits to assist in implementing a positive behavior approach to parenting special needs children. Again, I was not a happy camper. Chris came to visit us in November right after I left my job to stay home with my 3 year old son, Harrison, who was on the verge of being kicked out of daycare because of his behavior.

I cried most of the first visit and just need to have some answers on what to do and how to make sure that we were going to be able to make it with medical co-payments ranging from $150 to $250 per month, in addition to all our other living expenses as well as a parent a child who did not seem to be making much progress in therapy or at the preschool. We had a appointment with Department of Developmental Disability Services where it was determined that we had a high level of need but because we did not have a Medical Coupon issued by the state that we would need to be on a waiting list that could take up to 3 years to come to the top. My family was offered some referrals for services but Energy Assistance and Mortgage Assistance are limited to low-income families and we were just over the income guideline.

The most distressing event was that I had called to make an appointment with a specialist to have a formal evaluation and diagnosis as to what we were dealing with only to learn that we would have to wait 6 months for an appointment. I researched the specialists in the area only to find that there is only 3 in all of Spokane County and one was not taking any new patients. I was so discouraged and felt that I was given the sourest lemons ever made.

In the months that followed, we started to look forward to our monthly visits with Chris. I started to learn new ways to engage my son and communicate with him. It was really hard at first to admit that we did not know how to implement a picture schedule (we were offered one for toilet training from the school district but no instructions). My son started to learn simple sign language at preschool and this was really the first time that Harrison was able to communicate his needs-Chris taught him “waiting” and that one word has helped make our life more manageable daily.

Many of the providers assumed that we knew the language associated with services that are normally offered to families with children who have disabilities. As a social worker I was familiar with the “Alphabet Soup” of many fields but PEC, SLP, IEP, and DD were all new to my soup bowl. Chris defined the “alphabet soup” for us on each visit and offered us hope. Most of all Harrison bonded with her and started to interact with her more on each visit.

The day Harrison received a diagnosis of “Autism” I called Chris and cried. She was the most supportive to my family that day. I was so sure at that time that we were forever to eat those horrible sour lemons now that we had this horrible diagnosis. She offered us the most encouraging words and reminded us that “Harrison is still the same little boy that he was only hours before, yesterday, and a week ago.” Only now we had a name for what was wrong and proven research on how to deal with this disability to help Harrison become that person he needs to be. The help that she offered kept us going. The skills she was teaching us were working and we were starting to see some progress in Harrison.

We continued to juggle the costs associated with a special needs child and daily life but the money kept getting tighter and tighter-our savings was now gone. Finally wondering were I was going to get money for milk one week in June I called and asked what the income guidelines were for the WIC program (my husband was working all the over-time he could to keep a roof over our heads and to pay for the therapies that were needed). I learned that we were just under the income guideline by $20. I made an appointment and was offered some assistance there, but the best thing that we learned is that the Children’s Medical Income Guidelines were a bit higher. We qualified for a medical coupon (by less than $40) to cover all the co-payments for therapy and this gave us the “Golden Ticket” to Department of Developmental Disability Services.

Again I called Chris, only this time it was to share the good news that we finally were going to qualify for the services that we needed through Department of Disability Services. Once we were assigned a caseworker with DD Services we learned other new things like incontinence supplies were provided, respite care and personal care was offered and hope.

This past month I can honestly say that we have started living again. For the last couple of years we have just been surviving and trying to getting through the day…now we are starting to enjoy the wonderful flavor of lemon pie, lemonade, and mixing that lemon with sugar, and also adding other fruits and foods too.

Life is still crazy but now we are able to do more than exist…. we are able to LIVE.

The Great!

I've personally experienced the results of this organization in...

My family is whole because of the support provided by Families Together. We are now able to assist others with understanding Special Education Services but most importantly we learned to make a choice on where we believe our child will live, work and recreation as an adult and how to make those dreams a reality.

Ways to make it better...

If I had to make changes to this organization, I would...

I would make sure that Family Preservation Services like the ones that Families Together are fully funded and prioritized within the private and public funding agencies.

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How would you describe the help you got from this organization?

Life-changing

How likely are you to recommend this organization to a friend?

Definitely

How do you feel you were treated by this organization?

Very Well

How did you find this group?

Referral from my son's SLP in 2006.

What, if any, change in your life has this group encouraged?

We are a complete functioning intact family able to cope with the day to day while living with Autism as part of our family make up.

When was your last experience with this nonprofit?

2011

April 12, 2011

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April 12, 2011

My son is an only child, somewhat shy and has developmental disabilties, autism, epilepsy and cerebral palsy. He desperately needed peers to draw him out of his isolation and give him a sense of inclusion. Families Together volunteers - those lovely college-age volunteers with endless energy and enthusiasm - were able to provide him with those things. Meanwhile, I could learn from wondeful guest speakers and share life exeperience with other parents, knowing my son was enjoying the heck out of the weekend. (They even got him to dance!)

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I've personally experienced the results of this organization in...

Several Families Together weekend retreats.

Ways to make it better...

If I had to make changes to this organization, I would...

Have weekend retreats more often.

May 27, 2010

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May 27, 2010

I started with Families Together when my son was 4. (He has Autism) He is now almost 16. When we started he was barely verbal, needed two people to chase him at FAmily Enrichment Weekends, and was always sneaking up to steal the microphones. He is now in all regular classes, just started drivers ed (Yikes!)and actually helps run the families enrichment weekends. He gaines so much by being involved with this org. and so did the rest of the family! They taught us how to deal with James' Autism and how to advocate for what he needs! They helped us in the schools and in the community! Behavior is communication and Families Together is FANTASTIC!!

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I've personally experienced the results of this organization in...

I have two children who are healthy and strong because of this organization. They gave me the skills to be able to raise my Autistic child without going crazy! They taught me how to deal with the challenges and how to advocate for my son.

Ways to make it better...

If I had to make changes to this organization, I would...

Make this a nation wide organization and make the family enrichment weekends a week long event!! These are the most empowering events, for the kids and the adults. You come away with a sense of knowing what you need to do. You have a direction!

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What I've enjoyed the most about my experience with this nonprofit is...

When James was younger it was the only place I felt accepted. No matter what James' behavior was, they were OK with it. He had autism, and they knew what that meant, more than I did. They helped me learn to help James without feeling like I had to hide

The kinds of staff and volunteers that I met were...

Understanding, caring, easy to relate to. Parents with the same stories. People who had been through the things I was going through.

If this organization had 10 million bucks, it could...

Do more weekends and reach more people. Build a center where people could come every weekend and continue to learn. Be able to work on teenage social skills. Have our own place and not have to relocate all our stuff!

Ways to make it better...

We could do it every month. If these same people could help others understand about Autism. Like employers, and teachers, and other college kids.

In my opinion, the biggest challenges facing this organization are...

Funding. No money means no weekends. Continuity. Mostly done by volunteers. No continuity in volunteers. Most of the volunteers are retirement age. Need young paid people to carry on.

One thing I'd also say is that...

This is for all disable people, not just Autism. All people need acceptance and understanding. Behavior is communication, look at what they are doing and figure out why...just don't say they are being bad. Positive behavioral supports!!

How frequently have you been involved with the organization?

About every month

When was your last experience with this nonprofit?

2010

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